Stopped reading at she has son
Dude are you serious or just baiting?
just find a new GF without a kid AND a better job lel
she sounds like a bitch. Drop her
It's kinda expected for a man to pay a rent. To tell you the truth if I was her and you offered me to move in and split the rent pay(if you were broke it wouldn't count) I'd immediately ditch you, no offense. By the way, asking hltv kids for help in your relationship says a lot about you.
Tell her that you won't pay everything, and she has to pay some too. u cant expect yourself to pay for everything, this is 2019; women can't just make you pay for everything my friends!
"and that men don't need as much money to spend than females do"
You should've dumped her immediately after that crap
imo you should be honest with her, sooo if her not paying her part annoys you (even if u can handle it) you should tell her that straightaway. Its not that YOU should come up with something, you should deal with your problems together if you want this relationship to be worth anything. its 7 months and you start keeping things to yourself
get a few children from another relationship/s and tell her to take care of them because she's a woman and doesn't have to work as much
Tbh doesn't sound like you like her a lot, if you do it's hard to read 😂😂 maybe think that through first...
i will be honest to you
Your gf is sucking dick while u are taking care of her 3yo son, and paying the bills
Suck her and find annother gf
dump her , you aint the childs father. in nature, lions kill the cubs of another lion. ofcourse you are a human , so dont kill the kid xD but dump her. Find a new fresh gf, who hasnt had a kid from some idiot.
be a normal man, stand ur ground and search for the good women. not the used condom women(cummed in her and thrown through the balcony....)
". i sometimes have to take care of the kid too when she goes out partying."
Has kid from previous relationship
Isn't even studying to be more educated
Partying while u have 3yo son? really?
Wants you to pay all her expenses
Idk man, I don't know any of your accomplishments, but I think you have wrong girlfriend
I'm not saying she's a bad person or anything, just someone with badly set priorities
gl with this
well does she have a job? how are you paying for other expenses together? does she pay for all the expenses for the kid alone?
imo the best way is simply to make a big excel sheet with all your shared spending, put your income in there, and divide spending according to income. lets say you make a bit more than her so its 3/5 to 2/5 division of income, then you pay 60 cents of every euro spent, or whatever money you have in finland. you also save 60 cent for every 40 she saves.
this will mean you have to ask her for receipts for everything, and if she doesnt get a receipt youre going to have to be tough, so she cant put personal expenses on the shared account.
if she doesnt agree, you can tell her she has a child and its either you or moving back in with her mom. be honest and say what you really think. get it over with. be tough. if she doesnt want to contribute her fair share, its probably best to go look for someone who will. sounds kinda fucked up but her having a kid will probably make it easier to reason with her about her spending. it changes ppls priorities in life. priority number 1 for her is the wellbeing of the kid. at least it should be.
open a shared bank account and demand she put her fair share of the money in there every month.
make her a housewife then if she thinks with stereotypes like men should work harder than women and tell her to stay at home 24/7 lol
Huge red flag spotted, this doesn't seem like a healthy relationship. I'd say get out while you still can. In a relationship both people have to do their part, contribute and make an effort. She clearly isn't, judging by your post.
it's b8 boys, how are you going for this
Red flags, shes a sloot and is def monkeybranching around your back. Why the hell does a mom need to party like shes a mazzif sloot. She needs to grow up.
just say to her how you feel
and talk with the father of the son
leave her dude fuck that - she is a leech
She is a leech, get out of that relationship, and if you love the kid take the kid with you.
Well if your relationship is going to work in the long run you both have to contribute on equal terms and if you choose not to have a joint finances then she has to contribute on the same level as you do. Even if she was not with you she would have to pay for an apartment by herself.
If she thinks your an ass hole for demanding her to contribute to your relationship then its time to find someone else, that see both as equal :D
leave her and play some CS
Okay so is she doing her job inside the house? Like cleaning food etc. And is she paying at least the other stuff like groceries, insurance, car fuel,... If not go with what our norwegian friend said above - - throw her off the bridge
"men don't need as much money to spend than females do"
wtf? is that supposed to be an argument?