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Netherlands notdrugdealer 
So... I started going to University and my class has a lot of hot chicks since I study business, I made some friends and I made friends with one of the girl, after like 3 months I feel that I love her, but I think she friend zoned me because she types me messages like "my friend" and I found out that she was dating other guy while studying with her, she writes me and I chat with her a lot and we study together on our free time so I mostly spend my days with her. After I found out that she was dating a guy I stopped texting her but then she texts me.. I wanted to forget her but I can't... What should I do guys, should I try to invite her to date or tell her that I have feelings for her or just try to forget her or what, I'm lost :/
2018-11-06 23:06
Yes, invite her on a date while you know that she is already dating somebody else. What could go wrong?
2018-11-06 23:08
SmartestPersonOnHLTV lul really mate, wtf you are genius
2018-11-08 20:47
#105
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Brazil BlaBlau 
GENIUS
2018-11-08 21:07
Dont tell her, just ignore her, you are her best gay friend, if you didnt make a move in first 2 weeks, you are done for good. Just cut off all the contacts, find a GF (force it, in order to forget her). You will make your life easier.
2018-11-06 23:09
#37
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Germany hyd33 
that not true. Woman do have male friends, at least that expect them to keep in that friendzone...
2018-11-07 14:02
#38
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Indonesia raihanarch14 
+1
2018-11-07 14:54
Exactly like aleksi told you, just give a fuck about her.
2018-11-08 19:29
#5
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United States pSilent 
I mean if she's in a relationship than there ain't much you can do. If it's really bothering you than just ignore her or something.
2018-11-06 23:10
every goal has a keeper, dosent mean you can't score
2018-11-06 23:13
#14
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United States pSilent 
Well I guess, but cheating is a pretty shit thing to do. inb4 "cuck/beta"
2018-11-06 23:14
#26
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Czech Republic stinx 
beta haahhaaha
2018-11-07 12:42
#27
rigoN | 
Czech Republic stinx 
JK +1
2018-11-07 12:42
#68
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Portugal Zedonp 
thats for her to decide. If she is not dating a friend of him then who tf cares?
2018-11-08 20:15
#72
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United States pSilent 
People with empathy. It's still an immoral thing to do. If I apply your logic on a larger scale I could probably justify genocide.
2018-11-08 20:34
#74
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Portugal Zedonp 
yeah if u want to go overboard with stuff. Its not like they are married or anything of the sort. Why should OP care about their relationship? maybe he can care about her happiness if he really likes her, but thats all imo.
2018-11-08 20:37
#75
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United States pSilent 
So you're philosophy is to not give a shit about anyone if you don't know them personally? Okay, well you're a shitty person in my book then.
2018-11-08 20:37
#82
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Portugal Zedonp 
where did i say that? i'm clearly giving a F about OP and the girl he likes, no i don't feel any simpathy for some random guy dating a random girl half way around the world. That doesn't make me a shit person just a normal one. btw its nothing new to see a girl change her mind about he man she is dating as i've been on both sides of that particular sittuation, and it does happen with little to no information, so all i'm saying is that there is a chance for him if he is willing to take it.
2018-11-08 20:44
#87
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United States pSilent 
You implied that if you were in his shoes and she was willing you would sleep with her knowing that she has a boyfriend, which is only something a shitty person would do. Thus, you are a shitty person. Make sense? If you're not arguing that than there was absolutely zero reason for you to reply to me in the first place.
2018-11-08 20:44
#90
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Portugal Zedonp 
On this sittuation she is the one cheating not him. She is the one that has to decide if its the correct or wrong decision not him. No argument, just a little reply ur entitled to ur own opinion and i don't think i was being a rude or bad person. nor was i assuming u to be one so maybe think before replying likr ur some sort of saint
2018-11-08 20:47
#93
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United States pSilent 
Cheating is a two person thing. You are still willingly participating in an immoral act by enabling someone to cheat on their significant other. The only way this is a matter of opinion is if your morals are significantly looser than mine, hence why, in that circumstance, I would believe you are a bad person. I never accused you of being rude, I'm merely making a judgement about you based on what I know of your moral integrity. If that bothers you, deal with it.
2018-11-08 20:48
#101
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Portugal Zedonp 
Cheating is reserved for the person that is already Ina relationship. And u assume everyone is born with monogamy principals and has to abide by ur standards. Imo ur the bad person that can't and won't understand or accept others. Reserve ur shitty opinions to yourselfe next time kiddo
2018-11-08 20:53
Kidnap her brother, works 7/8 times.
2018-11-06 23:10
Can agree
2018-11-07 12:33
#23
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Austria Laolon 
i cant agree i must be the 1/8
2018-11-07 12:41
unluko, try her father then
2018-11-07 12:42
#28
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Austria Laolon 
mh ok but he is bigger than me i think i will need a bigger hankie
2018-11-07 12:43
#7
African Union Nared 
Add drugs to her drink and have fun.. Do not thank me.
2018-11-06 23:11
go for it. what do you have to lose? if not then forget about her
2018-11-06 23:11
#11
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Namibia banned_so 
notdrugdealer
2018-11-06 23:12
Invite her bf to a date instead of her - show her who tha real alpha is
2018-11-06 23:13
#15
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United States pSilent 
+1 This is the best advice so far.
2018-11-06 23:14
+1 that's how i met my bjørnar<3
2018-11-08 20:13
#100
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United Kingdom Jemers 
hahahaha
2018-11-08 20:53
Had a somewhat similar experience about... 5 years back? My issue was a lot easier since we weren't talking on a daily basis. I would find an excuse to not talk to her as much, mainly in the form of another girl. It's smart to have a girl on hand even if you lie to her and say "I'm dating someone now, I don't have as much free time anymore" because she might ask for double dates and shit. Distancing from the girls you really like (the feeling comparable to love) won't resolve much but it will remove that thought dwelling where you are unproductive as a result of being emotionally burdened.
2018-11-06 23:18
You never really kissed her right? It shouldnt be a problem to be still friends with her...at least for me...its nice to have hot female friends, eventually one day when you are not even expecting she will just be single again and vulnerable, and thats when you act my friend. That day might never come though, but again, having hot female friends is nice, and if you become really intimate with her, who knows man, maybe she will see you with other eyes and maybe in a party someday even if she has a boyfriend you may get to kiss her, thats already happened to me with a friend who had a boyfriend.
2018-11-06 23:24
Die
2018-11-07 12:34
#24
Brazil xOwn 
i.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000.. spoke like a true friendzoned virgin. "maybe she will see you with other eyes" no, that's not going to happen.
2018-11-07 12:42
imagine a normal girl you knew in school started to go to gym and now after 3 years is a goddess. wouldn't you see her with other eyes?
2018-11-08 20:48
#44
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Poland Feym 
bait af
2018-11-08 18:23
Lol just keep talking to her don't make things weird and wait for your time to strike :)
2018-11-07 12:37
bandysiu :D
2018-11-07 17:30
#21
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Brazil ma_frend 
She might be a shemale ma frend watch out
2018-11-07 12:40
#22
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Austria Laolon 
send dic pic
2018-11-07 12:40
#29
Brazil xOwn 
Ask her how long she knows this guy she's dating now. I bet it's less longer than you know her, if that's correct, do yourself a favor a stop talking to her, you're just hurting yourself.
2018-11-07 12:51
There are too much single girls around you to think about just one with boyfriend already, don't you think so?
2018-11-07 12:48
#31
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Brazil Exfm 
Just be her friend dude. She already has someone...
2018-11-07 12:49
#33
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Germany alspex 
dickpic works 9/10
2018-11-07 12:51
#34
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Finland Karri 
is there anything more pathetic than asking for relationship advice on fucking hltv
2018-11-07 12:52
hltv is a major intellectual powerhouse, but trolls are everywhere
2018-11-08 18:13
Its simple. If she is free say "wanna go drink sometime?"
2018-11-07 13:56
#36
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Germany hyd33 
If you really love her, just keep chatting her... eventually she will leave that guy... If not, the worst scenary is loving someone that you cant talk to, at least!
2018-11-07 14:00
eventually she will leave that guy hurr durr... you have more chances to win a jackpot for real...
2018-11-08 18:15
#48
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Germany hyd33 
haha
2018-11-08 19:24
The thing is if I don't write her she writes to me first and I don't know if she's being friendly or really into me
2018-11-08 18:07
#41
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Portugal NabasKi 
it depends. does she invite you to do things with her? and if yes, does she ask for details when you refuse?
2018-11-08 18:13
#45
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Poland Feym 
If she was really into you, you would know that. If you're okay with being friends (you're not) then chat about anything. If youre not and feel confident, only text for meeting up and try to make moves (no confessing tho). Just check how she feels by escalating
2018-11-08 18:25
Take it like a man and move on. Forget about chicks with which you have no chance
2018-11-08 18:29
Jo dude, probeer gewoon straight forward te zijn. Op dit moment vind jij haar leuk maar ze date dus een andere gast? Miss doet ze het wel express, maar daar zou ik niet teveel op hopen. Beste is om gewoon een keer te vragen of ze iets met je wilt drinken en dat je dan zegt dat je meer voelt dan alleen een vriendschap. Kijk hoe ze hier op reageert en ga van daaruit verder. Je moet sws blijven appen met haar, anders verneuk je dadelijk de vriendschap nog. Er zijn genoeg chicks op de buissiness school toch? Je kunt altijd een andere fixen.
2018-11-08 18:30
tell her its no nut november
2018-11-08 19:25
#53
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Portugal HARDY_KB 
+1
2018-11-08 19:32
kill that guy she is dating and then ask her on a date.
2018-11-08 19:32
start dealing drugs
2018-11-08 19:32
#54
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Norway rogueplayer 
cmon man love after 3 months? you cant be serious now
2018-11-08 19:33
after like 3 months I feel that I love her.. u pathetic fuck... please.. just be a cuck and join the cuck fight club man
2018-11-08 19:33
Become better friends with her and then she'll hook you up with one of her friends.
2018-11-08 19:34
#57
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Canada TorontoSucks 
Take her on a date so you can either get your ass beat or you beat some one else's ass to a pulp and look like a chad/retard in front of the girl
2018-11-08 19:35
she just wants attention man, nothing else. If you want her as a friend then just write to her like a friend.
2018-11-08 19:35
0/8 or you are wasting your time studying business
2018-11-08 19:37
I'm there for experience, I have my own business already
2018-11-08 19:55
you would be surprised how many girls are out there in the world that you most likely to love / find attractive so just find 'nother my friend
2018-11-08 19:57
#62
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Netherlands Daan312 
is dit sirieus? whhahahah
2018-11-08 19:57
Yes :D
2018-11-08 20:10
#67
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Netherlands HetIsPatat 
I AREN'T THINKERINO THAT NOTDRUGDEALER!!! > I started going to University and my class has a lot of hot chicks since I study business" "Hot chicks" don't study business on uni. The only hot chicks that do anything remotely close to business, are hbo kechs who do MER. So you probably lied about everything.
2018-11-08 20:15
No I didn't.
2018-11-08 20:31
#64
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Germany AutiSimple 
just ignore her..theres plenty of girls out there..
2018-11-08 20:12
duh, kill the guy she is dating and get rebound sex. idiot ruski.
2018-11-08 20:14
#69
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Portugal Zedonp 
u either go for it despiste the conditions or might as well take a step back from being with her.
2018-11-08 20:17
#70
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Europe Deja_GG_Vu 
stop being such a pssy, just rap3 the btch
2018-11-08 20:17
ez rport
2018-11-08 20:40
#84
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Europe Deja_GG_Vu 
not sure what ez or rport means either so il report might be offensive. jesus virgina =)
2018-11-08 20:43
Yes do it
2018-11-08 20:43
#89
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Europe Deja_GG_Vu 
im good ty not hltv virginia warrior but yep do whatevs makes u feel better.
2018-11-08 20:45
#73
Danking | 
Norway Lujj 
i know someone who has a relationship like this she jus keepin u as a shoulder to cry on, u feel me? it doesn't sound like she finna make any advancements on u so it's basically a 1 way train with benefits for only her ya dig?
2018-11-08 20:36
just be her friend and use her to meet other girls. there's nothing u can do if you never made a move with her. and in the future, stop talking and start acting u pussyfart
2018-11-08 20:40
if shes still talking to you she is definatly interested lol , theres no way she has bf and still talks to other guys
2018-11-08 20:40
lol idiot
2018-11-08 20:40
what ? u let your gf to talk to other guys ?
2018-11-08 20:40
i'm the guy who fucks your gf and other gf's of dogs like you. she's not interested in the op because he's a pussy. 3 months and he hasn't done shit except talking. who do u think is gonna make shit happen if it isn't the MALE? she has accepted a long time ago that he'll never do shit
2018-11-08 20:44
LOLd guy who watches based zeus thinks he fucks girls LOL
2018-11-08 20:49
he's funny. i do.
2018-11-08 20:52
#81
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Argentina sheshboi 
Invite her out and just tell her how you feel. Why are people so complicated...
2018-11-08 20:42
Invite on date the worst thing she can say is NO
2018-11-08 20:43
you just need to tell her the guy is seeing another girl so she will make out with you 2+2 is 4 quick maff m8
2018-11-08 20:47
just keep talking with her and eventually she will just take your dick in her hand and start sucking it. then you can live happily ever after /close
2018-11-08 20:50
#102
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France iNolake 
ninja sex her
2018-11-08 20:53
It's gg for you. You have one last hope cut off all contact with her for like 2-3 months, then the next time you talk to her make your move, if she still sees you as a friend, move on.
2018-11-08 20:54
love = Nobrain use IQ...
2018-11-08 21:04
if you rly like her ,and she is still texting you ,that means that guy doesnt give her enogh attetion soo you can try your luck , myb call her to your house to watch film or smth ,or go into Cinema smth like that .
2018-11-08 21:11
UPDATE: I already forgot her, but just found out she broke up with her boyfriend, is it time to move on? I mean I still like her AHAHAHA
2018-12-15 00:14
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