It's hard to get a girl through social media or tinder or whatever. Women always look for a better hotter guy, like a fat chick with 3 chins will look for a brad pitt looking guy. It's ridicoulus. The funny thing is, girls don't care about looks if you manage to charm them and make them laugh etc, but its hard to do over texts. Almost impossible. If you speak to her on the phone maybe. But the only time you cna really get a nice girl to like you is if you are face to face with her talk and she can see your personality.