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Norway Easy_for_FaZe 
He gets mad from such simple things all the fucking time, and starts to swear and curse at me (no, he doesnt hit me) really vulgar and loud, and when i try to talk to him in a CALM manner, he screams even louder and gets mad. This has been going on for years and i literally cant talk with him about it because he is so fucking delusional and close-minded aswell.... opinions and tips? P.S: this is a serious thread, so please take this seriously
2018-11-11 14:32
faze fan life
2018-11-11 14:34
#3
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Norway Easy_for_FaZe 
P.S: this is a serious thread, so please take this seriously
2018-11-11 14:34
as a faze fan i wouldnt be surprised
2018-11-11 14:34
#4
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Norway Easy_for_FaZe 
P.S: this is a serious thread, so please take this seriously
2018-11-11 14:35
> serious thread > hltv
2018-11-11 14:36
#8
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Norway Easy_for_FaZe 
Its something called off-topic where ppl are more serious
2018-11-11 14:37
#9
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United Kingdom jerk_my_gerk 
how old are you?
2018-11-11 14:39
12 and you
2018-11-11 14:39
#22
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France Minaax_ 
7 yo for me
2018-11-11 15:23
#24
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Norway Easy_for_FaZe 
18
2018-11-11 15:37
inb4 uNeXpEcTeD fRoM fAzE fAn
2018-11-11 15:56
Unexpected from faze fan
2018-11-18 21:39
#61
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Namibia banned_so 
Unexpected from faze fan
2018-11-18 22:16
your dad drink often alcohol ? and what your mom think about that ?
2018-11-11 14:39
#25
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Norway Easy_for_FaZe 
Almost never drinks or goes out, he takes one beer a week ish
2018-11-11 15:38
damn men, i had the same issue "EXACT the same" , even worse tbh since my dad was drunk after my mother died almost everyday as well, he even took the Router away as he didnt want me to sit infront of the computer ... , i left home as i turn 18, it was a VERY tuff time, i didnt know how to manage my money, i wasted the first time almost all of it (had 3000 safed ..) after my money get close i learned the value of money, now 4 years later, i got a Car, a very nice girlffriend, a very good job (good payment) and im about to Release my first Mobile Game with many hopes for the future.
2018-11-11 15:42
i should be proud of yourself )
2018-11-11 15:44
#36
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Sweden La1rea 
Nice fakeflag.
2018-11-11 15:47
ok vp
2018-11-11 16:30
#40
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Sweden La1rea 
nt Autistic Russian ")" emote and broken English. What the fuck does "i should be proud of yourself" mean anyway?
2018-11-11 16:53
gl my friend ^^ I hope you the best for your future <3
2018-11-11 16:58
Glad to hear things are better for you. Hope you get a nice family some day and get to be a better father than you had :) most people just follow their parents and become the same.
2018-11-18 21:39
your mother died everyday? damn dude that's rough.
2018-11-18 21:42
okey okey and what you mother think about that ? did you talk with her ?
2018-11-11 16:58
Have you ever tried talking to him when he's not in that angry mood ? What are those 'simple things' that make him go that way ? (._.')
2018-11-11 14:42
#26
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Norway Easy_for_FaZe 
Well he usually points out that i need to show him more repsect, but sometimes im lazy and forget
2018-11-11 15:38
"i need to show him more repsect, but sometimes im lazy and forget" so you treat your father like shit and wonder why he gets mad? >show no respect for dad >have a good relationship to dad choose one
2018-11-11 15:45
If you are at the point to forget to show him some respect then, you are part of the problem too. Also, if you are already 18, then having respect is like a basic thing. I'd recommend two things; First changing your attitude and second talking to him as a man and solving problems as civilized people. (._.') And remember, auto-critique is always key to sort thing out
2018-11-11 15:55
#62
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Namibia banned_so 
good then if u treat him like shit, expected from faze fan
2018-11-18 22:18
#14
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Russia avocadosatlaw 
thank god i don't have a father
2018-11-11 14:44
#15
United States koth 
Your dad needs to get laid. Buy him a prostitute.
2018-11-11 14:44
i had the same with my dad but he moved out 3 years ago, still didnt change at all, i dont keep any contact with him
2018-11-11 14:45
wow ur a traitor
2018-11-18 21:37
wdym?
2018-11-18 22:07
#17
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Nepal hpbaxx 
tell child protective services and make them send him to rehab
2018-11-11 14:47
#27
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Norway Easy_for_FaZe 
No because most of the time he isnt like that, he never hits me or threatens me either
2018-11-11 15:39
Maybe try to find out why he is mad all the time. If thats just the way he is, then you should move out or live with it.
2018-11-11 14:47
Record him and show when he is calm
2018-11-11 14:50
#28
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Norway Easy_for_FaZe 
Great tip actually
2018-11-11 15:39
You really wanna gamble on the reaction of your dad when he finds out you secretly recorded him?
2018-11-18 22:14
Pretty similar situatuion here. This is what I'm doing but don't take this like an advice. I am just avoiding him,he is working abroad and even when he is on Skype,I don't even come because he is not intresting at all.He is only bragging about something,I don't see a point in wasting my time with him.
2018-11-11 14:55
move out
2018-11-11 14:56
Narcissistic dad. Mine is too. I just avoid talking to him, although he never screams at me but he think s he's the perfect human being and everyone around sucks. I can't listen to him.
2018-11-11 15:26
#57
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Czech Republic nenz 
+1 same situation
2018-11-18 22:12
You need to know why he behaves like this
2018-11-11 15:45
it's better to have parents that are mad for no reason and don't hide it than the ones who gaslight u all the time, go passive aggressive, pretentious, and manipulative because at least people will know how broken of a person they are. the latter will make u feel a lot worse
2018-11-11 15:49
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Czech Republic OskarLee 
how old are u?
2018-11-11 15:46
Swear at him. When he starts to scream, insult him, something like fuck you or I hate you. He will be shocked and he will realize that something is wrong, then you can talk to him about the whole thing.
2018-11-11 15:47
#41
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Portugal Atruemaster 
Dont talk to him Join mma class Beat his ass Move out
2018-11-11 16:54
Become 18, move out and become a better man. Also if he really is that bad go talk to whatever institution you have in your country so you can leave earlier.
2018-11-11 17:02
#45
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Serbia sensei256 
Wrong forum, try reddit.
2018-11-18 21:32
time to move out. relationship with your dad will improve over time, he will realize he was kind of a dick too, if you give him time to think about it.
2018-11-18 21:35
Tell him he can stop the charade. Its ok to be gay in 2018.
2018-11-18 21:39
+1
2018-11-18 22:07
Just move out if you are 18 already
2018-11-18 21:42
talk with mom or someone from family about it .. when he is not listening to you when you talk calm then tell someone other to tell him something
2018-11-18 21:47
Hello, is there any way for me to talk to u for e.x via steam ? :) Gl man
2018-11-18 22:10
What are the topics that you fight about?
2018-11-18 22:14
#60
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Hungary raffai 
+11111111111111111111111
2018-11-18 22:15
Sounds like a narcsissit. Struggled myself with one for 25 years, don't dream of having a healthy relationship Take distance, read books and find help.
2018-11-18 22:23
facepalm ur life kekXD
2018-11-18 22:59
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