You talk like if it is socially important. People made it that way and yet talk like if they were rational, very contradictory.
People literally waste at least 85% of their life going crazily after sex, they don't learn, don't contribute, do nothing useful. Just blindly looking for a pussy.
I'm in favor of having a sexual partner, but usually those whores don't attract me at all, nor other men. It is a temporary thing, like 10 minutes, they finish, they don't give a shit about the woman they just fucked, they just wanna go home and watch some crap after it.
I don't even feel the need for sex anymore, it became boring, purporseless and not fulfilling.
The time EGO and self-esteem became more important than purpose is when stupidity started inscreasing.
Let's say i get to have sex with a woman i don't even care about, and i finished my 'job' and she didn't enjoy it. You actually think any guy would care? People only care when they like the woman, in these casual stuff the woman is literally an object. And yes, literally, he doesn't give a shit if you're sad or happy, satisfied or not, after we're done, physiologically, we despise the women we're with if they're just a casual whore, it's a fact.
Anyway, watch idiocracy, you can take the opportunity to learn something, i had mine once, now i'm spreading.