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Is this wierd
2012-05-08 18:12
What you are about to read is real, not trolling, so please read this with all seriousness and answer the question which i present to you at the end of this blog.

I have a group of friends from college of guys and girls. One guy from our group is like a 'Barney Stinson' type, he's claimed to have banged over a hundred girls and I didn't buy a word of what he said until the day I walked into him having sex with a pretty decent looking chick. Anyways, I've only dated one chick my entire life which lasted for a few weeks and ended horribly, I don't want to get into that. Anyways, this friend of mine has always given me "tips" on how to score chicks and stuff like that but by the end of the conversation I have with him and with ANY other person from our group, they always hint that I should date this one chick who is quite unattractive(they know she's not good looking) but we all know that I can get her if I tried considering she used to have a big thing for me in the past.

Anyways, I'm not the ugliest or best looking guy but I know my league and this chick definitely is below my standards, trust me. My point is, I don't get why my friends keep trying to get me to ask this chick out when I've told them a million times that I'm not interested in her AT ALL and that I would rather turn gay than go out with her(Yes, I actually boiled to that point!). There's this other chick whom I have had a big crush on for about a year or so, and two of my friends(including the playboy friend) knew about this girl and how i felt about her. Even after knowing all this, both of my friends tried to score her irrespective of how I felt. One of them tried getting her drunk IN FRONT OF ME when she clearly said she didn't want to drink and trying to score her the pussy way just added salt to my wounds. Would friends really do that?

Anyways, when I smoke up with them they fuck around with my ego and stuff, always ask me to do things for them like buy food from downstairs(they never pay for it) or to go out and score more weed(they never pay for it) or to go out buy some cigarettes(they never pay for it). These guys know that I'm not rich, in fact i'm the poorest guy in the whole group. I've stood up to them and said "No, I don't wanna go and buy the shit because I'm broke and you guys never pay" but then they start acting like "dude, I'm too stoned to go get it" and blah blah, like as if I'm not stoned.

Honestly speaking, I don't want to hang out with these guys but they keep calling me to hang out with them and keep planning trips with me to other places which makes me feel that they want me to be with them, but I don't understand why they fuck around with me so much to the point I start to wonder is my life the Truman Show and everyone is watching me get fucked over every week by my friends.

So I want to ask you guys here on HLTV.org, is there a problem with ME or with the people I'm with?
You actually buying weed for people, and they get for you nothing in return? What is wrong with you ???

Yea it is weird but the thing is ur doing it to yourself by constantly giving in to them.

Post edited 2012-05-08 18:21:09
2012-05-08 18:19:43
i've always been asking them before to pay for it but they'll say stuff like "dude, i haven't got enough cash for the week, I'll pay you later or score some for you soon" and guess what? later never comes. Sometimes they score a few joints for me but its some fuckin horrible stash which isn't even worth smoking. And I dont wanna look like a douche and tell them "sorry dude you cant smoke with me because you didn't pay"...
2012-05-08 18:28:52
i think u are too complexed, can u even chill with them if u dont feel well with these guys ?:P
btw i think in every group of friends is some guy that is "bulled" by others couse he never say "no" and thats a main reason
2012-05-09 08:48:42
Oh... You again... If he talked about alcohol, I doubt that you would reply
2012-05-08 18:57:06
Damn, you really figured me out man.
2012-05-08 19:15:09
i randomly searched and found this.. bout to get stoned lol chris
2012-12-19 20:06:51
he's got some kind of a weed radar. always about the weed. :p
2012-05-08 21:17:37
don't blame him, he's from Netherlands, what a nice country ffsssssssss :D
2012-05-08 21:40:18
and the pole is already talking about alcohol :P

i'm out of here, i'll search for any football related thread :D
2012-05-09 07:14:40
rofl:D do you see why netherlands is nice ?

football + mary ;D

Post edited 2012-05-09 07:24:17
2012-05-09 07:23:51
I'm not from poland and I was talking about alcohol because he (chrisJ) always defends weed on every thread about it and says that alcohol is like 1000000 times worse
2012-05-10 19:39:56
stfu polish fanboy
2012-05-13 20:31:33
just show whos the boss, i mean, just don't go, ask for teh damn money
2012-05-08 18:21:30
Dude you've been indirectly bullied into being their fucking butler. GET AWAY FROM THESE SAD SUCKERS ASAP.
A S A P.
They are using you as you're that kind of a dude guy who can be talked into doing favours because people use the 'friendship' card.
You seem like a guy who knows his surroundings and understands whats going about. Leave these sad excuses of life to their own damnation and get some friends who are actually friends.

About that girl they want you to go out with - they just want a new topic to make fun of when they are high.
I've been in your situation and the solution is to tell them on their face whats happening and then get out.

Post edited 2012-05-08 18:25:52
2012-05-08 18:23:19
+1
2012-05-10 12:19:11
listen to this guy. he is rght...if u smoke up smoke with ppl having less impulses..... i have been reefing for smtym now. everywhere u ll find ppl who ll smoke with you n shit...find frnd who stays silent...
2012-05-15 12:29:08
they obviously take advantage of your weak ego. they make you pay for stuff so they dont have to.
they make you do stuff for their entertainment.

you seem to have realized that so why are you still hanging out with them if they are obviously a bunch of cunts?

find some real friends, people like that are not worth it.
2012-05-08 18:23:51
+1
2012-05-08 18:25:25
+1
2012-05-08 19:54:41
+1
2012-05-08 20:19:34
+10
2012-05-08 23:57:15
+1
2012-05-09 02:19:32
1st. you buy other people weed. WTF
2nd. make excuses and pull away or just get a girl and use her as an excuse.
3rd. dont get bullied like a bitch
2012-05-08 18:28:30
The people you are hanging out with just doesnt care about you.
Go join a new group n try avoiding such kinda people...they are just using you.
You are like the "pussy" of your group.
2012-05-08 18:29:01
So you just created an account to post this?
2012-05-08 18:29:02
Cmon match the ips and tell me its FODDER
2012-05-08 18:31:12
can't be fodder, anonymous_guy said he had a girlfriend in the past
2012-05-08 18:59:44
You got a point man !!
2012-05-08 19:01:47
ahaha :D
2012-05-08 19:29:17
hahahahaha
2012-05-08 19:34:31
hahahahahaha
2012-05-08 20:19:53
Damn you made my day:))
(Night...)
2012-05-08 23:58:29
hahaha so much win
2012-05-09 07:15:48
lol
2012-05-09 12:31:44
maybe its the greenland guy
2012-12-19 20:48:44
I guess it's a regular hltv.org user, but too shy to write such a blog from his own acc. :D
2012-05-08 18:32:45
He just created an anonymous account. He probably has an other account on HLTV, but he just want to stay the 'Anonymous_Guy'
2012-05-08 18:33:03
this problem has been troubling me a lot. Every night before I sleep it pops up in my mind and I don't know what the fuck to do because the next morning I hope that people will change and it never happens.
2012-05-08 18:33:20
very few people change , most of the world is fucked up , or better , the people on it are , you should have realized this way ago

Post edited 2012-05-09 04:46:07
2012-05-09 04:45:50
"You can open your heart for everyone. You can trust only few people."
Stop hanging with them, find excuse or tell them directly that they are douchebags. Don't get mad easily because it's your weak point. Find real friends who will help you and treat you with respect.
2012-12-19 20:49:39
Stay on topic, please.

Talk to your "friends", tell them what you feel. If they respond with anger, fuck them.
2012-05-08 18:37:03
and which is the problem ???

Post edited 2012-05-08 19:55:45
2012-05-08 19:55:12
leave them and the group for a while , then u will see how they react
2012-05-08 18:31:13
1. Stop buying ciggaretes, weed etc, it is a waste of money certainly when you don't have that much money.
2. See point 1 :)
2012-05-08 18:34:39
Why havent u understood yet that 'THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS'

Post edited 2012-05-08 18:37:11
2012-05-08 18:36:57
by: tHm - <3 tHm
#20
I think you're gay.
2012-05-08 18:38:00
lol
2012-12-19 20:49:10
If you haven't understood yet that those guys are idiots, something is wrong.
2012-05-08 18:46:39
The solution is straight forward : Learn to say NO. Learn to seek out things that are good for you FIRST, and then think about others. And for heaven's sake, get rid of these guys. Find good friends if u can or else always remember, better alone than in a bad company.
2012-05-08 18:47:35
Learn to seek out things that are good for you FIRST, and then think about others.
ye, without this quality you won't survive in this cruel capitalistic world, gl
2012-05-08 19:04:20
hmm...
2012-05-09 00:20:28
They're using you, you keep paying shit for them, that's why they keep calling you.
If you can't figure that out yourself, you're a bit dumb tbh.
2012-05-08 18:51:33
+1
2012-05-09 11:26:36
+1
2012-05-13 09:24:29
Stand up for yourself, just deny their stupid requests. And if they want shit, so they should get that shit. Like wtf?
When they stop using you as a tool and then they would reject you from their group - it's settled, who need these kinds of friends?
I'd just deny every request that they would benefit from greatly and would make me as a tool until they'd give me some respect.
2012-05-08 18:54:20
Just play cs dont care about them!!! :)
2012-05-08 18:57:34
i dont know dude sounds like a movie to me....in India this wont happen at all....I just watch this kind of stuff in English movies only...for example "Super Bad"

So I will give the solution based on my movie knowledge

1)Watch "super bad"...good movie
2)If they kept planning trips with you but dont respect you....may be they think you are fun.....or may be because they think you are "funny"........or may be they dont want to be douches by saying " we dont need you because you are poor"....understand them
3)They must be doing some good to you as I can see that you are still hanging around with them
4)May be you are frustrated with yourself because of your economical condition in comparison or may be because of your poor determination
5)dont smoke weed.....Just "dont" do it
2012-05-08 19:03:17
"I'm too stoned to go get it"
Thats a big fat lie. Only starters have this effect not regular smokers !!

long story short, they are usin U. Just leave them

Post edited 2012-05-08 19:08:37
2012-05-08 19:05:54
no
2012-05-08 19:05:55
I think ur weird kid.
2012-05-08 19:07:55
i think english is no your strength because i read the word "friend" instead of "assholes" all over the blog.

take care
2012-05-08 19:09:04
+1
2012-05-08 19:33:50
+1
2012-05-08 21:46:45
:D
2012-05-09 15:04:20
man up!
2012-05-08 19:20:33
Instead of wasting time with these friends of yours, why don't you go to gym, spend 3-4 hours each day, get a godlike body, increase your self esteem in the process, and just be alone?
These kids today.. fucking alcohol, smoke drugs, it's no gut man, not gut. But it's ok, as long as they will die soon.
2012-05-08 19:25:10
+1 ;)
2012-05-09 04:47:00
+1
2012-05-09 06:35:31
1 if you don't like the girl don't listen to them. Tell them that they can go fuck her if they wanna.

And the guys trying to get with a girl that you told that you have a thing for is not cool.. But of course if they don't really care about her but just wanna get laid. Then they are really shitty friends.

And no if you are the only one paying for the stuff, they are really just using you.. Sounds like they just want you around to be their bitch.

I wouldn't hang out with people like that, and i believe you could find some real friends.

But you have to consider if this is a role you have developed over the years in the group. So what i would do is to start standing up to them, and if they start to cut you off because of that then they weren't your friend. Just using you.
2012-05-08 19:39:54
Well, if they actually tried to score the chick you told them you like, then they are not your friends, you are being used by them, just stop answering their calls and get some good friends. And then, ask that girl out ;)
Oh and quit smoking weed, it's bad for you.
2012-05-08 20:08:05
if a "friend" of mine tried to score the chick I was interested in. I actually would have buried him alive.
2012-05-09 00:02:05
ehmm idiot ehhm
2012-05-08 20:22:37
Your friends aren't necessarily bad people. People will dick you about if you let yourself be dicked about. Quit being a bitch and grow some balls.
2012-05-08 20:34:38
lol. They bully you around making fun of u and stuff, and u pay for their tabaco weed and food. That's the way to go dude. Ofc u should stop fucking around with your parents money, finish colege and get a job and btw if don't talk neither try anything with that girl u have a crush on you will never get anything lol, the no is always granted, so u won't lose anything neither your selfrespect our pride, as for what i have read u have lost that a long time ago lol.

Post edited 2012-05-08 21:01:12
2012-05-08 21:00:19
1) You are right, you shouldn't go out with anyone you aren't interested

3) if they are interested in that girl, and you are too much of a wuss to make a move then they have every right to do it; your interests aren't special or more impoirtant than theirs.

assuming you have a reason not to just ditch the guys since you have this problem in the first place:

4) "dude, I'm too stoned to go get it" convinces you to do it? sounds like something easy to dismiss, but if its hard you can start out by lying that you litterally don't have enough money on you to get out of the habit of paying stuff for them, or make an excuse, whatever you need to not pay. it will be easier to say no after doing this for a while.

It doesn't matter if theres a problem with you or them, what matters is that you fix your own problems. You can always just ditch them, as long as you don't do that you can't really blame them.
2012-05-08 21:06:24
i would say go fuck her, still if shes not that good looking it might be fun :D
2012-05-08 21:07:17
thats a norwegian habit man x)
2012-05-09 00:04:15
:D
2012-05-09 02:21:46
Don't know whether you are pathetic or stupid.
2012-05-08 21:25:44
GET REAL FRIENDS
2012-05-08 22:10:57
ohh boy u undergoing through low esteem problem. Try to do something good per day. For example smile at a stranger or visit underprivileged children and share some time with them . Have a pet look after it.

Get Life.
2012-05-08 22:23:16
GeT_RiGhT
2012-05-09 05:37:25
Dude my grandpa use to have a saying bang now wen your d**k wants u do f*** because later in life you will like to f*** and your d*** cant perform no more so forget that shes in a lower league then u just go for it u will leave her wen something better pops up + just a few weeks with a girl no to disrespect u or something but u need the experience so just go for the girl.
As for your so called "friends" they are just using u dude. There are two tings u can do 1.get other friends 2.try to stand up to them maybe this way they will learn to respect u more and not boss u around like that
2012-05-08 22:32:35
You should say what you feel too them, and if them doesnt take it srsly or just make fun off you say ''Fuck you'' and walk away from them and dont talk to them for a long time and if they really likes you as your freind they will try get you back. And hopefully something changes.
2012-05-08 23:12:40
lift weights and get attractive
2012-05-08 23:18:54
yeah cause being buffed makes u'r face look better lol!
2012-05-09 02:44:13
lifting weights doesn't make you buff... i piss 5 times a day for the past 17 years and still doesn't look buffed.
2012-05-09 17:34:54
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=endscreen&..

Post edited 2012-05-09 19:40:37
2012-05-09 19:40:20
learn 2 say "fuck off". it is a necessity.

as for the people who u call "friends"; a friend would never take advantage of u. if u do something for a friend, he would always find a way to do something in return! imo those AREN'T ur friends. just usin u 2 their advantage! get away from them. id rather b alone then in the company of douchebags!
2012-05-08 23:46:40
Listen to this guy!
2012-05-09 00:48:43
you deserve all of this and more if you behave like a fucking victim, you pussy
2012-05-08 23:46:54
Don't buy anything for those fuckers and you will see they won't call you anymore.
2012-05-09 00:01:42
xD
2012-05-09 01:09:17
Ah, yeah I forgot, go with that chick if at least she is human, don't stay virgin :D
2012-05-09 00:03:45
dude, they aint your friends
2012-05-09 00:12:15
thats what happens all the time nowadays, nice people always get fucked in the ass
2012-05-09 01:03:50
find the closest knife and cut a throat or two
2012-05-09 01:21:53
Title sucks, what to read then!
2012-05-09 01:26:21
Depends, how long have you been friends with these guys? Are they good people? And, uhm, IMO you shouldn't be that concerned, people is greedy, but yeah you gotta live with it (:
2012-05-09 01:55:14
Dude.
Stop objectifying women. You dont go out with someone unless you you like her.
And your friends are douchebags. Period. Get rid of them.
And one more thing. Take a look at yourself. STOP whining like a loser. Try to have atleast a little bit of self respect?
2012-05-09 02:40:01
Tell them how u feel, and u will get the real answer, and if they dont give u a reasonable resopns, then just walk away, start going to the gym, be more healthy and focus more on school and you will get more friends with time, and real friends, not like the shitty one u currently have. Dont let them control you, you wont get any good out of it, life is to short for that!
2012-05-09 04:12:29
no point telling them how u feel ,clearly they dont give a shit.
2012-05-09 08:25:47
If they dont, then walk away. And if they do, then maybe see what happens. Maybe they can behave better, stupit to just leave them without givin them a chance to make up for it.
2012-05-09 15:04:46
The problem is you. Because you still think they are your friends, on a situation where even any 7 years old kid would notice that they're just using you, making jokes and taking your money.
2012-05-09 04:12:42
don't want to hang out with these guys but they keep calling me to hang out with them and keep planning trips with me to other places which makes me feel that they want me to be with them,

the answer to this is ,

always ask me to do things for them like buy food from downstairs(they never pay for it) or to go out and score more weed(they never pay for it) or to go out buy some cigarettes(they never pay for it).

that is why they want you to come with them.
2012-05-09 08:24:37
OMG, if you will go to their place, and buy again something i will curse you! How can you be so stupid...

Well i see why you doing it only this explains:
1. You dont have friends
2. You have a little bit problems with girl's
3. You are a little bit or very complexed guy
4. You like to be like cool guy, because you are with "bastards" group, and it feels that you are secure, but @ same time you suffer, you think its worth for it, but now you understand that it might not!
2012-05-09 10:48:42
+ 1337
2012-05-09 13:12:43
watch out we got a pshycologist in da house ...
2012-05-09 17:21:59
We have an idiot in da house...
2012-05-13 20:28:33
Why in the name of all holy hell are you buying weed for people other than yourself?

If your going to split weed you have to go 50/50 on the purchase.

Always smoke other peoples weed, never buy for others.

Always and i mean always cherry the bowl! never takes deuces!

Its the stoner motto, wtf is wrong with you? who taught you how to smoke weed man?
2012-05-09 12:22:44
they aren't your friends, and thats all. Leave them and be happy, find a new company)
2012-05-09 12:27:10
Ditch them. I'll be your new friend if you buy me weed :).
2012-05-09 12:30:07
dude , i got an opinion when i read your blog , that the "group" takes you as their dog ! they call you out or join their trip because they feel happy get a free domestic .i'm kinda sure they were laughing at you behind your back .

what's wrong with you ? after so many betray, you are not angry but post a blog on here ?

go fight it boy , shout :"screw you " when they keep ask you to buy anything without pay .
2012-05-09 13:02:30
they call it abuse
2012-05-09 13:04:31
smoke more weed, mooar and don't give a fuck
2012-05-09 13:42:17
Anyways, when I smoke up with them they fuck around with my ego and stuff, always ask me to do things for them like buy food from downstairs(they never pay for it) or to go out and score more weed(they never pay for it) or to go out buy some cigarettes(they never pay for it).

They are not your friends, leave them =(
2012-05-09 16:54:12
+1
2012-05-09 16:59:24
I bet that you only smoke so you could be around them... just stop smoking and go 100% healthy. Best decision i've ever made in my life, and its paying off.
2012-05-09 17:32:11
Your friends are scumbags, imo
2012-05-09 20:04:23
at least the man smokes weed
2012-05-10 00:50:39
simple "fuck you" solves a lot problems related to people
2012-05-10 03:32:52
Stop answering their calls. focus on UR CAREER. they will miss u and come back to u.
2012-05-10 04:12:01
pmuch most of the drug(any form) related friendships goes like that if u aint fine with it just quit not sure if u can change the way of how they thread u its too late already if u tell em how u feel about it they'll probably laugh they're asses off instead of helping u since u made it like that and yeah a simple fuck off solves a lot of stuff nowadays i mean u cant be a good fella since ur surrounded by douches
2012-05-10 06:07:17
This is very weird, I don't know man but I just realized I might be like one of your friends rather than you.
and I believe I have a few friends like you. And now as I think of it
1) I keep these friends coz I like how they make me feel better about myself.
2) Its not that I don't like them truly coz if they go away I will miss them though I might never say it.
3) I like how my word carries more weight when we decide something.
4) I just realized I'm a complete douche-bag and dont deserve friends like them and you.

but somehow I feel messing up with friends is necessary but I never overdo it like in your case.
I always make it a point to make my pals feel appreciated when I feel like it. Now I might do it more often.

Sorry for the Conflicting and confusing post.
I would say Don't leave your friends, give'em another chance because I'm sure they'd really miss you, its just that you are their go to guy for certain things, just try and break this image you have built for yourself in the group, be the crazy bad mouth or the hopeless romeo or the self-made clown of the group, see what happens.
2012-05-10 07:09:12
First of all its not a place to write your personnel problems .....

But regarding your problems okkay let me advice you what to do.
Next time when you go with them and eat a lot or drink whatever you feel comfortable with and then ask them to pay your bills too..... as you don't have enough money with you. And watch their reaction .... if they go crazy then the option is clear leave them as soon as possible.
and if they pay your bills

DO THE SAME THING AGAIN FOR ATLEAST 8 to 9 times....
The people around here in this country are crazy and selfish .... we are surrounded with many guys like them....


NEXT TIP AFTER YOU FINISH THIS ONE..

GOOD LUCK
2012-05-11 18:18:24
u need God
2012-05-11 19:00:12
wthell is this 'wierd'?!
2012-05-13 09:03:07
FaceBOOK dude it is spelled weird not 'wierd'?!



' :D '
2012-12-19 20:54:32
The problem is with you. They're not your friends, they are bullies. They want to be with you because you pay for their entertainment and also a punching bag. Sorry if I am too harsh but that's true. You're getting abused at your face by some fucking punks and you still hang out with them because they appear to be interested in hanging out with you. I am sorry, but from what I read it's obvious to me that they do that because you pay for everything. How can you be so mad? REALLY?

If you really like your so called "friends". Set the deal straight. Tell them to buy their own shit or stop fucking messing with you. Look at some David Haye videos, good inspiration. If they mess about more, break their fucking chin.
2012-05-13 20:41:30
as long as you say yes to everything, you'll be bullied
you're too nice for them. stand up for yourself and don't take their crap, if you don't want to do something, don't do it
just do whatever you want, and about the girl. real friends wouldn't go for a girl you like, at that moment i'd just freak the fuck out and yell at them, maybe even hit them
2012-05-13 23:07:40
play cs!
2012-05-20 22:14:03
lol
2012-12-19 20:53:06
Go to gym (don't lift weights if you don't want), instead join classes. Meet people, chat get new friends who arent dicks (all the dicks sit in the weight rooms looking at their arms).
I do boxing once a week and I now know everyone in the class and it's a good laugh and a proper workout.

The guys you hang out with clearly sounds like twats, you think you have to put up with it because you know them but the thing is, if they put you down its because of 2 reasons. Either it's easy but more likely it's because they know you are better than them and they need a way of making themselves feel better. If you show them you don't need them they'll stop being dicks.
2012-12-19 21:00:39

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