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Why aren't you happy?
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Brazil MadBettorGrr 
Today when I was walking with my dogs in the nature I had an epiphany of how life is AMAZING and I euphorically cried after that (I'm serious) I spent the rest of our roam thinking about the reasons that make people feel low and sad about their lives but I didn't really reach a conclusion, so I'm asking you guys: Why aren't you happy with your existence? I'll be back in 2 hours or so to answer you guys :)
2019-03-19 23:11
not french
2019-03-19 23:11
#13
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France FanchD 
Wtf
2019-03-19 23:27
#31
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France funKKush182 
Why men?
2019-03-20 02:00
hahahahaha
2019-04-01 01:52
Some people are broke forever, lost a loved one, can't afford food, cancer, etc
2019-04-01 01:53
-no girlfriend -all I do isnt enough doesnt matter how much effort I put into it
2019-03-19 23:13
its better than doing nothing and putting no effort into nothing xD
2019-03-19 23:52
#18
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Brazil MadBettorGrr 
You don't need a gf to be happy, but if you really want one... What are you doing to achieve this? Are you meeting new girls? Dating apps? If you're unhappy about something then try to proactively change it! The second one is kinda subjective but it seems like a mindset problem
2019-03-20 01:39
Because my university classes are so damn boring and repetitive.
2019-03-19 23:16
#19
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Brazil MadBettorGrr 
What course are you doing? Is it the one that you want?
2019-03-20 01:39
Cost & Managerial accounting classes. It's not what I want to do, I like history (American and world history). But there's no scope in that field, so I would be wasting my time going into it.
2019-03-20 01:41
#30
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Brazil MadBettorGrr 
Uff that's a looooong discussion, the classic dilemma: doing what you want or doing what will give you more money in the future? I'd say that if you can find some purpose in the career you don't like but gives you money, then stick with it at least to establish a good financial stability and then you can change your career with more calm and less risks Hey, your life is very long, it doesn't mean that you have to work with it your whole life. You probably won't.
2019-03-20 01:59
Yeah, that's the positive to this. Loads of money. But, thanks for the discussion mate!
2019-03-20 02:09
dude you live in Brazil how can you be happy ? I was in rio and in sao paulo once and I almost got robbed 4 times and I saw multiple people with guns, I was never so scared in my life
2019-03-19 23:19
#6
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Brazil KickFallen_ffs 
0/8
2019-03-19 23:20
not even kidding
2019-03-19 23:26
+1 same here mate
2019-03-19 23:26
#21
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Brazil MadBettorGrr 
I don't know where you went, but in 22 years I never had any problems with criminality (I live in a good neighborhood tho) But even if I had faced criminality it wouldn't be a huge issue for my happiness levels
2019-03-20 01:42
Why are you saying that like if Brazil doesn't have a huge problem with criminality and... you know, tens of thousands murders ? I'm pretty sure that if you are killed, It might be a huge issue for your happiness level.
2019-03-20 01:52
#33
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Brazil MadBettorGrr 
I didn't say that, I said that thankfully I didn't experience it. The huge majority of these murderers are between drug dealers and criminals, so I think that the risk of me being killed is veeeery low and it doesn't affect my life or my happiness levels, but of course it'd be better if my country was safer
2019-03-20 02:03
That is a good outlook i think
2019-03-20 02:16
Do you think that Bolsonaro may change the dynamic ? Honestly the situation in Brazil is kind of heartbreaking. This country should be one of the richer in the world.
2019-03-20 17:31
not like he can do anything about it though
2019-04-01 20:53
#5
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Brazil KickFallen_ffs 
i had one like 4 years ago, now im back to unhapiness
2019-03-19 23:20
#7
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Germany ZucchiniAngst 
my bad stomach
2019-03-19 23:21
i dont know
2019-03-19 23:24
nothing is worth to live for in my life , i have no friends and i can't change it no matter the amount of effort i put in
2019-03-19 23:25
#22
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Brazil MadBettorGrr 
Why you can't change it?
2019-03-20 01:43
because no matter what i do, i still have no friends.
2019-03-21 00:53
same!
2019-03-21 00:56
Yeah it sucks. People are nice to you because your'e nice to everyone apart from the bullies but they are still not your mates.
2019-03-21 01:01
yes man they will never invite you to hang out and just make excuses when you ask them ;(
2019-03-21 01:03
#55
ZywOo | 
Europe vacban 
Harsh truth: probably your own fault. Invite those people to do something together, friends dont fall out of the sky
2019-03-21 01:04
imagine asking people to make plans and them saying no and bullshitting an excuse and then you sit here saying it's my fault.
2019-03-21 01:07
#58
ZywOo | 
Europe vacban 
try again with other people. repeat until you genuinely enjoy eachother company
2019-03-21 01:08
I have tried with everyone in my year apart from the weird people who talk bout hentai
2019-03-21 01:10
#61
ZywOo | 
Europe vacban 
look outside your school then. Join sports club or other club (theater, art, gaming, politics, cooking, movies etc etc)
2019-03-21 01:13
I play basketball and guess what? every time i ask to make plans in the group chat, everyone blanks me. Not one reply.
2019-03-21 01:15
#63
ZywOo | 
Europe vacban 
Sounds like you need a fresh start tbh. These people probably already have preconceptions in mind about you, meeting new people could be good for you, but realistically that might only happen until you finish school or join another such a club/sport. Also: friendship has to come from both sides, if they're always ignoring you they are not worth the attention you give them.
2019-03-21 01:20
+1 but still feelsbad when you have no friends
2019-03-21 01:22
#71
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United Kingdom _P2K 
I feel bad for you man, i really do, because i know and understand the hell you are facing right now, it fucking sucks and i am really sorry for your situation, i presume you are around the same age i am and can sorta relate. dm me if you need to talk im always available and here for you! :) Add me on snap if u want aswell
2019-04-01 01:58
My sc is djkalidbg. add me if you want (but im bad at cs so you probably dont want to play with me)
2019-04-02 22:21
#94
Europe Soec 
you are probably trying to become friend of the wrong people? if you are young it could be difficult to move but with years you'll move freely so don't hurry. Fresh start in other places always help
2019-04-02 13:33
I try to get along with all people and be friends with people in my classes but they never want to make plans with me.
2019-04-02 22:22
#10
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Brazil MonkayBAN 
the ignorance is a bliss
2019-03-19 23:26
#23
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Brazil MadBettorGrr 
Wdym? Do you believe that only ignorant people are happy? Ignorant about what? Everyone is ignorant about a lot of things
2019-03-20 01:44
because i need to wait a year to see my mate again ffs
2019-03-19 23:28
Like, your friend or your gf/bf?
2019-04-01 02:07
lazy ass motherfucker with no motivation to nothing and with big dreams if this even makes sense
2019-03-19 23:53
#26
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Brazil MadBettorGrr 
Doesn't make sense because if your dreams were big you'd have motivation to achieve them no matter what Try to review your dreams and think about what you really want to achieve in your life, plan it all and then YOU WILL have motivation You only live once, if you waste your time because of your "laziness" (which isn't even true, it's just a limiting belief that you have) you'll certainly regret it on the future
2019-03-20 01:49
because i work 12 hours per day for only 450 euro per month :/ so ofc im not happy.
2019-03-20 00:39
where do you live? :/
2019-04-01 01:49
czech republic
2019-04-01 01:51
#79
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Norway ludvik33 
Minimum wage in Czech republic is 470euro/month. What do you do?
2019-04-01 10:29
He has to be from Ustecky kraj, because in Prague you can get 1200euro/month if you work 8hours a day without any problem
2019-04-01 16:07
im security guard/patrol man, @martinrulezz nope, im from Jihočeský Kraj
2019-04-02 13:26
aah
2019-04-02 19:06
#24
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Oceania Awkwarx 
Lack of motivation which leads to other problems
2019-03-20 01:48
me 2 xD
2019-03-20 01:54
small penis
2019-03-20 01:48
Because my country might turn into a shithole if my people don't wake up fast
2019-03-20 01:53
#34
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France funKKush182 
already a shithole my friend
2019-03-20 02:04
I hear people are shitting all over the streets in Paris, so i guess you can only go up
2019-03-20 02:05
#32
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France funKKush182 
I'm easily bored with everything and that kinda makes me sad I'm not saying i'm depressed or anything but sometimes i wish i could be a kid again and rediscover all those things again
2019-03-20 02:03
I'm happy knowing that the world isn't supposed to be beautiful, which is what i call genuine happiness.
2019-03-20 02:05
I keep making stupid decisions and acting surprised when they turn out badly
2019-03-20 02:09
#95
Europe Soec 
lmao. too honest analysis of bait... fun anyway
2019-04-02 13:35
Im buzzing right now. Just been offered a job at a fantastic company doing what Ive always wanted, having spent months searching and attending several interviews and assessment centres.
2019-03-20 02:09
Congrats
2019-03-20 02:10
nice man :)
2019-03-20 02:22
#73
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United Kingdom _P2K 
nice bro, what is it that you're doing? :)
2019-04-01 01:57
Corporate finance for a large company. Looking forward to moving to a new city and training to become an accountant. Pays good too which is going to be nice, having had no money for years :)
2019-04-01 10:16
i'm happy with my existence wtf men
2019-03-20 02:10
#42
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Turkey headshotk1ng 
I'm happy wtf u talking about m8.. i used to be sad af a year and half ago.
2019-03-20 02:13
#45
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United States PsychoLogical 
Completely lost in what to do for the future.
2019-03-20 02:25
#46
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Netherlands dabadpad 
still silver sob
2019-03-20 02:32
#48
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Slovakia b7_ 
dicc too small
2019-03-20 17:31
I am very happy :)
2019-03-21 00:56
im 21 and my life is pretty much at its end working the same shitty job everyday just to survive
2019-03-21 00:57
#56
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United States jitteRs 
-no gf -no friends -feel like i need to be perfect -horrible social skills
2019-03-21 01:05
my dad just called me to tell me my parents are separating
2019-03-21 01:09
#65
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Turkey guduf 
Because of the sitiuation of our country and ignorance of most Turks(even my parents). I just want a better computer,better life standarts and a better school but i will not get it. I have fake friends that doesnt even understand a shit and live like retards. I couldnt even met a teenager with similar interests as me
2019-03-21 01:23
#66
sodaH | 
Estonia rafio 
cant concentrate for shit shit memory i think im getting dumber the older i get i barely understand whats on uni nowadays in cs i feel like ill never improve past my current level no motivation anymore
2019-03-21 01:25
#75
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Europe FrenchScene 
How old are you?
2019-04-01 01:59
#67
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Germany Sabba1 
cuz my name not vincent
2019-03-21 01:29
#74
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Brazil vinnyzeraNTC 
Unsatisfied with my university course, as I was supposed to be graduating by this point since I'm on my 4th year but I'm just barely past half the subjects required, I haven't even started my course conclusion paper (TCC) (or whatever the equivalent to that is outside of Brazil) which is 2 more subjects (another year to make that research), haven't done any internship (one required to finish the course and the other is optional, another 6 months for each) so it kinda became a boring as fuck to me to go to classes now, I don't have the drive I had 2 or 3 years ago. I like the course I just hate that I have no perspective of graduating anytime soon :( And also I'm in a future-less 'relationship' with a girl, we've been going out for 10 months but every time I talk to her about a serious relationship she quickly changes subject so it just stays that way. I feel like now we're only "fuck buddies", and that's not exactly what I'm looking for. Apparently I'm too much of a pussy to 'break up' with her, otherwise I'd have done it like 5 months ago at least. Maybe because I don't wanna be alone, I don't know. Oh and I want a hotter girlfriend too :( Fuck my life dude wtf did you made me do remembering me of all this shit :(
2019-04-01 01:59
these are all problems you can fix yourself
2019-04-01 10:20
#80
tarik | 
Portugal dr1zz3n 
In my case, I've been dealing with depression for 5 or 6 years now. I'm 20 (almost 21) and don't really know what to do with my life. I hate what I'm studying (European Languages and Literature, which I used to love), don't know what I'll do when I finish my degree. Had to leave uni mid semester due to a depressive episode (happens quite a lot now, the fourth since last september). I wish I could be happy, even though I feel that a part of me has already given up long ago, and I'm just a shadow of my former self (sorry for posting depressive stuff here, even on the day it is today)
2019-04-01 10:38
retarded thread. ask this question to kids who do child labor 12h/day just because your life is somewhat decent and u feel happy, it doesnt mean it works for everyone. but yeah flag checks out. cant expect 80 iq brazilian kid to think deeper. you should ask yourself why you are happy. you would understand it then.
2019-04-01 10:44
#103
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Bulgaria Omaiguudnes 
"ask this question to kids who do child labor 12h/day" ???
2019-04-02 22:53
#82
Xyp9x | 
China teguP 
I'm lazy
2019-04-01 10:41
It's hard to be that good in cs
2019-04-01 10:43
lonely
2019-04-01 20:21
i have a headache rn.
2019-04-01 20:23
#89
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Finland m1b 
im tired
2019-04-01 20:54
my dealer got no weed
2019-04-01 20:55
cuz we be hustlin all day long so we aint got no time for having fun with ourselves
2019-04-01 20:55
#92
s1mple | 
Germany NatsuS 
because I never won a major
2019-04-01 20:57
#99
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Austria raicoon1337 
No German ever won a major.. Maybe knowing this helps a bit
2019-04-02 22:50
#104
s1mple | 
Germany NatsuS 
Kuroky won the one and only super Major. But nice try
2019-04-02 22:54
#105
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Austria raicoon1337 
No. Nt. 0/8
2019-04-02 22:55
#107
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Austria raicoon1337 
0/8
2019-04-02 22:57
#108
s1mple | 
Germany NatsuS 
you are a lier face the truth your only famous people are Hitler and Fritzl. Austria have something to say LUL only lies
2019-04-02 22:58
i have crohns disease, can only game at the weekend and school is boring and just ducked up
2019-04-02 22:52
#101
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Bulgaria Omaiguudnes 
I am happy, always happy, i dont know why but i am, i am only sad when really bad shit happens
2019-04-02 22:52
I have a chronic tension headache disorder, have spent a lot of money trying to find a cure but for the past 2 years have been living with headaches from morning to when I go to sleep
2019-04-02 22:52
Why the fuck do you assume im sad? Im really happy fucking bias
2019-04-02 23:00
#110
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Europe SteffeM 
Fat as fuck and when I finally thought of going back to gym someone up there decided to give me a coccyx cyst, I need to get an operation in SEPTEMBER but in 2 weeks I can finally shower myself and go to gym. ffs.
2019-04-02 23:02
Not swiss
2019-04-02 23:04
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