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I fix your life
pronax | 
Czech Republic suri_katka 
Tell me whats troubling you and ill give you advice
2018-03-13 19:38
sad alone, fix pls
2018-03-13 19:38
find a hobby where you will meet other people and try to make some friends
2018-03-13 19:41
but am also fat
2018-03-13 19:43
do some sport
2018-03-13 19:50
i do not own sport clothes :(
2018-03-13 19:52
Buy some
2018-03-13 19:53
no job
2018-03-13 19:57
#41
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Canada TorontoSucks 
beg for money / get job
2018-03-13 20:02
i get rejected from jobs but i try
2018-03-13 20:08
#43
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Canada TorontoSucks 
suck dick for money then worked for my uncle
2018-03-13 20:08
i only do that for love
2018-03-13 20:09
#47
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Canada TorontoSucks 
then rob a bank lmao
2018-03-13 20:10
Only did do that for love lmao
2018-03-13 20:34
#79
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Canada TorontoSucks 
he should rob a bank
2018-03-13 20:36
sucking dick is all about love, why do you laugh
2018-03-13 20:55
#250
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Europe porrasm 
Suicide is alway the answer
2018-03-14 01:54
next year, man
2018-03-14 02:03
#285
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Afghanistan crywolf1337 
why not this year ? (just wanna know)
2018-03-14 15:19
people need me this year for stuff they wont next year
2018-03-14 16:38
#388
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Spain Pollete 
Sad for you, is Azerbaijan a bad country? What language do you speak? Is good living there? I'm curious
2018-03-14 23:02
you can probably find some job on the internet if you search good enough, maybe not best salary but it's something, and you work from your computer
2018-03-14 20:05
#394
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China cescy 
like what?
2018-03-15 05:45
google "online jobs" and start digging. I haven't tried though because I already have a job but it should be possible, gl. maybe depends on which country you live in idk
2018-03-15 20:31
#91
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Switzerland veach 
thats not an excuse go do some sport
2018-03-13 20:45
how am i gonna do that in jeans, swiss cheese
2018-03-13 20:50
#97
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Switzerland veach 
you have ONLY jeans? idk man start by doing pushups in underwear or something
2018-03-13 20:52
ye, or smart trousers what about my titty
2018-03-13 20:52
#100
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Switzerland veach 
whats with your titty?
2018-03-13 20:53
i dont want them to sag
2018-03-13 20:53
#102
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Switzerland veach 
wait when you're in a pushup position your titty touches the ground?
2018-03-13 20:54
idk im in a chair rn
2018-03-13 20:54
#106
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Switzerland veach 
if you dont know that means you never tried doing pushups do them asap, start with 3 then 5 you can do squats too
2018-03-13 20:55
what if i cant even do 1 pushup
2018-03-13 20:56
#112
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Switzerland veach 
wtf then try doing the plank for 15 seconds, then 30 once you hit 30 you should be able to do 1 pushup you can try also to not go down too much at first
2018-03-13 20:58
#125
NAF | 
Slovakia t4gg3d 
b a i t e d
2018-03-13 21:09
#260
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Brazil h8er^_^ 
Do it with your knees on the floor, just like a baby girl
2018-03-14 03:43
That answer kill me xDDD.
2018-03-14 22:07
I'm bad socially and my computer is broken
2018-03-13 19:39
my best advice would be not to dwell on things you say so much, also by having social interactions more frequently youll get better at it
2018-03-13 19:43
harder case then VP
2018-03-13 21:03
#3
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Brazil MommyStealer 
Nothing to do, videocard died :(
2018-03-13 19:40
#15
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Brazil xMoita 
LOL +1 ;-;
2018-03-13 19:47
you can always try to pick up a new hobby or interest
2018-03-13 20:18
I am - depressed - a masochist - sadistic - suicidal thoughts now and then - introvert - just want to be shut in my room with my pc and never get out, i.e become a neet
2018-03-13 19:41
#7
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United States Hacker_Trash 
same
2018-03-13 19:42
Birds of a feather flock together, unfortunately we are rivals considering our teams gl supporting cloud9 thanks
2018-03-13 19:43
#12
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United States Hacker_Trash 
gl to faze, whenever C9 and Faze play each other, you always know ur in for a fun match
2018-03-13 19:44
yes, it always delivers gl supporting c9 thanks
2018-03-13 19:50
I was like that too, but what helped me was doing activities outside of school and university ( like football) and meeting new people to hang out with, because a lot of those problems (like depression) come from just staying in your room with no social interaction
2018-03-13 19:48
i play football too (outside i mean) I have frends too but i am always left out in conversations so I feel idle gl supporting pronax thanks
2018-03-13 19:50
if you feel like you get left out of conversations then i suggest you try to find some friends that actually care about you ( i had the same friends issue and i ditched them and found new ones and i honestly dont regret it at all)
2018-03-13 20:11
wtffffffff same i got 2 yb in my clg cause of .................................................................
2018-03-13 21:14
#215
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Syria uRaguuu 
i can smell a weeb
2018-03-13 23:01
if ur a masochist, make very hot coffee then drink it all at once for a good feeling
2018-03-13 23:58
Well I need to work but I just open Pyhsics book and close it after 10 minutes
2018-03-13 19:42
#13
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Turkey thyker 
m2
2018-03-13 19:44
try to set small goals like reading a page and then give yourself a reward( few minutes on the internet or whatever) and increase the goal each time
2018-03-13 19:44
#338
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Switzerland Evhron 
i don't even open it
2018-03-14 19:48
living in germany 3 years and can't talk fluently so i don't have a lot of friends and girls near me i'm 16
2018-03-13 19:47
if you can speak english decently and speak a bit of german too, you should have no problem speaking to younger people, maybe open up the conversation with a couple german sentences (so they get more comfortable) and then switch to english
2018-03-13 19:53
i feel like i can talk to older people 18+ they understand me but these 16 yo kids.... it's not like i'm getting bullied or smth like my problem is that i can't talk fluently on german and sometimes people hear my accent and it's hard to talk, i'm trying to learn german at home very hard but seems like my accent will stay with me forever.... what should i do :(
2018-03-13 19:57
in the end most kids are assholes, so you shouldnt dwell on their opinion and what not too much and just focus on getting better at german, and honestly the accent is a problem for most people speaking foreign language, but the more you talk the better it gets and listening to native speakers and sort of copying them also helps
2018-03-13 20:15
#164
bottle | 
Asia Ace_Y 
as he already said, it will get better when you speak with native speakers more often, but I don't even think people will treat you different just because of the accent or some mistakes
2018-03-13 22:16
#17
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Sweden naturen 
violent immigrant gangs
2018-03-13 19:48
this is more of a problem of the whole system, but if you want to try and change things either write an open letter to a politician or potentially even a demonstration( but you need to assemble a decent amount of people for that through social media and what not)
2018-03-13 19:56
#36
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Sweden naturen 
I will probably be prosecuted for hate speech then, atleast 2 years in prison :D
2018-03-13 19:57
im sure if its a well written letter that is polite and doesnt insult but rather focuses on the topic at hand you wont get prosecuted
2018-03-13 20:17
#62
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United States PapaObama 
lmao
2018-03-13 20:28
So its ok about swedish gangs?
2018-03-13 21:08
#217
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Syria uRaguuu 
change religion to islam
2018-03-13 23:02
I'm sex addicted introvert
2018-03-13 19:52
try to go to a bar with close friends and eventually talk to other people and you will get more comfortable talking to strangers each time atleast a little bit
2018-03-13 20:00
#32
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Germany EDWR 
I love one black girl, but my parents doesn't allow me to to date her.
2018-03-13 19:55
bro its your life, date whoever you want
2018-03-13 19:58
#151
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Germany EDWR 
But my parents they don't give me permission to date her and if I marry her they will treat me as no son anymore.
2018-03-13 21:53
you dont need their permission. you like her and if they are good parents, they will accept that and stop being ignorant. if not, they arent good people
2018-03-13 22:36
#247
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Germany EDWR 
But they are my parents. It cant be just like that. They raised me and shit. I love her so much... Idk what to do. If I date any black girl they kick me out of their house.
2018-03-14 01:49
Just because they fucked and made you doesnt mean they are perfect or good people. you are an adult so have to do what you want and what is best for you.
2018-03-14 02:04
#254
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Germany EDWR 
Thanks for advice.
2018-03-14 02:36
if you can, save up money so you can move out if you need to. if you cant be yourself, then you should leave anyways
2018-03-14 02:50
#319
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Germany EDWR 
You will have no contact to your parents anymore, is that okay? They will say to you like "you are not my son anymore, you are a shame to our family" Its a big sacrifice to leave your "comfortable zone" and to know your parents are kinda racist..
2018-03-14 17:56
If they care more about race of your girlfriend than about you, then it is a sacrifice you have to make. they cant control that sort of thing in your life. you wont be happy if you cant be yourself.
2018-03-15 17:21
#292
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Russia Gresskaret 
They don't respect you, why should you respect them?
2018-03-14 15:28
#318
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Germany EDWR 
You will have no contact to your parents anymore, is that okay? They will say to you like "you are not my son anymore, you are a shame to our family" Its a big sacrifice to leave your "comfortable zone" and to know your parents are kinda racist..
2018-03-14 17:56
#395
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Russia Gresskaret 
Guess it's not okay. But you got only 2 options. Be happy or have an opportunity to meet your parents occasionally. And it's not even about the girl, she may leave you, it's about following your desires and not regretting in the future. I'm kind of in the same situation. My parents don't respect my choices and don't give much freedom. I learned from a motivational speaker that if you want to live the life of your parents and not yours, then you should listen to them. I am personally really scared if that happens.
2018-03-15 06:00
If they cant accept who you are tell them to fuck off lmao, your parents sound like troglodytes jesus
2018-03-13 23:08
#246
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Germany EDWR 
But they are my parents. It cant be just like that. They raised me and shit. I love her so much... Idk what to do. If I date any black girl they kick me out of their house.
2018-03-14 01:49
if you really love someone then no one should stop you from asking them out and hanging out with them
2018-03-13 20:01
#152
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Germany EDWR 
But my parents they don't give me permission to date her and if I marry her they will treat me as no son anymore.
2018-03-13 21:53
most parents eventually after some time accept the relationship, but if that is not your case then unfortunately you will have to make a choice, either parents or her
2018-03-13 22:03
#181
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Germany EDWR 
Which you would pick?
2018-03-13 22:25
Always pick the people you love, I went trough similar stuff and trying to be ok with your family will always make you feel miserable in the end. You won't regret being with the girl you love whatever your family thinks about it, and if you have to leave then leave. You can't live with your parents forever anyway
2018-03-14 03:30
it would be hard but in the end i would probably have to go with the person im in love with
2018-03-14 15:35
#317
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Germany EDWR 
You will have no contact to your parents anymore, is that okay? They will say to you like "you are not my son anymore, you are a shame to our family" Its a big sacrifice to leave your "comfortable zone" and to know your parents are kinda racist..
2018-03-14 17:56
well ofcourse its a tough decision , but if you are forced to decide, then decide you must and there is no good or bad option here, rather two bad decisions that are both bad for different reasons
2018-03-14 18:55
Expected from a nazi parents
2018-03-13 21:08
#178
bottle | 
Asia Ace_Y 
expected from Muslim terrorist
2018-03-13 22:18
Expected what? Learn to write pls retard
2018-03-13 22:40
#202
bottle | 
Asia Ace_Y 
I just wanted to continue your prejudices Please don't get angry and blow yourself up
2018-03-13 22:50
I will try bro
2018-03-13 22:51
#261
bottle | 
Asia Ace_Y 
thanks, I know how hard that must be for you
2018-03-14 08:04
hahaha
2018-03-13 22:36
#248
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Germany EDWR 
But they are my parents. It cant be just like that. They raised me and shit. I love her so much... Idk what to do. If I date any black girl they kick me out of their house.
2018-03-14 01:49
That's why you shouldn't support racism. Very good example for racist kids oh hltv. Cuz life has karma. You can try explain ur feelings about love to your parents or just grow up and leave them
2018-03-14 08:35
#271
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Germany EDWR 
What you would do in my position?
2018-03-14 13:48
i would find a job after college and marry with girl. parents will accept it with time
2018-03-14 21:40
#386
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Germany EDWR 
I even starting to read this book: images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I..
2018-03-14 23:01
Gl
2018-03-15 08:24
I dont know what should to do innych future
2018-03-13 19:56
just search for jobs that sound interesting or fun to you and try to apply for them, but dont be afraid to try a different job, if you feel like its not for you, because i know a couple people who found a job they truly enjoy in their forties
2018-03-14 18:59
Everything
2018-03-13 20:10
im sure there are some things in life you enjoy and you should strive to be able to spend as much time doing these things that you love
2018-03-13 20:30
Yes I a sure that there are a lot of things wrong in my life and there are good things too. For example some friends and cs those make me happy But dating sishard on me right now meeting new people is also hard how do I fix?
2018-03-15 22:33
#51
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Malaysia byaIi 
mortal
2018-03-13 20:16
like mortality?
2018-03-13 20:22
#58
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Malaysia byaIi 
yes i want immortal
2018-03-13 20:23
well science unfortunately hasn't progressed that far yet so i cant help you with that, but i personally think immortality a more of a curse than a gift
2018-03-13 20:29
#67
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Malaysia byaIi 
ty for answer but i think for me is a gift
2018-03-13 20:31
people have different views and i respect that may you one day achieve what you strive for
2018-03-13 20:40
i want to end playing games but i cant stop, i just dont see a life without playing 5-6hours a day at the minimum
2018-03-13 20:21
yeah i have the same problem
2018-03-13 20:22
bruh i get nothing from playing like a fucking nerd, im loosing contacts with friends i know since i wasnt even going to school, im loosing my health and im toxic to my family which hits me the most i want to fucking end all this shit
2018-03-13 20:24
dude my parents are arabs they only want me to have best grades even if i cant but my sister can do whatever they want. At my school 80 % started drinkin and smoking weed. I got lucky that i found some who are nerds like me
2018-03-13 20:32
im acting like nerd but im not fucking weird shit lol
2018-03-13 20:33
if you want to stop playing completely than finding a new hobby that you will be completely into is the way, but it seems you enjoy playing games, so i would suggest either setting a timer for playing games and make sure someone checks up on you , so you dont cheat or play games as a reward after you studied or did some work
2018-03-13 20:27
nah its not the problem, i'd rather say the problem is that if i had to pick meeting with my best bros and do some shit outside sit and play games for 10 hours i'd pick games fml
2018-03-13 20:29
the games are often more tempting , because of how easy it is to do it, but my advice is: the memories you make by spending even 2 hours with your friends are far more valuable then hundred of hours in games and you will especially cherish them more the older you get
2018-03-13 20:34
ur probably right ty for changing my life
2018-03-13 20:35
np, if need any help you can ask me anytime
2018-03-13 20:41
#65
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Sweden naturen 
minimum 5-6 hours a day? you need to chill lol
2018-03-13 20:29
im addicted its not that easy
2018-03-13 20:31
i wasnt like this lets say 1year ago
2018-03-13 20:31
maybe im just retarded and i should kms
2018-03-13 20:31
Gaming addiction, lol, I had the same problem just a short while ago... I stopped playing games late in august because I simply found a better thing to do. I would literally have more than 250 hours per 2 weeks sometimes. The thing I found was S O C I E T Y I started going out with people I already knew, got new friends and life became way better. I also have less stress and depression stopped being a problem (it’s 100% related, I just don't know how to prove it scientifically xd) I actually advice you to do the same as I did. The only thing you need is the right company, which could be a bitch to find, sometimes. But you should at least try.
2018-03-13 20:37
idk for me going out in winter/autumn is hard af spring/summer is a bit easier
2018-03-13 20:42
What’s hard about getting high as shit on a party during winter?xd
2018-03-13 21:31
ugh i cant take drugs/smoke ciggaretts or drink alcohol, i have medical contraindicates
2018-03-13 21:47
i mean i just hate winter in sweden
2018-03-13 21:47
i also suffer from seasonal affective disorder and i live in a place that rains for 6+ months a year. doing light therapy, taking vitamin d, working out, and spending time outside on sunny days are pretty good ways to lessen the depression that comes from living in a place with very little sunlight for most of the year, however the most effective treatment is to move somewhere that's sunny year round (when your schooling is over). at the very least, you should see a therapist. antidepressants are worse for you than sun, but they're better than 10hr of videogames a day.
2018-03-14 22:00
Come on, man, anyone can smoke weed and be just fine...
2018-03-13 21:52
Move to turkey. Shit internet so when your brother is watching videos from youtube, you can't even play games because your ping goes up like 500000 lol. I stopped playing games thanks to this internet lol
2018-03-14 20:11
I wish I could play for 5 hours a day. I've got really picky in games and I don't enjoy them as I used to and also I'm broke so I cannot afford them. I used to play video games for 5 or more hours a day but now I'm just sitting 8 to 10 hours browsing sites and doing nothing. Total stagnation.
2018-03-14 20:18
Can't find a job for a long time....
2018-03-13 20:28
do you mind asking what field you are searching for a job in?
2018-03-13 20:31
Im trying to get any job
2018-03-13 20:32
well it can be hard and demotivating searching and not getting any job for a long time, but the best thing you can do is keep your head down and continue searching , because you will eventually get one
2018-03-13 20:36
It's not that easy when your family is blaming you for not getting a job because you "don't try enough". Like, they want to keep them calling 3 times a day and asking if they will get me even if it would be annoying as fuck imo.... they blame me even for not having a motherfucking facebook like it would change shit This is so fucking pathetic.
2018-03-13 20:49
im sorry your family isnt really supportive, but the only other possible way to help you to get a job would be some additional education, with the help of the goverment, but im not sure if thats an option in your country
2018-03-13 20:54
Guess additional education is a good option since i have shitton of free time anyways...
2018-03-13 21:25
Do it, there is always some cheap classes online or even free. Or maybe try something where you can learn an office like being an electrician, PC repairs or anything like that where you can be your own boss
2018-03-14 03:39
I live in Ukraine
2018-03-13 20:32
ukraine is not a bad country by any means, but if you really dot like it there, then moving a different country is probably your only option
2018-03-13 20:37
It was kind of a stereotypical joke, a-la “UKRAINE IS A SHITHOLE” I actually like my country a lot.
2018-03-13 20:38
that is nice, a lot of people honestly bitch about their countries even though they are fine to live in most of the time
2018-03-13 20:42
Addicted to gambling, Feel lonely although I got a family that loves me and a few good friends, Feel like something is missed in my life and I cant figure what... so hard to live like that... Help me please
2018-03-13 20:39
honestly about the gambling problem you should approach your friends or family to help, because they are people who can actually stop you unlike me, who can only tell you advice over the internet and about the missing thing in life i have somewhat of a similliar issue and i found that being open about trying new things and doing things defferently helps quite a bit, because when you do the same things all the time life becomes mundane and that invokes the feeling like something is missing
2018-03-13 20:50
I actually started recently living my life like that, I hope it will pay out soon. Could you add me on steam it would help me if I`d have someone to talk to. steamcommunity.com/profiles/765611982174..
2018-03-13 20:53
i dont spend a lot of time on steam nowadays ( only couple hours on weekends) cuz im studying med school, but sure i can add you when i get on my pc( probably friday)
2018-03-13 20:56
Thanks!
2018-03-13 20:57
np man
2018-03-13 22:04
I need 20k $ in a day.
2018-03-13 20:43
may i ask why?
2018-03-13 20:58
thats not answer to my problem
2018-03-13 21:06
well 20k is a big sum to get in day, only way i can think of is a bank or a loan shark, but i wouldnt recommend that
2018-03-13 21:56
I drink too much
2018-03-13 20:43
if its really serious then first get rid of all alcohol in your household if you can and make sure you only drink on special ocasions, or set yourself a limit of how much you can drink a day and make sure someone checks up on you to make sure youre not cheating
2018-03-13 21:03
"Tell me whats troubling you" People who want to fix my life.
2018-03-13 20:45
i only offer help to those who wish to hear what i have to say, i m not forcing anything down your throat
2018-03-13 20:58
Fair enough. It was not about you personally though, it was more thoughts aloud about other people in my life. :P
2018-03-13 23:37
yeah, i hate people that always say things like you should do this and that and you didnt even ask them for their advice or their opinion
2018-03-14 15:34
no gf:/
2018-03-13 20:46
just try to be more social and dont be afraid to ask girls out
2018-03-13 21:00
What if im very anti social, can't even make eye contact cuz most of the times I feel uncomfortable. Should I try to get over it?
2018-03-14 11:56
i think many socially awkward people think too much about where they should be looking, their body language etc. , so try to just not give a fuck about that stuff
2018-03-14 15:32
Im fat and im lazy cant get motivation to go to the gym/diet. Also I want to stop playing video games and interact with people more etc but it looks like im addicted to gaming. Also no gf because ugly(how do u fix ugly?). Overthinking is my worst problem :((
2018-03-13 20:59
well try to play games as a reward after you go to the gym or exercise to give yourself an insensitive to get fit and if youre atleast somewhat fit, then the key to getting a gf is confidence which matters a lot more than looks
2018-03-13 21:11
ty for advice
2018-03-14 17:22
#115
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Germany hazy_ 
Im a virgin
2018-03-13 21:00
go outside and just find new people and ask out girls,because you dont have anything to lose, you can only gain, also you should be confident when asking them out
2018-03-13 21:54
#116
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Slovakia BuKY 
there is a girl at school that i like, she likes me but she has a boyfriend 2,5 years now, he is 19 i'm 16 she is 16 too. What should i do? How to get her? I don't want to go to date with her, cuz she has a boyfriend..........................................
2018-03-13 21:01
well only thing i can think of is just trying to show her you have more in common with you than she has with her current bf and that you fot each other more
2018-03-14 15:29
Everytime I talk to someone new I get akward and cant control getting red
2018-03-13 21:03
try to not think a lot about what youre gonna say next and what the other person will say, and have almost a not giving a fuck attitude until you get more comfortable
2018-03-13 21:51
#306
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Russia Gresskaret 
You are either an introvert or scared to look foolish in people's eyes. I know that feeling, sometimes I even got severe tremor while talking to people I know well. What I do to prevent this is asking questions you usually only dare ask your friends, after that, I feel more comfortable because my consciousness understands that the person is friendly to you and you won't get in trouble by looking dumb. Also important to breathe deeply and stay calm
2018-03-14 16:04
So basically Me: so do you think traps are gay? Girl: wtf fuck off
2018-03-14 16:52
#392
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Russia Gresskaret 
If the theme of your conversation is homosexuality and you know she is open-minded, then yes, it might help. If a girl responds like this, why would to talk to such an arrogant cunt? :D This friendship/relationship won't go far
2018-03-15 05:34
Iam writing with a girl and i really like her. In school we often talk to each other and stay very close together. We are really good friends and we both want more. And i have no idea how to say it that I really wanna have a relationship with her. Its really hard for me but iam a really confident and chilled person.
2018-03-13 21:06
How much time u r friends
2018-03-13 21:36
Like 3/4 year ago we started to write each other. And we got really good friends at the end of spetember
2018-03-13 21:47
I am a friend with girl around 3 years is there still hope for me? I had gfs before but they not like her :(
2018-03-13 22:42
why wouldnt there be
2018-03-13 22:53
you just have to try and see for yourself
2018-03-13 22:53
honestly just go for it and invite her on a date, because you would for sure regret it a lot more if you atleast didnt try, despite the outcome
2018-03-13 21:49
Answer #189 pls
2018-03-13 22:44
#122
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Europe kennyBeast 
Constantly sad, cant get over depression. Want to find a girl but keep finding excuses why i shouldnt. Im pretty normal looking and good shape, but have no self esteem. What to do?
2018-03-13 21:06
for the depression i recommend spending more time outside either alone or with friends, family away from the internet and modern technologies and about finding a gf i would say that even though it brings some negatives ( less alone time, less time for friends for example) if you really like the girl then that will outweigh all the negatives, about self esteem i would say just go for it and try to not give a fuck about the outcome and you get more comfortable the more you do it
2018-03-13 21:23
I dont know where to go(university) . Which job will make me happy or give me easy life. I am between international relations and law faculty. Pls halp :(. Btw broke up with gf 5 months ago and cant find someone else
2018-03-13 21:11
thats a problem for a lot of people, but i would say dont sweat it too much, because a large percentage of people work in different fields then what they majored in so just get any degree and then look at what might be fun for you, about the gf you must not give up and continue trying
2018-03-13 21:26
Ty dude but not sure about different fields in our country its hard imo
2018-03-13 21:29
you can always travel to a different country if youre a bit adventurous but it isnt for everyone
2018-03-13 21:42
I hope my friend.
2018-03-13 22:45
gl to you and hopefully you achieve the things you want to achieve
2018-03-13 22:51
#132
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Europe H0wLinqDawN 
-Ugly -No gf -Hopeless
2018-03-13 21:26
getting a gf is a lot more about being confident(almost cocky) than looks
2018-03-13 21:47
#135
dFx | 
United States Malcolm_X 
I don't have a lot of problems. I have good grades, in my free time I read books and play video games with irl friends. Only problem I have is that I don't like playing Hockey anymore and I don't go to practice very often (usually once a week with a game in the weekends) PLZ HELP
2018-03-13 21:34
i played table tennis professionally but got burned out, because it was too emotionally and physically draining and i gave up on it and found a new sport that reignited my passion, so if you can i would recommend that
2018-03-13 21:46
#143
dFx | 
United States Malcolm_X 
I've played it for more than 12 years now and I used to be good in squirts. School got in the way and I lacked motivation. I'll prob quit next season when I go to university and then go to the gym.
2018-03-13 21:48
you get to these points in life where you have to make a choice on what you want to concentrate on and i would say in most cases its better to focus on education
2018-03-13 22:00
#158
dFx | 
United States Malcolm_X 
Yes
2018-03-13 22:01
#144
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Latvia zef7 
I`m : - Anti-Fat - lazy AF - Useless - Hobbyless - NO friends - NO life - RIP
2018-03-13 21:49
Kys
2018-03-13 21:50
im sure there is a hobby you would enjoy you just have to try them until you find the one, then you can find people who enjoy the same hobby and hangout with them, its all just about actually trying to change it, not just sitting and doing nothing about it
2018-03-13 22:09
#163
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Latvia zef7 
thats the thing, lazy as fuck
2018-03-13 22:12
well only you yourself can change this to be motivated to do it, nobody else can do that for you
2018-03-13 22:21
i wanna fuck one of my classmates right in the pussy, but she's not allowing me
2018-03-13 21:50
it's so gay
2018-03-13 21:52
she's hot dude
2018-03-13 21:53
she is a hot dude? wtf?? SO GAY
2018-03-13 21:54
he probably reffered to a girl but his english xD
2018-03-13 22:27
I forgot the "," xD
2018-03-14 00:40
yeah I know, just trolling ;)
2018-03-14 11:52
well try to find if you have something in common and talk with her about it and become closer to her, then eventually suggest to take things on a new level if she likes you
2018-03-13 22:12
but i'm cocky af, should I try to fake my personality?
2018-03-14 00:41
well you should maybe try to be a bit less cocky and tone it down, but definitely dont fake your personality, just know that some people are unfortunately not meant to be together
2018-03-14 15:27
btw u can rape her
2018-03-13 22:28
lol
2018-03-14 00:42
Offer her maté and then fuck g
2018-03-14 15:49
bored of gaming what should i do?
2018-03-13 22:22
find something else you will enjoy, even if it might take you some time
2018-03-13 22:43
want quick and ez money without working waiting for advices or donators
2018-03-13 22:30
thats pretty hard unless you plan on doing illegal stuff, so i dont think i can help you much with that problem
2018-03-13 22:48
#185
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Greece Poor_Noob 
my birthday ends in 30 minutes and only my family and relatives withsed me happy birthday
2018-03-13 22:32
happy birthday
2018-03-13 22:44
#197
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Greece Poor_Noob 
thanks stranger , have a good day
2018-03-13 22:48
you have to get out there , meet new people, make friends with people that you having something on common with , but i would say you shouldnt dwell on friends wishing you happy birthday that much at least imo
2018-03-13 22:47
oh and happy birthday
2018-03-13 22:47
#198
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Greece Poor_Noob 
thanks , i have some friends but they dont give i fuck i guess
2018-03-13 22:48
ill be honest i too sometimes forget birth dates of my friends, i guess i never found it that important, so maybe they re the same way as me
2018-03-13 22:49
#201
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Greece Poor_Noob 
i always call their birthdays though
2018-03-13 22:50
as i said, they might not see it as something important, but you can always confront them about it
2018-03-13 22:55
#190
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United States _z0ren 
ur mom gey
2018-03-13 22:43
problems with getting a gf
2018-03-13 22:52
just be confident when you ask them out, see what the girl is interested in order to make sure you have to topic that you can always fall back on and honestly just try and go for it, you have nothing to lose anyway
2018-03-13 23:00
thanks bruh
2018-03-13 23:01
sure no problem
2018-03-13 23:03
nope, don't give dating advice plz > confident > see what the girl is interested in pick one cuz u can't have both
2018-03-13 23:24
well knowing atleast something she likes or is interested in is good for starting a conversation or keep the conversation going if its getting sort of stale
2018-03-14 15:25
that is not how you learn to seduce women and sex them this is how you become her best friend trust me
2018-03-14 16:56
help
2018-03-13 22:53
#209
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Ukraine Laemi 
Can't concentrate on smth that i don't like to do, but need; when i ain't like smth, i always find an excuse not to do this, but if i could've made this, i could've got a profit.
2018-03-13 22:55
well it always helps setting smaller goals first to yourself and after you achieve them reward yourself with an episode of a show or just something you like, and eventually you slowly set bigger goals
2018-03-13 22:57
#212
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Ukraine Laemi 
i didn't want even to find motivation for doing smth "needed" but boring
2018-03-13 22:59
its always the hardest thing finding the motivation to actually start doing things, but it gets better each time you actually force yourself to do it and the motivation is something you have to find in you, its not something someone can give you
2018-03-13 23:03
#220
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Ukraine Laemi 
Thanks for good response.
2018-03-13 23:04
sure man
2018-03-13 23:07
its hard for me to gain mass and motivate myself to play cs
2018-03-13 23:00
unless you are pro player you shouldn't have to force yourself to play, so if you dont want to then dont and about mass: are you having trouble eating that much foo, or you eat enough, but you dont gain as much as you should?
2018-03-13 23:07
i guess i dont eat enough, sometimes im too lazy to cook. Im student so no mom to cook for me. Also when i dont train i loose weight and that might be an issue too
2018-03-13 23:14
my friend had the same issue for the first two weeks of bulking, but you kinda get used to it and it becomes a part of your everyday life,so you just have to force yourself in the beggining
2018-03-13 23:27
thats true, i was working out in the high school and like 3 years ago i was 72 kg now im poorly 67-8 kg but back then i was also eating better. All i need to do i guess is to get into some routine as you said,
2018-03-13 23:56
I'm poor , but I dont want typical job of 8 h per day
2018-03-13 23:11
+1
2018-03-13 23:21
there are plenty of jobs out there that are not your usual 9 to 5 jobs, you just have to look around or even search on the internet and try to apply
2018-03-14 14:54
xDDDDD tell me some, anyone from home with the computer?
2018-03-14 16:27
well i dont know what you are intersted in, if you have some skills regarding programming etc, so i need more info to give you help
2018-03-14 19:03
I need money, but I dont want typical/monotone job of 8 h per day
2018-03-13 23:22
become a modern day rapper. Its so easy, and you can just scream "drose" into a mic, and make millions. Just run around like an idiot trying to get fame with face tats, and get your music out there. This is only if you don't care about your reputation, or have low morals. Or, if you actually have talent dancing, singing, or anything else maybe you can do that.
2018-03-14 01:57
sorry I still have have rest of dignity and self-respect who listen rap ? - 12 y.o kids ... who search for identity and morality i am already the adult - i have this handled the only struggle in my life is money :)
2018-03-14 03:19
sorry I still have have rest of dignity and self-respect who listen rap ? - 12 y.o kids ... who search for identity and morality i am already the adult - i have this handled the only struggle in my life is money :)
2018-03-14 03:19
as i said above, there are plenty of unusual jobs, but they arent exactly advertised well, so you have to search for them really thoroughly
2018-03-14 14:56
#228
MICHU | 
Poland foolxd1 
I really hate the European Union
2018-03-13 23:23
writing an open letter to a prime minister or a president would be my suggestion, but a petition might be more effective (but that takes a lot more work and effort)
2018-03-14 14:59
#230
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Poland CrISoOO 
5.200h in cs go and cant find good team :(
2018-03-13 23:25
#234
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Romania Nigger1234 
talk to vp
2018-03-13 23:31
he said good team
2018-03-14 12:08
#315
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Romania Nigger1234 
oh shit you right
2018-03-14 17:27
try grinding esea or fpl and add people that you think played well and you enjoyed playing with and assemble a team by yourself
2018-03-14 15:01
#232
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United States GoldEar13 
I need to do homework but I keep getting distracted by hltv
2018-03-13 23:29
if you are getting distracted that hard then lock away your phone, laptop or the room with your pc and give the keys to someone else and only ask for the keys once you show them your finished hw
2018-03-14 15:04
#233
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Turkey emre114 
I miss my girlfriend :( . I love her.
2018-03-13 23:30
the best way for me was forging new relationships and friendships to overcome the pain of missing someone ( sort of filling in a void that was created)
2018-03-14 15:06
its getting late, so ill come back and answer all the remaining questions tommorow
2018-03-13 23:31
lack of direction
2018-03-14 00:00
that is a struggle for a lot of people, but my advice is to try to find something you are really interested in or you enjoy a lot and go from there, because doing something just because it pays well is a steep descend into depression for many people
2018-03-14 15:12
love
2018-03-14 01:51
you mean like gf/bf?
2018-03-14 15:15
need to find myself a real girl... They're all either taken, or not interested. Well, I have one girl in mind, but I don't even talk to her. She seems nice, and chill, but honestly looks can be so deceiving. I already asked out this other girl like a month ago, she seemed really chill/nice on the outside, man was I wrong... She was a total bitch on the phone compared to real life. Playing these stupid games, they can never be straightforward
2018-03-14 20:50
it can be quite demotivating if something like that happens, but just keep trying man and dont give up, you will eventually meet someone who will be worth the wait
2018-03-14 21:49
#263
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Norway rogueplayer 
I have an expensive taste, but I'm a student with no money... I need to humble myself, but how I'm also passionate, but lazy. How to fix this?
2018-03-14 08:38
for the laziness depending on the hobby/passion/whatever it is i recommend you try to do this activity with a friend and that will serve as a motivation to do becoming humble is a tough thing, what helps is stepping into the shoes of less fortunate people for at least a bit and that will hopefully help you see life from a new perspective and change your view on what things are more important
2018-03-14 19:18
#264
BnTeT | 
Germany cucKing 
I am lazy af how to motivate myself to do stuff
2018-03-14 08:39
motivation is something you must find within yourself and nobody get give it to you or really help you get it, it all just depends on goals you set for yourself and what you want to achieve in life
2018-03-14 15:17
#265
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Poland kubucjusx 
Too much debt, 2nd child on the way....
2018-03-14 08:40
you should try to save as much money by not going out for dinner, lunch, buying the cheapest brands, etc. , and if you can then get a part time job,so that you get rid of the debt as soon as you can, and if you are really desperate you can try to ask you family and close friends for financial help
2018-03-14 21:53
#397
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Poland kubucjusx 
Na mate, too far out for that. I am not going out, not buying clothes etc. I have a full time job, paying child support and leftovers debts from the marriage that ended. I would need a big loan but my credit history is fucked up and banks dont want anything to do with me.
2018-03-15 07:44
#266
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Europe marsoc 
my work is shit my social life is shit im lazy as fuck and i dont have any goal in my life halp
2018-03-14 10:17
try to apply for other jobs that seem for interesting to you, pursue further education if needed ( even something like online courses can help a ton) and try to find friends at your workplace if you can, or partake in some hobbies where you can meet new people and the goal is something you must set for yourself, unfortunately no one can really do that for you
2018-03-14 19:22
#268
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North America T1RANT 
All I do is goto school,game and do weights
2018-03-14 11:52
schools often offer all sort of free time activities, so look for some that interest you and try them out, that way you can meet new people and also make some new friends
2018-03-14 19:41
#400
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North America T1RANT 
I'm sure that rejects goto do that at schools like ours, you'll only find lower than low there. I am not there and never will be but ://
2018-03-15 09:22
#279
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Austria Laolon 
i dont want to go to work for 38,5 hours but i dont want less money
2018-03-14 15:11
if you hate spending that much time at you job , you might want to look for some other job, that you will be more passionate about
2018-03-14 15:22
#288
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Austria Laolon 
no i dont want to spend that much time for any job.... i think live is to valuable to work that much time
2018-03-14 15:24
well you can look for a part time job or a job with half shifts, but you have to prepare that your budget will be smaller and youll have to be more careful about what things you buy and what not
2018-03-14 19:39
how to fix life when no life
2018-03-14 15:19
#290
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Austria Laolon 
get some friends, get some tan
2018-03-14 15:25
well find something you might like and enjoy, go take cooking classes or something else that might interest you, talk to the people there, see if you have something in common with them
2018-03-14 19:36
#287
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Afghanistan crywolf1337 
here it goes, only child no siblings, no friends, foreign country, student, just got rejected by a grill which i had crush on, probably exam results gonna be failed, left csgo to study, masturbate, started rainbow six siege but thats all i do.
2018-03-14 15:22
oh my god my countryman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2018-03-14 15:37
What country are you studying in?
2018-03-14 15:46
#309
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Switzerland VerySwissGuy 
so you didn't leave csgo to study but to play rainbow six siege. you realize that right?
2018-03-14 16:29
if youre having problems with exams, then i suggest you cut the time you spend playing games by a decent amount and only increase the time we you succesfully write a test or finish a project and if youre a foreign student i assume you live in some sort of college dorms, so dont be afraid and speak to the other foreign students living there, learning about other cultures is always so interesting (at least to me)
2018-03-14 19:34
#295
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Ukraine maaajki 
have got a gf but my dream girl broke up with bf atm xd
2018-03-14 15:31
its a difficult and dangerous choice, but i would say if your current relationship is doing fine, then you shouldnt break up with her
2018-03-14 19:30
#402
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North America T1RANT 
Don't fuck around, leave her if you don't love her. Stop being disloyal thinking about your "dream girl", who is actually your current one. Don't be a hoe, bro...
2018-03-15 09:24
#297
fnx | 
Brazil taquioN 
help get out of friendzone
2018-03-14 15:32
well first are you sure it is friendzone? if yes, then the only thing i can recommend ( even if it isnt guaranteed to work) would be to act more cold, distant towards her and try to act like you dont really want her, because the friendzone often happens, because the guy acts way to accesible so the girl puts him as the reserve option so to speak
2018-03-14 19:28
#413
fnx | 
Brazil taquioN 
thx dude, it worked
2018-03-16 21:25
#302
s1mple | 
Poland DeVel 
Alone
2018-03-14 15:48
try to do some activities that seems fun or interesting to you and talk to the other people there, you have nothing to lose anyway
2018-03-14 19:24
#411
s1mple | 
Poland DeVel 
Ye i started and fucking hot chick 10/10 likes me really. 3 years older but doesnt matter she is goddess
2018-03-16 19:43
#303
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Sweden swaglordx 
IM gay plis help
2018-03-14 15:49
sexuality isnt something you can really change
2018-03-14 19:11
#305
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Netherlands C9ROPZZ 
People say fox is a top 20 player
2018-03-14 15:49
#316
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Romania Nigger1234 
besides portuguese no one says that
2018-03-14 17:28
well its mostly portuguese people who rate fox that high, but a lot of them are joking and baiting and the other ones are happy that they have a player who did/does ok on the international scene, so they overrate him a bit
2018-03-14 19:08
Doing bad at school
2018-03-14 16:05
any particular subjects?
2018-03-14 19:05
German. Im bad at german
2018-03-16 14:20
What work can I do to earn money from home?
2018-03-14 16:30
stuff like webdesign for example
2018-03-14 19:05
#336
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Lithuania lighthair 
Lazy af
2018-03-14 19:41
try to force yourself to do something studying, sport, etc. with a friend, that way you will have a solid reason to actually do it and not bail out
2018-03-14 19:51
#340
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Lithuania lighthair 
Nah fuck that
2018-03-14 19:52
Insomniac from japan with asthema, help
2018-03-14 19:43
i heard that breathing in the air near the sea can help you a little bit with asthma, but only temporarily and regarding insomnia if you can then take a break from modern technologies try to go to parks and what not, and also try to reduce the stress in your life ( if it's possible of course) and see if any of this helps
2018-03-14 19:57
Thank you, will try
2018-03-14 23:35
im straight but its 2018
2018-03-14 20:01
reported
2018-03-14 20:06
i have 0 girl in class, i dont use social media, i dont go out, i wanted to go gym but i dont know what to do there, i have 0 friends, i do have depression, i dont have fun of games anymore fix my life
2018-03-14 20:04
dont worry about going to the gym and not knowing what to do, most guys at the gym are really friendly and will offer their advice and help if you ask
2018-03-14 21:55
I'm a basement dweller
2018-03-14 20:06
well the thing that motivated me to get out is the fact, that you create so much more memories when youre outside with friends, and as you get older you will cherish these memories more and more
2018-03-14 21:58
#348
eLUSIVE | 
United States mook_ 
how can i make my penis grow 5 inches overnight
2018-03-14 20:12
sorry to tell you this, but as of now there is no guaranteed method to increase your penis length
2018-03-14 21:59
I have anxeity for school ples help.
2018-03-14 20:13
try to not think to much about what you are saying, where you should be looking and stuff like that and realize that the other person wont remember much about the conversation after 5 minutes so its not a big deal if you do something you think is weird
2018-03-14 22:01
I need help to go to the school :/
2018-03-14 22:02
well i know that it might be quite hard to deal with that, but really the only advice i can give you is dont worry about what you do and say, because the other people dont really care about that stuff and will forget it really quickly anyway
2018-03-14 22:09
Ye, but the problem is that i panic then i have to get over to the school.
2018-03-14 22:31
if the issue is that serious , then i believe there is some medication that can help you with that, but i see that as an extreme solution
2018-03-14 23:00
Ok, thanks for help.
2018-03-15 09:24
Poor (17 yo)
2018-03-14 22:01
maybe try finding a part time job like delivering newspaper or being a waiter
2018-03-14 22:10
i didnt go out 3 weeks, didnt left my room
2018-03-14 22:03
well getting out on the sun at least every once in while is really beneficial for your mental health, plus it helps to break the monotoneness
2018-03-14 22:15
Need motivation to study
2018-03-14 22:04
well getting any degree( or almost any degree) will open a lot of doors for you in term of job opportunities and that will make your job a lot easier
2018-03-14 22:13
Need motivation to study
2018-03-14 22:11
see #370
2018-03-14 22:16
youtube.com/watch?v=j6gPnKYLaUQ I can't stop watching this help me, like every day watching 10-11times.
2018-03-14 22:12
see #373
2018-03-14 22:19
its a short video so it deosnt bite off too much of your free time and if you really watch it that much, you will get burned out in 2 weeks max and you will lose the urge to watch the video
2018-03-14 22:19
I'm listening to music every day 1,2hours. But something is wrong, every day listening to same music. Never gonna listen to anything like new. I have some problem help me dude
2018-03-14 22:21
i dunno if you use spotify or youtube, but i found that some of the suggested songs are actually nice and i found a ton of new artists that i havent heard of before, so dont be afraid to try other songs, and listening to the same songs will eventually get old
2018-03-14 22:30
Check my thread is called "HELP ME PLEASE!"
2018-03-14 22:31
#376
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Finland Smoonah 
My right testicle aches like someone is lightly flicking the bottom of my nut, and is bothersome to sit on; dunnit feel like going to doctor. Plz fix
2018-03-14 22:24
you definitely should go to a doctor, it doesnt take that much time and if it is something serious it is a lot better to find it early
2018-03-14 22:28
I have 0 energy all day I sleep 9 hrs per day atleast!! Have literally 0 motivation to go to school cuz this shit is boring asf and I rather sleeping until 11 am
2018-03-14 22:33
Pls help
2018-03-14 22:38
i think the feeling of being really tired and having zero energy comes from not doing many physical activities for a longer period of time, and once you start exercising or doing a sport you will feels more energized, and if you need motivation try to get a friend to do it with you so u cant easily bail out of it
2018-03-14 22:59
penis smol
2018-03-14 23:00
if you think it causes you trouble in maintaining a healthy sexual relationship, you should focus on other methods regarding pleasuring you partner
2018-03-14 23:09
#387
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Portugal tioNik 
I wanna die. Please fix.
2018-03-14 23:02
there is plenty of fun and interesting stuff to do, so i recommend exploring and enjoying these things as much as you can, because nobody knows what happens after death
2018-03-14 23:11
#393
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Portugal dascouves 
i gay fix
2018-03-15 05:34
as i said in reply 326: sexuality isnt something you can really change
2018-03-15 14:29
bitcoin course so low , i bought 30 bitcoin per 10 $k
2018-03-15 06:04
all you can do now is wait and hope the value will rise again, but when you invest you should always keep in mind that these things can happen and you might lose that money, never invest money that you cant afford to lose
2018-03-15 14:27
I'm missing satisfaction in life, dunno why, or how to change that, pls help. Work is stressy but it's fine, could do with more money obv. No luck with serious relationships, usually end up being used, but I like being single. Best friend recently moved abroad, so that's shit. Started working out again after ending relationship this year, so that's good, but it's for selfish reasons. Want to start playing basketball again, and learn piano, but not enough time, and yet to find actual motivation for the latter. Thank Mr suri_katka
2018-03-15 08:36
it might be better if you try to only focus on a couple activities in your free time( like only going to the gym plus maybe playing basketball once a week), because having to many hobbies causes you to only have small amount of time you can dedicate to them and thus you dont get a lot of satisfaction and enjoyment out of them
2018-03-15 14:33
Obamacare
2018-03-15 18:08
#412
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Colombia SkeletoNMLG 
Keeping one girl in my mind for over 3 years. She rejects any invitations to go out. Being depressed cuz of it. Not mutual love is a crap/
2018-03-16 20:07
It might be because you are ugly,creepy.only scandinavians know how to flirt
2018-03-19 01:21
#419
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Colombia SkeletoNMLG 
I'm 100% not ugly cuz many girls tried to attract me. But I can't get attracted by other girls/
2018-03-19 16:25
I want to move to a foreign country and I don't even know where to start
2018-03-19 08:23
Dudes on hltv who declare that they can fix your life - they enrage me, what can you advise?
2018-03-19 08:28
#417
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United Kingdom SomeBritCunt 
no gf
2018-03-19 08:29
#418
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United Kingdom SomeBritCunt 
or might get one... idk im dating one in like 2 days soooo
2018-03-19 08:30
No friends, no gf, homeless, anxiety, depression, no arms or legs,, living under bridge in a cardboard box, no education, low intelligence, skin cancer, brain cancer and autism. Help me.
2018-03-19 16:30
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