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United Kingdom SmooYaY 
That old saying that "you don't know what you have until it's gone" seems to apply particularly for exes. Sometimes, you don't realize how bad things were until you're no longer in a relationship. But then, there are the times you realize how good you had it...and think you might actually want them back. And i regret breaking up with her, what could i do? pls some good advise thanks
2018-09-26 08:00
how long ago? speak to her to see if she might have some lingering feelings for you
2018-09-26 08:02
1 year ago since i broke up with her. we don't really have any contacts at all now.
2018-09-26 08:02
you live near her? if not track her down if she is that important to you
2018-09-26 08:03
yes she is, i think she's not really into me right now coz i used to text her. but she replied me back at 3 days after. i think she was like f*ck off. get away from me
2018-09-26 08:07
then i think you might be out of luck dude
2018-09-26 08:08
get over it and pick some different pussies, you will be fine in the notime
2018-09-26 08:09
or maybe some people might want something grander than just sex
2018-09-26 08:15
i am talking about getting over not about meaning of life
2018-09-26 08:38
dont see how you made that conclusion
2018-09-26 08:38
you sound like a virgng who never experienced breakup in his whole life. Of course you get lonely after some time. But if you have some chicks around its lot of easier to forgot about your ex. And also it is confident booster, so even though she would come back she wont care about a guy without any cnfidence.
2018-09-26 08:53
not a virgin but also i have never experienced a break up
2018-09-26 08:59
So try it, one day you will understand x)
2018-09-26 09:19
not a chance
2018-09-26 09:19
It will happen once or you will be lucky enough
2018-09-26 10:21
Then i would say that's too late to comeback to her, especially if u don't have any contact longer
2018-09-26 08:55
deepest condolences for my heart.
2018-09-26 08:56
I feel u my frend. I actually i don't cuz the last gf i had was in kindergarden + since then i never had a serious relationship so yeh
2018-09-26 08:57
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Sweden neffz 
You seem like a nice guy but you have to admit, it sounds pretty funny, have not had a serious relationship since kindergarten. :D
2018-09-26 10:25
ahaha yeah true, but i guess time will come to have one, one day i guess xd
2018-09-26 12:21
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Sweden neffz 
Ye, it will dude but I meant, who has a serious relationship in kindergarten? XD Gl to you bro
2018-09-26 13:12
oh ok, yeh ik, that in kindergarden was bullshit xd it was like pretending to have a relationship ahah
2018-09-26 13:16
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Canada Surzz 
talk to her. apologize for not thinking it through. p.s. dont make rash decisions like that, it can affect you later on.
2018-09-26 08:02
Yeah its like that in the beginning but for me after i get some maturity about it i realize theres way better :) You regret but why did you break up at first?
2018-09-26 08:04
Yea, back then i was so immature, still wanna dating with other girls. but she is really a good girl for real. im so regret to break her up.
2018-09-26 08:05
For how long did you break with her
2018-09-26 08:14
i was dating with her like for 1 year and(actually 1 year anniversary, i broke up with her i thought that i could really find someone better's out there. but the facts is im suck.
2018-09-26 08:16
Get over it and learn from your mistake then
2018-09-26 08:19
I got banned while ESL NY is happening fuck hltv and their jew agenda
2018-09-26 08:05
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Poland Heyda 
Standard procedure that every man goes through. It's mostly not about wanting her back but about wanting the life in a relationship with all its' benefits back. You begin to think that you won't be able to find a new one and that perspective scares the shit out of you. I believe that the best you can do is moving on and getting a better one since you've left for a reason. If you don't you'll either remain lonely and miserable, or miserable with her again. *Everything I've written I'm not capable of doing myself so I know its hard, guess Im too much of a beta lul but logically it's the best solution
2018-09-26 08:08
The saddest part is she is quite a decent girl though. Back then, I never realized how attractive she was... I guess I was always focused on the negatives when we were together..
2018-09-26 08:10
yeah I feel you man, get her back then:)
2018-09-26 08:18
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Australia weapon_ 
New girl is always better.. new start...new beginnings.. none of this break up shit n get back together.. thats just negativity in a relationship.. dont need that..
2018-09-26 08:10
Yeah i know, but how if i will never find a girl like her again? or even better than her?
2018-09-26 08:11
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Australia weapon_ 
Plenty of girls out there man.. and its what you make it.. dont dwell on the past.. move on.. its for the best.. ive been there.. i couldnt be happier.. really..
2018-09-26 08:14
Thanks for your positive thoughts. Appreciated it man. I hope you have a great day!
2018-09-26 08:17
1st step - stop crying over spilt milk
2018-09-26 08:55
one of my friend says, ‘You’ll never date anyone better than her, and it makes me want to slap myself...
2018-09-26 08:12
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Brazil fuNNa 
get new girl
2018-09-26 08:16
#30
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Denmark SenoriTaB 
get new girl
2018-09-26 08:28
#24
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France JESUSSeidowas 
get new girl
2018-09-26 08:20
I am struggling with a very simular story aswell. After I broke up with my gf I did not find a new girl until this day. That was nearly 2 years ago. It's not that I focus on finding a new gf asap it's more like there was no girl stepping into my life that is a possible candidate for a relationship. After some time I believed that I made the biggest mistake of my life. I started texting her again but she kinda blocked right away, not in an unfriendly way but very distanced and not open for any kind of smalltalk. I finally gave up but I still believe it was big mistake breaking up with her. Dunno...
2018-09-26 08:21
OMGGGGGGGGGGGGG, I got same feeling here with you bro!! i mean how could you move on from that ? it's way too hurt, what a dumb mistakes..
2018-09-26 08:24
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Switzerland Breidl1337 
dude, start doing your own thing. i had the same Problem, so i decided to choose some new Hobbies. just focus on yourselfe. thats the only thing that matters. take care of and youll be fine. if you are fine, she will notice it. if you want a comeback, you should be strong!!!
2018-09-26 08:30
+1 Thankyou for your courage, I really appreciated it.
2018-09-26 08:33
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Switzerland Breidl1337 
stay strong dude!
2018-09-26 08:36
Yeah man my swiss brother is absolutely right. Do your own business, get into some new hobbies or stuff you're interested in. It will take quite some time to clear your mind, do not think that this comes over night tho. But if you keep your thoughts away from her and your time you spend with this person...she will propably disappear more and more as time goes by.
2018-09-26 08:38
+1
2018-09-26 08:40
you cant do nothing, she probably with a better guy now
2018-09-26 08:25
WHAT DOINK YOU !??!?!?!??
2018-09-26 08:26
What do you mean ?
2018-09-26 08:27
Johnny sins ? YEs PAPA Eating Pussy? YES PAPA Fucking girls? YES PAPA
2018-09-26 08:28
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Kazakhstan tomik0 
go damn FLUSHA BREAK UP WITH FNATIC THIS IS SOME DAMAGE but u talking about u shitbag and ur pussyhole DA FAK U CALLING BREAK UP omg kys
2018-09-26 08:29
#34
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Brazil fuNNa 
10/8
2018-09-26 08:32
Johnny sins ? YEs PAPA Eating Pussy? YES PAPA Fucking girls? YES PAPA
2018-09-26 08:36
Dude it's bullshit. If there was no reason there would be no breakup. You are recalling what had been before the issues started happening, but also recall what exactly caused the breakup. And even more important - imagine you are still together, none of those issues disappear - are you 100% ready to put up with all those issues, really? Even if you are - there're many people in your city, so you will find somebody anyway, you can't move forward when looking back so stop looking back.
2018-09-26 08:44
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Finland James Nelson 
Just learn to enjoy your own compnay. I had bad breakup years ago and it was hard for 2 years and I get little depressed and lonely and drink too much. But I stopped drinking and started to focus on positive and I really enjoy myself. I'm good wanker and I like thinking so no need for converstation rly. Then after 5+ years I found my new gf which is best ever but the thing is that I didn't have to look for it. It just appeared and I was happy before that too because I liked myself.
2018-09-26 08:47
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Syria SyrianViking 
I said same thing same position same feeling. Then I found other girl. Prettier smarter and kinder. But that's what I went through. New is Kinda always better. Because if you didn't break up with her at first you would be together. That train is past bro. Accept the hard truth. While you're crying about her now she's chocking on others guy dick.
2018-09-26 08:50
+1 that train is real past bro. thankyou so much for your positive comments!
2018-09-26 08:55
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Syria SyrianViking 
No worries.
2018-09-26 11:39
Probably you miss her cuz u didnt put your stick anywhere since break up xD
2018-09-26 08:53
Listen here bro I had a girlfriend since january and we loved each other so much, i could imagine a future with her. But at some point i was like "i cant date her anymore, i dont feel anythníng" (btw i am a retard i cant feel love has something to do with my parents lmao). So i decided to break up with her, i am handsome i thought i will find a new better looking girl and she was already a 9/10 (turkish girl with black hair, blue eyes just a beauty) So after i broke up i was really happy, like i can fuck any girl i want since i am handsome. But after ONE fucking week i regretted it so much, we were still seeing eaach other. Because she was the only person i build a trust (i have big trust issues) and i said her that i am sorry and i still love her. But she rejected me.. we had met like 3-4 more times and always the same. She just didnt want me anymore, i texted with her over 3 months trying to get her back. I fell in depressions cuz i thought she is the girl of my life and i missed the chance. But that didnt stop me from dating other girls even if i only thought about her.. haha yeah long story short a few weeks ago i met my new girlfriend. She is turkish aswell and more beautiful, she isnt fucked up in her head and i am slowly trusting her. Just be lucky that you gained experience with your ex and move on.. But dont take a example on me hahahah yesterday i was so depressed i didnt text my ex only, i texted my ex girlfriend before my exxxx hahahahaha 3 turkish girls one is more beautiful than the other one fuck my life bro
2018-09-26 09:05
HAHAHA LMAO HOW LONG IS THE STORY
2018-09-26 09:05
if you break up say my dick was confuse now it want again pls come back works evrytiem
2018-09-26 10:23
People's psychology works like that, it better remembers good than bad. But rationality should always be in charge. Your ex is history, let her live her life and focus on your future one. It's gone. Relationships after a breakups never work properly.
2018-09-26 12:30
+1 rate you as your nickname is wisdow_preacher. thanks man!
2018-09-27 03:22
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United Kingdom Jeremy_Kyle 
its chill smoo just keep fragging chicks are for suckers
2018-09-27 03:24
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World Houzzy 
UK CS LUL
2018-09-27 03:27
Dude whats wrong with you ?
2018-09-27 03:30
"you don't know what you have until it's gone" is very true, for example not long ago we had interesting CS scene but then Asstralis came ResidentSleeper
2018-09-27 03:45
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