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how to tell my crush i love her
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Germany teamplayer2005 
I just finished my abitur. School ends in 3 weeks and I was in love with a girl for the last 3 years. Before i will leave my hometown for university I would like to tell her my feelings for her. I am really bad with girls. The girl likes me but doesnt realize me as much (cause i dont go to partys/clubs). How would you approach this situation?
2018-06-24 18:40
#1
Lemmy | 
Poland MetalMan 
2005
2018-06-24 18:41
#3
Lemmy | 
Poland MetalMan 
And 0/8 ofc
2018-06-24 18:41
#29
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Croatia mds818 
+1
2018-06-24 19:03
#4
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Germany teamplayer2005 
I am 18 (19 in august) This nickname is supposed to sound cringy and retarted
2018-06-24 18:42
#6
Lemmy | 
Poland MetalMan 
I hope so.
2018-06-24 18:42
#20
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Israel BingoBango 
good work oh and just tell her I mean what do you have to lose, better to do it than spending the rest of your life wondering what could have been
2018-06-24 18:59
you must know thats it not that simple unless your drunk..
2018-06-24 19:05
why not get drunk then ;)
2018-06-24 19:26
#80
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Israel BingoBango 
yeah tbf it makes perfect sense, unfortunately you're right, it's not that easy
2018-06-24 23:01
Tell her: I love you Works 100%
2018-06-24 18:42
#8
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Germany teamplayer2005 
ty for advice
2018-06-24 18:43
#38
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Portugal NiteZPT 
it works man. did it 2 years ago, still dating that 10/10
2018-06-24 19:16
#49
ISSAA | 
France Nikoemok 
Don't be shyyyyyy with her , be decontracted
2018-06-24 19:39
#50
ISSAA | 
France Nikoemok 
She poo and pee like everyone don't surestimate her
2018-06-24 19:39
np
2018-06-24 20:05
Don't tell her, ask her out, go out with her and go for the kiss. Just confessing her most often just shocks her a lot. Don't go for the easy way out but definitely do something. Your life will be better, no matter what happens If you're having a hard time finding the courage: It takes a millisecond to make the decision to go for it and ask her out and your reward could be years of happiness.
2018-06-25 20:09
#7
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Netherlands Deji 
Stop the 8/8 baits dude its to much
2018-06-24 18:42
#9
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Germany teamplayer2005 
I dont bait
2018-06-24 18:44
nice bait
2018-06-24 19:26
he not bait
2018-06-24 21:22
#10
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Europe potatomato 
Like her posts on Facebook
2018-06-24 18:44
Our generation uses instagram and i already did that
2018-06-24 18:45
oof
2018-06-25 07:50
#12
ropz | 
Czech Republic rusteD 
13yo, go play with quoran or hadith or whatever you muslims play with. girls are haram anyway, wait for your papa till he chooses one for you
2018-06-24 18:46
I am atheist from a christian family Also #4
2018-06-24 18:47
Dude just tell her that you want to talk to her in private, and tell her everything if you are a lucky guy like me you gonna get laughed on and friendzoned feelsamazingman
2018-06-24 18:49
Friendzone is a pain feel you brother
2018-06-24 18:50
better than do nothing
2018-06-24 19:02
#41
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Poland HTMFS 
NOOOOOOOOOPE.
2018-06-24 19:20
well the theory is if u do what #14 said and then get friendzoned u can cut off the relationship and u know that u didnt have any chances anyway.
2018-06-24 19:27
#47
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Poland HTMFS 
That's true I was frinzoned once and that girl didn't allow me to meet another girls, she was calling me at 3am where I am, or who is this slut, who like my photo on fb XD.
2018-06-24 19:35
LOL i see she cucked u royally. hopefully u learned from such a pathetic mistake
2018-06-24 19:44
#77
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Poland HTMFS 
Ofc it take only month, I forgot mention best thing all that time she had a boyfriend XD. And I was surprised about her behavior because we was friends and I wasn't in to her.
2018-06-24 21:02
#66
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Germany zeolikk 
Lol
2018-06-24 19:50
Bump
2018-06-24 18:52
#17
FalleN | 
Brazil Didico 
it's too late doesn't matter anymore
2018-06-24 18:53
3 weeks is better than nothing and I also want to tell her just because I always wondered what her feelings for me are
2018-06-24 18:57
#24
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Switzerland zero_hoes 
think of the outcome of the situation and choose what you want to get out of it, then evaluate your chances
2018-06-24 19:01
#18
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Europe glowhand 
you like her go ask her a date, now or never, dont wait make a decision, because time will not coming back
2018-06-24 18:54
Will try it I guess but so nervous already
2018-06-24 18:59
#35
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Europe glowhand 
just talk one topic to another topic, go ask her opinion about this and that. Dont always think about the goals go and try. Oh yeah one more be a good listener women like that
2018-06-24 19:07
go to partys niga its ezpz
2018-06-24 18:59
I hate partys Also I want to talk with her in private not in a crowded and loud nightclub
2018-06-24 19:00
lul nobody gives a shit at a party anyways lol you have watched too many moveis
2018-06-24 19:01
Why do you think a party is a good place for talking under 4 eyes?
2018-06-24 19:01
why do you even want to talk to her under 4 eyes only creep EDIT: it makes it 100x easier if u are drunk
2018-06-24 19:07
Feel like it is a private conversation and i dont want to talk about my feelings in front of a crowd
2018-06-24 19:09
is she ur friend
2018-06-24 19:46
#63
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Germany zeolikk 
Just stop it. That guy is a dickhead
2018-06-24 19:48
#73
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Belgium HLTVnewfag 
Everyone in the crowd will be drunk and maybe 3 people will notice it She will tell her friends after anyways (probably more than 3 people will know it then)
2018-06-24 20:10
#26
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Germany probrot 
tbh even if she has something for u, u gonna leave soon anyways so what will it get u and if u are unlucky she laughs at your or atleast friend zones u.
2018-06-24 19:01
Hold your balls, take her to a drink and tell her everything, nothing to lose anymore m8 ps: I'm shy like you and I lost so many opportunities like that
2018-06-24 19:03
#32
Petra | 
Netherlands taorus 
tell her you are a shemale but in love with her...
2018-06-24 19:05
haHAA
2018-06-24 19:14
#39
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Denmark Lev1ce 
tell me somethings about her i ll try help you
2018-06-24 19:18
Beautiful but not out of my league (i think) Has another guy who loves her but she hates him Middle class parents Same taste (school subjects,music) as me single since 2 years always hangs out with 2 other girls Goes to same gym as me Is way more social than me (goes to parties, can talk and laugh with strangers)
2018-06-24 19:24
if you think people are out of ur league ut dumb
2018-06-24 19:49
If you're too shy to talk to her, you can try to talk to her friends, giving importance to crush friends make it easier for you to seduce her
2018-06-24 19:49
#94
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Denmark Lev1ce 
you should say what do you feeling for her its enough. try look like serious and tell her. if she to ferling something for you it would be good
2018-06-25 15:50
#40
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Poland HTMFS 
"Ich liebe dich" your welcome.
2018-06-24 19:19
Ask her out. Do not tell her that you love her. Don't be desperate.
2018-06-24 19:26
#48
f0rest | 
Russia 1.6 FTW 
Lmao ayyyyyy
2018-06-24 19:35
#51
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Poland k@nios 
Stay @ your confort zone. Let her go
2018-06-24 19:40
just say that u wanna bang
2018-06-24 19:41
Easiest way to fuck it up
2018-06-24 19:43
nahh cmon bro ur not just gonna say that u love her just go all the way it would be easier or if u want u can ask her best friend what she thinks about u mby she dont even like u
2018-06-24 19:46
For sure it's better to tell her about your feelings cos it's better to know what she thinks about it, than not to say and then regret about it your whole life. Even it's a bait u got me
2018-06-24 19:44
Just say it bro
2018-06-24 19:45
When and how?
2018-06-24 20:04
At anytime, anyway, just say it, before its too late
2018-06-25 07:47
TriHard cmonBruh
2018-06-25 12:31
#58
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Poland sitarskee 
tell her it's not her it's you and you can still be friends, she gonna go crazy
2018-06-24 19:45
Sry cant understand what youre trying to say
2018-06-24 19:55
#78
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Poland sitarskee 
i mean like you would say when breaking up that it's not her fault, it's you etc but it was a joke anyway so nvm
2018-06-24 21:11
#59
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Germany zeolikk 
Just go to her and say I love you???
2018-06-24 19:45
In what situation would you do it
2018-06-24 19:48
#74
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Germany zeolikk 
Do you have her number? Or do you have any other opportunities to ask her out? You should definitely invite her to somewhere. Don't make it cheap.
2018-06-24 20:12
#61
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United States BaguetteArmy 
I love you
2018-06-24 19:46
approach her to hang out to celebrate end of school or something -> can be even bigger group of people so she dont feel bad -> end of night with alchohol tell her: i think you are cute, would you like to grab some café or food sometimes next week.
2018-06-24 19:54
Sounds good but she will say yes anyways if i ask her like that. Than I would go on a date and might get rejected when i tell her about my feelings
2018-06-24 20:00
you dont tell feelings in first date my friend, that can wait
2018-06-24 20:39
i hate you, bitch.
2018-06-24 19:56
#98
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United Kingdom galaxzy 
LMAO
2018-06-25 19:36
Tell her how precious / important she is in your life before.
2018-06-24 20:14
tell her cyka blyat idi nahoui
2018-06-24 23:03
#84
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Spain VIKTORAL 
then she says rush B kurwa blyat ahh dream girl ...
2018-06-24 23:12
#82
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Netherlands Njit 
Say it, I'm gonna tell my crush tomorrow too, let's do it both tomorrow and discuss how it went after k?
2018-06-24 23:06
#93
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Netherlands RincoB 
hmu with the story if you're honest.
2018-06-25 12:34
#97
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Netherlands Njit 
I don't wanna talk about it
2018-06-25 19:32
#99
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United Kingdom galaxzy 
LMAO
2018-06-25 19:37
ill take your parents to hostage then request you to have sex with your crush and ill release your parents
2018-06-24 23:10
show her your FAT COCK
2018-06-25 07:51
#89
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Czech Republic JakamanCZ 
Ask her on a date. But don´t tell her about your feelings, just that you really like her etc. Don´t make yourself look desperate.
2018-06-25 07:55
"Open bobs and vagene.", followed by "Grant access to vagene". Works every time.
2018-06-25 08:00
#92
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Netherlands RincoB 
Lol, I had the same problem, then she got a boyfriend... RIP
2018-06-25 12:34
#95
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Germany Xantennn 
Send her a dickpic and write "aber schicks keinem". Will work 100%
2018-06-25 15:48
You don't have to tell her "I love you", but just do what you would like to do. Life is honestly short and stuff like this can turn out to be one of the moments you will always wonder "what if?", so just act. Don't have to give shit about it being embarrassing or stuff like that, because honestly, it isn't. And if some sad fucker comes along and says "oh she said no, he must have felt embarrassed", the feeling of acting trumps embarrassment. And if she says no and isn't interested, well that is it then. In the end, was it ever anything you really lost?
2018-06-25 20:03
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