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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
First of all I would like to make it clear that this post is not a bait and shit actually happened and I need advise from you guys. So I had a childhood friend, we known each other for like 10 years. We've been pretty close (not in a gay way) and we used to hang out a lot. But then our friendship suddenly ended in its the most ridiculous way I could imagine.. So what basically happened is that we were playing CS together and he pop flashed ramp ( de_mirage ) but he missed it and I died because of that and as usual I said you are so f bad or something like this, on a side not we tend to insult each other almost about everything, always for jokes. but then he responded f you, you're bad and he said he is done with me and he left TS. When I wanted to write to him to stop trolling me I realized that he deleted me from steam, so I thought eye for an eye and went a bit further and deleted him from facebook. I wasn't even thinking back then that this actually means anything but yet it is another joke from us but here I am after 2.5 years and we haven't spoken ever since. You may ask why you didn't try to contact him, don't know honestly, we were always both stubborn and neither of us could make a first step. I've been thinking about this a lot recently not sure why ( maybe growing up? ) and I was trying to find a cause of all of this, maybe we have been insulting each other too much? I mean we both knew that these insults are jokes but maybe we both got tired of it and started taking some of them seriously? I have seriously no idea. It makes me so angry because know when I think about it I know that we've gone through so much shit together, his dad beating him up, we got beaten in the club and both ended up in the hospital, seriously like so f much. What do you guys think? Should I dig up our friendship from the grave and try to resurrect it or what? Thanks in advance.
2019-03-25 16:32
tldr pls
2019-03-25 16:33
+1
2019-03-25 18:56
Hes and hes friend are your typical ruski silvers in mm and they got mad at each other. Then they got mad to each other because the other guy killed the other and then they left discord (Or where ever they were talking) and now either of them wants to aplogize
2019-03-25 20:07
f try to contact him
2019-03-25 16:35
#6
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
When it is so f hard to make a first move, I never did, like ever. Even I consider doing that, iIs there a point now since we haven't talked in years now?
2019-03-25 16:36
#33
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Poland Ryunar 
well Im confused, to me real friends wouldnt stop talking over some joke friend deleting on steam/fb. But it seems like you guys are real friends. My advice is, if you guys were serious real friends then try to contact him. See if he wantd to reach back out to you but was too stubborn. But if thats not the case he didn't care enough about you after all
2019-03-25 16:46
#54
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
I will dude. not sure how gonna do it but I will. I am 8 months older than him so maybe its me who has to make a first move haha :)
2019-03-25 16:54
#58
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Poland Ryunar 
you never know, he could have been going through something hard secretly at the time. Jst curious, are you guys only in contact through internet lol
2019-03-25 16:56
#60
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Nope, IRL. I met him when I was 7.
2019-03-25 16:56
#62
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Poland Ryunar 
well yes you didnt meet him over the internet... but are you guys now living far apart
2019-03-25 16:58
#63
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
In the same area. 10 minutes by car.
2019-03-25 16:58
#66
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Poland Ryunar 
well then whats stopping you from being friends..?? if your relationship was online only at the time and it ended online then that at least makes sense but you guys are just being dummies :p
2019-03-25 16:59
Pretty sure you'll fix it if you talk with him tho
2019-03-25 18:46
you both need to grow up.
2019-03-25 16:37
#16
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
I am closer to 30 than to 20. I would call myself a pretty much grown man..
2019-03-25 16:40
#9
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Netherlands Wazaguy 
The friendship you two had, although a tight one, wasn't very healthy. One of you just snapped because he had enough, and you snapped because of it taking it further. You mentioned that you're both too stubborn to make the first move, but someone has to. You can't expect everything to be perfect again if no one puts in the work. I don't have the time to get into it right now, and although I'd love to, I just can't. Reach out to him. Tell him what you posted here. Make the first move.
2019-03-25 16:37
#12
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Thanks bro, your comments is actually so wise. think the only way I decide writing to him is getting drunk first lol.
2019-03-25 16:39
Try not to get too drunk, as you might say things you'll regret later. Try to keep the first message short, like "Hey, it's been a while". Try not to spill out everything right away since it could push him away. Start with smalltalk :) and after a while start bringing up good memories.
2019-03-25 16:41
#19
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
I will try to avoid starting with , "Have you learnt the pop flash yet?" haha :)
2019-03-25 16:41
That might be a good idea :) I hope it goes well though!
2019-03-25 16:42
#24
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
I mean I wish I could turn it to a joke but I have a feeling that is way too late.
2019-03-25 16:43
Probably. Although you could always bring it up if you two are good friends again!
2019-03-25 16:44
try to contact him to see if he's feeling the same way
2019-03-25 16:38
#14
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
I have reasons to think he is.. for example We have a lot of photos together on Facebook from the parties and shit and I haven't deleted them. My friend who is still friends with him she said that he has those pictures as well, so he haven't deleted them.
2019-03-25 16:39
I'm kind of in the same situation like you but my friend changed a lot his behaviour and he's not the same as I remember him sadly. I see you love your friend so try to contact him or you could regret this forever.
2019-03-25 16:42
#32
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Well there is for sure some sort of bond between us, in any memories that I have from being a teenager he is there too so its f hard to just delete him. I will try I think, but still I am afraid that its not gonna end up well.
2019-03-25 16:45
unluko
2019-03-25 16:38
Typical kids born in 2000 : omg i hate you i gonna delete you on facebook and ask help on hltv xaxax grow up mens)))
2019-03-25 16:39
#15
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
I am actually from 1993.
2019-03-25 16:40
Are you proud of behavior ? Man you are 26 yo and act like a kid. If your topic is not a joke just grow up. Maybe he had a bad day, bored playing CSGO and you fucking insult him after dying with a fail flash. You did a mistake, you didn't try to talk to him by phone / sms when he deleted you on steam. Just realise you did a mistake and go apologize like men do.
2019-03-25 16:44
#41
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France kyojiNs 
+1000 Message him and Apologize
2019-03-25 16:49
#44
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Maybe I made a mistake, should have apologized him. But man, imagine being like this for 5000 days, how could I know that this 5001 day is the day he will not come back ? I am not proud of how this went and I think you can clearly tell it by reading my post but If you want me to say it to you personally then here it is .
2019-03-25 16:51
You ask us for help but we don't know how strong is your friendship. Can you imagine not being anymore friends with this guy ? If the answer is "no" just take your phone and send him "sorry for last day on CSGO, I apologize"
2019-03-25 16:55
#59
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
I can't think of a person who has been closer to me ever in my life. Yet, its been fking 2.5 years, I can't imagine calling him and saying "Sorry for this shit in CS GO "
2019-03-25 16:56
#73
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Brazil OEspalhaLixo 
So you are a kid on the inside.
2019-03-25 17:04
First step is often the hardest. Try and go for it without any expectations of the outcome and I bet you'll get surprised by his reaction(s). I've been through something similar just with my dad. After almost 3 years we ended up talking at my sisters graduation party. The relationship is never gonna be the same or repaired - but it's new and we can still see and talk together - now knowing eachothers boundaries. For me it is better to have something of him than nothing of him.
2019-03-25 17:08
Call him or smth and ask if he'd like to drink some beer. And don't recall what happend. Just leave it in the history.
2019-03-25 16:41
#23
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Yeah I might but I feel its gonna be too weird, to pretend that nothing has happened. We were always pretty straightforward and throwing shit under the carpet.
2019-03-25 16:42
But you are not that straightforward right now. Just tell him that you're bored and ask if he want to take a walk or drink smth. Maybe you guys will speak about what happend later, but the first step is to make contact once again.
2019-03-25 16:47
#61
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
As simple as it sounds it might be a good idea...
2019-03-25 16:57
x fucking D
2019-03-25 16:42
#25
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World ZMDR 
FRIENDS IN 2019 LUL
2019-03-25 16:43
#26
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
I know, shit is overrated.
2019-03-25 16:44
10 yrs of friendship lost over CS? I don’t know rick seems fake to me
2019-03-25 16:44
#38
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Bro, I know it sound ridiculous, but to me this stupid nonsense situation in CS was just a reason of creating a spark that led to burning this whole shit down. Something was up for a while..
2019-03-25 16:48
#29
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Poland Czari10 
2.5 years nah you'd think after 1 week
2019-03-25 16:44
#34
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
I kept thinking for these 2.5 years that he will just add me again and I know how stupid it may sound but he was always there in my life and I still have a feeling that he is so I feel like I've seen him yesterday.
2019-03-25 16:46
sex him for make peace
2019-03-25 16:47
did you honestly have to point out that you guys weren’t getting gay like gaybraham lincoln
2019-03-25 16:48
#39
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Yeah, maybe I shouldn't have. But I just want everyone who reads to have a clear picture.
2019-03-25 16:48
What is friend?
2019-03-25 16:48
#100
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Been asking myself the same question. What is a friend if something like can happen.
2019-03-25 17:38
i swear to God that someone with Astralis flair and danish flag will comment "It's ok man, I'm here for you if you need me <3"
2019-03-25 16:50
#48
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Astralis fans, good people.
2019-03-25 16:51
wait was that an irl friend
2019-03-25 16:50
#47
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Yeah, I met him when I was 7.
2019-03-25 16:51
#45
allu | 
France shoxisbot 
First of all I would like to make it clear that this post is not a bait and shit actually happened and I need advise from you guys. So I had a childhood friend, we known each other for like 10 years. We've been pretty close (not in a gay way) and we used to hang out a lot. But then our friendship suddenly ended in its the most ridiculous way I could imagine.. So what basically happened is that we were playing CS together and he pop flashed ramp ( de_mirage ) but he missed it and I died because of that and as usual I said you are so f bad or something like this, on a side not we tend to insult each other almost about everything, always for jokes. but then he responded f you, you're bad and he said he is done with me and he left TS. When I wanted to write to him to stop trolling me I realized that he deleted me from steam, so I thought eye for an eye and went a bit further and deleted him from facebook. I wasn't even thinking back then that this actually means anything but yet it is another joke from us but here I am after 2.5 years and we haven't spoken ever since. You may ask why you didn't try to contact him, don't know honestly, we were always both stubborn and neither of us could make a first step. I've been thinking about this a lot recently not sure why ( maybe growing up? ) and I was trying to find a cause of all of this, maybe we have been insulting each other too much? I mean we both knew that these insults are jokes but maybe we both got tired of it and started taking some of them seriously? I have seriously no idea. It makes me so angry because know when I think about it I know that we've gone through so much shit together, his dad beating him up, we got beaten in the club and both ended up in the hospital, seriously like so f much. What do you guys think? Should I dig up our friendship from the grave and try to resurrect it or what? Thanks in advance.
2019-03-25 16:51
seems you weren't that close at all.maximum i haven't talked to my best friend is 1 day
2019-03-25 16:51
#51
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Dude trust me, we talked every day for 10 years. I seriously know how ridiculous it may sound for some people but this is what happened.
2019-03-25 16:52
#49
loli | 
United States credit 
bruh
2019-03-25 16:52
tldr If you really need an advise for serious situation, why in the flying fuck you asking hltv for :D There are plenty of forums with full of people that have experienced same as you I'm quite sure.
2019-03-25 16:52
#52
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Actually I have been always getting wise comments out of HLTV users. even though we are all trolls we are all human and check this post, I got like 20% of troll comments but the rest is awesome...
2019-03-25 16:53
It's true that hltv has some decency when it comes to sympathizing real life problems, but the fact is this forum is filled with 12-20 y olds with little to no life experience and i suggest that you don't take an action based on some users suggestions
2019-03-25 16:59
#87
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
I have a feeling that the users on average can be older then we would expect. Especially from reading the comments in my thread which are mostly great and wise.
2019-03-25 17:12
i ghosted so many people in the last 5 years, its not that big of a deal if he cared about you he would've contacted you
2019-03-25 16:54
#56
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
maybe he is saying that to himself as well.... and here we are 2.5 years later lol
2019-03-25 16:55
#153
ZywOo | 
Germany MTD3 
That's where you are wrong. With the attitude you have you make people feel the same. So its on you to show that you care
2019-03-26 10:54
two years could be a lot of time, people change
2019-03-26 11:22
#162
ZywOo | 
Germany MTD3 
U feel like friends just because you know each other for so long?
2019-03-26 15:48
sorry bro, but i can't have scrubs on my friendlist. my free time is precious to me so...
2019-03-25 16:55
If he deleted you because you called him bad then he's not someone worthy of the title "friend", just saying.
2019-03-25 17:00
#68
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Brazil OEspalhaLixo 
Say sorry and that you both over react. Done.
2019-03-25 17:00
tldr
2019-03-25 17:01
#71
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Poland Zer0Kurw0 
wtf man. I had got same shit with my friends but we were tilting only in cs, after the game it was always alright. If u still thinking about him and miss him in some way, just write to him I think he also wanted to contact you but maybe was little too scared(?) to write first or sth. Our conversation after 2.5 years might be cringy tho.
2019-03-25 17:03
#72
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Russia Ypp1 
Oh dude, I had the same situation and we didn`t communicate about 3/4 of year and suddenly became friends back, dunno how it happened. It was 2 years ago. It was my best friend too. I think u should try to write him no u are both calmed down and it would be eazy to start dialogue. I think he is sad too about this situation, he is just to shy to write first, like me, cuz my friend started dialogue. glhf
2019-03-25 17:05
#88
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Seriously? how you began the conversation ?
2019-03-25 17:13
#97
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Russia Ypp1 
Dunno, may be our parents some helped, cuz our dads are friends since they were 16, and I know this guy whole my life. But most of work did my friend, he offered to go to the movies.
2019-03-25 17:28
#99
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Its actually funny because my mom and his mother are co-workers..
2019-03-25 17:37
#152
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Russia Ypp1 
interesting may be u can ask ur mother to help u
2019-03-26 10:50
#154
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Visit my thread that I post few minutes ago :) Thanks buddy for all your advice's.
2019-03-26 10:55
#163
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Russia Ypp1 
np bruh)
2019-03-28 22:22
#75
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Spain G3CK0 
My two cents: if you really wanna resurrect the friendship, I think you should reach out to him and apologize, even if you don't feel that way, you need to make him feel like you are sorry for your behavior and you want to become friends again.
2019-03-25 17:04
#92
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
I think I am almost convinced I will
2019-03-25 17:14
0/8 this type of shit only work on reddit, nt kid
2019-03-25 17:07
#83
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Russia Ypp1 
Dude i had the same situation, may be it`s rly true, slow down.
2019-03-25 17:08
0/8
2019-03-25 17:09
0/8
2019-03-25 20:13
#80
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Ukraine EarthAintFlat 
Another reason to ban csgo 😎😎😎
2019-03-25 17:07
#107
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Haha yeah, If it wasn't for CS GO we would still be friends :)
2019-03-25 17:48
#81
s1mple | 
India KNOX23 
Stopped reading at "first of all" Toooo long sorry
2019-03-25 17:08
#89
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
No problem bro ! Thanks for stepping by
2019-03-25 17:13
#91
s1mple | 
India KNOX23 
:) cool
2019-03-25 17:14
#93
s1mple | 
India KNOX23 
You know what, I'll read it :)
2019-03-25 17:15
#94
s1mple | 
India KNOX23 
Try contacting him someone needs to step up It doesn't matter who steps up in friendship Good luck :)
2019-03-25 17:17
#98
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Ye, I will try. Still thinking how do I start this sort of conversation.
2019-03-25 17:36
tl;dr
2019-03-25 17:08
#106
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
That's cool man, thanks for stepping by.
2019-03-25 17:47
ok sorry for that . Try to ressurect it . It's nice to have friends . That reply was stupid I apologize .
2019-03-25 20:00
But you are jobless. Should have gone for it. Deduct some seconds from porn.
2019-03-25 18:00
Im not watching porn . I'm sorry but I'm just a kid .
2019-03-25 19:59
2019-03-25 20:00
I aren't playing that
2019-03-25 20:01
#86
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Other WorldIsAFuck 
Always apologize, even though you might not feel like you did anything wrong. Most of the times in situations like this it's because he feels you did something wrong. Try to apologize sincerely and everything will probably turn out fine
2019-03-25 17:10
#90
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
When you know I feel we have been doing that shit for years and neither of us ever apologized about anything
2019-03-25 17:14
#95
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Latvia Frip! 
"friend" In internet, like internet friend?
2019-03-25 17:18
#96
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
IRL, I met him when I was 7.
2019-03-25 17:21
#101
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Uruguay zero`SAMA 
TS in 2019 lmao
2019-03-25 17:43
#102
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
It was 2016.
2019-03-25 17:44
#103
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Uruguay zero`SAMA 
clearly tl:dr, so pretty much you and a friend (IRL) stopped being friends cuz a failed pop-flash ? what is age are you guys anyways.
2019-03-25 17:45
#105
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
That's cool if you do not have time to read. To answer your question, yes and no. Situation in CS GO was a spark that put on a fire a bigger pile. Reading for sure'd give you a clear picture.
2019-03-25 17:47
#111
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Uruguay zero`SAMA 
You made me read it and im still confused, from my experience, me and my friends rage at each other from time to time playing games (csgo/dota2/BR games) but once the game is done we know its all good.. (known these mfs for about ~12 years now). If you are interested in being friends just go ahead and talk to him, you got nothing to lose really, like if he acts like a kiddo just forget about it.
2019-03-25 17:54
Hes propobly reading this
2019-03-25 17:50
#110
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
If he does, then I say hi. Now honestly, I am pretty sure he is not :)
2019-03-25 17:52
I say hi to him too
2019-03-25 18:14
#112
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Norway PeteZz 
Wtf hahah. That’s insane. He must have some serious issues if he unfriends you because you played like a retard on Mirage
2019-03-25 17:54
#121
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
To be precise, he did play like a retard! Now jokes aside, Yes I believe there has been something up for a while and this situation was just a spark that burn down this whole thing.
2019-03-25 18:02
lol 10 yrs and ur friendship ends in a cs match? therre must be something underneath it dude
2019-03-25 17:56
No men. The rage in gaming is very powerful and intense. Been through the same, he lost one, I lost seven mens))
2019-03-25 18:02
no men, real guys love each other too much for that no homo
2019-03-25 18:13
It's only a friend who cares, get over it he didn't died or anything
2019-03-25 17:56
#116
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Germany scash 
Dont be a bitch bout it, contact him say youre sorry and hell probably do the same
2019-03-25 17:57
Has he left gaming? Contact him, perhaps through message first if you're a bit shy in calling him up. Say to him that you never meant those what thou hast says't. It was all temporal rage in a stupid game which you two gave much more importance than friendship. Tell him you were happy when he was with you, (say no homo - a bit humor is always good to start conversations). GL and report back. For, most of the people never respond what happened after posting threads like these for advices. Did I spell advices wrong?
2019-03-25 17:59
#156
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
Thank you so much Ayush, I posted a new thread today with an update.
2019-03-26 10:56
contact him even if not for cs just talk to him, you can apologize and as much i guess he will too. afterall its just a game happens with everyone where we yell at team mates but gotta stick with those friends in the end. forgiving someone is one of the toughest action a human can learn.
2019-03-25 18:03
#124
fnx | 
Sweden Blueface 
I lost my friend because of my photo
2019-03-25 18:08
maybe suicide?
2019-03-25 18:08
#128
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
You know you can get into legal problems by writing this sort of stuff ?
2019-03-25 18:18
Dannix did nothing wrong
2019-03-25 18:27
Better lovestory than Twilight.
2019-03-25 18:34
#151
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
This is what my GF says haha fucking bromance my man
2019-03-25 20:27
Even though making the first move is hard, deep down you know it is the best thing to do. If you dont do it, you are going to regret it later in your life. Who knows he might get killed in a couple months and you wish you contacted him before. Just contact him my man
2019-03-25 18:35
#137
fer | 
Brazil jmarcelo 
+1
2019-03-25 18:59
#136
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Poland Funio 
try to cantact him bro
2019-03-25 18:59
Im sorry man stay strong be happy
2019-03-25 20:04
#145
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Finland Faifainei 
Lets make a deal: I contact one of my friends tomorrow who hasnt been on whatsapp for a month and its bugging me. (noticed it a couple of days ago, I thought we had messaged recently but confused him with another one) I do that and you contact your friend, its never too late.
2019-03-25 20:10
#150
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Faroe Islands iamsofancy 
deal, I will contact him tonight :)
2019-03-25 20:26
#147
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Germany notBaitland 
who cares
2019-03-25 20:13
bang his dad
2019-03-25 20:15
bang his sister
2019-03-25 20:16
hello zemba
2019-03-26 11:06
#155
ZywOo | 
Germany MTD3 
You say you have common friends. If so hang out together "by accident". True friends will always be friends
2019-03-26 10:55
don't just message him, go grab a beer together. Could be that he is done with you, though, since it sounded like the "trash talk" you two always had was getting to him harder than to you. Best of luck
2019-03-26 10:59
Just contact him. Friends are gift my friend, especially real friends, go for it at least try it. I was in pretty same situation, but reason was not that stupid and it was(is) serious thing. We didnt speak to each other more than 2,5years and now I know I never will have friend like him again. gl
2019-03-26 11:10
was that mm game the rankup to global?
2019-03-26 15:23
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