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Thorin | 
Finland Dick_the_birthday_boy 
me and my gf have been together for 7 months now. she has 3 years old son from another relationship. we are about to move to new apartment but the thing is, she would want me to pay her part of the rent aswell. she says i should pay because i make more than her and that men don't need as much money to spend than females do. whatever, i can take that. i paid old apartment rent all myself but rent on new one is twice as expensive. she isn't even studying to get better job. i sometimes have to take care of the kid too when she goes out partying. oh well. how could i tell her that i wish she would pay her part of the rent without seeming like complete dick?
2019-01-25 20:51
0/8
2019-01-25 20:55
#4
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Albania realblizzy 
Stopped reading at she has son
2019-01-25 20:57
#12
ScreaM | 
Brazil HLTVolt 
You did it right, the rest is really depressing
2019-01-25 21:34
#21
Thorin | 
Sweden toddn 
+1
2019-01-26 10:18
bump
2019-01-25 21:31
just be straight up with her, if she is going to straight up with you than you can too (know it seems like terrible advice but it’s more than what you think)
2019-01-26 09:42
#10
ScreaM | 
Brazil HLTVolt 
Dude are you serious or just baiting?
2019-01-25 21:33
#13
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France Marvelus 
just find a new GF without a kid AND a better job lel
2019-01-25 21:34
#14
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Denmark lulgod 
she sounds like a bitch. Drop her
2019-01-25 21:39
#17
Rob4 | 
United States mook_ 
flair says it all
2019-01-26 09:43
It's kinda expected for a man to pay a rent. To tell you the truth if I was her and you offered me to move in and split the rent pay(if you were broke it wouldn't count) I'd immediately ditch you, no offense. By the way, asking hltv kids for help in your relationship says a lot about you.
2019-01-26 10:00
1.this is bait. 2.your logic is flawed.
2019-01-26 10:32
its not 1956 anymore bro
2019-01-26 10:47
Yeah, it's 2019 where men are more pussy than girls. I give you 100% that no girl would ever truly be attractive to you and fuck you wildly just after sentence about splitting rent pay, but whatever suits you, "modern man".
2019-01-27 00:35
Been with my GF for 6 years. She pays half of our rent with no problem and still fucks me like there's no tomorrow. Keep on being a little dumb kid. :D
2019-01-27 00:37
Man thats pretty messed up, my girl suggested maybe i can pay the rent and she'll pay the bills, told her to forget it
2019-01-27 00:46
That's a different case, if a girl suggest to split she really values you and your relationship. and the fact that you declined made her even value it more, trust me.
2019-01-27 00:48
huh interesting
2019-01-27 00:50
#20
rain | 
Lithuania LevelUpp 
Oof
2019-01-26 10:13
wow big 0/8 bait.
2019-01-26 10:30
#23
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Iran KouDaPou 
Tell her that you won't pay everything, and she has to pay some too. u cant expect yourself to pay for everything, this is 2019; women can't just make you pay for everything my friends! ~Kou
2019-01-26 10:31
Khak to saret
2019-01-26 11:02
#55
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Iran KouDaPou 
boro ghom shood
2019-01-26 11:28
dont mind me, only checking for fake flag
2019-01-26 13:45
"and that men don't need as much money to spend than females do" You should've dumped her immediately after that crap
2019-01-26 10:32
that is pretty bad thing to say yeah lol, especially if you are the one not contributing
2019-01-26 10:57
#26
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Denmark Weylyn2 
Broooo, ditch that shit
2019-01-26 10:33
imo you should be honest with her, sooo if her not paying her part annoys you (even if u can handle it) you should tell her that straightaway. Its not that YOU should come up with something, you should deal with your problems together if you want this relationship to be worth anything. its 7 months and you start keeping things to yourself
2019-01-26 10:38
#28
Nast1a | 
India teguP 
get a few children from another relationship/s and tell her to take care of them because she's a woman and doesn't have to work as much
2019-01-26 10:38
xd
2019-01-26 10:40
#30
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Spain VIKTORAL 
ooof 500 iq real way to solve this
2019-01-26 10:42
#33
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Europe new_nickname 
XD
2019-01-26 10:46
Lol
2019-01-26 11:42
Tbh doesn't sound like you like her a lot, if you do it's hard to read 😂😂 maybe think that through first...
2019-01-26 10:44
#32
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Europe new_nickname 
i will be honest to you Your gf is sucking dick while u are taking care of her 3yo son, and paying the bills Suck her and find annother gf
2019-01-26 10:46
#34
gla1ve | 
Bulgaria dreadbg 
dump her , you aint the childs father. in nature, lions kill the cubs of another lion. ofcourse you are a human , so dont kill the kid xD but dump her. Find a new fresh gf, who hasnt had a kid from some idiot. be a normal man, stand ur ground and search for the good women. not the used condom women(cummed in her and thrown through the balcony....)
2019-01-26 10:47
". i sometimes have to take care of the kid too when she goes out partying." Has kid from previous relationship Isn't even studying to be more educated Partying while u have 3yo son? really? Wants you to pay all her expenses Idk man, I don't know any of your accomplishments, but I think you have wrong girlfriend I'm not saying she's a bad person or anything, just someone with badly set priorities gl with this
2019-01-26 10:50
#37
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United Kingdom Ginoe 
Shox is that you ?
2019-01-26 10:51
#56
gla1ve | 
Bulgaria dreadbg 
LOL
2019-01-26 11:32
well does she have a job? how are you paying for other expenses together? does she pay for all the expenses for the kid alone? imo the best way is simply to make a big excel sheet with all your shared spending, put your income in there, and divide spending according to income. lets say you make a bit more than her so its 3/5 to 2/5 division of income, then you pay 60 cents of every euro spent, or whatever money you have in finland. you also save 60 cent for every 40 she saves. this will mean you have to ask her for receipts for everything, and if she doesnt get a receipt youre going to have to be tough, so she cant put personal expenses on the shared account. if she doesnt agree, you can tell her she has a child and its either you or moving back in with her mom. be honest and say what you really think. get it over with. be tough. if she doesnt want to contribute her fair share, its probably best to go look for someone who will. sounds kinda fucked up but her having a kid will probably make it easier to reason with her about her spending. it changes ppls priorities in life. priority number 1 for her is the wellbeing of the kid. at least it should be. open a shared bank account and demand she put her fair share of the money in there every month.
2019-01-26 10:59
#39
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Russia avocadosatlaw 
make her a housewife then if she thinks with stereotypes like men should work harder than women and tell her to stay at home 24/7 lol
2019-01-26 10:53
Huge red flag spotted, this doesn't seem like a healthy relationship. I'd say get out while you still can. In a relationship both people have to do their part, contribute and make an effort. She clearly isn't, judging by your post.
2019-01-26 10:54
it's b8 boys, how are you going for this
2019-01-26 10:56
fucked as it is its a pretty realistic scenario though
2019-01-26 11:00
Red flags, shes a sloot and is def monkeybranching around your back. Why the hell does a mom need to party like shes a mazzif sloot. She needs to grow up.
2019-01-26 11:00
#46
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Sweden Fimpo 
just say to her how you feel
2019-01-26 11:02
#47
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Sweden Fimpo 
and talk with the father of the son
2019-01-26 11:04
leave her dude fuck that - she is a leech
2019-01-26 11:04
cucked. She is a leech, get out of that relationship, and if you love the kid take the kid with you.
2019-01-26 11:10
Well if your relationship is going to work in the long run you both have to contribute on equal terms and if you choose not to have a joint finances then she has to contribute on the same level as you do. Even if she was not with you she would have to pay for an apartment by herself. If she thinks your an ass hole for demanding her to contribute to your relationship then its time to find someone else, that see both as equal :D
2019-01-26 11:12
leave her and play some CS
2019-01-26 11:15
Okay so is she doing her job inside the house? Like cleaning food etc. And is she paying at least the other stuff like groceries, insurance, car fuel,... If not go with what our norwegian friend said above - - throw her off the bridge
2019-01-26 11:17
#57
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African Union OllieMaN 
thanks for the laugh
2019-01-26 11:33
Thats sad
2019-01-26 11:38
#60
Svela | 
World Neida 
"men don't need as much money to spend than females do" wtf? is that supposed to be an argument?
2019-01-26 11:42
- son - wants you to pay money for her - moving in with you to lock you down She is USING you. DUMP her ASAP. I'm not even kidding. These are HUGE redflags. You will regret that for a lifetime. You will pay for her son for the rest of your life. This is not what you want. You are not a cuck, man. NEVER date a single mom. Just don't. Dude, you are better than getting used like this so get your shit together and dump her today. You are just a fucking beta provider for her man. This screams after her fucking other guys behind your back. youtube.com/watch?v=M-o304ftoGM youtube.com/watch?v=w6Ztf_YI9lA youtube.com/watch?v=vw4TFw7eKyE
2019-01-26 11:47
#63
NiKo | 
France LauraS 
I hope this is bait.
2019-01-26 13:50
#67
Monkey | 
Brazil g8Q0wHY 
she a hoe
2019-01-27 00:40
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