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Europe Gandhi_of_CSGO 
Hello, HLTV army!! I met a lovely girl, and she likes Economics, Politics, Philosophy, Maths, and History(WHAT A MIRACLEE!)! So, she's awesome! But I am struggling to keep the conversation going! If she didn't continue the conversation, I would experience an awkward silence. Any advice for me?
2018-10-31 03:38
she's weird
2018-10-31 03:40
#2
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Europe Gandhi_of_CSGO 
She's not! And she's absolutely gorgeous.
2018-10-31 03:41
i prefer girls who likes nerd stuff, travel with no money, junk food and beer.
2018-10-31 03:43
#8
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Europe Gandhi_of_CSGO 
Ok!! Any advice?
2018-10-31 03:44
#39
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Czech Republic ModusOperandi 
There's nothing bad about a moment of silence. Just don't think about it as an "awkward" silence. Even with your best friends or whoever, you don't excessively say stuff just to fill the silence.. That's the joke. I mean, ofc if you're on a 1st and 2nd date, you want the conversation flowing a bit at least, but you have to think about what you say too. If you're struggling with keeping the conversation going, try to compensate that with some interesting places you two can go together. Saves you some stress off the chest e.g. if she likes "Economics, Politics, Philosophy, Maths, and History" just go grab a lunch, dinner whatever and take her to a museum or anywhere that's relevant to her interests. IMO.
2018-10-31 13:30
+1
2018-11-01 00:55
+1 go to a beautiful place and if you get nothing to say, just admire it.
2018-11-01 00:55
#127
Zeus | 
Finland Olter 
Nudist beach and make her admire your shaft
2018-11-10 02:27
#129
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Ecuador bruhh 
+1
2018-11-10 02:29
-7298392892012
2018-11-10 02:36
#136
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Russia cuba_libre10 
fan of ence checks out
2018-11-10 14:45
jdlakdhaosdhask
2019-03-16 21:46
#154
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Finland EdiEz 
True
2019-03-16 02:05
Well, I don't know! I am so shy!
2019-03-16 02:07
be confident and relax, breathe, sometimes when we stress about what we should say or do we end up making a mess of the whole thing, it comes to you go with the flow, try n be present in the moment
2018-11-10 14:44
OK! I understand you. My problem is associated w/ online comms only!
2018-12-19 22:04
#160
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Poland Hanse 
If she keeps talking with you this shows that either: a) she likes you back b) she feels bad for you Firstly try to find out which of these two are true. If she is into you you can just trash talk with there, if not better give up.
2019-03-16 21:54
Well, how can I figure that out? I think that 1) might be an option, but I don't know!
2019-03-16 22:17
#164
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Poland Hanse 
it will be easier to bait out b) imo. Tell her that you feel bad and see how long she will remember. If her reaction will be more than "are you fine?" she may be into you.
2019-03-16 23:51
#3
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Other bergkvisten 
idk ask new questions about her?
2018-10-31 03:42
#7
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Europe Gandhi_of_CSGO 
Suggestions?
2018-10-31 03:44
how big is her penis
2018-10-31 04:28
Yes
2018-10-31 06:10
+1
2018-10-31 16:35
#83
Dosia | 
Hungary Joco413 
most important question
2018-11-09 22:36
+1
2018-11-09 22:37
#165
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Canada iEatTaxes 
name checks out
2019-03-16 23:58
#4
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Sweden BusWanker 
how can you struggle to keep a conversation going with your hand ?
2018-10-31 03:42
#6
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Europe Gandhi_of_CSGO 
I didn't get it. EDIT: Actually I did.
2018-10-31 03:44
Maybe thats the reason why u cant keep the conversation going
2018-10-31 12:30
Lul
2018-10-31 12:38
+1
2018-11-10 15:08
ask her which hole she prefers to get inserted
2018-10-31 03:45
No comments...
2018-10-31 03:45
ask her what 2+2 is
2018-10-31 03:47
#13
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Europe Parasyte 
quick maths
2018-10-31 03:50
ask her to teach you linear algebra should take your potato brain about 6 years to understand so you wont need a new topic til then
2018-10-31 03:49
ahahahahahah
2018-11-01 00:52
#68
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Italy steven513 
LMAO
2018-11-03 03:21
hahaha
2018-11-09 22:54
I have better grades than her. But we both have good grades.
2018-11-09 23:51
#128
Zeus | 
Finland Olter 
Get out nerd
2018-11-10 02:28
#14
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Canada Timings 
Google it. No joke. :)
2018-10-31 03:54
Embrace the awkward silence and talk to her about it. Ask her to let an awkward pause happen on purpose and it wont be awkward anymore. Shell find it charming. Ez.
2018-10-31 04:08
only retards no this, DO NOT DO IT
2018-10-31 12:40
Its worked for me at least. Maybe in <Insert actual country of origin> girls react differently.
2018-10-31 12:45
let me rephrase, an introverted girl would not like it, maybe an ekstroverted girl would react differently
2018-10-31 12:55
#16
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Europe potatomato 
talk about Scream's one taps
2018-10-31 04:12
Shes feminazi
2018-10-31 04:20
She's not.
2018-11-09 23:49
#19
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Germany hyd33 
Go find out a girl with similar life/experience to yours... that girl ain't for ya. Eventually ya will notice that she ain't that interesting to bear with all that hassle. Even worse, what about your self-respect? Will ya keep pushing topics over topics for no good reason?! Get a "cool" girl. One that you don't need to adapt every day, but one that is just compatible! Save yourself from all that stress!
2018-10-31 04:34
#20
villiG | 
Czech Republic prokda 
+1
2018-10-31 04:31
OMG, PROKDA !!!!!
2018-10-31 13:40
#81
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Bulgaria Pixeland 
WE FOUND HIM!!!!
2018-11-09 22:32
#105
Pogba | 
France uria64 
finally the legend is back
2018-11-09 23:58
that's not real prokda
2018-11-10 01:44
#21
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United States gtmaniacmda 
maybe this is a good dynamic? one talks, the other listens?
2018-10-31 04:38
It's not! But that's not the dynamic I propose. She propose some topics, I propose others; but my shyness doesn't allow me to do such thing.
2018-10-31 12:26
#34
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Kazakhstan blezzyzx 
I can see your point of view. People usually hide their true ideas behind and lie a lot just because not to look stupid. And you dont what to talk about what she might find stupid. This is totally ok. Just try to philosophy with her and just realize how stupid you are.
2018-10-31 13:01
#45
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Czech Republic ModusOperandi 
+1this Actually the best thing you can do is to be YOURSELF. If you find some of her opinions weird to you or vice versa, just talk that out. The most bizarre situations occur when people are not saying what they really think. Communication barriers are all over the world. Some do it for profit others of shyness
2018-10-31 13:40
try not assuming every silence is awkward. just relax. if you have nothing to say, then dont talk. if you want to talk then talk. its not that complicated. girls talk all the time. that doesnt mean you have to talk all the time as well.
2018-10-31 12:30
Online, it's slightly more notorious. Live, there's no problem.
2018-11-09 22:35
isn't it usually the other way around? xD
2018-11-10 01:53
It is. But, in this case, I feel much, much more confident live!
2018-11-10 02:00
all good then m8, maybe you just spent little time chatting online in your life and you're just not used to it or something
2018-11-10 02:13
I don't know. I seem robotic, sometimes, I guess.
2018-11-10 02:21
#27
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Denmark VeryDanishGuy 
awkward silence best silence btw everyone on hltv is a virgin, don’t expect any help
2018-10-31 12:38
#29
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Netherlands @Deji 
"she likes politics" what??!
2018-10-31 12:41
Amazing! It's soooo rare nowadays.
2018-10-31 15:01
#69
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United States Rod0lfo 
Left or Right? and are you Left or Right?
2018-11-03 03:48
We're both at the right side of the Political Spectrum. We would be both Republican, in America (even though I am NeoLiberal, economically speaking).
2018-11-03 12:57
#87
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Spain VIKTORAL 
right side liberal what?
2018-11-09 22:40
So, Neoliberal means that, in a general way, laissez-faire politics. I support the growth of the private investment, the statal spending restraint, free market, less regulation. The term is just misused in a general way, mainly because of its meaning in the USA. Milton Friedman is a good liberal economist.
2018-11-09 22:49
#94
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Spain VIKTORAL 
so anti communism i see u must be loving economics and capitalism
2018-11-09 22:49
I am. But I am not anti-communist.
2018-11-09 22:52
#30
Xyp9x | 
Czech Republic @Puget 
Learn more about economics then
2018-10-31 12:42
I am a student of Economics, and a big fan of the subject.
2018-10-31 15:02
#52
Xyp9x | 
Czech Republic @Puget 
We had 2 semesters of eco, micro and macro, I found it really intriguing as well
2018-10-31 15:08
#31
f0rest | 
Russia 1.6 FTW 
well if u cant outsmart her and be the one who has better knowledge in this things, she gets pretty boring very soon.
2018-10-31 12:43
I would look arrogant if I would affirm clearly that I can outsmart her. I have slightly better grades, but we both have nice grades (85 or 90 in 100, in average).
2018-11-09 22:32
THIS IS NOT INCEL FORUM GO SHOOT UP SCHOOL NORMIE
2018-10-31 12:51
#36
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Kazakhstan blezzyzx 
Give a topic to talk, she seems smart so she must be able to handle it and talk to you, try to give some controversial topics like we should not allow immigrants from India because they shit in the streets and child abuse, so to keep streets clean and make our country safer place for kids
2018-10-31 13:17
Worst advice ever. Stay way from controversy until you have fucked her.
2018-10-31 13:27
I will not talk about that kind of uncomfortable topics, because, even though she is placed on the right side of the politic spectrum, like me, I don't know her opinion about the migration issues around the Globe, about the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, and other topics... Those are just controversial.
2018-10-31 15:09
Just talk with her about Economics, Politics, Philosophy, Maths, and History...
2018-10-31 13:29
just talk makeup with her
2018-10-31 13:30
Bad idea.
2018-10-31 15:05
Tell her that pi and sqrt(2) are rational numbers and that’ll give you a whole conversation on its own Works 10/10 times
2018-10-31 13:32
We have high grades in Maths. That would not be adequate.
2018-11-09 22:30
make her bacalhau
2018-10-31 13:33
I don't know how to cook... Bacalhau não é o meu forte! :)
2018-10-31 15:05
make her speak with zorlakKOKA
2018-10-31 16:25
So he can roast her... No thanks!
2018-10-31 16:46
Pets is a good thing, show her how you likes pets, tell her funny stories about u, find a person who she doesn't like and roast, talk about music etc, etc then you must to show her that u are interested or otherwise you'll gonna be friendzoned. I repeat YOU HAVE TO SHOW THAT U ARE INTERESTED IN HER, cuz if you don't probably she'll lose interest in u if you don't act, show her attitude girls don't like weak frightened dudes are you a man or a pussy?
2018-10-31 13:37
Start talking
2018-10-31 13:42
#47
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Czech Republic _s0 
Educate yourself
2018-10-31 14:00
That's not the problem. My problem is related with online communication.
2018-11-09 22:29
#54
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Malaysia byaIi 
you need to wear glassess
2018-10-31 15:12
Lucky you! All the girls I've met are just interested in food, and some stupid video clips(it's common in china), etc. Whenever you talk about something else, like history, politics, etc, there would definitely be a whatever-face on them. It's so annoying, seems the only thing we have in common is traveling. As for the advice you want, i can't come up with something genius. Just wish you good luck bro BTW, you said there would be a silence during the conversation, is that possible? I mean, whenever i met someone who's interested in politics, histoty, and stuff like that,i'd be too excited to stop talking. The only two reasons i can assume are that either you are shy or you are not interested in those topics very much. if it's the latter, you should start digging what you've learned in your history class
2018-10-31 15:51
I absolutely love History. And I love to study History and Politics. That's not the problem. My problem is related with online communications. I feel that the conversation doesn't flow naturally.
2018-11-09 22:28
tell her you're global and faceit lvl 10
2018-10-31 16:36
I am not. Sorry to tell you.
2018-11-03 03:01
reported
2019-03-15 20:56
#60
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Portugal R4nger)( 
Mano se tem topicos em comum falem sobre isso mas tenta encontrar cenas que tenham em comum tp futebol , series , atores favs , filmes e faz-la rir e sentir confiante brinca com ela de modo a ela ter smp 1 sorriso na cara :) se estás sem topicos e ela nao desenvolve fala do tp 'devias começar a ver esta serie tipo The 100 é de adolescentes que vivem numa colonia espacial mas dps caiem na terra e tem que encontrar 1 abrigo no meio de 1 mundo pós guerra nuclear (so nao sejas tao maquina tp faz as cenas de forma fx eu so estou a escrever de forma mais correta para tu entenderes xD nao vais ler sinopses da serie a ela ) e ela vai dizer algo ' mas n tenho tempo ' ou ' vou tentar ver ' e tu dizes algo do tipo fazes me esse favor ou alguma cena que faça ela sorrir . Se ela sentir-se feliz e confiante ao teu lado estás a fzr 1 bom trabalho mas cuidado nao passes a barreira da friendzone nem sufoques continua a estar com os teus amigos normalmente apenas tenta ficar mais tempo a flr com ela em algumas situacoes . Mesmo q ela tenha os msm gostos do que tu nao significa que seja boa pra ti acredita , normalmente essas ficam amigas ;) . Já agora estás em que ano e porque que és tão nerd xD ?
2018-11-01 00:42
#125
NiKo | 
Portugal queniese 
+1 but, This is a international site, please write your comment in English. Comments in another language will be deleted.
2018-11-10 02:25
True! He could DM'ed me!
2018-11-10 02:26
#133
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Portugal R4nger)( 
Yes i got banned 2 days because of that LULZ no prob .
2018-11-10 14:30
#61
gob b | 
Germany Koxky 
Silence can be really nice. If you have reached a point where not talking isn't awkward anymore, you two have bonded greatly.
2018-11-01 00:45
get a fatal disease
2018-11-03 03:01
If there is a moment of silence its np but seriously if there is a 2nd moment of silence then your only option is to drop your pants and tell her SUCC. If that doesn't work then the girl wasn't meant to be
2018-11-03 03:05
Ask for dick pics
2018-11-03 12:46
If you can not continue the conversation you probably have got problems related with self-expression. Have you ever had an opportunity to talk to the people on the stage or in front of the group for more than 10 minutes and making interactions with them?
2018-11-03 14:29
Nice question! I consider myself a good speaker. I am a member of a youth wing of a political party, and it helps me much. I am talking online. Live, I trust in my communication capabilities. Maybe I didn't express myself in an adequate way.
2018-11-09 22:26
believe me she love none of those she is shitesting you slap her and the ass and you will know how much she love to be raped and slaped so hard
2018-11-09 22:27
No comments at all.
2018-11-09 22:37
#167
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Canada iEatTaxes 
Expected from Jungle
2019-03-17 00:04
#75
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New Zealand Eauor 
Stopped reading at: "Hello HLTV army"
2018-11-09 22:27
how about fuck off then virgin, nobody gives a shit about u
2018-11-09 22:43
#91
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New Zealand Eauor 
Good lord mate, what happened to you today?
2018-11-09 22:45
i had a good day
2018-11-10 01:33
#111
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New Zealand Eauor 
:D
2018-11-10 01:38
You said she keeps conversation up It means she likes you
2018-11-09 22:30
She does. But, online, I struggle a bit. Live, I trust in my communication capabilities.
2018-11-09 22:36
stop talking to her online. just meet her
2018-11-09 22:43
#88
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Spain VIKTORAL 
just make encrypted device (she wont see u saw her message) and message every x time when u think of response this wa she will think u have even more things to do
2018-11-09 22:42
you rly do that? omfgg
2018-11-10 01:51
#132
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Spain VIKTORAL 
no i mostly dont reply cuz i hate to talk online and yes this is best method
2018-11-10 12:00
how did you find such a perfect girl?
2018-11-09 22:46
I don't even know!! But it's awesome!!
2018-11-09 22:53
#98
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Germany RobiDable 
BS, none on hltv meets girls.
2018-11-09 22:56
left-wing: forget right-wing: talk with her
2018-11-09 23:03
She's center-right. I like Progressistas or Democratas, or Partido Republicano in Brazil; she likes Partido Social Democrático or the center-right of PSDB. I am making this analogy, to explain you better.
2018-11-09 23:18
dont talk too much or you'll get traped into a friendship show signals of you wanting her, and end up asking if she likes to drink, if she likes to go out etc my modus operandi is: discover what she likes to drink, discover where she likes to go, ask her out now i'm 26 so I almost never do that cuz I meet new girls partying, so you already have a lot in common, but when I was a teen I did that 24/7 100% proven. this works. just takes skill, and the skill comes with time, being able to talk to girls online is like playing a game on super easy mode XD, you can see if she wants you or not without taking a NO in your face xD
2018-11-09 23:54
#106
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Norway rogueplayer 
>you can see if she wants you or not without taking a NO in your face xD not really true though... hell, even girls doesn't even know if they want you or not at the moment. that's why you have to seize the moment with the right skill and wit. If you're already friendzoned because you asked her directly, you're dumb. Girls likes to play mind games which explains their craziness, just make sure you have an ace in your hand before playing their games though
2018-11-09 23:59
+1 I agree, they are very inpredicable, but what I mean is, sometimes the bitch dont even reply to you, like "gtfo" LOL so its little bit easier, like... you "warm" things up, when you face her IRL, its easier anyway, even if she says no, still safer and less scary to do it to younger guys this is a must be, thats the point! I'm 26 now and I'm full retarded, I dont give af anymore LOL, if the bitch says no to my face I just jump to the other, end up making friendships by taking the no's and shit but when I was younger I was shy, afraid to take no, but is just normal, the more you practice the more you dont give 2 fucks XD
2018-11-10 00:02
#108
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Norway rogueplayer 
+1 Nice, that's how you get better with girls actually. Just get a lot of experience and know what to do and not to do.... you can read 100 books about girls but it won't stand a chance compared to true experience
2018-11-10 00:04
+1
2018-11-10 00:05
#104
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Norway rogueplayer 
Perhaps you're thinking too much about the outcome... just stay sharp, fresh and just be in the moment. Relax your shoulders and just ease into the conversation like a true hustler, have some fun. I'll bet you're both students right? Well, it's bigger chance for you to get into her pants then, what're you waiting for?
2018-11-09 23:56
Hello! So, my problem is related with online communication. Live, I think I am a good communicator; I have experience in political parties, and that helps me. So, my problem is that I eventually fell in love with the girl (we can't choose that, tough luck, 'cause I stand absolutely no chance, at least I guess). Besides, my online communication is weak, at best.
2018-11-10 01:55
If u can’t get a conversation going she’s not the one for you, if u have to think about what ur saying than u don’t have a connection with her.
2018-11-10 01:54
#117
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Brazil Eneas56 
If you can't keep on talking with a girl there's two options: 1- She is not interested in you, and wants you to go away 2- You are boring Which of these is your problem?
2018-11-10 01:58
2, I guess. Suggestions?
2018-11-10 02:01
#120
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Brazil Eneas56 
Try talking to her like you would to your other friends, don't try to make a script for the conversation to avoid sounding robotic, let her talk, women like to be heard.
2018-11-10 02:03
#121
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Brazil Eneas56 
And ofc, don't force a subject, if you two are silent for a bit don't try to fill the conversation with some random bullshit.
2018-11-10 02:05
OK! Thanks!
2018-11-10 02:37
That's easy to say; hard to accomplish. Live, I feel confident, and I think I am a good speaker. Online, it's tooo hard.
2018-11-10 02:08
#140
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Finland mmusi 
If you have hard time talking yourself just ask questions about her so you can learn stuff about her and make her feel you being interested. Or you saying that you have several common interests just pick a topic beforehand and ask her opinion on sth. Get your buddy to set you up for a joke so she thinks you funny. 1800-G-E-T-L-A-I-D for professional chad tactics
2018-11-10 15:19
#140
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Finland mmusi 
If you have hard time talking yourself just ask questions about her so you can learn stuff about her and make her feel you being interested. Or you saying that you have several common interests just pick a topic beforehand and ask her opinion on sth. Get your buddy to set you up for a joke so she thinks you funny. 1800-G-E-T-L-A-I-D for professional chad tactics
2018-11-10 15:19
if its not 1 then, she must be interested in you, and according to 2, youre a boring person, which means she interested in a boring person? i guess ur girl is just interested in old-school things and bois, just share ur views on some historical events or policies (ofc ur views or topics cant be harsh or extreme ) with her.be that old-school boy for a little, and when you feel you could talk to her freely online, funny and relaxing things come naturally.
2018-11-14 06:04
fuck her father
2018-11-10 14:34
Zero expectations helps. If you have any expectations, play along with them, don't try to hide it and only focus on the positive outcome in your mind. Don't focus on what not to do, never, you are subconsciously training yourself to fail this way. Most people will instantly feel a conflict between appearance and intentions, so don't "act". Don't text too much about emotions. Keep it short and to the point. Texting too much about intangible matters like emotions and feelings is sure fire way to be misunderstood.
2018-11-10 15:07
If she keeps the conversation alive then youre a dumbfuck. You can try to plan the first moments but then the conversation will flow naturally and there will always be a matter to talk about. Ask her to go out. idk man for me this is more like feeling
2018-11-10 15:10
Bump!
2018-12-19 21:51
Bump!
2018-12-20 19:42
Bump!
2019-03-01 00:24
Bumpp!!
2019-03-16 12:01
Bumppp!!!
2019-03-14 20:58
Bumpperino!!
2019-03-15 20:45
yeah i agree with #1 .. she's weirdoooo
2019-03-15 20:47
She's not!😂
2019-03-16 02:03
are you sure this isn't a boy?
2019-03-15 20:51
Totally!
2019-03-16 02:03
If she likes history just show her sabaton, she will sex u
2019-03-16 12:03
No comments...
2019-03-16 21:40
Wtf
2019-03-16 22:30
#163
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India illumination 
Gandhi ? gandhi don't slap back but can headshot .
2019-03-16 22:38
I met a lovely girl, and she likes Economics, Politics, Philosophy, Maths, and History(WHAT A MIRACLEE!)!
2019-03-17 00:01
Well, I know it can seem a paradox. But it's not. I think the conversation isn't fluid.
2019-03-18 00:45
#168
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Europe Xentic 
idk what to say man if you like eachother the conversation should be pretty smooth
2019-03-17 00:05
We do. But I don't know! We talk a lot about Politics. I think it seems too robotic; it doesn't seem fluid.
2019-03-18 00:42
if you can take a "awkward silence" with a girl and dont feel it being awkward, that's the right girl, the right one. i saw it on pulp fiction xD
2019-03-18 00:50
Well, an "awkward"-silence moment is always embarrassing, regardless, I guess.
2019-03-18 00:55
Ask her about the stuff you have in common. Show interest in her thoughts and tell her to explain more. People love talking about themselves. Ez pz!!!!
2019-03-18 00:58
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