lost her :c
Hello everyone, I need an opinion, I've been in a relationship for two years, and During Those same two times I did something stupid That ended the relationship but everything returned to normal after a long time I made ​​another blunder That ended the relationship and I did not care. The problem now is she That Began dating another guy and I just Can not stand it I like her and want her back but she says she misses me and wants to fight not only for us but for me, the problem is That I have the feeling That this is really over.
What should I do, fight for it or simply forget?
serious matter.
(146 replies)
Created 2012-07-04 05:48 by: SFERAvts
sorry for any mistake, google tradutor.
2012-07-04 05:49:08
tradutor? now everything is clear -_-
2012-07-04 08:47:53
tradutor = translator
2012-07-04 22:50:54
There is phenomenon called 'FULL STOP' sir :-D I am not criticising your english but usage of full stop goes with the tone and not with the language :-)
2012-07-04 09:22:39
ur 19 just forget about her and hang out with friends.
way to young to stick to the same girl anyway.
enjoy life my friend and u will get girls enough or atleast the right one :)
2012-07-04 11:20:36
by: †
#190
Go buy vaseline and then call one of your friends to come over to your house, then you have buttsex. After the buttsex you start thinking about a solution to your problem.
2012-12-06 00:03:14
by: tinc
#2
How old are you?
2012-07-04 05:51:19
19
2012-07-04 05:51:47
by: tinc
#6
Forget it and live
2012-07-04 05:53:56
Its hard but thanks tinc.
2012-07-04 05:54:54
by: tinc
#13
If you not can forget it in a long time, then, fight for she.
2012-07-04 06:02:53
i want so much but im not ok right now.
2012-07-04 06:04:16
"fight for she"

that was funny xD
2012-07-04 06:07:57
sorry, my english is sad :s
2012-07-04 06:09:56
by: Xen.
#20
he said that for the hermano homie not you.
2012-07-04 06:11:09
It wasnt you who made the mistake, it was tinc :p
Your english isnt bad at all, it is understandable.. Everyone makes mistakes ;)
2012-07-04 06:12:10
its ok. my brain is so off
2012-07-04 06:14:10
by: tinc
#23
Everyone :]
2012-07-04 06:24:13
his english is what? he used google TRADUTOR for christ sake :D
2012-12-05 23:00:33
haha
2012-07-04 06:10:11
by: tinc
#26
Why i can't edit? :(!
2012-07-04 06:53:27
forget dat..
2012-07-04 06:58:08
you can only within 5 minutes you have posted it
2012-07-04 12:50:14
by: Jonathan E. - HLTV.org
#140
Actually it is up to 10 minutes that the button shows up and 5 extra minutes you can spend editing the message.
2012-07-04 22:11:18
Jonathan E. The edit button expert.
2012-12-06 00:25:30
HAHA
2012-07-04 10:22:50
fight for she or she fight for fight for she? u get me bro
2012-07-04 11:19:47
What a english language xD
2012-07-04 23:09:13
You're pretty good at it yourself...
2012-07-05 22:39:18
by: †
#191
I know something that's hard.
2012-12-06 00:06:11
by: Xen.
#3
What was that stupid thing you talked about?
2012-07-04 05:51:26
-.-
2012-07-04 05:53:02
by: Xen.
#8
I think i already know. If she is dating another guy and still saying something like that to you than she is playing around with you. Learn something. Woman never know what they want. NEVER. EVER. They want something in the morning than at night they want another thing completely different. Leave her and live your life, life goes on..

Post edited 2012-07-04 05:55:48
2012-07-04 05:55:28
The problem is that when she was mine she is sincere and I did stupid things, I trust her but now I do not know what to do.
2012-07-04 05:58:48
by: Xen.
#11
So that's your fault, that make things worst. Live with that fact and leave her with that guy you talked about. Maybe it's too late to make up after you did stupid things (twice).
2012-07-04 06:01:31
maybe u are right :s
2012-07-04 06:02:20
by: Xen.
#14
I had a girlfriend 5 years ago. I never forget her. We never forget some people, we just learn to live with it. Sometimes people need to move in different directions. I hope I helped you.
2012-07-04 06:03:49
Thanks a lot.
2012-07-04 06:06:18
I had a girlfriend also, but 2low free disk-space...
I also went out once but i dont like valve design is like more cs:s i dunno.
I also trained once to school when I was inner, i planted the bomb and won the round
2012-07-04 22:50:32
+1
2012-07-04 19:43:10
Too young to care.
Go live.
2012-07-04 05:56:45
by: gst1
#28
Dude you are 19... Honestly, you should date someone else, hangout with your friends.. enjoy your life. She is playing around with you and in my opinion, if you do care about her, it will never end.. you will never stop thinking about her, and if you do come back together, know that she will never forget what you did too, so it will always gonna be the same.

Try dating another girl, try to know more about new people. I can assure you that you will find someone else and forget her sooner then you think.. Just let it go, and when you less expect, you won't remember her anymore.

2012-07-04 07:07:13
Muito obrigado irmão. É um bocado complicado esquecer mas vou tentar.
2012-07-04 07:14:00
English only please. Thank you.
2012-07-04 07:41:31
Sorry.
2012-07-04 07:42:12
by: †
#193
I've saw you answering with "Oui" to some sentence, but hey! that's you and you can.
2012-12-06 00:09:25
amazing hahaha
2012-07-04 17:30:25
what did he said?
2012-07-05 00:40:24
"Thank you bro. It's kinda hard to forget her but I'll try"

nothing special, but it was funny because it was in Portuguese :P
2012-07-05 01:35:13
by: †
#194
brother, if it was bro, he would say "mano". :)
2012-12-06 00:10:12
Get her back and then fuck her off again.
2012-07-04 07:07:48
+1 :D
2012-07-04 22:51:07
You CAN'T forget her imo :) If u really love her, don't give up ! Fight 4 her !
2012-07-04 07:30:07
i think its impossible to get her back :x
2012-07-04 07:37:57
NADA é impossível velho ! se ela gosta de tu tambem, vocês vão voltar \o/
2012-07-04 19:40:18
Obrigado.
2012-07-04 21:15:22
by: †
#195
It's impossible to grow hands on asses, to "nothing's impossible" is wrong.
2012-12-06 00:11:48
sir, that was realy emotion and inspiring speech.
2012-07-04 22:08:56
Well .. I broke up with my ex 2 years ago . I had the same feeling as you have and for 3 months i thought my life was gone and stupid things like that . She was the first girl that i felt in love for . Then I met my new girlfriend and i realised that i love her much more than my ex . Now we have almost 1 and a half year together but my ex gf still in my mind and i have like an "unexplainable" feeling when i talk to her . I don't love her anymore and i don't want to be with her but i've never forget her .

My suggestion : Wait and try with another girl and see how things go on and then you will see what is the better option to take . Good luck :)
2012-07-04 07:37:14
girls = Mindblow :x
thanks bro.

Post edited 2012-07-04 07:39:25
2012-07-04 07:39:08
This is actually prettig legit!
2012-07-04 21:27:36
She will understand she will thaths for sure.....
We are alwayz immature as compare to them....tell her what you feel give her some time....Promise wont break her trust and ensure that she has a bright future with a guy whoz just not a freind a husband(in future if so ) and will be a great dad....:)
Cry if you can....and dont say plz come back i need you....Say sorry for what i did and say how much you still love her and it will be alwayz her in your heart....:) and thats sit just say and go on...and let the rest work be handeled by her....You apologized for what you did if she thinks you dont deserve her then leave that issue just fix what you did wrong :)







P.S - Shall i write a novel? :D
2012-07-04 07:49:23
good, thanks bro.
2012-07-04 08:07:18
is she beatiful?
2012-07-04 10:15:33
I was just about to ask the same.
2012-07-04 17:22:47
yes.
2012-07-04 18:49:48
so, go after her!
2012-07-04 19:24:11
pic or didnt happen?
2012-12-05 22:37:58
#45
2012-07-04 09:25:18
you should :D
2012-07-04 12:53:06
no please don't write a novel. whats with indians with multiple "." and using "z" instead of "s". its not cool. its plain retarded.
2012-07-04 13:29:15
normally in relationship, i always listen to my dick......probably you could do that...........
but if ....really some serious shit is going in between...i opt to use nothing but your heart.....
go for it...its going to be ok in due course of time....all the best from me.....
2012-07-04 08:22:40
I had one relationship aswell 2012-06-14 15:39 was the end of it... I think this relationship is over, but it is been the best thing for 12 years for me..
2012-07-04 08:37:54
:(
2012-07-04 13:10:53
:(
2012-07-04 18:54:52
15:39.....seriously dude WTF??
2012-07-04 22:36:33
but it is been the best thing for 12 years for me..
probably you to will remember the exact day and time
2012-12-05 23:06:17
Go play CS :D
2012-07-04 08:48:28
+1 the medicin to every problems in the world
2012-07-04 10:05:42
:)
2012-07-04 10:27:06
For cavemans and nolifers - yes.
2012-07-04 17:23:11
why would you say that? doesnt make any sense. what helps you thru problems is all up the the individual. lets just say you are masturbating. then should i say something like: only for perverts and nolifers?
2012-07-04 19:32:49
Dude, only a fucking nerd would say that good medicine is a video game. Get a life man. Go outside with your dudes and go drink some alcohol as the medicine to kill the pain. Everyone knows it's the best medicine for everything.
2012-07-04 19:44:29
thats for alcoholics and nolifers
2012-07-04 20:17:23
Whatever you say, nerd.
2012-07-04 22:50:27
i bet when he said "dudes"
he meant left and right hands
2012-12-05 23:09:54
+1 HAHAHA
2012-07-04 22:47:43
I think get drunk is better :)
2012-07-04 22:47:15
ok buddy your 19 in a 2 year relationship and im 20 in a 3 year relationship with the exact same problem to the very single point... i did stupid things she always came back even though i told her i cheated and after our last fight i dont know why but i had the same feeling as you it really cant work anymore im gunnna move on and find another girl im over it. but then she starts to see another guy just like you and i think wow how can she betray me i was her only guy for so long and i obviously call her and pretend like it doesnt bother me but i get that jealousy and my feelings back for her so she got rid of the guy for me after they were seeing each other for 2 months. things have been on and off now and honestly if i could go back i would have just let her be happy and never come back to this because these kind of things need time to heal... i still talk to her and we chill but like once or twice a week and its just not the same even know we want to go back like we used to its just not possible. my advice is to find someone and try and live a new life doing different habbits and different things with her and who knows it could end and you can come back to your girl in a whole new adventure and things can work. if not i say you fight hard to get those amazing memories and feeling back and go for it man if it doesnt work out you let her be and you move on
2012-07-04 09:21:54
haha and sorry for the insanely long page
2012-07-04 09:22:13
thanks bro.
2012-07-04 18:51:16
The medicine for that lost is another girl.
And..if you missed your ex-girl, just shot her again! 'kidding
but you're so young to be sticked together with a girl that is already with another guy, if she is with another guy means that he is the best thing she has right now, so find another biach to bang...! ;)
2012-07-04 09:30:51
Forget her. If she doesnt want to be a part of your life then forget her. She is happier without problems.
2012-07-04 10:18:25
Your just jealous because she is dating another person. If you get her back then your going to do the same things you did before.
2012-07-04 10:27:09
Play 1VS1 against him , and the winner would take the girl ;)
2012-07-04 10:38:19
you're too young to waste time with one girl...just get over her, meet other girls, enjoy your life before its late :)
2012-07-04 11:23:11
" Water flows its way itself. " - Turkish proverb

Wait my friend, wait...
2012-07-04 11:44:25
translates into English like this:

sit around, do nothing and wait for a miracle to happen!

nice advice!
2012-07-05 00:31:06
simple : you want her back ? fight for her
you think its over ? what's the point of fighting in a "deaded" war ?
2012-07-04 13:04:51
Now you need to act like a Boss.

So... get other girl fuck her very hard and your ex-girl will come to you because she wants to be fucked hard to :)

Cumps.
2012-07-04 13:08:29
lulz too much porn
2012-07-04 23:30:35
lulz too much gay
2012-07-05 01:07:28
sorry , I wish I had ur logic
2012-07-05 02:10:48
get drunk and you will forget
2012-07-04 13:09:27
I don't know why everybody wants to forget. Because true love is not forgetable but it's enjoyable ;)

It's amazing to read some comments like : forget that girl, you're wasting your time, ...

2012-07-04 13:09:36
Just fuck her and see what that leads to.
2012-07-04 13:11:52
GFTOW.
GOOGLE IT.
2012-07-04 13:54:01
high five!
2012-07-04 14:06:57
not sure if u meant it, but part where u say that she misses u 2 and she wants to fight for u, then its all pretty clear. just be again together.
in case you didnt mean it, just DONT GIVE UP, i really doubt she can feel something for other guy so fast and was in realtionship with u for 2 year. ofc, this has meaning only if she felt something for u. eventually, u will see if she has interest left for u..
2012-07-04 14:07:06
Thanks bro.
2012-07-04 18:53:11
no one seems to notice he said he did 2 stupid mistakes


stop making mistakes ..you have only yourself to blame here ...if you break a girl's trust its only your fault.... and if she is dating another guy, and ur still after her ...then you clearly have some issues ...she either does not want you, or is playing with you, both cases she is not good for you anymore ....if she was she would either of TOLD you straight up she didnt want you, or just stayed with you ...but ur "mistakes" sound pretty big ...

so move on. and stop making "mistakes"
2012-07-04 14:31:47
well, smartass, hes not asking what should he do in relationship to keep her.
2012-07-05 00:26:10
Omg wtf is this ? Group therapy session ? No real friends to talk with ?
2012-07-04 14:35:39
I just thought the same.
2012-07-04 17:24:39
Just want a opinion, nothing more.
anw. sorry.
2012-07-04 18:55:54
by: RayX
#86
i can't tell nothing im still virgin in all aspects just sayin' once virgin forever virgin
2012-07-04 14:59:39
go find another girl and make her jalouse and find together with her later when she want to.
2012-07-04 17:28:57
Picture or i didn't happend!
2012-07-04 19:24:13
Well, find the person that has a good religious back-ground. Then marry that person, well try to interview them first.. Remember when her religion is good, everything will be good because religious people have high morals and manners and will take care of you in the future
2012-07-04 19:33:41
Are you An Indian?
2012-07-04 19:52:18
nope
2012-07-04 19:56:28
He needs to find a muslim girl , right?
2012-07-04 20:26:42
Here we go again... Probably this is the worst place where you can ask such thing like that... cmooon maan!
2012-07-04 20:35:11
I just want a opinion, nothing more but sorry anw
2012-07-04 21:14:29
Dude, even though you have not that much feelings for her right now, you will always feel bad and feeling like you want her back if you see her dating another guy. That happens to everybody and you can't be drifted by that. If you are not totally sure about your feelings you shouldn't get back with her.
2012-07-04 20:55:44
Thanks bro.
2012-07-04 21:14:46
GO AHEAD a new one... ;) dont wast ur time, there re so much girls:) plus u still young u have time before to think abt relation and all this shit;)
Peace.
2012-07-04 21:44:21
Thanks.
2012-07-04 22:05:24
never surender bro!
2012-07-04 22:01:15
Thanks bro.
2012-07-04 22:05:34
There are thousands of girls... forget you!
2012-07-04 23:06:31
You'll find out that this is bullshit compared to other life problems. There are tons of girls out there.
2012-07-04 23:21:55
+111 !!!
2012-07-05 00:21:19
if you cheated on her twice (assumption) than you dont really love her i guess. when you love someone youre not interested in other girls... well you can still look at some models, but thats pretty much it.
so imo she deserves a better guy than you and if you get back together you'll probably do the same mistake again...snd why ppl do this kind of mistakes? cuz they dont use the brains, they only think about whats gonna happen in short term, but every decision you make should be good for long term. and by asking other ppl what to do you clearly showed that youre still acting like a kid who doesnt know what to do. get a girl when youre ready.
sorry if i offended you but thats my opinion, im not saying youre a bad person. cheers and good luck in your life. and dont cheat on girls, thats for pussies. you just need to get a girl you really wanr, thats all. if you dont want her anymore just tell her
2012-07-05 00:19:48
i didnt cheat her, just made another mistakes, no attention and scenes like that.
Thanks anw bro.
2012-07-05 01:06:06
good for you. if you love her and she loves you, you should be together (unless youre beating her, if you wanna be with girl you must not beat her -> yeah dunno if you did that or not, but if you didnt cheat her or beat her i dunno what would be a good reason to break up). anyways gl with your life, you seem like a nice guy
2012-07-05 20:18:47
I want her but its hard.
Gl in your life too. thanks bro.
2012-07-05 22:10:21
figth! then get married, live together happyli, never cheat again lol. it ruins everything. having seein lots of girls gives "older" men and girls trouble later years in staying loyal, or in just staying at all in the relationship. keep it simple, and your life will be peacefull later. Not like the wrecks and alcoholists singles above 40 etc, its painfull.
2012-07-05 02:18:11
yeah, thanks bro.
2012-07-05 05:14:45
Why forget someone you loved, just put it into your good memories and life goes on =) see ya brah
2012-12-05 22:40:15
bro, fight if u like her, the love allways deserves the fight(first rule).
I know what ur feeling right now, i'm with my gf about 3years, and always fight for our relation. I think u should talk very seriously with her, and fix some points and get back to normal.
GL vts :)
2012-12-05 22:43:46
FIGHT FOR SHE! ahhahah win..
2012-12-05 23:01:11
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