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slowly losing joy in life...
breakfast | 
Myanmar BlessMyFamily 
It just feels like everything in my life goes down as soon as I was done with high school. -I hate the degree I am studying hence why my grades get worse every semester -most of my friends are still in my area but we only meet like once or twice on the weekend. I do enjoy my time with them but it also makes me feel even worse since all of them seem to do a lot better than me -my family doesnt seem to see the problems of my life. Everytime I talk about hating to go to uni they say it is normal and will get better next semester and life isnt a birthday party. -I had a breakup 1.5 years ago and thought I got over it but right now when everything else goes wrong I miss her and wish I would still have a partner to share my problems with Feel free to talk with me about this and your own experiences. If noone can relate it is fine aswell I just felt like telling all these things to someone (even if it is a esports forum)
2019-03-20 21:12
Latvia hahalmaoxd 
same homie I have a good job,finished uni,my own car and apartment but my GF left me and I've become super depressed recently, life seems pretty pointless. Thinking of quitting my job tbh
2019-03-20 21:14
I am really afraid of the future. Right now I have mediocre grades and apply for writing my bachelor thesis in a company and I only get rejections already
2019-03-20 21:17
Latvia hahalmaoxd 
yeah I have the same feeling Eventhough I earn very good money for my country I do not see myself making any significant progress in any area,feels like I've stagnated :(
2019-03-20 21:19
Bro, life is made of ups and downs, but you only have a successful life if you never give up. Give up is for losers. I know that you may seem lost, but surrender it's not going to solve your problems, just fight! You have everything, just be grateful. You have more things than most of us, and you are giving them away, you worked for it and you accomplished that. Just do the same with girls, fight for them, eventually you will get what you want!
2019-03-20 21:38
Yo I know how it is, honestly. It'll work out eventually, I guarantee you. Just keep trying :)
2019-03-21 01:06
Give me ur job , ur car and ur home before you do something stupid. Quitting ur well paying job just bcs ur GF left you ? I'm sorry but that's immature.Judjing by your social status you are probably in your late 20s , you're not some bratty teenager who experienced his first brakeup and is thretening to kill himself , you can do better. I've experienced break ups my self I know how it feels but you can't let it beat you...
2019-03-21 00:34
fox | 
Portugal VAC69FOX 
Sorry to hear bro. Maybe try dabbling In hobbies or different classes outside your necessary curriculum? That’s how I found my hobby
2019-03-20 21:14
I have hobbies which are the only thing I look forward to right now. I go the gym and still play basketball
2019-03-20 21:23
fox | 
Portugal VAC69FOX 
What about passions in college? i.e business, science, etc? No classes have sparked any interest for you?
2019-03-20 23:36
I dont care about economics and accounting and our marketing or info classes are terrible
2019-03-20 23:39
fox | 
Portugal VAC69FOX 
Do you have to take general education/elective courses in Germany?
2019-03-21 00:52
Gas | 
Europe all_ruskies 
2019-03-20 21:15
She works two jobs to make ends meet; at least, that was her reason for not having time to join us.
2019-03-20 21:37
2019-03-20 21:37
The deviousness of obfuscation is very nearly unorthodox in its objectivity.
2019-03-20 21:37
God | 
Poland henlo 
why the fuck would u continue to study a degree u hate lol
2019-03-20 21:15
Brazil Fallenzera 
most of people keep doing things they already started, even if they are hating it. marriage is a good example of this
2019-03-20 21:17
If I drop out I dont know what else to study. My dream was to become a physiotherapist but I dont want to work for 2500€ for the rest of my life so I went to university
2019-03-20 21:18
2500€ a month is luxury for the majority of people in the world?
2019-03-20 21:28
It isnt if you have 1600 after taxes and pay 800€ rent. How are you supposed to have a car and leftover money for hobbies, fun and travelling? Not even talking about founding a family at one point of your life
2019-03-20 21:30
read what i said again?
2019-03-20 21:34
I don't understand your point. He is working and living in Germany. 2500€/month might be high for some places but Germany is definitely not one of them. This guy won't make that much money if he moves to one of those countries.
2019-03-20 21:59
even with 2500 a month he can save up and move to a different country and live like a king? marry an afican lady like me, i met my liberian fiancée and moved back to liberia with her from dresden. best choice of my life
2019-03-20 22:30
not everyone wants to fear for their life in slums lmao
2019-03-20 22:39
Fanny | 
Netherlands bredalow 
Move out of your appartment to one that requires less monthly upkeep (rent) and then you are free my man.
2019-03-20 22:34
Denmark Xipingu 
Because it’s wasted time not to finish what you started.
2019-03-20 22:41
Brazil Fallenzera 
Hard to help you over here But i can 100% assure, you only missing her now cause you are not ok with yourself, so its not a real "miss" once you find yourself, u just forgot about her immediatly, but since you are feeling in that way your mind makes you think another person could make you feel better, but it wouldnt.
2019-03-20 21:18
+1 actually smart, which I didn`t expect after seeing your name.
2019-03-20 21:23
2019-03-21 00:27
United States BubbleFlames 
Stop working towards that degree. If you don't like the studying, you won't like the job. Who cares what other people think? If you want to quit working and go backpack around the world, cool. If you want to go pro in Happy Wheels, go ahead.
2019-03-20 21:17
Bulgaria Omaiguudnes 
shit advice, never follow your dream
2019-03-20 21:20
United States BubbleFlames 
I guess you're right. I'm gonna go work at McDonalds.
2019-03-20 21:23
Europe god_of_hltv 
quit university and travel around :)
2019-03-20 21:19
What would that do for me? I wasted 5 semesters already and atleast would have my degree in a year (allthough with mediocre grades). Backpacking sounds cool but I would need to leech the money of my parents and it would only be one cool year and then my problems continue
2019-03-20 21:20
maybe you would find something that would push you forward after travelling?
2019-03-20 22:46
1. Then stop studying that degree. Simple as that. 2. Many people don't have any friends at all, what are you complaining about? That's adult life or find friends that are willing to meet up during the week. 3. Your passive way of IMPLYING that you want to stop going to university doesn't do anything. You're a MAN so make the fucking decision yourself if you want to switch your career or not. Your family can't make that decision for you. 4. Scarcity mindset. There are literally a billion women out there you could meet and yet you cry over a girl you probably haven't seen for almost 2 years. Also, women never want to hear a man complaining about problems. You're a man, so deal with your situation. Your problem can be resolved very simple: take fucking action instead of thinking about the problems and delaying taking action.
2019-03-20 21:21
Easier said than done.
2019-03-20 22:12
name checks out
2019-03-20 22:33
Did i hurt your feelings?
2019-03-21 01:14
Tunisia Respecc 
same here...
2019-03-20 21:21
It seems to me that you're only doing what you HAVE to. Start doing things you like, if you don't feel like doing anything, force yourself to. It won't solve all your problems, but it'll help you feeling better with yourself. Trust me.
2019-03-20 21:23
cocaine or jesus
2019-03-20 21:24
Both will make life worse long term
2019-03-20 21:57
I was there. If you have the chance, change degrees now until its too late, remember that thats what you are going to be doing most of your life, if you hate it its not gonna get good. On the other side, most degrees are shit for the first part, and then it gets interesting (or at least thats what happened to me) Also, the worst thing you can do is to compare yourself with other people, everyone's life is different, you just have to set a goal and work everyday towards it, no matter how. You are still young and right now, you can aim towards whatever it is you want to do in life. I may not know it all but im surely sincere with these advices Dont lose hope in life.
2019-03-20 21:24
for me its the exact opposite i hated highschool never had a gf in hindsight i think its great that i never had a gf during my teenage years, because it seems like everyone gets so emotional/nostalgic and wishes himself back into the past… i will never feel like that because my past sucked xD my adultlife is where i make my memories for life also quit studying whichever Topic doesnt interest you, unless youre only 1/2 Semesters away from a Degree...
2019-03-20 21:25
life is a mess bro,but i know you are gonna get through this,school is the worst but is necessary :(
2019-03-20 21:27
Best thing to do is to travel if you are bored, visit new places , meet new exciting people.
2019-03-20 21:27
were you good in school ?
2019-03-20 21:33
Average Abi 2.4 Why?
2019-03-20 21:36
just curious, your parents are right you just need to go through it and then you will actually enjoy working don't give up and don't throw your degree away
2019-03-20 21:41
i have been on the same as you for like 1 year, dropping grades losing motivation and stuff, what I did was trying to meet someone special, someone that was our friend 10 years ago, or a person on a bar or something and then i met my gf and i am feeling much better, all you need is someone that you trust
2019-03-20 21:41
Russia leld 
Convert to islan
2019-03-20 21:43
Denmark Xipingu 
That’s a personal bankruptcy declarement.
2019-03-20 22:42
Maybe do something you actually enjoy or interested in? I was in the same shit like you friend
2019-03-20 21:44
Stop thinking about stuff, switch ur degree if u dont like it, get a new girl, just hace fun
2019-03-20 21:44
Watch a ton of romantic dramas that way you will hate your life even more, maybe just enough that you make some changes
2019-03-20 21:53
See a psychiatrist. I had pretty much the same problems as you have. I was at a point where I couldn't get out of the bed. Talking with a professional did help me. It's still not perfect but I'm doing much better. Just find a psychiatrist that is good for you. I changed 5 times until I find the right one. And even then it took me 20 sessions to see the effects. I didn't use any medications though. It won't get better unless you actually do something. Good luck.
2019-03-20 22:05
too much it's boring trendy ass shit everywhere.
2019-03-20 22:15
fucking whiner
2019-03-20 22:40
shut the fuck up russia is not suposed to talk 3rd world country
2019-03-20 23:48
wtf piece of prokda
2019-03-21 00:24
who tf is prokda you ugly ass virgin
2019-03-21 21:33
you little shit cuckold
2019-03-21 21:34
shut the fuck up 3rd world putin sux USA USA USA > ruski cykas
2019-03-21 22:30
Potti | 
Other flynttt 
will not get better until u find something to do that u enjoy
2019-03-20 22:45
Well i would suggest that you finish ur year and in summer, forget about everything and go travel... 1.5 months long and go solo rlly and witness some nice places and meet new amazing ppl. You live in germany id suggest travel the Balkan or go Thailand you can have a mix of nature and many bangs with aids kappa
2019-03-20 23:43
Albania JojoStar69 
It's easy bro i have the same have 1 life dont waste it like this just go crazy and have fun it's not that only things that you enjoy and make you laugh you can always have a good time if you want..... everything is in your mind :)
2019-03-20 23:52
Germany zeolikk 
Stay strong brother, I hope you can get out of this. I know what it feels like to be in your position, I was in quite a simliar situation when I was still in high school, no family, barely had any contact with friends because most left to other cities to study, I hated high school a lot (especially because of anxiety)... I'm happy that I got out of it and I hope that you'll do so as well
2019-03-20 23:59
Same here, shit live, fake people everywhere, no reasons to live
2019-03-21 00:36
Brazil ze_maneiro 
Stand up and shout was the song that savad my life... it made me get the guitar and the lyrics are awsome as well
2019-03-21 00:37
imagine if u were handicapped. or lived in africa. or didn't have hands. stop complaining bitch
2019-03-21 01:04
just kys m8
2019-03-21 01:16
Most of the time people tend to shape theirselves into a victim and ask for sympathy . Get over those shit and look forward. You need to be positive and strong, your life isn't that bad at all.
2019-03-21 01:25
I used to feel the same way as u when I first get to America to study. I feel like my life is fucked, no friend, new environment, unfamiliar language and have to leave my parent. I started thinking of those happy memories back in the days and questioning myself why don't I stay in my hometown. Something is meant to be, it happens for a reason, things cant be undo and time cant turn back. U need to keep going. Complaining wont help, adjust to it and live your own story.
2019-03-21 01:33
United Kingdom Lightning_DC_ 
It doesn’t work for everyone, but maybe some independent counselling/advice would be helpful if you feel like you can’t talk to your parents/family about the stuff that’s going on? I would always try and start with my parents if I could. A professional like that might be able to refer you to a doctor if they think you have depression or something similar, and you can get treatment/help if that’s what you need. Other than that, I totally get that it sometimes feels like your life is heading nowhere. I’m 25 in a very good job with a loving family and a religious faith that is meaningful to me, but I don’t have loads of friends, have never had a GF and am fighting with exams that I may never pass. I can also get quite negative about myself and stuff in general although I wouldn’t go so far as to say I’ve ever been depressed or had a genuine mental illness. If you can get yourself well balanced internally then your perspective will change and things will get better. Try and look after your body and mind; sleep more, exercise and keep in shape (I see you work out and play basketball, so keep doing that), find something that allows you to disconnect your brain and relax (normally music for me). Look at your studying as a means to an end, and not the most important thing in your life, then worry about what you really want to do, and what you’re good at, once you finish. Hope things get better for you man.
2019-03-21 01:49
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