OK, let's start.
1. Propaganda is when TV/internet/newspapers/politicians trying to turn you against something/someone. And you can't deny the fact that propaganda against each other in both Ukraine and Russia is presented.
2. About your facts with Crimea, Donbass, Lugansk etc. Yes, I believe that they annexed (or trying to annex it), BUT you forgot the main thing here. Soldiers just do what their commander told them to do. So I don't blame them here too much. But I agree with you about some brainwashed people who ate all propaganda against Ukraine and celebrating the annexion, it's ridiculous! I also blame some Russians cuz they could easily go on big meetings and try to stop this war. They tried it for sure, but not too much people sadly...
So with all these facts I still have a question, is this hate against each other could lead us to something good? Or it could lead us to a non-stop war with many deaths and tragedies?
3. The fact we accepted people from Donbass and Lugansk doesn't mean we are not affected by daily propaganda. it only means we are still humans who accept people who agreed with our concepts.
4. "banderi I zapadentsi*"
Well, there was always a big cultural difference between Western and Eastern Ukraine and it is, in my opinion, the biggest problem of our nation. people on each side think they are better than on the other side. And also think they are right and the others are not right.
So I can easily say that Western people like to call Russian-speaking "moskali I kotsapi". It is also truth and you must know it as well,.. :)
So I say again, HATRED BREEDS HATRED. Remember that... And try to change something in your mind at least to turn this situation to better.