I just thought it was funny, given the situation.
Ofcourse I can not judge, not him, nor his situation, nor his family.
I simply don't know him enough, and even if I did, who am I to pass a judgment on somebody?
I merely commented on his "funny" choice if nickname, providing the current situation.
Sex sometimes is "ramming", nothing wrong with that :P
Some like it gentle, some like it rough, some like both. Each to their own