I have a good job,finished uni,my own car and apartment but my GF left me and I've become super depressed recently, life seems pretty pointless.
Thinking of quitting my job tbh
Sorry to hear bro. Maybe try dabbling In hobbies or different classes outside your necessary curriculum? That’s how I found my hobby
why the fuck would u continue to study a degree u hate lol
Hard to help you over here
But i can 100% assure, you only missing her now cause you are not ok with yourself, so its not a real "miss" once you find yourself, u just forgot about her immediatly, but since you are feeling in that way your mind makes you think another person could make you feel better, but it wouldnt.
Stop working towards that degree. If you don't like the studying, you won't like the job.
Who cares what other people think?
If you want to quit working and go backpack around the world, cool. If you want to go pro in Happy Wheels, go ahead.
quit university and travel around :)
1. Then stop studying that degree. Simple as that.
2. Many people don't have any friends at all, what are you complaining about? That's adult life or find friends that are willing to meet up during the week.
3. Your passive way of IMPLYING that you want to stop going to university doesn't do anything. You're a MAN so make the fucking decision yourself if you want to switch your career or not. Your family can't make that decision for you.
4. Scarcity mindset. There are literally a billion women out there you could meet and yet you cry over a girl you probably haven't seen for almost 2 years. Also, women never want to hear a man complaining about problems. You're a man, so deal with your situation.
Your problem can be resolved very simple: take fucking action instead of thinking about the problems and delaying taking action.
It seems to me that you're only doing what you HAVE to. Start doing things you like, if you don't feel like doing anything, force yourself to. It won't solve all your problems, but it'll help you feeling better with yourself. Trust me.
I was there.
If you have the chance, change degrees now until its too late, remember that thats what you are going to be doing most of your life, if you hate it its not gonna get good.
On the other side, most degrees are shit for the first part, and then it gets interesting (or at least thats what happened to me)
Also, the worst thing you can do is to compare yourself with other people, everyone's life is different, you just have to set a goal and work everyday towards it, no matter how.
You are still young and right now, you can aim towards whatever it is you want to do in life.
I may not know it all but im surely sincere with these advices
Dont lose hope in life.
for me its the exact opposite
i hated highschool
never had a gf
in hindsight i think its great that i never had a gf during my teenage years, because it seems like everyone gets so emotional/nostalgic and wishes himself back into the past… i will never feel like that because my past sucked xD my adultlife is where i make my memories for life
also quit studying whichever Topic doesnt interest you, unless youre only 1/2 Semesters away from a Degree...
life is a mess bro,but i know you are gonna get through this,school is the worst but is necessary :(
Best thing to do is to travel if you are bored, visit new places , meet new exciting people.
were you good in school ?
i have been on the same as you for like 1 year, dropping grades losing motivation and stuff, what I did was trying to meet someone special, someone that was our friend 10 years ago, or a person on a bar or something and then i met my gf and i am feeling much better, all you need is someone that you trust
Maybe do something you actually enjoy or interested in? I was in the same shit like you friend
Stop thinking about stuff, switch ur degree if u dont like it, get a new girl, just hace fun
Watch a ton of romantic dramas that way you will hate your life even more, maybe just enough that you make some changes
See a psychiatrist. I had pretty much the same problems as you have. I was at a point where I couldn't get out of the bed. Talking with a professional did help me. It's still not perfect but I'm doing much better. Just find a psychiatrist that is good for you. I changed 5 times until I find the right one. And even then it took me 20 sessions to see the effects. I didn't use any medications though.
It won't get better unless you actually do something. Good luck.
too much money..so it's boring trendy ass shit everywhere.
will not get better until u find something to do that u enjoy
Well i would suggest that you finish ur year and in summer, forget about everything and go travel... 1.5 months long and go solo rlly and witness some nice places and meet new amazing ppl. You live in germany id suggest travel the Balkan or go Thailand you can have a mix of nature and many bangs with aids kappa
It's easy bro i have the same shit...you have 1 life dont waste it like this just go crazy and have fun it's not that hard....do only things that you enjoy and make you laugh you can always have a good time if you want.....
everything is in your mind :)
Stay strong brother, I hope you can get out of this. I know what it feels like to be in your position, I was in quite a simliar situation when I was still in high school, no family, barely had any contact with friends because most left to other cities to study, I hated high school a lot (especially because of anxiety)... I'm happy that I got out of it and I hope that you'll do so as well
Same here, shit live, fake people everywhere, no reasons to live
Stand up and shout was the song that savad my life...
it made me get the guitar
and the lyrics are awsome as well
imagine if u were handicapped. or lived in africa. or didn't have hands. stop complaining bitch
Most of the time people tend to shape theirselves into a victim and ask for sympathy . Get over those shit and look forward. You need to be positive and strong, your life isn't that bad at all.
It doesn’t work for everyone, but maybe some independent counselling/advice would be helpful if you feel like you can’t talk to your parents/family about the stuff that’s going on? I would always try and start with my parents if I could. A professional like that might be able to refer you to a doctor if they think you have depression or something similar, and you can get treatment/help if that’s what you need.
Other than that, I totally get that it sometimes feels like your life is heading nowhere. I’m 25 in a very good job with a loving family and a religious faith that is meaningful to me, but I don’t have loads of friends, have never had a GF and am fighting with exams that I may never pass. I can also get quite negative about myself and stuff in general although I wouldn’t go so far as to say I’ve ever been depressed or had a genuine mental illness. If you can get yourself well balanced internally then your perspective will change and things will get better.
Try and look after your body and mind; sleep more, exercise and keep in shape (I see you work out and play basketball, so keep doing that), find something that allows you to disconnect your brain and relax (normally music for me). Look at your studying as a means to an end, and not the most important thing in your life, then worry about what you really want to do, and what you’re good at, once you finish.
Hope things get better for you man.