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need advice (family problems)
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Germany mohammad_el_jirari 
hello hltv users, i really dont know why im writing about this here but why not i guess. so i (m 19) have a problem with my brother (21) who got into a bad circle of friends. my parents dont have him under control and put up with all the bs he does. he has no respect for other family members and basically threats everyone like shit. on top of that he also has an aggression problem and him and i already got in some fights because of it. he also keeps stealing money out of my purse and out of my parents purse but they dont want to kick him out, i really dont know why. i dont know what i can do but its really annoying hearing him argue with my parents the whole day and talking with us in a disrespectful way. on most days i usually have headaches from that shit and cant concentrate on my schoolstuff etc.. somedays i just hope he gets caught doing something stupid with his retarded friends and end up in jail tbh. i cant really isolate myself from him since i cannot afford to move in an own appartment... i hope u guys can give me some advice
2018-07-21 01:53
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Mongolia Chuluun 
shouldn't be on you to do anything.
2018-07-21 01:55
yea but my parents wont do shit
2018-07-21 01:56
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Mongolia Chuluun 
Well the guy is 21, he is an adult, your parents should be calling the police if they had enough of his shit, they cant just boss him around anymore, and you shouldn't have to do anything.
2018-07-21 02:00
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Germany fulltilt 
Idk tbh he might have some issues, maybe he feels mistreated by your parents or some shit. You probably stole all the attention from him when he was 2 years old.. bro read some freud that shit can fuck up people badly.
2018-07-21 01:56
#4
Sweden hoey 
>keeps stealing money out of my purse nt there are no women on hltv
2018-07-21 01:57
im not a woman lol
2018-07-21 01:58
#11
Sweden hoey 
why do you have a purse then wtf
2018-07-21 02:02
i just mean the thing where u store ur money and creditcards etc lol
2018-07-21 02:09
#27
Sweden hoey 
so your wallet
2018-07-21 02:25
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Norway rogueplayer 
You beat the shit outta of him and assert dominance Show him the true world, show him how shitty this place is and beat him up some more Then tell him you guys love him and don't want to see him gone If he says "no u" you fucken kill him, he is lost forever and can't be saved, I'm truly sorry
2018-07-21 01:59
lol what do u mean, im a pc gamer and he is doing shady shit outside the whole time, he will fuck me up
2018-07-21 02:01
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Norway rogueplayer 
He's 21... his world view is probably fucked up as well, too stubborn I reckon... Either you go to your dad and tell him to straight the fuck up and let him assert dominance over your shitty ass bro or he will be lost forever Don't let his bad karma take over your family... either he does good now or your family needs to cut loose, I'm not even kidding at this point. That shit will ruin your family years down the line
2018-07-21 02:04
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France FabulousM 
dude your parents need to have the autority to explain him what is the real life :/ it's not your job but ofc don't fight with him if he is older than you he can probably hurt you... the only option I can see is to told to your parents to threaten him to be excluded to the house :/ I know its rude but I think this is the only option... and I think if he is rebel like this it's probably because your parents were not rude with your brothers when he was young... gl my friend and support your parents this is very important ^^
2018-07-21 02:00
ty
2018-07-21 02:03
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Poland MAGA2020 
sounds like your family lacks a strong father figure
2018-07-21 02:17
he will end up in jail soon, will be ez clap But 21 is too much for doing stupid stuff I think
2018-07-21 02:00
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Netherlands melajr112 
21 is too much for doing stupid stuff ? lul at that point you just barely started..
2018-07-21 02:04
o tempora o mores
2018-07-21 02:07
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Netherlands melajr112 
am i supposed to translate that shit?
2018-07-21 02:08
nvm m8
2018-07-21 02:25
#17
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Israel RockTheCasbah 
Keep your items safe, away from him. Have a discussion with your parents about his behaviour. Sounds like hes not working either if hes stealing money from you & ur parents, tell him to get a job or to fuck off. Your parents failed and raised a moron, you can toss him to the military and they will give him the hard discipline that he lacks or you take charge of the house, and break his fingers with a baseball bat if he will get caught stealing again. Call his friend and tell them that they should talk sense into him or he will be kicked out of the house. Basically your prother is a parasite.
2018-07-21 02:10
break his fingers with a baseball bat lmao israel education
2018-07-21 02:10
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Israel RockTheCasbah 
Whats that?? A beta male? I guess you never got the belt when u were a kid, never stood in the corner for bad behaviour? Well hello there!
2018-07-21 02:13
getting hit with a belt, standing in the corner for bad behaviour, and having your foreskin cut off? you must've had a pretty shitty childhood bro
2018-07-21 02:18
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Israel RockTheCasbah 
Retard...
2018-07-21 02:19
Guess you just gotta impose yourself and get on his face whenever he tries stealing from you. Family therapy or that shit aint really gonna work with those people, you just gotta make him respect you. With that being said you also gotta take nto consideration that he may be going through some stuff, so make sure you're there for him if he ever needs you. It's still your bro after all
2018-07-21 02:09
If he steals money he's a thief and in this case you have to inform police. He thinks you won't do so against brother. Misdemeanour must lead to a penalty, this is how law works. If your brother on the criminal way you'd better correct him earlier than to have bigger problems later.
2018-07-21 02:12
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