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Therapy thread. Come share.
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North America KiNGa_DiAmEnds 
This thread is for y’all to get that weight off your chest. Whatever you got going on let it out.
2019-01-12 02:06
#1
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North America KiNGa_DiAmEnds 
My wife and I are loosely trying to have a child. More like not taking steps to prevent conception. 23 and still a gamer nerd. Starting school again. A lot going on and adding the responsibility of parenthood is gonna be tough. I hope I’m ready
2019-01-12 02:08
#2
ZywOo | 
Germany fulltilt 
wow, u really had to get that off ur chest mate, what a troublesome life
2019-01-12 02:12
Oh that’s not even the half of it. We a mixed race couple so that puts enough stress on us, now we have to pass that stress into our children. And my cracker ass is not ready for my babies to be racially profiled and called the n word. Not to mention all the travel expenses for my wife’s trip she bout to take we won’t have any money left and have to start building our bank acct from the bottom up again.
2019-01-12 02:34
#13
ZywOo | 
Germany fulltilt 
just look at what u will have: wife, kid, school.. its a good life. The rest you will have to sort out on the way.
2019-01-12 02:35
Ty m8. How is your life treating you?
2019-01-12 02:36
#15
ZywOo | 
Germany fulltilt 
I cant complain, thx
2019-01-12 02:37
#28
Dio | 
Russia Ozzy! 
Aw man i hope this isn't a bait, give me your name and i will pray for you.
2019-01-12 02:48
Cole. Thank you brotha
2019-01-12 04:59
#50
Dio | 
Russia Ozzy! 
Yeah man i hope eveything works out. Try to reach out to God through prayers tonight before you sleep.
2019-01-12 05:03
I periodically pray for clarity in raising my future children. There is power in prayer, nice to see a non atheist on here lmao
2019-01-12 05:10
#54
Dio | 
Russia Ozzy! 
I'll fak every atheist in here and give them Christian seeds
2019-01-12 05:11
I don’t think that would be the Christian thing to do but I have yet to finish the Bible so maybe there’s something I missed.
2019-01-12 05:19
#57
Dio | 
Russia Ozzy! 
Nah I'm kidding tho. Praying makes you feel better, just put your trust to God and do your best.
2019-01-12 05:21
#31
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Brazil Mentecapto 
Why do you want to have kids at this exact moment? Maybe try to sort out all things that are not quite ... right? And then you can think about that
2019-01-12 02:50
We’re both anxious and scared but equally excited. It’s a huge responsibility that we’re ready for but anxious about. Thank you for the advice
2019-01-12 05:01
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byali | 
Poland byalo 
i hate being smarter than everyone else. I cant have sucess with females allthough I was the best high school graduate, have an engineering degree at age 21 and got a well paid job instantly after uni. Females are instinct driven and cant see I am the best man for them and can provide for a family already. So they rather date good looking washouts that dump them after first date and complain about men while they never give shy guys with good job and brain a chance. As a teenager I hoped I would be married at 21 and now I only had one relationship in my whole life so far
2019-01-12 02:17
#4
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United States flybywire12 
how or why did the last relationship end? if you don't mind me asking you.
2019-01-12 02:22
#5
byali | 
Poland byalo 
She said I didnt show any interest in her which I cant understand until this day. She was basically my life for these 4 months we went on so many activities and it were the 4 best months of my life. Maybe she just realized she didnt love me and thought it would break my heart to tell me.
2019-01-12 02:25
#6
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United States Scvboy1 
I read the first sentence and I already hate you.
2019-01-12 02:25
#7
byali | 
Poland byalo 
Maybe not smarter than everyone else. Met some mathematics student that seemed to be a lot quicker at understanding things but still I am more educated and more inelligent than 99% of people I meet
2019-01-12 02:27
And u still think that girls like cockiness and arrogance based on “being smart” Aaxaxcacaxax
2019-01-12 02:31
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byali | 
Poland byalo 
Do you think I go up to girls and brag about my qualifications? Most of them are braindead and reply something like 'Oh you study engineering how boring. I always hated maths and physics in highschool'. When they are done with uni themselves they will maybe realize that their journalism, fashion design and sociology degrees are worthless and they maybe should have payed more interest into people who study something with decent job chances and good salary
2019-01-12 02:34
#32
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United States flybywire12 
I think this is the problem. Try this and see if it works. Next time you go up to a girl you like and she ask what you study, tell her the truth. When she reply's with boring and how she hated maths and physics in highschool, agree with her. Now you have something in common. Tell her you do it because of parents. Now she will go on blabbering about how people should do what they love and blah blah blah, don't say a word but listen and agree. Now she see's you as a great listener and conversationalist. Next ask her what interests her, and when she says sociology, fashion or etc. Just tell her you too are interested in that. By doing this you would have extended the conversation, have created interests and things in common.
2019-01-12 02:53
#35
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Brazil Mentecapto 
lmao this guy knows what he's saying +1
2019-01-12 02:55
#33
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Brazil Mentecapto 
'Oh you study engineering how boring. I always hated maths and physics in highschool' I hear this quite a lot also. People who say this don't really have a clue about life, yet. When they get around their late 20's and early 30's and realize they have a shit job, with bad salaries and still live with their parents/relatives, they'll remember you. Don't worry mate, your life hasn't even started. People in their early 20's are kinda stupid and don't know shit about how things work in the world, specially girls who go for the degrees/areas you mentioned. You'll be good in the end, trust me.
2019-01-12 02:54
#12
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United States Scvboy1 
Than me? I doubt it, Plus having a superiority complex won't attract women to you
2019-01-12 02:34
#17
byali | 
Poland byalo 
I dont have any information about your education and CV but let's just say that I doubt that. Also #11
2019-01-12 02:39
#18
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United States Scvboy1 
Well im studing to get my PhD in Neurosciene but nevermind about education and such. You proabably are trying to pickup dumb thots if I tried to guess. I meet a lot of those but I also find (especially at work and in some of my classes) a lot of very intelligent women that are more like myself. I'm sure if you try hard enough (and maybe don't have crazy high beauty standard) you'll find someone that gets you.
2019-01-12 02:42
#29
byali | 
Poland byalo 
As you know german engineering faculties are 85% boys and nost of the girls there look like dogfood or are tomboys
2019-01-12 02:49
#34
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United States Scvboy1 
Wait why aren't you living in Poland? Besides that you could also branch you a bit. No only engineers are smart. Maybe join a college club if you're still in school.
2019-01-12 02:55
#37
byali | 
Poland byalo 
Oh my bad thought I mentioned it or assumed you checked my bio. My only relationship so far was with a chemistry student and she was the best thing that ever happened to me but broke up with me
2019-01-12 02:58
#38
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United States Scvboy1 
Damn feels bad man. Why did you leave you? Edit: "into lesbian porn" lul
2019-01-12 03:03
#41
byali | 
Poland byalo 
#5
2019-01-12 03:07
#44
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United States Scvboy1 
Yeah I'm by no means an expert but it sound like 1 of 3 things. 1. Your activities were boring to her 2. She wanted more drama from you on a day to day basis (like starting arguments and set. Just to keep thing interesting, some girls are weird like that) 3. She just lost interest and was trying to be nice
2019-01-12 03:40
#45
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United States Scvboy1 
No matter what don't let it get you down. There are billions of other women, you'll find someone new you'll like.
2019-01-12 03:41
That 2nd one though..
2019-01-12 05:03
#51
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United States Scvboy1 
It can be true man.
2019-01-12 05:04
That’s what I’m saying. Some women love fighting. Although I have learned that depression anxiety and hunger can cause these agitative moods
2019-01-12 05:09
relaxe bro you are 21 and on the outside line. The Girl you looking for, will find you when it is time. So Long enjoy your single life, times will Change and you will have a lot more opportunitys. Even if i'm not agree that Girls are instinct driven, when they get older they start to realise that the "good looking" guy with a lot of space at the place where his brain should be isnt a good deal, and thats when you come in.
2019-01-12 02:28
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byali | 
Poland byalo 
Do you think I dont have higher goals in my life than to employ a failed 30 year women that fucked every good looking boy in the whole city and didnt even talk to me 5 years ago as a full time wife and mother just because she cant provide for herself and wants a husband with stable and good income. Maybe I also want a women that loves or atleast likes me? You insult with saying this stuff and think of me like a 75 year old lawyer walking hand in hand with his 20 year old russian wife
2019-01-12 02:44
actually i was impressed by your CV , wich is way more that i will ever reach in life, probably 'cause i'm a lot dumber that you are, but the way you react, it seems to me atleast, that you have to work on your social skills. have a good night, and i wish you all the best finding a Girl who likes/loves you .
2019-01-12 03:03
#40
byali | 
Poland byalo 
Sorry for overreacting but it pisses me off when people say 'you will have no problems with females once they look for a wealthy husband'. Even some of my fellow students said dumb shit like 'love life for an engineer starts to get sweeter in work life just be patient'.
2019-01-12 03:06
#43
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United Kingdom INGEMARSSON_ 
I think there might be a misunderstanding here. While what he wrote reads as - She’ll realise she’s getting nothing from this “jock”, she’ll go gold digging and that’s where you come in. I think dregs was trying to explain that as people mature what they value and how they perceive things evolves. To generalise, young people tend to be far more materialistic, don’t have much life experience, tend to be visually stimulated rather than intellectually. These things change as people get older. At the end of the day, if you find the right person, nothing will matter.
2019-01-12 03:36
i admint you are right what i said wont help anyone, i just tryed to cheer you up. I went through the same shit, i know how painfull it sometime can be to see the douchebag get the Girl.
2019-01-12 04:02
#22
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United Kingdom INGEMARSSON_ 
“So they rather date good looking washouts that dump them after first date and complain about men while they never give shy guys with good job and brain a chance.” You’re lusting the wrong woman champ, you don’t need those ones in your life unless you just need to clean your pipes. It’s early days, you’ll find one in time - 21 is hella young to be settling down! Go enjoy yourself, if you’ve not been with many women, go get waved and slay some death warrants - get some experience in. I digress... When that career driven and successful woman goes out looking for a guy, you reckon she’s going to settle with a good looking chump, who’s got a pony job and not got his shit together? You’re already ahead of half the pack. It’ll happen!
2019-01-12 02:44
#36
byali | 
Poland byalo 
Two of the smartest women I know are the exact opposite. My friends sister has a PhD in pharmacy (one of the majors even I as a engineering student have respect for) and her boyfriend is a cop. Not even in a crime department or a leading position just a regilar ass cop. Other one studied buisiness law also went into working life after bachelor and now makes almost 150% of my already high income as a women. Her husband teaches Maths and catholic religion at a elementary school.
2019-01-12 02:56
#42
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United Kingdom INGEMARSSON_ 
There will be exceptions, who knows whether those two were dating their partners way before, or have past history. It happens. Either way, a PhD in pharmacy (way beyond what I could ever achieve) isn’t a career, is it - it’s a qualification. The other woman, what she studied and what she now earns is irrelevant. You’re really worrying over nothing. If you try forcing it, it’s not going to work out for you. You’ve got your shit sorted mate, you’re young, you’re clearly intelligent and you’re on a good wage. You’re set for life, be positive on that.
2019-01-12 03:27
#16
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United States m1santhr0pe3 
my pp itch
2019-01-12 02:37
#19
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United States Scvboy1 
I would suggest you talk to a pharmacist or your physician.
2019-01-12 02:43
#20
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United States m1santhr0pe3 
he sais u have no peenis
2019-01-12 02:44
#24
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United States Scvboy1 
........ are you a girl
2019-01-12 02:44
#25
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United States m1santhr0pe3 
what is girl
2019-01-12 02:45
#26
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United States Scvboy1 
Yeah this is all the trolling I can take for one day.
2019-01-12 02:46
#27
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United States m1santhr0pe3 
mixwell top1
2019-01-12 02:47
#30
Dio | 
Russia Ozzy! 
+1
2019-01-12 02:49
#21
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United States Scvboy1 
Just the futility of life.
2019-01-12 02:44
I'm a cocaine and amphetamine addict. Not only that but I use hard drugs such as heroin and crack for fun. I have no issues with my drug use; I just don't like being treated as less of a person because I enjoy myself in a different way to most.
2019-01-12 05:14
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