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Philippines BritishCocaine 
is it bad to stay in home playing games and being like a nerd? i dont have many friends and recently my parents told me that i'm too antisocial because i never go out but the reality is im not a social guy is it bad to be like this? inb4 kys
2018-06-24 16:13
#1
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Czech Republic Prevodovka 
yes it is bad
2018-06-24 16:14
#2
Brazil @TACO 
it's okay Kpop
2018-06-24 16:14
#3
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Netherlands Vladrurik 
I am honestly so sick and tired of people objectifying HLTV'ers. Like yeah I get it they're hyper-attractive vegans with large muscles and beautiful aesthetics but that's not the point of HLTV. I remember the good old days when they played CS:Source and everyone was just here for the memes and the gameplay but things have changed. Don't get me wrong, I can appreciate the healthy lifestyle HLTV has adopted and I find it hard to look away from the camera but it just feels wrong. Maybe I'm just jealous
2018-06-24 16:14
the fuck are you talking about?
2018-06-24 16:16
#8
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Netherlands Vladrurik 
I am honestly so sick and tired of people objectifying HLTV'ers. Like yeah I get it they're hyper-attractive vegans with large muscles and beautiful aesthetics but that's not the point of HLTV. I remember the good old days when they played CS:Source and everyone was just here for the memes and the gameplay but things have changed. Don't get me wrong, I can appreciate the healthy lifestyle HLTV has adopted and I find it hard to look away from the camera but it just feels wrong. Maybe I'm just jealous
2018-06-24 16:16
#19
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Germany Shadyy89 
CS:Source xxxxxDDDDDDDD 8/8 b8
2018-06-24 16:24
No, it's actually good. Just get a good job, bang some shemales and you will be fine.
2018-06-24 16:15
#5
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Japan jayss 
how old are you? if you're a teenager, keep in touch with your friends because if you cut your ties with people at young age it'll get harder to make friends later on
2018-06-24 16:16
18 and i got bullied so i have not so many friends irl and it drags my confidence low
2018-06-24 16:17
#11
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Israel Xpicyy 
I feel u man ur not alone
2018-06-24 16:19
lol
2018-06-24 16:21
#17
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Mongolia BR_SO_BONOBO 
Dude china ppl bully too ? Damn im in very poor but nice environment country lmao.
2018-06-24 16:23
pretty much every school has some bullying issues
2018-06-24 16:26
#26
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Mongolia BR_SO_BONOBO 
That jap dude's right. But it depends on how you see it and how independ you are i think. If you see it as you just staying home and not doing shitty things in street its not that bad. You dont have to be so social if you're independ person since you can take care of yourself without other plebs. Also can you tell me more about bullying ? Is it just physical, mentally ? or both ?
2018-06-24 16:30
im a fat guy and they keep bullying me mentally, making jokes of me and fighting with me. i dont have many friends cuz im scared they would make fun of me bcs im not that good with socializing and talking to others
2018-06-24 16:33
#33
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Mongolia BR_SO_BONOBO 
Holy shit whats this bullying about fat ppl. In hollywood movies they only bully fat or skinny guy. I really don know why. I'm friends with many fat kids from school. They're fun. All fat kids i've known is they are really funny. Im not talking about making jokes about their weight. ITs so weird.
2018-06-24 16:38
#37
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Mongolia BR_SO_BONOBO 
Also dude i realised you're mentally weak. You have to do something about yourself. Only you can change yourself if you are not socializing. Go to gym. It really helps dude. It will be hard first. But eventually you will gain confidence in yourself then in everything.
2018-06-24 16:40
yeah i realize it actually. its quite lazy you know to gym bcs i cant control my diet and there are so many delicious food out there that i cant resist
2018-06-24 16:43
#42
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Mongolia BR_SO_BONOBO 
Choice is yours. Be a loser or fight for yourself. You gained that weight sitting on that chair doing nothing.
2018-06-24 16:45
i feel for you bro. its hard to find people who accept you as you are. but you know yourself, you know that you can have it easier when you look better. (the thought is fucked up but this is how life works) stay strong bro. find somebody that is in the same spot as you, you can workout together, help each other.
2018-06-24 17:33
#57
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Israel Aaron_btc 
I am honestly so sick and tired of people objectifying HLTV'ers. Like yeah I get it they're hyper-attractive vegans with large muscles and beautiful aesthetics but that's not the point of HLTV. I remember the good old days when they played CS:Source and everyone was just here for the memes and the gameplay but things have changed. Don't get me wrong, I can appreciate the healthy lifestyle HLTV has adopted and I find it hard to look away from the camera but it just feels wrong. Maybe I'm just jealous
2018-06-24 17:36
#18
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Japan jayss 
you don't need to be too social, but if you isolate yourself for too long, it becomes really bad habit and your social skills and relations with others will suffer. I've been there, internet is one addicting source of entertainment in various ways, but too much is too much
2018-06-24 16:23
life has been going down recently. girls doesnt wanna talk to me and i dont have many friends only few ones and im alone but at the same time i want to make some friends
2018-06-24 16:28
#27
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Japan jayss 
it's fine to have periods when you want to be alone, just don't cut your ties with your friends and family and eventually you'll get tired of being in your room all day
2018-06-24 16:31
I agree with ur name. So its ok Edited:no its not ok,i'm like u and its feels bad
2018-06-24 16:17
why would it be bad?
2018-06-24 16:17
because its not good stay in home for long time without go out?
2018-06-24 16:20
why though?
2018-06-24 16:24
hmm idk bcs i see some people happy when they are partying and go out and upload it to snapchat and i think thats cool maybe im different
2018-06-24 16:36
Tell your parents to go out and have a good time. I bet they sit home watching tv all night.
2018-06-24 16:21
i dont like it. rather playing CS or fortnite than going out
2018-06-24 16:22
#15
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Netherlands Deji 
5/8
2018-06-24 16:21
#21
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France TheFaren 
I think u dunno what antisocial means...
2018-06-24 16:25
#24
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Germany sleezy 
whatever makes u happy but if u feel sad sitting at home all the time u should change it
2018-06-24 16:29
#25
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Finland Juzaa 
I mean everyone is different so that's fine, I'd recommend developing at least a few friendships so that you have that safe net when you go through some bad times in your life. Don't shut yourself from the public completely.
2018-06-24 16:29
#28
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Portugal Zedonp 
Its not like its bad to stay home playing games, but its kinda bad not to have friends outside the games you play. Some day you might get tired of playing games and what will you do then? who would you talk to and who would you meet to pass time and have fun?
2018-06-24 16:33
good point but its too hard to changes. i mean i wanna go to party but as i said, im too afraid because im scared of being mocked for being fat. thx
2018-06-24 16:45
#48
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Portugal Zedonp 
fuck that shit, ofc its always easier to think then to do, but i can tell you from my experience at partys is that many other people don't care who is out there (if they are making fun u of or anyone else) cuz most people also won't care about you even when you think they might be laughing or staring at you. Maybe the type of partys you go to have a different vibe (cuz i used to go to discos and classy bars and of course people stare alot more) but when you go to a "real party", people are there to have fun and not to see who is there and who isn't and how are they dressed or wtv, at least on the trance and thecno partys i didn't get those stares, also on metal/rock concerts or festivals i've gonne to i don't get that vibe. Besides there is no fun at partys without at least a fat guy, you can be that guy that just doesn't care and wants to have fun and fun will find you believe me!! Next thing you know you will be wanting to go out instead of stay at home playing games, it won't happen every weekend (for example this weekend i wasn't feeling like going out much so i only went to a café with friends on friday) but if you have fun a couple times you will want more
2018-06-24 17:02
It's true, most people partying don't give 2 shits of what anyone looks like etc cause they're just drunk and having a good time. I've seen many people you could see as "fat" on dance floors in clubs and nobody ever gave a shit. It's sort of like gym anxiety with people new to working out, they feel apprehensive about going to the gym out of fear of looking like a noob when in reality nobody even pays any attention to them whatsoever.
2018-06-24 17:17
#53
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Portugal Zedonp 
yeah thats it, ofc if no one tells you that or if you don't experience that for yourself you will always have that doubt in the back of your mind, but after getting used to it its just another day another party
2018-06-24 17:23
#31
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Europe tweekzter 
You gotta do what makes you happy. No need to fulfill other peoples expectations. If you are unhappy that you don't have enough friends, then search people with the same interest and meet up. Even if it is for a LAN party. ;)
2018-06-24 16:37
#32
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Germany slyyf 
Yeah, go outside every now and then, make some friends. You don't have to be a social butterfly or anything, but don't let the computer and gaming be the sole thing in your life.
2018-06-24 16:36
I have few friends and mostly spend my time on my own but these people I know are enough for me, they proved to be real friends and so did I, we can expect support from each other if we need it. Try to get acquainted with some people irl
2018-06-24 16:38
#38
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Mongolia BR_SO_BONOBO 
+1 Same here.
2018-06-24 16:42
#36
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Dominican Republic HRP69 
yes it is bad.
2018-06-24 16:40
#40
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Denmark godjf 
anti social social club
2018-06-24 16:43
If you're getting bullied it's your own fault. Just stop being a little bitch and go have fun.
2018-06-24 16:45
Nah everything happens because of the person that commits the action. The reason it’s not getting stopped or done something about it is him, but the bullying isn’t him.
2018-06-24 16:50
That’s why you find yourself here. We are all alike and friends
2018-06-24 16:50
#49
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Portugal Zedonp 
Don't lump me together with you swedistan, we are not friends
2018-06-24 17:06
: ( sad
2018-06-24 17:08
never listen to anybody, nobody knows shit. what is comfortable to you is right. no discussion
2018-06-24 16:54
Comfortable isn’t always right. We never grow when we are comfortable, hence making our life experience trapped in a box
2018-06-24 17:09
it's not your opinion, isn't it? You just repeat it to look like a "growing progressing person". I've heard it too many times, it's some sort of cliche already. Aint nothing wrong with being comfortable. I can progress and grow while I'm comfortable, it even makes my growing even more productive because I don't waste time on shit I don't need. So if I can, why can't you
2018-06-24 17:31
That’s your take on it, not mine :) I ain’t growing when I’m comfortable, and that’s my life, not yours
2018-06-24 17:37
#54
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Portugal Zedonp 
disconfort is the right way, whne everyone is disconfortable is when shit gets awkard and more fun imo
2018-06-24 17:23
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