if it isn't mimi,then why should you care?
how tf did you manage to gain 10 kg of muscle in 4 months???
were you on roids or some shit??
Play fortnite with me /closed
You still don't feel confident and girls can sense this.
"didn't get much better", you dumb, mate? Do you cure cancer overnight?
what is panic disorder
it cant be that bad
learn an instrument or something to make you stand out
That's really nice to hear dude, keep it up, you're not walking alone in this path, just remember that
yes life is weird
Ur cute "lolz wanna get weird"?
Life is pretty weird overall.
get ur ass off social media and the internet in general for some weeks, it can really help u alot to calm ur mind
step 1.google: jokes that makes girls laugh
girls dont like buff people.
10kg in 4 months= watery, fat fucking roidhead
go back to being leanand stop eating so much fAT FUCK
looks aint everything, now its time to work on your personality, start with being more humble after rating yourself a 9/10
You must have that one :D
idk if this story is real or not
but if you are really that narcissistic and think you're a model, then that is the reason why you're not getting girls
personality >> appearance
ure that polish guy who posted here before right?
1. You are not confident. You are writing here asking for advise. You don't believe in yourself.
2. Girls choose guys not by their looks but by their behavior.
3. What attention go you need? Do you make steps or wait for girl's steps?
maybe start with being more humble?
After almost 2 years I discovered that I was betrayed during the relationship, I was always a good face to her, she had nothing, I opened my house to her and did almost everything she liked except going to parties, nightclubs to be exact. I wanted to take care of someone, to have a company that truly loves. She wanted a new place to stay without her parents around and do what she wants.
Two points that can connect my experience and yours.
1 - Every human being is moved by his wishes (cliche I know) but from the moment you do not pay attention to that person's wishes you will not be able to find the right match. I fell in love with an idea of a person, not the person itself, you know?
2 - Love is like work. You strive to fulfill that feeling and be the best for someone. It always seems to me that people do not understand this way and that is why relationship in the majority does not go forward.
I hope I have added,
Just wait, man. The success will come 'cause you deserve goods things on your life :P
Hello mate. I'll try to help you.
First of all, love yourself more than anything. That means if anything goes wrong/bad (even if it is something that you really wanted) put yourself in first place with love and say to yourself that other good things will happen. Sometimes, bad things happen so a good thing can happen in a unexpected time/moment. Follow me: If something that you really wanted you finally get but you didn't know in that time that it was "bad", something that would be better wouldn't happen because you were into the "bad thing".
That was just an introduction. After you start loving yourself, try to be 100% in everything you do. I'll try to explain: If you are in a park, doing absolutely nothing, be 100% there, there is never "nothing going on". It's always happening something. You are breathing, it's windy, you can see and you don't need anything that is in your brain (I call it "take out the trash"). Just feel everything like it's your last time. Be 100% present in everything.
That said, start to laugh more. There is 3 things about life that never change.
1. Life is a Paradox. Don't try to understand it, it was not made to be understood.
2. Change. Everything changes, nothing stays the same.
3. Humor. Have a sense of humor, especially about yourself. It's what defines all of your actions.
About girls, just start enjoying being around them. Don't worry if you are going to kiss or lay with them. Just have fun and, if possible, make them have fun. Enjoy the moment of fun, the humor. Be 100% every time. If someone is talking to you, forget about everything else and listen to it. Give everyone that comes to talk to you, you attention, 100% attention. If it's girls, just listen to them, they really have the need to talk. Just listen to her being yourself 100% present. Everything else will happen as consequence and if it didn't happened yet just give time to time so you can build/make something that will have valor in your life.
Tell people (anyone close or not) if you like and if you don't like something that happened. Ex.: A girl laugh with you, tell her that you liked it. A girl just made fun of you, tell in a fun way that you disliked it (Oohhh you can't believe you said that, you are so evil hahaha or something like that... I speak portuguese and don't know with this phrase that I said do means what I wanted to you)
I watched a movie that changed my mind about many things, especially the ones that I told here. It's name is: The Way of the Peaceful Warrior (same name as the book and, as usual, the book is better).
Ps.: I really have to compliment you for having the courage to share what you are feeling and what's happening to you nowadays. Just stay confident in yourself, you are unique and noone can change that. Remember everyday that you can only be you, love yourself by it, act like it's you, advices are good but make YOUR understanding of it (if advice were good as they say, it would be charged not given) and be assured that only people that like you will be around. If you became or act as a character, people will like/love your character but not you... and you can't act as a character all the time but you can be you all the time.