On all sites it is like that it is called bad beat. Start using tactics. For example make a notes about players u encounter so you know how they play(loose, tight, bluff etc). Dont get in to 2 much hands your goal is to steal as much pots as u can and win 1 big hand in an hour. That means you will need to up your game and play smart use only cards that can be good. If your hand is good enough to call it is good enough to raise. Best wayvto start grind is playing only cards like(AA, KK,QQ,JJ,AK,AQ,AJ,KQ,KJ,K10 and so on) dont play cards like (A7-8) that also means high card low kicker or mid kicker.pm me if you like I can show u some useful information.