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Cute girl at the gym
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
This is honestly the worst thing. There`s a really cute girl at the gym I attend, and I can`t really figure it out a way on speaking with her. Any tips, you guys? Flirt with someone at a goddamn Gym gotta be one of the hardest things to do.
2018-10-12 16:38
#1
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Russia cuba_libre10 
she already has a boyfriend and 5 guys in line so gl
2018-10-12 16:38
#5
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
Heh, probably. That`s why I`ve said that flirting at the Gym is tough af.
2018-10-12 16:41
whats different from flirting in the supermarket or in the club? u need to lose ur values girls are just girls they dont mind a good honest compliment doesnt matter where they are. this is why ppl stay single and virgin cuz they dont know that 10/10 girls are the same as 1/10 girls there is nothing different.
2018-10-12 16:44
#13
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
Yeah, it makes sense. The thing about the Gym, at least it's the way I think of, it's because of the exercises. But you're right mate, I should leave this circumstances and get ahead of it. Thanks. +1.
2018-10-12 16:46
Women nowadays dont want to be harrased, most of them just want go to the gym and do not have to deal with horny horses who felt attracted to her body, and yes, to her body, cause they never spoken before, so there is no way you could be in love to her intenligence personality etc. That is the main point men must understand nowadays, if she does not look at you, you have neve saw her at any moment noticing you are alive, JUST LET IT GO, unless, you are god damn hot, then in a sutil way you might approach.
2018-10-12 16:58
#50
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
Well, she had noticed me a couple of times, and, as I said at #30, I just find her attractive. I don't consider myself "hot", but hey, if something shows me that I have a shot, I might do it. Your pov is alright, though.
2018-10-12 17:12
#52
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Netherlands HetIsPatat 
There are probably a lot of guys way more jacked than him, so in that case flirting at the gym would be a lot more difficult than in a supermarket or club.
2018-10-12 17:14
#56
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
+1, can confirm.
2018-10-12 17:16
they will beat ur ass right at the gym lmao dont fuck around boi xd
2018-10-12 19:01
thats the problem if he cares what strangers think about him, he lost already the game of life.
2018-10-12 17:26
lmao, exactly, story of my life
2018-10-12 16:56
You have no chance, she has 10's of potential bf's in her DM alone, and if you cant even know how to speak with her at the start, you've already lost. Get your criteria lower, and fish somewhere else.
2018-10-12 16:39
#8
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
Meh, it's not that I don't precisely know how to speak with her, it's just that I'm kinda shy. Tough shit, bro. Tough shit.
2018-10-12 16:43
just let it go, you have 0 chance. IF the girls is hot/cute, believe me , there is no chance that she doesn't have a boyfriend/fuckbuddy/ long waiting list
2018-10-12 16:49
you'd be suprised how many beatiful girls don't have a boyfriend. They are rarely aproached because of the men's mindset that she is so hot so has to be "hard to get"
2018-10-12 19:28
Say her that you have a dick. (if you have)
2018-10-12 16:39
#18
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
Heh, I do have a dick, but I don't think that's the right way.
2018-10-12 16:50
proof?
2018-10-12 18:45
#4
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Europe potatomato 
That girl was a man a few years ago.Ask other guys around if you dont believe.
2018-10-12 16:40
#19
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
Good reference.
2018-10-12 16:50
she has a dick
2018-10-12 16:41
#24
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Brazil teguP 
Even better
2018-10-12 16:53
If you don't have enough confidence to talk to her but instead go on HLTV to ask for advice then you probably don't have a chance (no offence)
2018-10-12 16:42
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United States Covahh 
+1
2018-10-12 16:46
#15
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
Lmao. I decided to post this subject here because I'll read different opinions, and I like to have some conversation, even knowing that HLTV forum section is kind-of toxic.
2018-10-12 16:48
Sorry I didn’t mean to come off so toxic. People who come ask questions like this just usually end up not actually doing anything but if you do then that’s great just remember that getting rejected only brings experience. You might think this girl is perfect or something but that’s just because you’ve never met her so your mind created a perfect image of her. Ask her out and have her reject you and that image shatters and you’ll be able to move on. Or then she agrees and you’re good. Don’t do anything and you’ll never stop thinking about her. Hope this is more helpful
2018-10-12 16:57
#30
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
It is indeed more helpful. I don't think she's perfect or anything, I just find her attractive. Thank you for the words, though =)
2018-10-12 16:57
+1
2018-10-12 16:49
#67
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Malaysia byaIi 
this guy might be right
2018-10-12 17:29
naa one of the rare positions that ill have to be not jokin around its a real hard thing to do to flirt with a girl in the gym but you need to try everything, right? lets say she doin leg press go to her and ask how much series does she have more maybe if she is some kind of good body or something ask her to help you do the exercise right of course if you are not some fkin bodybuilder or some beast that is obviously with knowledge in the gym get in some kind of conversation with her see if she has some interest because most of gym girls will not talk to you if she answers you with smile and seems like she wants to talk it is possible my friend god luck men
2018-10-12 16:45
She is at the gym, probably in a good shape I assume. She probably has lots and lots of hot guys aching to fuck her. Why would she chose a guy who is so shy? No chance sorry
2018-10-12 16:51
#34
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
She's actually at the gym "looking" to get a better shape, I presume. She's not that really hot girl that works out every single day. She's just a normal cute chick who just started to have some exercises. And she kinda noticed me sometimes too. But yeah, my chances are from low to null, unfortunately. At least while I prevent myself by being shy. Bloody hell.
2018-10-12 16:59
But hey you can always start up a conversation. Who knows the chemistry between you two might turn out to be awesome. And cute girls, generally like shy guys so you might as well talk to her once.
2018-10-12 17:02
#42
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
Might do it. I really need to work out on this shy thing. While it does help me with some gals, it prejudice a lot when I need to show some interest.
2018-10-12 17:04
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Italy _VAC_ 
sorry u have 0 chances bro
2018-10-12 16:52
#23
oskar | 
Czech Republic ZaKL 
Just talk to her after the gym (not before, not while working out, but after). If she tells you she has a boyfriend/husband or you will see she has no interest in you, just move on and please don´t bother her anymore, be a man and grow some balls.
2018-10-12 16:52
#36
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
I did thought about doing it this way. I'll probably do it and I will obviously move on if she doesn't show the interest. +1.
2018-10-12 17:01
#25
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Europe aNCIOn 
steal her tampons and then go return them pretending you found them
2018-10-12 16:54
#27
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Turkey Slapdash 
Hmmst, I dunno man but go warmed up not straight up when you enter the gym your muscles will appear bigger ;)) and you can talk about sports, like what does she exercise how long has she been doing stuff like that than the conversation shall open up
2018-10-12 16:55
#29
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Turkey Slapdash 
Wadu hek you were brazilian now brit
2018-10-12 16:56
#32
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
I'm half Brazilian, so I might do some fake flagging from time to time.
2018-10-12 16:57
#73
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Turkey Slapdash 
Reported Jk
2018-10-12 18:42
which half you is the brazilian one ? lower or upper ? (._.')
2018-10-12 18:55
#31
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Netherlands xEKOy 
Just put your dick on her shoulder when u see her next time
2018-10-12 16:57
and then she will sing 'put your dick in my shoulder' by Paul Anka (._.)7
2018-10-12 18:57
#35
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Portugal lovessd 
don't sex her & don't make babies there are too many uk cancer on cs go already
2018-10-12 17:01
#38
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
Why can't I generate another Smoooooooooooooya? =(
2018-10-12 17:02
who tf tries to talk to girls in the gym..?
2018-10-12 17:03
#43
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
That's exactly why I've created this thread. Doing these stuff at the Gym is actually tough af, and I would like to read something from you guys.
2018-10-12 17:05
how about you just focus on working out
2018-10-12 17:06
#48
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
I am, mate. This cute girl thing is just something that happened at the Gym.
2018-10-12 17:08
Just happened but you still make a thread about how its the worst thing ever and you need tips on what to say to her. Forget it man
2018-10-12 17:15
#55
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
Alright.
2018-10-12 17:16
#40
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Switzerland Alpollo 
Need a picture or I cant help
2018-10-12 17:04
#41
suNny | 
Vietnam Oida 
Cool Girls don't wanna get talked on in the gym, only the sluts/desperate ones (which can be good though)
2018-10-12 17:04
#46
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
It makes sense, mate. The thing is, she kinda noticed me too, and because of the difficulty that is having these conversations at the Gym, I'm actually thinking about letting it happen by "nature", let's say. Maybe some city event, since I live in a kind-of small city.
2018-10-12 17:07
#49
suNny | 
Vietnam Oida 
that's a nice advantage you have here, you can give yourself some time no problem, but you don't wanna become the weird guy at the gym who stares at her, so watch out.
2018-10-12 17:10
#51
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
Yeah, I really don't wanna be the weird guy. +1 mate.
2018-10-12 17:14
Buy her vegan food
2018-10-12 17:06
Just start some random chat like asking her if she's new on this gym, that you see her recently but not before and then let the conversation flow. Next time you have open gate to ask anything, like what are practicing today. You can complement her like: "you are working out hard, that's impressive".
2018-10-12 17:08
#53
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Brazil VeryMibrGuy 
Yeah, maybe if we both get to share some gym equipment or something, I might have the shot to do some conversation. +1.
2018-10-12 17:14
Btw. if she always come alone there is a pretty good chance that she is single. Single girls have more motivation to go to gym to be more attractive to men.
2018-10-12 18:02
flirting in 2018 lul have fun going to jail
2018-10-12 17:18
#58
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World nakTriceps 
I already gave an advice for a guy here about this. The better form to you aproximate with her for me is asking for take turns in one equipment gym. Probably she´ll accept. And with this, you could in next days greet her and day by day talk about anything you want (start with gym stuff). After that, it´s with you to realize the exactly momentum to step forward.] I go to the gym for 8/9 years. I met a lot of girls in this time, so trust in my advices, dude. If she likes you, this plan won´t fail.
2018-10-12 17:24
thats actually good advice
2018-10-12 17:26
#64
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World nakTriceps 
Tks, dude.
2018-10-12 17:28
Sorry to bother but what a guy has to do to take you out for some coffee/drinks/pizza etc. And i would at least consider if i was her.
2018-10-12 17:25
#62
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Bulgaria mchetvorkata 
If you just randomly start a conversation you will xome out as a desperate creep. You have to either become very social with everyone in the gym so it looks normal or if you see her outside of the gym say something like , hey youre the girl from the gym but better said u kno
2018-10-12 17:27
i have same thing but i know 0 chances probably cuz she has like 1k ig followers and same tall as me, also im kinda lanky . so sad.
2018-10-12 17:27
#65
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Czech Republic Nikoleo 
she is gay 100%
2018-10-12 17:28
#68
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Malaysia byaIi 
on my gym there was no girls, only sister
2018-10-12 17:30
wtf you mean by that?
2018-10-12 19:05
#80
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Malaysia byaIi 
i dont know...?
2018-10-12 19:05
bruh u high?
2018-10-12 19:06
#82
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Malaysia byaIi 
bro i'm 11 btw bro
2018-10-12 19:07
#69
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Poland ez271 
dont even try, you are beta, 0% chance
2018-10-12 17:33
#70
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Sri Lanka RacerJonas 
theres no such thing as "you have 0 chance" you dont know her thoughts. maybe she finds you attractive, you will never know if you dont try. but remember my friend,you have to think if you wont feel embarrassed with seeing her everyday in case of rejection, that may be a bit weird . anyway its always best to get rejected with the feeling that you are real man with guts than just imagine what could have been. that thought sometimes can haunt you for the rest of your life. in case you decided to go for it, i wouldnt try something very agressive as saying you find her attractive or something like that. go easily ,try something funny without even saying hi. first make her laugh and later introduce urself its your time, its your life!
2018-10-12 17:42
#71
Mexico aeR1 
Just say hi and smile at her. See her reaction.....
2018-10-12 17:44
you are a fucking pussy trying to search for help in HLTV and also for my opinion, if you can't even approach a girl, even worse, it's in the gym, then you're fucked honestly, someone with more balls than you already made their first move on her
2018-10-12 18:48
#83
g0d | 
Brazil L4x @.@ 
Just take off your shirt and show her your 6 pack
2018-10-12 19:20
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