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GIRL HELP PLS
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Andorra Octopus1 
girl would rather do other stuff sometimes than talk to me is that ok? Is it a bad sign lol I feel like it indicates I’m not important enough in her life to be her boyfriend
2018-07-22 00:45
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Turkey ErdoGOD 
If you're that suspicious, rethink if she's the right girl for you
2018-07-22 00:46
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Andorra Octopus1 
but she is so attractive :(
2018-07-22 00:56
#39
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Portugal RKO23 
im done... i was gonna help you... but after this reply...
2018-07-22 01:27
#42
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Andorra Octopus1 
Her appearance is unique not like an Instagram model or normal person even it is beautiful
2018-07-22 01:34
#90
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Portugal RKO23 
im not gonna help you.
2018-07-22 03:34
#4
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Sweden mrarrogant 
its ur fault if u dont satisfy her, dont blame her
2018-07-22 00:48
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Andorra Octopus1 
I realize nonce I’m asking if she is actually dissatisfied 100% if this is her approach
2018-07-22 00:49
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Sweden mrarrogant 
wtf dont call me a nonce
2018-07-22 00:49
#11
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Andorra Octopus1 
sry I meant cutie cuz ur a cutie <3
2018-07-22 00:50
ahmed is right
2018-07-22 00:49
give me her insta so i can fix everything among you
2018-07-22 00:50
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Andorra Octopus1 
she doesn’t have one she’s too socially outcasted to feel comfortable sharing her pictures or to have empathy for me apparently
2018-07-22 00:51
what does she exactly do, could you give some examples?
2018-07-22 00:53
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Andorra Octopus1 
nah I was jk with that last comment just hard to conversate with her and I don’t think she even realizes the mental pain it causes me when we call each other cute for one hour straight then don’t know if she even wants to be my girlfriend or is just baiting me (I ask her awhile ago and she said she wasn’t looking for one) But since then she is either extremely flirty with me or doing other stuff instead of talking to me I don’t understand man :/ does she feel bad for me? Is this funny to her????
2018-07-22 00:56
well, its hard to understand girls. it could be either she is interested with you but she probably can't solve the reliance or she doesn't feel like getting in a relationship since there are some responsibilities in relationships. I honestly think she is not baiting since she is comfortable with flirting and she calls you cute and so. Just try to have a talk with her if she really wants to get in a relationship or not and try to answer the questions in her mind.
2018-07-22 01:08
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Andorra Octopus1 
Good input ty I will keep this perspective in mind
2018-07-22 01:09
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Europe hltv007 
other stuff like putting makeup for 3 hours and prepping her hair? its normal
2018-07-22 00:50
#16
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Andorra Octopus1 
chilling with other friends irl
2018-07-22 00:51
It seems people now are forced to spend less time to each contact, as there are much more communications channels available, and much more contacts happen daily. Girls usually have wider scope of interests to discuss between themselves (like their friends, their relationships, fashion, series, insta and so on) so this takes a lot of time but saturate them well. You function is different and irreplaceable, so just enjoy silence when possible
2018-07-22 01:02
#28
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Andorra Octopus1 
Interesting perspective but she isn’t my girlfriend I don’t tbink
2018-07-22 01:08
It makes zero sense to worry about girls. You should worry only about how interesting is your life and how promissing is your life strategy. ANY girl may fall in love with some other guy anytime, including the case when she is still being considered as "your GF". You are not cutiest, richest, strongest or funniest man around there, so this can happen fo sure. You are OK, so just relax. Just be happy whilst you are together, but be ready to make some actions to find a new one when it become needed. If she's not your GF yet then I don't understand what we are talking about. Make some attempts, if response is negative, just forget and don't even worry. Please realise that there are people who fit each other and people who don't and never will, and this is perfectly normal.
2018-07-22 01:25
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Andorra Octopus1 
Good response I can’t see anything wrong with what you are saying I asked her twice a few months ago if she wanted to be in a relationship with me and she said she isn’t looking for a BF but she still flirts with me and still talks to me if I try not to talk to her is it possible this a move she makes 100% as a friend only? I’m 16 btw and have no motivations in life but talking to her
2018-07-22 01:39
This is not rocket science. There is actually a limited list of effective actions which can be taken as progress metrics: 1. Take her out for coffee or cinema 2. Regular meetings as friends (2-3 times a week) 3. Same as p.2 with some closer relations 4. Travelling together 5. Live together 6. Make a family Each girl has her expectations, and if you match it she is ready to go. How far you can go depends on how fully you match her expectations. You have to evaluate your mutual actions and clearly understand where are you now. Only actions can be count - no words, no promises. Only on evaluating her actions you can build your expectations. When girl fit you perfectly you should progress to p.3 in about 2-4 weeks with no problems. Otherwise it's a frend-zoning and you'd better to change your target.
2018-07-22 02:10
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Finland Belivion 
That means usually that she is trying to friendzone you without trying to hurt you i suggest you to leave her alone or be only her friend trust me i have experience with this. Glad i met my gf finally :) Good luck.
2018-07-22 01:03
#26
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Andorra Octopus1 
I asked her “are you only talking to me because you feel bad for me” and she said no Maybe I am being delusional but it might be hard to understand the atmosphere without telling u context would u mind to hear the situation entirely or is it more likely I am just being hopeful and really should just stop talking to her? I tried it before and she kept messaging me
2018-07-22 01:07
#30
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Finland Belivion 
Well if you stopped talking to her and she kept talking to you i think she's interested but who knows about girls one girl once said she likes me and then stopped talking to me completely lmao.
2018-07-22 01:09
No she has to chat the whole day with you
2018-07-22 01:09
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Morocco Feit4N 
how old r u?
2018-07-22 01:10
#33
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Andorra Octopus1 
11 wbu katka
2018-07-22 01:10
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ScreaM | 
Morocco Feit4N 
bro girls are boring now wait another 10 years
2018-07-22 01:16
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Andorra Octopus1 
I’m actually 18 but don’t tell anyone
2018-07-22 01:17
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ScreaM | 
Morocco Feit4N 
ok man, just make some money sentimental shit dosnt work
2018-07-22 01:22
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Brazil nyz 
Not enough info lol. What is your relation with this girl, how close are you, how long do u know each other etc
2018-07-22 01:26
#41
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Andorra Octopus1 
Do not have IRL interaction with this girl but we know each other from real life. She says she wants to see me Idk how close we are that is what I want to determine with this thread. I would guess I am way too attached to her and she might only talk to me in situations it is convenient to her (for example if I am at school in a class I will message her no matter what the class but if she is in a class she will only message me if she doesn’t like the class) . Moreover, if she is like chilling with siblings she would rather focus herself to that over even checking her dms once Known her for several months
2018-07-22 01:32
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Brazil nyz 
Well, she's not into you, not yet at least. When girls are interested they like to keep the conversation going rather than briefly responding Maybe you should consider having more contact with her irl
2018-07-22 01:41
#52
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Andorra Octopus1 
Sometimes she talks more frequently like at night for instance while in bed does that mean anything do you think? Reply every like 1-2 min vs other
2018-07-22 01:44
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Brazil nyz 
Does she message you first sometimes or it's always you who have to initiate a conversation?
2018-07-22 01:49
#65
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Andorra Octopus1 
I think it is a constant conversation that changes topic as either of us pivots it in a direction — if that makes sense My moments between conversation usually never exceed a few hours btw which is typically not even how long I wait I would say average is like 10-15 minutes
2018-07-22 01:52
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Brazil nyz 
but i mean, does she makes the first move? Like when you finish talking, will she call you on the other day or you have always to initiate?
2018-07-22 03:50
#92
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Andorra Octopus1 
She will like If she says goodnight I will say goodnight then when she wakes up she says hi (if that counts)
2018-07-22 03:53
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Brazil nyz 
yeah i guess that counts. Anyway man, I think you should ask her for a date, you gotta break virtual barrier and go to the real world. it's the only way to know whether she feels anything for you.
2018-07-22 04:22
Thats why you tie them to a chair in an empty room, so then can focus all their attention on you
2018-07-22 01:28
marry me im better anyway
2018-07-22 01:41
#54
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Andorra Octopus1 
Sorry however I do not respect those who disgrace the flag of Andorra
2018-07-22 01:45
bro werent you like romanian
2018-07-22 01:45
#56
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Andorra Octopus1 
Was I??? I look pretty andorran to me m.imgur.com/a/ZPO0I2D
2018-07-22 01:46
youre so gorgoues pls marry me ill change flag to kurdistan!
2018-07-22 01:46
#61
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Andorra Octopus1 
I need proof man or I can’t Proof I am not a catfish: imgur.com/a/h1enMdv I hope you will consider my confirmation
2018-07-22 01:50
you want a picture of me or what veli.491 on instagram look at the Prince of Kurdistan Pic too lazy to upload
2018-07-22 01:51
what ru, a bitch? I swear, this is the reverse of me and my gf
2018-07-22 01:42
#53
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Andorra Octopus1 
Yeah man m.imgur.com/a/ZPO0I2D here’s my file photo
2018-07-22 01:44
if thats really u ure underage, arent u
2018-07-22 01:47
#62
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Andorra Octopus1 
I am 16 sir and residing within Andorra
2018-07-22 01:50
#64
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Portugal pttpedro 
the store didnt have jacket for men?
2018-07-22 01:51
#67
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Andorra Octopus1 
stockx.com/bape-multi-camo-shark-full-zi.. Couldn’t afford anything else sorry man
2018-07-22 01:59
#69
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Brazil MommyStealer 
i cant believe you paid 500$ on a jacket lul
2018-07-22 02:00
#70
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Andorra Octopus1 
Add me on Snapchat I can show u some jackets I paid more than 500$ for ;)))
2018-07-22 02:01
#73
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Brazil MommyStealer 
give me 500$ so i can buy a good pc :(
2018-07-22 02:02
#75
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Andorra Octopus1 
Help me kidnap a girl I’ll buy u a pc
2018-07-22 02:03
#76
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Brazil MommyStealer 
i dont want to go to jail with f0rest :(
2018-07-22 02:04
#77
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Andorra Octopus1 
It’s ok u will be out in like 10 years then u get free pc ^_^
2018-07-22 02:05
#72
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Portugal pttpedro 
hahaha, jk why u need to be seized to a girl man, with that face u should not worry about pussy
2018-07-22 02:02
#74
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Andorra Octopus1 
I wish your mindset was like that of more pretty girls 😂 ty man
2018-07-22 02:03
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Portugal pttpedro 
had a similar situation as yours, and it didnt end up well, she can be a possibility but if u talk with others bitches too and consider them as a possibility, u dont suffer that much if things go wrong.
2018-07-22 02:09
#80
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Andorra Octopus1 
Unlucky for me either girls don’t really like talking to me or they aren’t that attractive in my eyes The girl I like kind of looks like this knowyourmeme.com/photos/1070940-anzujaam.. but I don’t see many people who look like that :(
2018-07-22 02:12
#82
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Portugal pttpedro 
but she is and looks older right? hahah this girl might be 12 y.o xD
2018-07-22 02:14
#83
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Andorra Octopus1 
This girl is 21 unlucko haha the girl I like is 16 I too am 16
2018-07-22 02:15
#85
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Portugal pttpedro 
WHAT, im so confused right now. at least we dont got another pedo here in hltv thank god.
2018-07-22 02:18
#86
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Andorra Octopus1 
😂😂😂 haha Ttyl man nice guy ^^
2018-07-22 02:19
#66
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Brazil MommyStealer 
are you a weirdo? i expect that you is not using this pic for anything
2018-07-22 01:52
#68
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Andorra Octopus1 
Used it for HLTV haircut rate, I have some more pictures without weird filter if interested ;)
2018-07-22 01:59
imgur.com/a/ZPO0I2D For starters, your outfit make you look like skittles...
2018-07-22 02:15
#88
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Andorra Octopus1 
sry man I will alert you once I obtain a new outfit
2018-07-22 02:40
#60
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Portugal pttpedro 
2018-07-22 01:49
#78
zqkS | 
Brazil uedatacuj 
No, if shes attracted to you the only thing she should do is talk to you
2018-07-22 02:06
OOF
2018-07-22 02:13
ye snicka
2018-07-22 02:27
#89
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Argentina sebaxinho 
I'm pretty sure you are a beta male with femenine caracteristics and that's why she will cheat on you or ignore you. You need to forgive your mother for every trauma she caused you so you will be free from her identity. If males are weak they can't show women the right way.
2018-07-22 02:51
#93
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Andorra Octopus1 
she said she doesn’t like it when people are mean though :(
2018-07-22 03:55
#94
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Argentina sebaxinho 
it doesn't matter what she says. Girls are attracted to real man aka alphas. Plus being alpha doesn't mean you are going to insult her or punch her.
2018-07-22 04:11
#95
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Norway rogueplayer 
pm me for answers imma change u life youtube.com/watch?v=6-eUoXeIjbg&feature=..
2018-07-22 04:12
fuck her sister if she doesnt have a sister fuck her mom if she doesnt have a mom fuck her cousin if she doesnt have a cousin fuck her dog
2018-07-22 04:23
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