are you friends because you like to be friends with her or because you want to be with her
Fuck friendship just shoot ur shot but first buy gucci and supreme clothes, smoke weed, and buy nice car
it's really simple, ask her out. Whichever is the answer will help you move on with that
try to kiss her lips softly
woman are pretty straightforward, its either yes or no dude
How often do you two talk? And about what?
Ask her out on a date on Minecraft first if she says no in Minecraft she will say no in real life but she will also think it’s a joke if it’s on Minecraft
And if she says yes then you’re set
She maybe likes you to, don't be a schwul.
Talk to her about your feelings. If she's not interested, move on. Either that or do a lot with her, go cool places and pick the right moment to make an advance, it'll be fine.
I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.
-- Alfred Tennyson, 1st Baron Tennyson
Failiure is part of a procces. Just start to flirt and by seeing her reaction decide to go deeper
Take her on duo queue on MM.
If she likes MM then she likes you if she doesn't then she doesn't like your company.
Easy peasy riddance of the girl. Because you know she will never like MM.
Does she ever start the conversations when you are texting her? If no then it could possibly mean that she doesn't care about you.
Edit: maybe on Friday after you have partied (is that a word, lmao) you could tell her that you have feelings for her and she might feel the same way
Too late nigga aint happnin
just dont rush into stuff and dont think too much for fuck sake please do it for yourself otherwise you will end up fucked
take my advice and let things go the way they are supposed to, and fallow your heart and feelings, thats it...
Let's be honest here, you're only "friends" with her because you want to be with her. So I'd say go for it. Then again, if it'd fuck up your friend circle experiences, there's a simple question you have to answer:
What is more important to you:
- Keeping your friend circle as it is now
- Dating your female "friend"
Then again, since you're going out together on Friday, if she shows signs that she wants to "be" with you, without you initiating anything, you're probably safe to advance. Basically, wait for some kind of definitive sign that she wants you too - then you'll be risk-free.
If you find the right solution, let me know cause I'm on the exact same situation and it's awful
if you act like a friend don't expect her to be your girlfriend
I was in the exact same situation not too long ago except I completely fucked it up. I essentially took a gamble and decided to be way too forward with my feelings. Unsurprisingly, she was totally creeped out. We still talk and have normal conversations, but the awkward tension is pretty visible at times.
Looks like to me that you already took your decision ;)
Lmao bro if u got a female friend
FOR GOD DAMN dont lose wtffff
Mate better keep being close and trustful friends with her and get any other bitch as gf
friendship>sex tbh that some real street talk my bro
Not doing anything is probably the wrong choice. I'd tell it to her, even though you fear for your friendship.
If she doesn't reciprocate your feelings that doesn't mean that you wont be able to stay friends.
You just need to decide if you want that or if you'd rather not see her again to help forgetting her and see other gurls.
If she does reciprocate your feelings, or hints at a possibility for oyu two to become a couple.. great.
I was in the same situation as you a couple of years ago. I told it to her, she didn't (really) reciprocate my feelings but I still stayed friends with her for a longer time. It was hard at first but knewing that there was no hope helped me to get the idea of a relationship with here out of my head. Friendship degraded from that point on but it never really hurt any of us since we sorta creeped out of each others lifes with no bad feelings for one another. I'm now in a happy relationship with another girl.
be flirty and confident, that is the best way
Gibt es Anzeichen, dass sie deine Gefühle vielleicht erwidern würde? Ich würde ihn definitiv nichts sagen, stattdessen würde ich probieren bei dem nächsten Treffen Körperkontakt aufzubauen. Beginne mit leichten Berührungen an der Schulter. Generell nur Schulter und Arme. Irgendwann dann versuchen, eine Kuschelsituation herbeizuführen, dann streichle sie ... und wenn sie das mag und ihr euch in die Augen schaut, ... küss sie. Du wirst den richtigen Moment bemerken.
aber nochmals: Sage ihr nichts von deinen Gefühlen, das geht garantiert schief, weil sie auch nicht wüsste, was sie darauf antworten soll. Probiere erst den Weg über das Handeln, z.B. wie oben beschrieben. Glaube mir, ich bin 27 und habe sehr viel Erfahrungen. In meiner Jugend war ich ähnlicher Situation wie du.
you're not 100% sure to loose her if she is not into you, just ask her out to see what'll happend next.
I've been facing with something like this when I was a student. I felt in love with one of my best friends. Finally I had talked with her. The answer was not surprise for me. Our friendship has been broken of course. I was ashamed at first but, I have forgot quickly. What I did was true. Don't rush and wait for the right time. You should talk with her eventually. You don't need one single person's friendship, do you? Especially, a girl's friendship.
if u trust in eachother then go for it, but do it carefully so she doesn't think ur a creep
Finally i can comment, been waiting forever as I am not "active enough" but yeah here goes:
In 2018 I was in the same situation as yours. Actually twice, but hey, I survived em both. So like, my situation would be completely as you describe, but what i eventually did was i just told the girl how i felt, and we just talked it out next couple of weeks. I used to take walks in the night where i would be on the phone with her, where we would talk bla bla bla, but yeah eventually i came over it and we are really good friends today and can just laugh that period off, honestly. Now the other time hahaha, it was with my best friend actually, we would be together everyday and eventually i just grew feelings on her, and i hated it as i kinda knew it would ruin our relationship, and as we were at a party i told her, and indeed it ruined our relationship, but only for like 2 months and now we are very good friends again, not nearly as good though but thats for other reasons basically. But yeah, ask my anything bro I want to help as much as i can :)
Go for it as soon as possible. You will be more and more miserable by every day if you don't make a move.
But, you should also understand, that Friendship->Romantic relationship->Friendship is rarely the case.
sometimes you have to man up and just popflash yourself in her.
nt but ill bang her first
you are probably really young
just say to her you want to add more things to the friendship, if she says no, dont act all weird, just be "ok, wahtever eh eh" and just keep the friendship like nothing happened
even ask her to introduce her friends to you etc
life isnt THAT serious/dramatic come on lol
Not my thread, but i have a simmilar situation going on at this very moment.
So there is a new girl in my school/class and people are not really talking to her and it seems they are scared, not because she is ugly but because i think that she is very attractive (hltv standarts would go from 6-7) even if that sounds stupid. Its been a 3rd day that she has been in school and on the 1st one we speaked very little but she seemed nice even if she was shy and of course naturally had some mysterious vibes attached to her since she only now has permanently moved to the country that i am in even if she speaks native language. On the second day i picked myself together and approached her and we talked, i asked if it was okay if would sit next to her and she said go ahead, we giggled a little bit in the class and after it was a lunch break + she didnt have the next lesson we went together to a mall and we drinked coffee, i thought it was a good idea to pay for the coffee and i dont know if that was the correct move or not, we eventually came back to school i helped her find the couple of places where her classes are. So at the end of her lessons we again talked briefly about the school and we hugged (i made a move to hug and she didnt hessitate so i guess its a good thing) throught the day we talked about our interests and the things we do + of course some school stuff, she really is my type. Today we again had some classes together but my thursday is more busy so her lessons ended earlier, we sat together for 2 classes and she seems to be more comfortable around me in the 3rd day and after her lessons ended i accompanied her to the bus stop and we talked about the school and the next day and we hugged.
I dont know when should i make the move because i do like her a lot and i have fun being around her, but maybe i will seem like a creep if i ask her out too early. WTD ?
Well when celebrating, try kissing her when you and her are drunk, atleast that’s how I got my girlfriend haha or try tickling her she’ll love that and try to advance from that point
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."
Just go for it man, if you trust your friendship then even if it comes to the worst (which I know will not be the case) the friendship aspect of it will never die. Yes, you guys might stop talking for a while but true friends always find their way back to each other.
Also, I think she likes you back as well. If you actually like her as bad as you have described it, then just go ahead and say it all to her. It is going to be really tough, I know! But once it all comes out you will feel much better.
Just be yourself, don't do anything extra and be truthful about anything you say. All the best bud!