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How to act in a date with your Crush (for introvert guys)
Xyp9x | 
Denmark Stvn_ 
Some guy here just did a topic about her crush and he is nervous about the date and shit. So i did this topic to help everyone in the same situation Put your best clothes (nothing formal), spray a good essence (Don't exaggerate) and save some good money to take her out for some good restaurant after a nice fun place such as an amusement park or a relaxing one like cinema or theater. Those places break the ice and she will be more open. If she likes pubs is better, cause girls like that are more open-minded and talkative, so you (introvert guy) can follow her lead. But don't drink too much, cause that will disturb your strats. Pay attention to what she says and try to understand her topics. Not being pedantic. If you don't know, show interest asking for informations to understand. Talking about her topics is important cause she will notice that she and what she does are interesting to you. When she talks to you always look at her eyes and keep your closed-mouth smile. Give her some opened-mouth smiles when she says something cool or funny (obviously you have to talk something to give her a feedback). You can (and have to) talk some stories about you, but keep like 30%(yours)-70%(hers) If she is interested in you, she will do some signals, like touch her hair and put behind her ear, showing he neck to you. This means she is defenseless and "trusts" in you. That's the time you act. 2 alternatives: Kiss or talk about your feelings before the kiss Kiss: Look at her eyes in silence and after that her mouth. She will do the same. Get closer to her and go for the kiss. Talk about your feelings about her: Don't be prolix. Just be straight to the point and says that you see her and feels something different when you are with her. After that listen what she has to say and if she responds positively do the Kiss tip. Hope this helps
2018-11-15 17:32
#1
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United States FlagMaster 
This requires a date
2018-11-15 17:33
#4
Xyp9x | 
Denmark Stvn_ 
Put some courage in your face to ask her to go out.
2018-11-15 17:39
#36
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United States FlagMaster 
No u
2018-11-15 21:29
#38
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Namibia banned_so 
No u
2018-11-16 08:39
#42
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Portugal S4nd 
No u
2018-12-14 14:55
#48
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Netherlands unluko_maluko 
No u
2018-12-14 16:11
You can see it at the bottom of the thread. Np in advance (._.')
2018-11-15 17:57
+1
2018-11-15 18:09
#2
Xyp9x | 
Denmark Stvn_ 
his crush* xD and say** that you see and feels**
2018-11-15 17:37
#3
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Poland MokSu 
tldr : Don't be pussy, just go for her !
2018-11-15 17:38
#5
Xyp9x | 
Denmark Stvn_ 
It's impossible to introvert guys do that suddenly.
2018-11-15 17:40
#7
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Poland MokSu 
Yea that's true, but there is anything bad if she doesn't want to be with u
2018-11-15 17:44
#9
Xyp9x | 
Denmark Stvn_ 
4 sure. But for introvert people is like they are the worst people ever after a rejection. That's why they are scared to go for the girls.
2018-11-15 17:48
But what if I don't want to spend money on that shorty who's gonna ruin our relationship in a few months anyway? - The director of the funeral agency of wifi, wifisfuneral.
2018-11-15 17:44
You already have a funeral agency; Put her in a casket
2018-11-15 18:14
If you read / write such instructions you are a loser in the first place.
2018-11-15 17:45
#12
Xyp9x | 
Denmark Stvn_ 
+1
2018-11-15 17:51
#19
Finland MMAd 
+1 But don't worry, it's common in hltv.
2018-11-15 18:00
#25
f0rest | 
Brazil leeo^^ 
+1 this guy has no confidence
2018-11-15 18:07
Self proclaimed alpha i bet. Trust me u arent any better than anybody else LOL
2018-12-14 16:10
Now check this out. Self proclaimed alpha i bet. Trust me u arent any better than anybody else LOL
2018-12-14 16:16
expected
2018-12-14 16:23
#10
natu | 
Finland sadmen 
if she accepts to go on a date with u is because she has feelings for u , the rest will be done by itself just dont be gay
2018-11-15 17:49
#13
Xyp9x | 
Denmark Stvn_ 
Yea, but introvert guys don't understand that. And usually they ask for their long time friends to go out, so they think those girls are accepting just because they are friends and nothing more.
2018-11-15 17:53
#21
natu | 
Finland sadmen 
who tf asks a long time friend for a date? maybe dinner or something like that but not a date cuz it will kill friendship
2018-11-15 18:03
#27
Xyp9x | 
Denmark Stvn_ 
A lot of guys do that. "Hey, i found some nice place to go/movie to watch, want to check it out?" This can't kill a friendship at all.
2018-11-15 18:10
#34
natu | 
Finland sadmen 
well not that but ask a long time friend to go with u on a date
2018-11-15 18:20
#11
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Norway rogueplayer 
Hey, listen man... solid advice, but you're 25 years to late. We're in 2018 now and all them girls are super sexual and their dopamine levels are probably shit. Also they're full of pills so they're moody as fuck too First of all, don't ever talk about feelings to some random girl (especially first dates) because that's going to kill the mood instantly. You give her away your feels you're standing in the mud and she's on the high ground. If you're experienced it might work if you managed to pull her down with you, but if not she's end up as the man in the relationship. Second of all, just be assertive while being playful. Humour is king and effortless is your ace. Don't be yourself in fact hide your true self far away from her. I mean, y'all using HLTV and she can't find out. First dates is actually an advantage for men. Why? Because you have all the mystery on your side, girls dig that. Play a role and try to be the prince of her dreams and more. Every women have an ideal picture of her dream man in her head, even after she's married. Try to find that guy even for a brief moment. Girls are not inherently rational thinkers thus mystery, adventure and one-night stand is something they wouldn't question if it's done right
2018-11-15 17:51
Can confirm
2018-11-15 17:54
#20
Xyp9x | 
Denmark Stvn_ 
That worked for me like 3 times and all of them ended being my girlfriends (exes now, but worked). And worked for some buddies too. I don't know how girls are in Norway or even in your circle, tho. About your feelings is like for some girl that is a friend that know you for a time. I forgot to make this explicit. You will not do that with some random girl that you barely know. The last paragraph is partially true. Some girls still trying to find their prince and bla bla bla, but it's not common for 24~30 girls (my age range).
2018-11-15 18:01
#40
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Namibia banned_so 
If you tell a girl that u a HLTV user then its equal to saying that u are mentally retarded on the first date
2018-11-16 08:43
#54
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Hong Kong nekami 
Humour is king and effortless is your ace +1 but only 20% men can do so
2018-12-14 16:20
#15
Dosia | 
Nepal qDr4GoNp 
tl:dr im not introvert and i was nervous af with my gf that is now my fiance 7 years ago... dont ask me why but even my mouth was dry for no reason but u be urself and trust me every single one thing u are thinking it will be it wont happen stop trying to think u will have this talk or other talk and u will say this or that .. it wont happen it will never happen this is for that date and for ur life.
2018-11-15 17:55
when do i talk about my csgo rank
2018-11-15 17:56
Right before she faints from being impressed
2018-11-15 17:59
#22
Xyp9x | 
Denmark Stvn_ 
Just show some forsaken clips and she will open her leg
2018-11-15 18:03
+1 just showed my crush, she opened her legs and shat on a street nearby
2018-11-16 08:34
#23
f0rest | 
Brazil leeo^^ 
I didn't read but just by the title I can tell you this is not going to work. If you wanna try to act as somebody else it's because you have no confidence. you should only be your true self, a date is supposed to flow as natural as possible, not like a manual full of instructions and rules.
2018-11-15 18:07
#31
Xyp9x | 
Denmark Stvn_ 
Actually is not to act like someone else. Read the topic. My tips are for people pay attention to the most important things: have some fun together, don't be an egoccentric idiot that only talks about your life and pay attention to her. And finally go for the kiss if you feels that she is opened to do it.
2018-11-15 18:17
#44
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Romania Anonym20 
+1, i learned that if you want a long term relationship just be yourself cause if you're trying to be someone you're not, then she would fall for the person you're trying to be, and eventually you will get tired of that "persona", and she will see your true self, and she might leave you for being who you really are.
2018-12-14 15:00
"showing he neck to you" wtf bro
2018-11-15 18:07
#32
Xyp9x | 
Denmark Stvn_ 
you know a wanted to write 'her'
2018-11-15 18:18
Wrong. Dont take her out to a restaurant. Go have a drink somewhere. She'll be uncomfortable when a dude she barely knows stares at her while making smalltalk. Its forced and awkward. Dont go to the cinemas either. Go for the drinks, trust me.
2018-11-15 18:11
this is for kids. Also, a bar is a bad place for a date. Some drunkard on whiskey will try to fight you always if you go with a girl on date. Usually that dude is me
2018-11-15 18:16
I dont know what kind of bars you have in your country, but in mine its a decent enough place. You dont want to go overboard or take her to dinner. That shit is plain weird to do on a first date. Believe me, i've done it.
2018-12-14 14:52
#35
Xyp9x | 
Denmark Stvn_ 
I prefer take some drinks too, to be honest. But alot of girls don't like those ambients, sadly. "She'll be uncomfortable when a dude she barely knows stares at her while making smalltalk." That's why i said you have to talk and give her some feedbacks. Look at her is way better than look somewhere else every single time.
2018-11-15 18:22
You never date your crush. Never. You just beat around the bush with your crush. I only had crush on a girl once in school and I did some strange shit to her. Putting my head down on the bench in my set behind her and just straight up feeling and smelling her hair for the next 40 minutes wasn't even out of question In short, don't have a crush. Go for girls who go for you and both of you should bring something to a relationship
2018-11-15 18:19
doesnt apply to ugly people :( (not me)
2018-11-16 08:39
#43
cyx | 
Germany Shadyy89 
"(not me)" proof?
2018-12-14 14:55
my momma tells me im handsome all the time
2018-12-14 16:07
#49
cyx | 
Germany Shadyy89 
:D <3
2018-12-14 16:12
#45
tabseN | 
Germany Ntasu 
If you want a relationship do as top said. But if you want something in a short term. You need to trigger them. Women want attention so they should earn it. If she talks bullshit the wholetime let her know it in a manner way
2018-12-14 15:07
Just get drunk b4 and you won't give a fuck.
2018-12-14 16:12
Tip: don’t worry, but worry enough which makes you care, be yourself and don’t overcomplicate stuff, everything should come naturally to you
2018-12-14 16:14
Cinema worst idea for date. All you do is sit quiet for 3 hours.
2018-12-14 16:15
suck his dick
2018-12-14 16:21
stay single have money do whatever you want whenever you want fuck biches literal freedom
2018-12-14 16:23
#58
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Canada Surzz 
don't act. just be yourself. unless you're screwed up in the head.
2018-12-14 16:24
#59
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Mexico Brayam7u7 
What if she called me an fat faggot and she sent her bestfriends to beat my ass?
2018-12-14 16:37
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