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I did not write this topic for you to troll, and that is why I made one off topic so I get to choose to type what ever I want!
So here is my story. I have just get to known this girl, and she is everything I've wanted form a girl and more than that. I have only known her since 11-5-2012, so yes 2-3 months. And I have been in love with her since that day. As the time has gone, we have got to know each other better, and now she knows everything about me and I know everything about her. And I have feelings for her, and she has told me that she has had feelings for me. But I not sure of when she had those feelings for me couse I haven't asked yet. But now, I feel like she has cut me more of. She used to msg me every day and write to me as soon as I got online, but now we spent much less time together, but I want things to be as they were before, but she clearly wants it different. The main thing is that she has a x-boyfriend, but ehy have been over for 4-5 months now, and she is still in love with him, and he is still in love with her, they are spenting much more time together now then they did when me and she had it at the best ( When we just got to know each other ) and they are hanging out often, kissing, and huging, and they sleep at each other, but they dont have sex, becouse she is brutaly honest with me. And one very good friend of mine is also in love with her, he has been in love with her for 4 years now, but finaly he has got the balls to face the fact that it will never be they 2. And I have wonderd if I should tell how I feel about her, I have told her that I have been inlove with her, but am not anymore and she beleives that. And I know that her x-boyfriend and my friend, has been texting her none stop, and telling her they love her, and been very emo for no reasons then she has to be there for them, becouse she is a very careing and lovin person. And I dont want to tell her that I love her, to get her even more coinfuse then she already is. I know she has told a friend of mine, that I am the perfect friend, becouse she can tell me everything, and she can hug me, and lay down and watching movies with me for a whole day without any feelings are involved. And I try to let it be that way, but the fact she is trying to get back together with her X is killing me. He has been a jackass for her in 2 years, but still she loves him. And I have asked her how it would be if me and she got together, but she refused. She said I have everything she wants but, she has also just known her x-boyfriend for 2-3 months aswell when they got together and it was a mistake, and now she can't just be friends with him, becouse she has never just been friends with him. So she told me tonight that they trying to work on each others trust and then see where it is leading them.
Can you please give me advice of what I should do? I can't just ignore her, I have tryed it but I always return back, becouse she has made me feel like no one else has done before, and it is that I want from a girl.
So here is my story. I have just get to known this girl, and she is everything I've wanted form a girl and more than that. I have only known her since 11-5-2012, so yes 2-3 months. And I have been in love with her since that day. As the time has gone, we have got to know each other better, and now she knows everything about me and I know everything about her. And I have feelings for her, and she has told me that she has had feelings for me. But I not sure of when she had those feelings for me couse I haven't asked yet. But now, I feel like she has cut me more of. She used to msg me every day and write to me as soon as I got online, but now we spent much less time together, but I want things to be as they were before, but she clearly wants it different. The main thing is that she has a x-boyfriend, but ehy have been over for 4-5 months now, and she is still in love with him, and he is still in love with her, they are spenting much more time together now then they did when me and she had it at the best ( When we just got to know each other ) and they are hanging out often, kissing, and huging, and they sleep at each other, but they dont have sex, becouse she is brutaly honest with me. And one very good friend of mine is also in love with her, he has been in love with her for 4 years now, but finaly he has got the balls to face the fact that it will never be they 2. And I have wonderd if I should tell how I feel about her, I have told her that I have been inlove with her, but am not anymore and she beleives that. And I know that her x-boyfriend and my friend, has been texting her none stop, and telling her they love her, and been very emo for no reasons then she has to be there for them, becouse she is a very careing and lovin person. And I dont want to tell her that I love her, to get her even more coinfuse then she already is. I know she has told a friend of mine, that I am the perfect friend, becouse she can tell me everything, and she can hug me, and lay down and watching movies with me for a whole day without any feelings are involved. And I try to let it be that way, but the fact she is trying to get back together with her X is killing me. He has been a jackass for her in 2 years, but still she loves him. And I have asked her how it would be if me and she got together, but she refused. She said I have everything she wants but, she has also just known her x-boyfriend for 2-3 months aswell when they got together and it was a mistake, and now she can't just be friends with him, becouse she has never just been friends with him. So she told me tonight that they trying to work on each others trust and then see where it is leading them.
Can you please give me advice of what I should do? I can't just ignore her, I have tryed it but I always return back, becouse she has made me feel like no one else has done before, and it is that I want from a girl.
If you dont want to comment on this topic, then you're more than welcome to PM me :)
2012-08-01 06:15:44
"and she is everything I've wanted form a girl and more than that"
She is willing to give a blowjob now and then? or is it something more kinky we are talking about.
Post edited 2012-08-01 14:16:10
She is willing to give a blowjob now and then? or is it something more kinky we are talking about.
Post edited 2012-08-01 14:16:10
2012-08-01 14:15:45
dude you've been frienzoned level triple kill.
if she love you, she'll come for you.
you don't have to force yourself to overthink it.
you can just be friend for meanwhile and if the condition gets better it's your chance to get her.
if she meant to be with you, she'll be with you eventually.
as simple as that.
unless you're in bad luck, your dream girl is a friendzoning-guy lover.
if she love you, she'll come for you.
you don't have to force yourself to overthink it.
you can just be friend for meanwhile and if the condition gets better it's your chance to get her.
if she meant to be with you, she'll be with you eventually.
as simple as that.
unless you're in bad luck, your dream girl is a friendzoning-guy lover.
2012-08-01 06:31:04
+1 totally agree. in this momment she loves her x-boyfriend, But you have an opportunity, it is very difficult, but you have it!
2012-08-01 12:55:25
I dont know if I should wait and see what happens between them, or tell her how I feel, so maybe she just get coinfused, and I will be like everybady else.
2012-08-01 16:43:02
If she has feelings for you, she will never talk of her ex-boyfriend with you, unless if she would want to give jealousy to you, but she has no reason to do that.
2012-08-01 17:01:42
Exactly what I thought, but she hasn't talked about him with me or anyone else becouse she dont want advice from other people what to do with her live when it comes to him. But I asked her if I could get to know what is going on, so I could be there for her if it fails. And then I got to know everything. And I dont know if that is a step forward or not.
2012-08-01 17:25:35
you never know everything about her in 2 or 3 months. but stay the friendship. is my only recomendation, your situation it's too hard to handle it.
2012-08-02 13:21:19
Do you think it will be possible to stay as best friends, and the get the feeling to go away at the same time?
2012-08-02 13:36:33
all it depends of her.. You only know it. look for some situation to stay together, and look at her eyes, listen her voice, and how to talk with you. there's many things to consider. Everything can happen, stay as friends, but indirectly you must show to her, The advantages that your you have on her ex.
2012-08-02 14:54:08
''But indirectly you must show to her, The advantages that your you have on her ex.'' Clever ;)
2012-08-04 06:52:49
One thing I ask in this topic I read...
How does she describes you?
You know, could she say that you are the perfect man and all that stuff girls want...
If she says you are the perfect man but she says you between you two there's nothing... then I have bad news for you... You will stay on the friendzone forever...
Btw don't ever tell you love her...
It might separate more than you are now :X
Try to find something that can lead you the clue that she has feelings for you...
Post edited 2012-08-03 00:55:53
How does she describes you?
You know, could she say that you are the perfect man and all that stuff girls want...
If she says you are the perfect man but she says you between you two there's nothing... then I have bad news for you... You will stay on the friendzone forever...
Btw don't ever tell you love her...
It might separate more than you are now :X
Try to find something that can lead you the clue that she has feelings for you...
Post edited 2012-08-03 00:55:53
2012-08-03 00:48:38
She has told me im very good looking and always very nice to her. And we are always lying together in my bed and watching movies and talking about everything, and she has told me and her best friend, who has also told me that she loves to have the friendship we have and wants to hold on to that. Becouse if we get together and it dosent work, then she is afraid that things can't get back to as it was before.
2012-08-04 06:56:39
Somehow I can't see anything hapening between you and the girl :/
She is like those who say that you are the perfect man but she can't be with you...
If you really want to be with her you have to take all the opportunities, all the moments, specially when she's down...
But imo you can't go over the friendzone with her...
But keep trying, and one thing that could be make that girl closer to you: Somehow, show her how valuable you are in her life... Through that you can see how important you are and if you should make a move or not...
But how to make it, it's on your own... Can't help because all girls are diferent in everything ...
Post edited 2012-08-04 11:47:55
She is like those who say that you are the perfect man but she can't be with you...
If you really want to be with her you have to take all the opportunities, all the moments, specially when she's down...
But imo you can't go over the friendzone with her...
But keep trying, and one thing that could be make that girl closer to you: Somehow, show her how valuable you are in her life... Through that you can see how important you are and if you should make a move or not...
But how to make it, it's on your own... Can't help because all girls are diferent in everything ...
Post edited 2012-08-04 11:47:55
2012-08-04 11:46:28
my answer to your question: Dude, this girl is not good! And knowing there are other guys (your friends) also wanting her... it's worse...
Reading what you typed here... SHE'S SLEEPING IN HER EX'S HOUSE AND NOT DOING SEX?? DUDE.. SHE IS LYING TO YOU OK!! DEFFINITELLY BELIEVE ME!... She will cut your heart in 10000 pieces... If she loves you, she would never do it!
I know it's hard but try to forget this girl... NOT GOOD GIRL!!! NOT GOOD FOR YOUR HEART =P
yeah dude... crazy women man....
it's more like a MINDFUCK... 90% women dont like "right guys", they like that "bad boy" thing.... BITCHEZZZZZZZ
I'm dating 1 year and 2 month old relationship with a chick....
She thinks I'm a bad boy, because people always says that I look like... But I think INSIDE me, I'm one of the most emotional and lovefull person in this earth...
and from the beginning until now, when we make sex, she LOVES when I call her a bitch, slut... WOW HAUHAUHA (yeah I really enjoyed it too, now I love to call her this way)
++++After I asked her about her past (she dated a guy for 5 years just before me), she told me these days that she maded sex with 2 other guys when dating her ex... but she told me that she wont do it with me because I'm not a idiot like her ex... (he doesnt take care of her properly)...
actualy I asked her why she not betrayed him lol, but she denied... and later she told me... LOL
but I love her =P the sex is SO MUCH PLEASURE... OMG =P
My relationship with her is perfect, we tell everything to each other
Post edited 2012-08-04 16:26:11
Reading what you typed here... SHE'S SLEEPING IN HER EX'S HOUSE AND NOT DOING SEX?? DUDE.. SHE IS LYING TO YOU OK!! DEFFINITELLY BELIEVE ME!... She will cut your heart in 10000 pieces... If she loves you, she would never do it!
I know it's hard but try to forget this girl... NOT GOOD GIRL!!! NOT GOOD FOR YOUR HEART =P
yeah dude... crazy women man....
it's more like a MINDFUCK... 90% women dont like "right guys", they like that "bad boy" thing.... BITCHEZZZZZZZ
I'm dating 1 year and 2 month old relationship with a chick....
She thinks I'm a bad boy, because people always says that I look like... But I think INSIDE me, I'm one of the most emotional and lovefull person in this earth...
and from the beginning until now, when we make sex, she LOVES when I call her a bitch, slut... WOW HAUHAUHA (yeah I really enjoyed it too, now I love to call her this way)
++++After I asked her about her past (she dated a guy for 5 years just before me), she told me these days that she maded sex with 2 other guys when dating her ex... but she told me that she wont do it with me because I'm not a idiot like her ex... (he doesnt take care of her properly)...
actualy I asked her why she not betrayed him lol, but she denied... and later she told me... LOL
but I love her =P the sex is SO MUCH PLEASURE... OMG =P
My relationship with her is perfect, we tell everything to each other
Post edited 2012-08-04 16:26:11
2012-08-04 16:15:13
they are hanging out often, kissing, and huging, and they sleep at each other,
She's gone.
She's gone.
2012-08-01 06:36:44
Depends on his culture of where he lives.
2012-08-01 06:42:14
They sleep together but don't have sex?
That bitch is just foolin' around.
That bitch is just foolin' around.
2012-08-01 10:44:41
+1 that quote just make me laugh AHAHAH
2012-08-01 11:26:42
+1 she's gone
2012-08-01 11:35:35
+++
2012-08-01 12:06:58
She knows what the feel for her, obviously not going to tell you, that has sexual intercourse with her ex.
2012-08-01 12:57:45
Hahahahahahahahha epic reply.
2012-08-01 14:36:45
:(
2012-08-01 06:37:20
lets say your not here to troll, men stand up put it straight if you sit like this wont really make her come to you, all that nonsens like if she loves you she will come its stupid, you have to make a move and show/tell her your feelings then see how you stand.
PS: gj at troling
PS: gj at troling
2012-08-01 07:45:42
Im not trolling. If I tell her how I feel, then I will just be like her x and my friend, they are telling her constantly how they feel, and she has told me it is annoying. And I dont want to mess up her mind.
2012-08-01 16:45:59
This all can be explained to her. Tell her you like the friendship but don't like being on this side of it. What's the difference between a relationship and friendship? The little things in my opinion, kissing, hugging, and sex can easily be considered second rate in a partner. A connection exists if your always having fun together. Annoying or not there will be zero opportunity if she decides on one of them over you. Because she knows they're interested. People usually like people that already like them. Its an easier way to get someone. Would I ask the girl that hates me to be my girlfriend or the girl that loves me? I'd say my chances are much higher with the latter. In the end if you don't do something which her ex will win since their already basically together. It may be to late already to be honest. Hope it all works out for you. Don't b afraid of her though, she needs to respect you which means being, competent, capable, and confident.
2013-01-12 01:52:26
I have only known her since 11-5-2012, so yes 2-3 months.
now she knows everything about me and I know everything about her
sorry, but bullshit.
if that's not trolling, then she is not interested in you.
if i were you i would say her, that her ex-boyfriend would hurt her if they get together. but feelings are blind.
saying that you love her is a big risk. and in this case if you say that you love her i think it will make her move away from you.
so you are doing right letting things go as it is. be a strong man with a strong position, not a milk-toast. you should be insure in what you are doing.
if she can't realize that she needs you, you can forget about her as the only one and move on. may be she will regret and realize something, but may be not.
believe me if she is in love with another man she will never be with you until she get him out of her mind.
it's not a good moment for new feelings for her.
Post edited 2012-08-01 08:45:00
now she knows everything about me and I know everything about her
sorry, but bullshit.
if that's not trolling, then she is not interested in you.
if i were you i would say her, that her ex-boyfriend would hurt her if they get together. but feelings are blind.
saying that you love her is a big risk. and in this case if you say that you love her i think it will make her move away from you.
so you are doing right letting things go as it is. be a strong man with a strong position, not a milk-toast. you should be insure in what you are doing.
if she can't realize that she needs you, you can forget about her as the only one and move on. may be she will regret and realize something, but may be not.
believe me if she is in love with another man she will never be with you until she get him out of her mind.
it's not a good moment for new feelings for her.
Post edited 2012-08-01 08:45:00
2012-08-01 08:39:53
+1 don't waste your time on her if she's not interested in you. At least forget her as a GF and be her friend, and who knows what the future holds ;)
And never stop going out with your mates, a bitch never will worth it unless you are going to get married with her ;)
And never stop going out with your mates, a bitch never will worth it unless you are going to get married with her ;)
2012-08-01 11:00:25
I'm trying just to be friend with her right now becouse I know that is what she wants. But for a few weeks back when she had feelings for me, she made me feel like I've never felt before, and I want that back. But I guess I just gotta stay patiend, be there for her when she needs me:)
2012-08-01 16:52:21
In that case you're doing it well, just remember if you ever are close enough to a girl to put tell your feelings when she's not "gone". Living is this :)
2012-08-01 23:50:47
I will keep that in mind ;) In the mean time while im still trying to be her ebst friend, I want to see my other options with other girls :)
2012-08-02 08:03:47
Sorry I meant "to tell" not "to put tell". Gl bro
2012-08-02 10:11:16
I understood it, thanks bro ;)
2012-08-02 13:38:01
DING DING! AND WE HAVE A WINNER! That is exactly what im trying to do! For a few days back when we just hang out, I asked her how it would be if me and her got together, she said it wouldn't work, becouse she has known me for so short time, and when she came together with her x they had only been friends for 2 months, and now she can't just be friends with him, becouse she has never tryed it before, and she wont risk loseing me right now.
2012-08-01 16:50:26
it sounds hard, but take it easy. don't think about her often.
you can be friends with her but don't make up you mind like you must be with her.
if she finnaly looses feelings to her ex-boyfriend - may be it will work for you.
but now behave like a normal man. if you find another girl - you will quickly forget about this situation. don't miss all your life-time, she's definately not worth it so far.
Post edited 2012-08-01 17:15:54
you can be friends with her but don't make up you mind like you must be with her.
if she finnaly looses feelings to her ex-boyfriend - may be it will work for you.
but now behave like a normal man. if you find another girl - you will quickly forget about this situation. don't miss all your life-time, she's definately not worth it so far.
Post edited 2012-08-01 17:15:54
2012-08-01 17:13:50
Thanks alot man. You have been very nice. That is exactly what I have wanted to do, but I also needed to hear it from someone else.
2012-08-01 17:28:08
Damnnnn man!!!
If a girl see a chance that you would do anything for her than she will use that againts you. Man by the law of ballshood should be the leader of a relationship! Not saying beeing a cunt to her.
But let her now that she is not that special and she will fall right to your lap or leave you, if she leaves you she is not worth it. Im not saying this because i know everything but i been in yours position and my cosin told me what i have told you and damn im happy since, 2 years with a chick.
Whish you good luck with it but she doesnt sound that nice.
If a girl see a chance that you would do anything for her than she will use that againts you. Man by the law of ballshood should be the leader of a relationship! Not saying beeing a cunt to her.
But let her now that she is not that special and she will fall right to your lap or leave you, if she leaves you she is not worth it. Im not saying this because i know everything but i been in yours position and my cosin told me what i have told you and damn im happy since, 2 years with a chick.
Whish you good luck with it but she doesnt sound that nice.
2012-08-01 08:52:59
that you've wrote it's bulls*it, not love or normal relationship. if a girl really loves you, there's no need to be cocky.
Post edited 2012-08-01 12:28:14
Post edited 2012-08-01 12:28:14
2012-08-01 12:27:57
F-F-F-F-F-FRIENDZONE!
2012-08-01 09:25:58
+1
2012-08-01 14:35:24
Moment of silence for our brother in friendzone :(
2012-08-02 09:26:07
Hahahah
2012-08-09 15:21:33
DUDE... STARTING SCREWING AROUND WITH YOUR BROS... GO TO PARTIES... GET DRUNK(DON'T TEXT HER IN DRUNK CONDITION, AND DON'T USE DRUGS)... GET OTHER GIRLS, TAKE PICTURES WITH THEM AND POST ON FACEBOOK, TRY TO FORGET ABOUT YOUR LOVE(BUT YOU CAN HANG WITH HER ONCE IN A WHILE), BITCHES LOVES A MAN WHO KNOWS HOW TO ROLL
2012-08-01 09:53:18
hahaha favelado
2012-08-01 21:48:10
Sorry man, You just fell for a rebound girl.
2012-08-01 10:02:42
Wow I haven't coinsiderd that :(
2012-08-01 16:54:15
You are in very bad situation pal. One thing that i can tell you in this position is to do not be agressive, wait for her ex-boyfriend mistake, wait wait until they fell out, and then just be her that one who always can listen, help etc. And then you can say her about her feelings, so she will be try to be with you for three things (1. because you are honest, kind, generous...not douchebag, 2. because she want to forget ex-boyfriend, 3. because you feel something)
And now try to be as closer to her as you can. Good luck.
And now try to be as closer to her as you can. Good luck.
2012-08-01 10:42:47
4. Her BFF Best FRIEND forever
Post edited 2012-08-01 11:08:29
Post edited 2012-08-01 11:08:29
2012-08-01 11:08:11
It's very hard situation, so he can't just go to that girl and say "i love", she would be like "um, oh, i don't know, blah, blah" and she will never want to contact him after this. But if she is one from 5% (of normal girls, not stupid "oh you didn't text me yesterday, i waited for you to text me" *RAGE*, not duckface slut, not retarted in other ways) , he definately have to fight for her, because another one he even can not find on rest of his life, so he will be with some stupid rager. There are thousands of possibilities to clutch this situation and get that girl..
2012-08-01 11:50:09
I love this girl, I think about her all the time, I even dream about here sometimes. And I want to be exactly what she want me to be, and see where that leads me.
2012-08-01 17:01:14
I realy want to help you - you know then some people says "just go, kiss her" , i know it's very hard to brace yourself, so you can make a surprise to her - birthday cake with note "i love you" in it, or you can put note in flowers, or even left message on her computer then you will be at her home, there are many ways to make a great surprise, but remember - be original, better surprise will be, more chances you got.
P.S Write me how things are going.. :D
P.S Write me how things are going.. :D
2012-08-01 17:54:02
Sound like you have been there before :D? I will let you know how things are going;) She also mentioned that what she miss the most from being in a relationship is just to have some one to hug while you are in bed and watching a movie, and someone who holds you through the night and still in the morning. And we have planned a camping trip me, her , and 2 other friends, so maybe I get the chance to do that to her ;)
2012-08-01 18:03:53
Once i tried to sad girl that i like her, i was in 2nd grade. I liked her really much, but now i don't think that was a real love. She didn't answer me. So now, i fully forgoten her, even she's in the same class with me. Now we are friends, nothing more. I'm in love with other girl, and i don't give a fuck about her as love/girlfriend (because she's not) :D
2012-08-01 18:17:00
Some people might say, yes but you were only in 2'end grade. I disagree, I also got rejected when I was in 5th grade, and it was just as sad, the feeling were exactly the same.
2012-08-01 19:00:04
he tells her about his love - wrong way if she doesn't love him now.
let's imagine situation. you have a friend (not a girlfriend, just female friend). you spend time together but you don't LOVE her, just feel comfortable with. then she says "I love you, DisesioN! Let's be together forever!"
what do you do? i bet you will stop your communication or let it down (especially when you are in love with other girl).
Post edited 2012-08-01 18:04:46
let's imagine situation. you have a friend (not a girlfriend, just female friend). you spend time together but you don't LOVE her, just feel comfortable with. then she says "I love you, DisesioN! Let's be together forever!"
what do you do? i bet you will stop your communication or let it down (especially when you are in love with other girl).
Post edited 2012-08-01 18:04:46
2012-08-01 18:04:10
Shit, really... But she (beinir's dreamgirl) said that she feels something to him. And other way, maybe she is extremely shy, and she want to do the same as beinir's wants, but she's just to shy, and she keps with asshole xboyfriend in relationship, because she doesn't want to be alone because of her shyiness.?
2012-08-01 18:10:57
if she wants to do what he wants - that means she's in love with HIM, not with the other man. she will think about HIM, not about the thing, how to create good and trusty relationships with her ex-boyfriend.
and P.S. It's rude, but shy girls don't do blowjobs after 2 months of knowing the man.
and P.S. It's rude, but shy girls don't do blowjobs after 2 months of knowing the man.
2012-08-01 18:16:52
That is the thing I'm afraid of, if I tell her how I feel right now, and maybe she dosen't feel the same way back, if she did, she would have been with me instead.
2012-08-01 19:04:28
Thanks alot man! Her x-boyfriend has screwed up so many times before, he apperently quit drinking and smoking 5 times, and she has found out of it everytime from a friend of his instead from him self, and he keeps lying to her, and she hates it when people lie to her. So now she said they are trying to build up their trust, and then see what happens :P
2012-08-01 16:59:28
As you sad that her xboyfriend is asshole, and he's making mistakes often, so you can try talk to her after his mistake, and then she will be sad, just be with her and then you will have good opportunity and then do that (say i love you, or give something with these words, or show it somehow different) but then if you don't do that, you will be friendzoned even more, and your chances will be getting even lower...
2012-08-01 17:59:11
Alright noted :D
2012-08-01 18:04:26
So you're at her at the moment? Or you done it before (like month ago or any other date)?
2012-08-01 18:06:25
Im not following :(
2012-08-01 19:03:00
you got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one
2012-08-01 11:21:05
"I did not write this topic for you to troll, and that is why I made one off topic so I get to choose to type what ever I want!
So here is my story. I have just get to known this girl, and she is everything I've wanted form a girl and more than that. I have only known her since 11-5-2012, so yes 2-3 months. And I have been in love with her since that day. As the time has gone, we have got to know each other better, and now she knows everything about me and I know everything about her."
I only read this and it's enough for me. My reply is: YOU CANNOT KNOW ONE PERSON IN JUST 3 MONTHS.
So here is my story. I have just get to known this girl, and she is everything I've wanted form a girl and more than that. I have only known her since 11-5-2012, so yes 2-3 months. And I have been in love with her since that day. As the time has gone, we have got to know each other better, and now she knows everything about me and I know everything about her."
I only read this and it's enough for me. My reply is: YOU CANNOT KNOW ONE PERSON IN JUST 3 MONTHS.
2012-08-01 11:36:22
Ofc I dont know all of her sides, but she has tol me everything about herself.
2012-08-01 17:02:03
men, she may said that she used to have feelings for you, but she didn't
she was physically attracted to you, but that is just for 1-2 weeks, because you were the one that talked to her about every single thing..
So now, that she is seeing her ex-boyfriend you just got to do one of two things:
option nº1 - tell her to f*ck herself and go party !
option nº2 - or you go to her house, knock to the door, and when you see her, just kiss her, if she like what you're doing, well, your on the right way son, if she pushes you away, than choose option nº1
she was physically attracted to you, but that is just for 1-2 weeks, because you were the one that talked to her about every single thing..
So now, that she is seeing her ex-boyfriend you just got to do one of two things:
option nº1 - tell her to f*ck herself and go party !
option nº2 - or you go to her house, knock to the door, and when you see her, just kiss her, if she like what you're doing, well, your on the right way son, if she pushes you away, than choose option nº1
2012-08-01 11:42:34
denmark isnt portugal ma friend , girls are more hard to get xD
2012-08-01 12:57:40
+1 , the 2º option in portugal works right away xd
2012-08-01 13:06:24
hazz u just 13, what do you know about that ?
2012-08-01 15:35:09
age dont defines mentality , believe me i know :]
2012-08-01 15:36:59
sure LOOOOL girls with 13/14 years old, who loves justin bieber LOOOL
2012-08-01 17:15:42
well , the truth is that you know shit , so dont judge people by their age , that just proves you're the kid here :]
2012-08-01 17:48:52
kiddo with your age you think you know everything about girls because you are their adviser and blabla .. i already had your age, and there is an enourmous difference between girls with 13/14 that already whear skirts and do their makeup and look like patati and patata, and mature girls with 16/17/18 ... just saying, dont ilude yourself to much
2012-08-01 20:15:20
see ? already judging and you dont know shit about me , and no , i'm not their adviser , and tbh idk why i'm losing time with you :P , but yeah , idk everything about girls , but what i know it's kinda good for my age..
2012-08-01 20:26:37
tipo eu vejo-te ai a comentar varias vezes em varios posts da hltv, em alguns ate pareces ter cabeça mas noutros dá para ver que não tens maturidade, algo que é normal pois e o tempo que te fornece essa maturidade, agora, a menos que ja andes a comer gajas de 16/17/18 anos, ou que já te dês suficientemente bem com elas, não te aches um "expert" no assunto pois vais-te desiludir logo no primeiro namoro asério que tiveres e nao digo isto para te foder a cabeça ou para me armar em irmão mais velho,apenas partilho contigo aquilo que aprendi com experiências de vida que também iras têr ...
btw, esses smiles nao te ajudam em nada...
btw, esses smiles nao te ajudam em nada...
2012-08-01 21:25:23
hey kid, stfu in my time 12/13/14/15 girls didnt look they we're 18, now they wear make up, thongs, push up bras, and many more, but! in my time you would content with a fking visible arm
2012-08-01 21:38:08
that's what i was trying to say, today's girls dont have self respect and with 13 years they already think that they are adolescents when they are just, no bom portugues, "pitas"
2012-08-01 21:59:06
I love your country.
2012-08-01 14:45:12
That might be she just had feeling for me for those reasons, but it was realy nice the time it last and I want it back. I now when she is taking things really slow with her X I dont wanna push her in anyways :x
2012-08-01 17:05:12
Youre a nice guy and her ex is a badboy. Obviously she going to choose him over you. Best option for you would be try to make a move on her and get rejected.
2012-08-01 11:43:03
You are in the friend zone my brother and you have made every possible mistake there is. Guys in the friend zone never get the girl , they only watch her leave. And from what i understand this chick is really a bitch who craves for attention from blind romantic fools like you and once she gets it she probably treats it like an accomplishment and will find another romantic fool who will worship her. The shit that you are going through is probably the same shit that her ex-boyfriend and your friend who loves her is also going through. My advice to you is keep away from her but i don't think you are going to do that so tell her how you feel and even if she rejects you atleast you will have no regrets and can move on as time passes by.
Cheers
Cheers
2012-08-01 11:44:36
Wow you understood it perfectly! But dont u think I should just be there for her everytime, becouse she tells me everything about her x-boyfriend and everyone else, and then I could just wait for his mistake and then make the move?
2012-08-01 17:08:20
Heh, no.
Don't stick around for too long.
Tell her your feelings and get the fuck out of there if she rejects you.
Don't stick around for too long.
Tell her your feelings and get the fuck out of there if she rejects you.
2012-08-01 17:17:35
Forget about her ex-boyfriends mistakes. Go make some of your own. Remember this is about you not about her ex-boyfriend or anyone else .Even if you fuck up badly you will learn what not to do henceforth.
Cheers
Cheers
2012-08-01 19:32:27
If I tell her how I feel, she will reject me now. And she will find it wierd to hang out with me and no be as open for me as she is now. And I dont wont that to happen, I can't let the only person in the world who knows everything about me, just walk away :(
2012-08-02 08:10:40
+1
2012-08-01 18:14:26
Paragraphs. PARAGRAPHS!! You know them?
2012-08-01 11:45:45
option n*3 - Simply dont care find a prostitute without hiv ... and you're problem is solved ! :D
2012-08-01 11:46:21
PROBLMES!
2012-08-01 11:58:39
This is what I get
- You lack selfesteem
- You lack confidence
- You all sound like kids
- You are too much in love with her. I bet if she says "wanna hang out tomorrow?" and it doesn't suit you or you have to wait in the rain for two hours, you'll still say "OKAY!"...and it shows miles away. She knows it and that's it..you can't say no to her, you'll do anything for her which makes you look more and more unattractive..both as a friend and definitely as a boyfriend.
Solution. Start to man up..start talking to other girls, go out, hang out with friends and STOP CALLING AND WRITING TO HER! If she still is interested, obviously she'll contact you...
- You lack selfesteem
- You lack confidence
- You all sound like kids
- You are too much in love with her. I bet if she says "wanna hang out tomorrow?" and it doesn't suit you or you have to wait in the rain for two hours, you'll still say "OKAY!"...and it shows miles away. She knows it and that's it..you can't say no to her, you'll do anything for her which makes you look more and more unattractive..both as a friend and definitely as a boyfriend.
Solution. Start to man up..start talking to other girls, go out, hang out with friends and STOP CALLING AND WRITING TO HER! If she still is interested, obviously she'll contact you...
2012-08-01 11:59:19
+1
2012-08-01 12:14:05
I have been thinking alot about that, but I always end up calling her. And im afraid if I dont talk to her everyday, she will think im over her, and want nothing to do with her.
2012-08-01 17:11:04
i am interesting in those Solution part . nice say
2012-08-01 18:13:48
this so sad omg :'((
2012-08-01 13:03:01
im crie ;'(
2012-08-01 13:11:20
oh hell no
2012-08-02 11:22:22
everyone says and would say after 5 hours of LoL f-f-f-f-friendzoned like a pentakill BUT NO!
I have been friendzoned like you but when I realized whats happening around me I saw that 2 girl who I hang out with wanted me. So the first one I made her to tell me that she wants me, then I told her that I dont want her. and after 2 weeks, I asked her if she would like to sleep with me and ofc she said yes. She was kind of in the same situation like your bitch. The other one was the same. She was so naughty you cant even imagine. Only from kissing her, she got an orgasm!!!! EPIC but she was ugly so i told her to disappear from my life.
in the beginning, when i starting hanging out with the ugly one she told me that she doesnt find me nice looking and shit like that. I tell you, after 6 months she was so horny! and the fun thing is that this bitch did something with 2 schoolmates in the same night :P
So my advice to you: IF you can, KISS HER! and then it will show. She might say no but you will defnitly make her thinking about you as a new possible partner. give it a try. :) its hard but maybe you have success :P
I have been friendzoned like you but when I realized whats happening around me I saw that 2 girl who I hang out with wanted me. So the first one I made her to tell me that she wants me, then I told her that I dont want her. and after 2 weeks, I asked her if she would like to sleep with me and ofc she said yes. She was kind of in the same situation like your bitch. The other one was the same. She was so naughty you cant even imagine. Only from kissing her, she got an orgasm!!!! EPIC but she was ugly so i told her to disappear from my life.
in the beginning, when i starting hanging out with the ugly one she told me that she doesnt find me nice looking and shit like that. I tell you, after 6 months she was so horny! and the fun thing is that this bitch did something with 2 schoolmates in the same night :P
So my advice to you: IF you can, KISS HER! and then it will show. She might say no but you will defnitly make her thinking about you as a new possible partner. give it a try. :) its hard but maybe you have success :P
2012-08-01 13:12:15
I completely agree with you, I think that the only opportunity to make a girl in the friendzone think in us in the other way is by kissing her
2012-08-01 14:32:49
I have had my chances to kiss her beleive me, but I respect here to much. I dont want to do anything that can coinfuse her in any ways. But now after reading this, I will defenatly kiss her, when I get the chamce again!
2012-08-01 17:14:20
man I was in the same situation! trust me! either u erase her from your brain or u kiss her. no other solution!
tell me when you kissed her how it was :D
Post edited 2012-08-01 19:56:02
tell me when you kissed her how it was :D
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2012-08-01 19:53:41
I will let you know ;)
2012-08-02 08:11:30
u got too much respect for female beings , most of them are stupid like shit.
2012-08-04 14:43:33
Fucking santabarbara. Go kick x boyfriends face, than piss on your friend, girls love when man show their brutality little bit=) You want her to be your girl? than fight for your love,be not afraid
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2012-08-01 14:00:41
Lol dude, your a rebound...
2012-08-01 14:05:59
I'm afraid so. Is there any chances I still can get her?
2012-08-01 17:15:26
No chance mate, Girls like this come along... they are just in it to make us go insane... but hey ho, You'll get over it and you will meet someone else :)
2012-08-01 18:37:56
Thanks you ;)
2012-08-01 19:07:26
obviously you need to beat up the crap of the x in front of girl and possibly in front of many witnesses, and then tell him to fucking dissapear forever, thats my first instinct/thougt. maybe some other have better ideas, but if not, this is a classic tested and prooved method. even animal kingdom use this method because its super effective mentally socialy psychologically etc
2012-08-01 14:14:05
you forgot one important thing. girl wants to be with that guy. wanna beat up both?
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2012-08-01 14:31:04
+1
2012-08-01 17:16:05
yes. you still beat him lol offcourse, its the point. no you dont figth the girl. You figth for your nation, same way you figth for the girl you want. Girls like when they figth for her. your job is to win. When somebody steal your girl you dont become passive goddamit, even if girl choose other, she must see she choosed the guy who lost the "man" figth. I cant explain this shit more, its just either you know how to handle these sitiations or you dont.
2012-08-01 18:16:17
That "fighting for woman" is a typical fairytale repeated by 40+ years old ugly virgin women as a justification of their single status.
From the stone age to now on THE FEMALE decides whether your relations have future, will you have sex with her, etc..
Men try to look strong, smart, cocky (as animals during mating season), but a woman chooses one she likes and...
So that fighting will help you a shit if she doesn't like you. That's all.
From the stone age to now on THE FEMALE decides whether your relations have future, will you have sex with her, etc..
Men try to look strong, smart, cocky (as animals during mating season), but a woman chooses one she likes and...
So that fighting will help you a shit if she doesn't like you. That's all.
2012-08-01 18:35:51
pride and honor, bro. pride and honor. fuck the girl. if she messes her way into my life, she takes whatever consequences it may lead to. if she wants to leave me, fine.. but not without me checking out the new dude, especially not if she and the dude hurts my manly feelings. thats not cool, whether she wants it or not. whether you like it or not. whether you understand it or not. whether you think its tribal or not. thats how we roll, you dont simply hand over a girl you are emotionally connected to as if its nothing. you dont simply quit and back away like a looser if your a man. you say whatever the fuck needs to be said, and end the buisness, say fuck you to both of them, teach him a lesson if hes disrespecting and then onlyu then say fuck you to both of them. Pride and honor stays intact, thats how it works.
no man (or woman for that matter) should experience or allow such incident to happen without spilling the guts out and clear the air once and for all, its actually best for all involved. i get over the girl, she gets over me, the dude hates me, i hate him. and we all forget each other rather quickly. but not like a wussy boy/girl toy, thats not cool at all, thats what made me reply to the topic, the guy sounds like a serious case of wussy friend wussy boy "allowing" things to happen, thats fucking sad you know.
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no man (or woman for that matter) should experience or allow such incident to happen without spilling the guts out and clear the air once and for all, its actually best for all involved. i get over the girl, she gets over me, the dude hates me, i hate him. and we all forget each other rather quickly. but not like a wussy boy/girl toy, thats not cool at all, thats what made me reply to the topic, the guy sounds like a serious case of wussy friend wussy boy "allowing" things to happen, thats fucking sad you know.
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2012-08-04 04:51:09
you have a platonic relationship with that girl. go find another girl
2012-08-01 14:24:25
I wish I understood the word platonic...
2012-08-05 19:05:26
Your friend zone level is over 9000. You have two maybe three choices.
Let her friend zone you.
- You will be best friends nothing more.
Tell her what you feel and get her before choice you or him.
- She will choose you = everythin good you can start dating or w/e you want to do with her.
- She will choose him = You can't stay friends anymore (you are beta as fuck when you would be her best friend again after this). After this you just start ignoring her she must pay for her sins!
Also you can fucking murder her ex-boyfriend. If they don't find that you killed him. She will be so sad and you will be first person she will come to cry. Be gentle to her try to help her forget about him. After she forget she's all yours. Also you can sometimes remind him just lightly so she will suffer more and more from choosing him.
Post edited 2012-08-01 15:45:34
Let her friend zone you.
- You will be best friends nothing more.
Tell her what you feel and get her before choice you or him.
- She will choose you = everythin good you can start dating or w/e you want to do with her.
- She will choose him = You can't stay friends anymore (you are beta as fuck when you would be her best friend again after this). After this you just start ignoring her she must pay for her sins!
Also you can fucking murder her ex-boyfriend. If they don't find that you killed him. She will be so sad and you will be first person she will come to cry. Be gentle to her try to help her forget about him. After she forget she's all yours. Also you can sometimes remind him just lightly so she will suffer more and more from choosing him.
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2012-08-01 15:41:53
It is very riski
2012-08-01 17:18:39
If you choose first choice you will be faggot and beta as fuck.
If you're confident enough for second choice it's risk you will win her or lost her but is she realy worthy if she choose some faggot.
If you go for third choice it's kinda risky they can caught you so you better prepare so good alibi and watch whole first two series of CSI Miami so you can learn how to hide evidence. Try kill him clean and eazy style without blood maybe some poison could be extra effective but not some trackable poison something on black market without connections with these people + act like her friend until cause is closed without finding murder try to follow advice above.
If you're confident enough for second choice it's risk you will win her or lost her but is she realy worthy if she choose some faggot.
If you go for third choice it's kinda risky they can caught you so you better prepare so good alibi and watch whole first two series of CSI Miami so you can learn how to hide evidence. Try kill him clean and eazy style without blood maybe some poison could be extra effective but not some trackable poison something on black market without connections with these people + act like her friend until cause is closed without finding murder try to follow advice above.
2012-08-01 17:27:57
Hahahhahahah
The third one it's epic.
The third one it's epic.
2012-08-09 15:25:43
"and they sleep at each other, but they dont have sex" are you sure?
and then u said this "So she told me tonight that they trying to work on each others trust and then see where it is leading them."
Dude srsly this shit happens after sex ..
and then u said this "So she told me tonight that they trying to work on each others trust and then see where it is leading them."
Dude srsly this shit happens after sex ..
2012-08-01 16:00:48
They have had sex when they were togehter for months ago, but not atm, atm they just try to work things out, and yes sometimes they sleep together, but sex is of the table.
2012-08-01 17:19:30
do a handjob and search another one.
2012-08-01 16:02:40
fuk sake bro noone gives a fuk here on HLTV, tell this to your best friend or anything cause honestly on a forum its nothing but internet, you have any kind of answers but noone knows what her feelings are and shits
wtf
wtf
2012-08-01 16:08:06
"I know she has told a friend of mine, that I am the perfect friend"
A moment of silence for our fellow friendzoned HLTV user .
http://d24w6bsrhbeh9d.cloudfront.net/photo/4737239..
Post edited 2012-08-01 16:15:35
A moment of silence for our fellow friendzoned HLTV user .
http://d24w6bsrhbeh9d.cloudfront.net/photo/4737239..
Post edited 2012-08-01 16:15:35
2012-08-01 16:09:25
http://tinyurl.com/c7wsyzf
2012-08-01 16:20:38
and they are hanging out often, kissing, and huging, and they sleep at each other
only friends obviously =D
only friends obviously =D
2012-08-01 17:00:42
They try to work things out, he has been a total jerk to her so many times, and she wants to see if there is any chance that she trust him.
2012-08-01 17:22:39
I cringed when read the story
You are so beta its not even funny to me
Obviously friendzoned by the chick, if you dont step up, you will continue to be a virgin beta as you are right now.
Girl views as gay friend, you need to fkin tell het wats up and make her chose or it will just drag you along and hurt in a long run.
or
get some other chick and see how ur girl reacts.
PS
If you're havin' girl problems I feel bad for you, son
I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one
Post edited 2012-08-01 17:55:27
You are so beta its not even funny to me
Obviously friendzoned by the chick, if you dont step up, you will continue to be a virgin beta as you are right now.
Girl views as gay friend, you need to fkin tell het wats up and make her chose or it will just drag you along and hurt in a long run.
or
get some other chick and see how ur girl reacts.
PS
If you're havin' girl problems I feel bad for you, son
I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one
Post edited 2012-08-01 17:55:27
2012-08-01 17:53:10
I have kissed girl right infront of her, but she didn't react she just said '' your are a pig'' and laughed :P
2012-08-01 19:09:22
euhm; i had the same thing, but it lasted even longer
forget it, you"ll never be together. she only wants your friendship
in my opinion, leave her alone. else you'll never get over her, it's the ONLY and BEST way
forget it, you"ll never be together. she only wants your friendship
in my opinion, leave her alone. else you'll never get over her, it's the ONLY and BEST way
2012-08-01 18:06:20
Just totaly ignore her? We are so close as friends right now..
2012-08-01 19:10:02
yea, just say you want some time for yourself and it's better if you don't hear each other anymore
if you stay in touch, the feelings will always be there
after 6 months of not hearing from that 1 girl (which i loved dearly but she just saw me as her bestest friend ever). all the feelings are over now but yea, don't really have the need to talk to her, but if i would, i could. i'm just partying and hanging out with friends all the time now
if you stay in touch, the feelings will always be there
after 6 months of not hearing from that 1 girl (which i loved dearly but she just saw me as her bestest friend ever). all the feelings are over now but yea, don't really have the need to talk to her, but if i would, i could. i'm just partying and hanging out with friends all the time now
2012-08-01 22:50:19
That is probably the only way, but if I still have feeling for her after some months, then it was just a waste of time, ye? And is it possilbe just to loose your feelings for the person you love and just be friends ?
2012-08-02 08:14:41
then you keep ignoring her
and losing your feelings while still seeing her, imo you can't
and the way i lost all my best friends (and those who i have loved), they started dating someone --> bye bye best friends, she'll start living a live with him. and you'll be too ignorent to start a convo and seeing her. because when you wanna see her, she will tell you her boyfriend won't like it and bla bla bla
and losing your feelings while still seeing her, imo you can't
and the way i lost all my best friends (and those who i have loved), they started dating someone --> bye bye best friends, she'll start living a live with him. and you'll be too ignorent to start a convo and seeing her. because when you wanna see her, she will tell you her boyfriend won't like it and bla bla bla
2012-08-02 17:42:22
I'll be the most sincere I can be to a man, if you were in love with her and she had feelings for you and you've done nothing, you have small balls, I'm somehow like that too, don't worry, and if she is texting her ex-boyfriend more often than you, that means she already doesn't owe the feelings she did, so game over, get over and move on :)
2012-08-01 18:15:51
That is propably the best thing to so atm :P:
2012-08-01 19:10:45
u sound like u are young.. so take my advice, dont fall in love.
2012-08-01 20:58:59
Im 18, and what is the point of living if u cant fall inlove ?
2012-08-02 08:15:30
I think, you shouldn't ask for advice here. This problem can be solved only by you. You just trying to avoid responsibility for the decision, but dude... It doesn't work like this. It's only YOUR decision.
2012-08-01 21:54:23
I know, but I just want some advice from all of you, so I can consider what might happen-.
2012-08-02 08:17:19
leaver her,is she come back u got 2 choises
1)be manly and piss her.
2)be EVEN more manly and accept what she did,forgive her,and give it a chance.
if she does not come back then u got one choise
1)be manly and piss her.
1)be manly and piss her.
2)be EVEN more manly and accept what she did,forgive her,and give it a chance.
if she does not come back then u got one choise
1)be manly and piss her.
2012-08-01 23:25:50
A moment of silence for our brother in friendzone :(
2012-08-01 23:38:04
1st- just because she's hot doens't meen that youre in love with her
2nd- youre friendzoned as shit
3rd- there's only one way out ,make her dump her boyfriend and try
to get close to her
4th- if the 3rd doesn't work as her out on a date ( cinema , or even
better bowling ) and see how it goes ;)
please post a thread to tell us what you did and the result of that :D
P.S. sorrie for my bad english
2nd- youre friendzoned as shit
3rd- there's only one way out ,make her dump her boyfriend and try
to get close to her
4th- if the 3rd doesn't work as her out on a date ( cinema , or even
better bowling ) and see how it goes ;)
please post a thread to tell us what you did and the result of that :D
P.S. sorrie for my bad english
2012-08-01 23:49:51
if you havin' girl problems I feel bad for ya' son
I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one
I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one
2012-08-02 00:31:36
Just another case of a fucking friendzoned guy who fall in love for a bitch
I guess you're shy, don't have selfesteem, don't have CONFIDENCE and is a 'nice guy' (girls like that)
dude, you should leave to be shy, get selfesteem and confidence, then the things will happen naturally, you'll just act like a man (I mean, kiss, huges, touches etc.)
Wanna be her boyfriend ? then acts like one, not just a fucking 'best-friend'
But please, don't tell her your feelings now, only when you feel that's the right hour!
anyway, be careful :)
Post edited 2012-08-02 01:02:34
I guess you're shy, don't have selfesteem, don't have CONFIDENCE and is a 'nice guy' (girls like that)
dude, you should leave to be shy, get selfesteem and confidence, then the things will happen naturally, you'll just act like a man (I mean, kiss, huges, touches etc.)
Wanna be her boyfriend ? then acts like one, not just a fucking 'best-friend'
But please, don't tell her your feelings now, only when you feel that's the right hour!
anyway, be careful :)
Post edited 2012-08-02 01:02:34
2012-08-02 01:01:08
good words:)
2012-08-02 08:54:42
thanks :)
I say that cuz it already happened with me, some months ago... I spent days and days suffering, even crying sometimes. Then I realized that should take some attitude; One day, she called me to play hoony at school, initially i said 'not, thats wrong and blablabla' but I realized what she was wanting and we went to an park... I was shy at the beginning but along path the timidity became in confidence and I did everything what must be done... so after some hours I finally kissed her :) It wasn't perfect but I know I did the right ;)
suffer doesn't worth it...
I say that cuz it already happened with me, some months ago... I spent days and days suffering, even crying sometimes. Then I realized that should take some attitude; One day, she called me to play hoony at school, initially i said 'not, thats wrong and blablabla' but I realized what she was wanting and we went to an park... I was shy at the beginning but along path the timidity became in confidence and I did everything what must be done... so after some hours I finally kissed her :) It wasn't perfect but I know I did the right ;)
suffer doesn't worth it...
2012-08-03 01:21:48
Im not shy just so you know ;) One random girl was going to kiss me on my kin, but I turned my head so she kissed my lips. I can almost touch her everywhere I want.
2012-08-04 07:09:33
"if u are having girl problems i feel bad for u son i got 99 problems but the bitch ain't one."
After every relationship u will be more experienced and u will know when is the right time for the right stuff/words etc... U will never know everything about some person until u start living with her then u will know her from head to toe and what is going threw her mind in every second (personal experience). After few good and bad relationship u will know how to play a game with girls called "show less attention to a girl and she will want you more".
Your problem is that u are acting like a w00s, and girls do not like man without balls. Show some determination, confidence, stability and reliability and think about some shit to say then kiss her the right moment could be after the fight with her X or when she is sad about her X, don't say u love her that's the stupidest thing to do she will pull you more into friend zone... Girls like to have reserve guys who would do anything for them at any given time, they also like to be desirable. Not all girls but most of them. And few more things, being rejected is nothing bad, u pick yourself up and move on, there are a lot of girls around and u will like most of them physically. And for good sake don't be so emotional and bounded to this girl, if u get rejected or u try this relationship and see it is not working and then split it will hurt you more.
for the end
http://youtu.be/i8kpYm-6nuE
Post edited 2012-08-02 01:18:43
After every relationship u will be more experienced and u will know when is the right time for the right stuff/words etc... U will never know everything about some person until u start living with her then u will know her from head to toe and what is going threw her mind in every second (personal experience). After few good and bad relationship u will know how to play a game with girls called "show less attention to a girl and she will want you more".
Your problem is that u are acting like a w00s, and girls do not like man without balls. Show some determination, confidence, stability and reliability and think about some shit to say then kiss her the right moment could be after the fight with her X or when she is sad about her X, don't say u love her that's the stupidest thing to do she will pull you more into friend zone... Girls like to have reserve guys who would do anything for them at any given time, they also like to be desirable. Not all girls but most of them. And few more things, being rejected is nothing bad, u pick yourself up and move on, there are a lot of girls around and u will like most of them physically. And for good sake don't be so emotional and bounded to this girl, if u get rejected or u try this relationship and see it is not working and then split it will hurt you more.
for the end
http://youtu.be/i8kpYm-6nuE
Post edited 2012-08-02 01:18:43
2012-08-02 01:11:11
I didnt really bothered to read your whole comment because I said it as a joke because of one of Jay-Z's song.
that's not really what I think or how I feel just wanted to be kinda funny.
as for the vid you sent, I did watch it and I do agree from personal experience.
friendship with girls never lasts.
that's not really what I think or how I feel just wanted to be kinda funny.
as for the vid you sent, I did watch it and I do agree from personal experience.
friendship with girls never lasts.
2012-08-02 01:31:11
You sound like you have tryed this before.
I' trying to be everything you said, but I'm just to addicted to her. Any solutions ?
I' trying to be everything you said, but I'm just to addicted to her. Any solutions ?
2012-08-04 07:13:28
Addicted? It happens when your balls are full of semen. Masturbate the shit out of you and your head will think clearly.
2012-08-04 16:03:05
1st - I think the girl is just messing around with everyone, girls do that, they just like to keep their options open, like she don't want to get serious with any of u guys, she just keep you close, so you think u have a chance, but she knows what she's doing.
2nd - if u like her and want here and etc. just come clean and say what you feel, because speaking from the heart is not the same as just telling her that u have feelings for her. I would say go all in and risk, because if u don't u will regret it for your whole life and think how it could go if I said something. If it's meant to be she will answer to your feelings with the same, if not - move on...life is to short for this crap. DO OR DIE! :D gl man!
2nd - if u like her and want here and etc. just come clean and say what you feel, because speaking from the heart is not the same as just telling her that u have feelings for her. I would say go all in and risk, because if u don't u will regret it for your whole life and think how it could go if I said something. If it's meant to be she will answer to your feelings with the same, if not - move on...life is to short for this crap. DO OR DIE! :D gl man!
2012-08-02 10:31:35
I have gone all in before with her, but she said '' no this is what I want to hold on to..''
2012-08-04 07:15:01
Start to treat her like a shit and say get the fuck out of me or smth and she will be yours)
2012-08-02 10:38:43
guys who treat girls like a shit cannot be considered men
2012-08-03 00:37:18
+1
2012-08-04 07:15:19
FRIENDZONE ALARM
2012-08-02 11:15:29
Consider locking her to basement for few years.Become Dungeon Master.
2012-08-02 11:15:56
Pic of the girl ?
2012-08-04 07:09:57
http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/37/katrinayt...
2012-08-04 07:16:29
Russian girls better :DDD
2012-08-04 07:29:28
Russian/ukrainian/hungarian/czech girls are the best
2012-08-04 07:37:03
and Belarussian :)
2012-08-04 08:35:45
I never saw a single belarussian girl, so I cant tell
2012-08-04 09:15:06
bullshit.. every country have beautiful girls, polish girls are awesome too, when I leave home and goes through the street I see a lot of nice chicks
2012-08-04 11:37:03
Czech mmm.. some hotties indeed. But have you ever seen Lithuanians :)
2012-08-04 14:45:03
If she really likes you, I see no reason why she wants to go back to her ex or anybody else. And if YOU really LIKE her, You should get her back if she is willing to..
2012-08-04 08:08:50
That is what I'm trying, but her X is just always there.
2012-08-04 16:31:36
This hangover is extremely powerful. Aspirin really isn't doing much and neither are the two packs of Korean noodles I had last night. I think I need spicy food.
2012-08-04 09:39:49
forget that bitch ant use onli for sex bj and funs made a BIG SLUT for self mate find next normal girl !
2012-08-04 10:00:45
:D don't understand a single shit you're saying here
2012-08-04 14:45:41
I wonder how old are you . imo,she is gone.
2012-08-04 11:13:18
I'm 18:) I don't think so, there has been a summerfestival here for 3 days now, and she has been with me instead of him. But yea as I said, they try to built up their trust couse she dosen't trust him.
2012-08-05 18:58:21
http://i0.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/1..
2012-08-04 15:22:58
\__/ the care box is empty :\
2012-08-04 16:33:37
Just play DM and you have a girl ;]
2012-08-04 15:54:11
dude this girl seems to be emotionally unstable xD
2012-08-04 16:08:10
I know :O But I hope I can fix it somehow:D
2012-08-04 16:34:00
Dud, i went to a similiar story, i tought tath she loved me like i loved her, we spend a lot of time together, mensages until 2 a.m in school time, in the computer always talking, she said i was the 'special one' for her, then her x-boy startes talking to her again, she told me that she had feelings for him, i and said what i fell, now she is with her x-boyfriend and we are not even friends, yes life sucks
2012-08-04 16:38:06
same story was here
2012-12-29 09:35:31
Wait for another 2-3 months, all the feelings will go away! :D
Happened to me also. I just didn't tell her and after few months, the feelings had gone away! :D
And I was happy forever! :D
Happened to me also. I just didn't tell her and after few months, the feelings had gone away! :D
And I was happy forever! :D
2012-08-04 17:33:28
We're on the same train my friend..
2012-08-04 21:09:57
:D that hurts bad
2012-08-04 21:14:33
Welcome to my world :D
2012-08-05 18:49:51
nah buddy, welcome to my world.. :D well my situation is way more depressing tho.. im kinda friendzoned and notfriendzoned.
Post edited 2012-08-05 18:56:43
Post edited 2012-08-05 18:56:43
2012-08-05 18:56:24
Tell me about it, I've got all day;)
2012-08-05 19:02:47
not in the forum buddy.. :D
2012-08-05 19:07:23
Then PM me ;)
2012-08-06 02:32:15
Ahh you already have :D
2012-08-06 02:33:48
Dude i know what you are going through. It gets worse the more you hang around with her. You only have one option. Grow a set of balls and kiss her (brush your teeth first). If she kisses you back let it flow... Slide your arm to her boob etc.....
But if shes like wtf. Then you need to forget about her and delete and ignore her from facebook etc. I also suggest starting boxing or judo to get your testosterone up so its easier not to be emo and feel good and move on with it.
But if shes like wtf. Then you need to forget about her and delete and ignore her from facebook etc. I also suggest starting boxing or judo to get your testosterone up so its easier not to be emo and feel good and move on with it.
2012-08-04 21:35:03
When I'm with her I'd feel really happy and everything is perfect becouse we are so good together, but when I'm not with her, I just miss her so.
I'm 18 years old and I've been boxing for 11 years now ;)
I'm 18 years old and I've been boxing for 11 years now ;)
2012-08-05 18:46:51
Wait and be there with her, contain yourself while you can, make it pretty obvious that you want her but not that much, if she gets it and has feelings for you she will come to you, else you just gotta wait til shes over with that guy and try to make your move, its a win/win situation if she loves you. (:
2012-08-04 22:19:23
I'm trying to do that, but sometimes I think I've made to obvious xD
2012-08-05 18:48:59
Haha, well if you cant contain you gotta make your move now, the other way is just safer, haha, anyway let me know how you did! (:
2012-08-05 22:36:51
I'm not planning on kissing her or telling her about my feelings, im just trying to be there all the time, and be as nice as I can to her, and then make the move when she is ready ;)
2012-08-06 02:31:31
Very difficult situation. Go somewhere with 3-4 friends for 4-5 days and try have a good time, let her calls you:) Btw, love is a very hard thing.
2012-08-06 02:47:20
m.o.v.e o.n, been there & done that, she's insecure and she will hop on every dick that's gonna come at her, take my advice i know it's not easy, your soul is gonna feel empty but it's best for you, you might tend to text her or call her when you're drunk (if you drink), but that's normal. Love makes you weak and shit, but you must not zone out yourself, always remember that, good luck mate
2012-08-06 03:03:37
Well I know for sure, she wont hop on every dick xD Yea I've clear my mind, she has been the person that has made me feel amazing and she is also the person who has hurt me the most. And I will now try to be there less for her, but not ignoring her anyway.
2012-08-06 03:24:00
Or is that a bad thing?
2012-08-06 03:25:35
it's your call after all, but if it were up to me I wouldn't waste my time on false hopes and pray that she'd like me. Girls that age are not fully mature and i really mean it, she may look like an angel to you, but deep down inside she's a devil. I just fucked up a relationship today, some bitch told this chick i've been having an affair with that i slept with an another lady and not a single fuck i showed her. I'd rather focus on things that would keep me busy and take my mind off of her (work, education, another girl, etc.)
2012-08-06 06:07:43
we're still young, don't limit your options yet, go out, party, study, work, enjoy life.
2012-08-06 06:08:56
When I said about experience I meant it. She wont ever be together with you if you just act like her nice friend. Trust me.
When i had this same crap going on YEARS AGO when I was your age she was saying she doesnt wanna date anybody just be friends "because she is going to university elsewhere" well 3 months passed and she apparently is dating someone else in the same neighborhood, and I heard that from my friend not from her. And she(my friend) was correct.
She is just rebounding on you, and if she does hang around with her EX-BOYFRIEND it's super bad for you.
She is just playing with you, Im sorry to say. You need to go out more, to clubs or youth places where your age ladies hang around to meet new people.
When i had this same crap going on YEARS AGO when I was your age she was saying she doesnt wanna date anybody just be friends "because she is going to university elsewhere" well 3 months passed and she apparently is dating someone else in the same neighborhood, and I heard that from my friend not from her. And she(my friend) was correct.
She is just rebounding on you, and if she does hang around with her EX-BOYFRIEND it's super bad for you.
She is just playing with you, Im sorry to say. You need to go out more, to clubs or youth places where your age ladies hang around to meet new people.
2012-08-09 14:03:34
How about you kill her x bf?
2012-08-09 14:54:45
just be the gay
2012-12-29 09:55:42
Leave her alone,dont message her again.
Or if u have the balls stay as friend with her.
Post edited 2013-01-12 00:33:04
Or if u have the balls stay as friend with her.
Post edited 2013-01-12 00:33:04
2013-01-12 00:32:47
omg please delete this thread.
2013-01-12 01:36:17
Thats a whore who hang of with a dozen of guys, sorry so say that, I cant count how many people in your story, yet it's an awesome complexity. I would leave this fucking girl aside, she would turn traitor every moment, who cares her fucking problems because she made that all. Your loving illusion sounds like she is innocent. No, she isn't because she is not that faithful to anyone, she starts relationships so easily: u, Mr. X, Mr. newly bf, who knows who else she's got at her back and soon you all surprised when she shows her Mr. Y who's also been around for 4 years with her. Ha ha ha..., fucking tramp.
2013-01-12 02:19:40
Go all in! Tell her everything, than be a boss and fuck off for a while. She will go after you. If not, than it's not worth it. No bitch can ever fuck with your feelings.
So yeah. MAN THE FUCK UP!
So yeah. MAN THE FUCK UP!
2013-01-12 03:33:38
She maybe want something with you, but not now (before), you take so long and now you are a boy without penis for her, she could think your gay, you dont want her or your stupid, whatever is bad :( sorry man
2013-01-12 04:08:19
Watch out dude, it is a girl and girls dont know what they want. If u get her one nice day she will crush your heart.
Important thing before fall in love is using brain. So find a girl by using brain then fall in love with her. Thats the only way.
Or fuck every girl u like.
Post edited 2013-01-12 04:44:00
Important thing before fall in love is using brain. So find a girl by using brain then fall in love with her. Thats the only way.
Or fuck every girl u like.
Post edited 2013-01-12 04:44:00
2013-01-12 04:40:08
jackass or romantic boy,
girls always will return to the jackass. remember
girls always will return to the jackass. remember
2013-01-12 05:32:59
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