This is a followup thread, continuing after this one I made like a week ago. Read it to have a better undertanding of my points:
Thank you so much for over 500 comments comprising many useful ideas and bumps from trolls!
Before telling what actually happened, I want to make a few things clearer:
I am an introvert and don't like being in a group of lots of people. I enjoy having between-4-eyes conversations the most as that is where I can properly open myself.
My priority with this girl IS NOT sex.
I'm 16 years old, average looking face, not muscular yet not fat, she's a 9/10 blonde cutie, same age.
Next, a few things I realized using my own thinking or your help:
Asking her out is not ideal. If anything, it should come as a mutual feeling, not a license.
Some girls may tend to do this for no reason.
Talking to her isn't probably enough.
Now let's move on onto the story:
The end of the last week was not really interesting, we were just casually talking, texting, nothing groundbreaking. One thing that could be notable for the following part is this: We were texting and somehow got to calling her "mermaid" and me "Poseidon" (I'm already her 'daddy' kappa).
This week was a rollercoaster experience for me.
On Monday, she almost didn't talk to me. Maybe it was me who was in a meh mood and wasn't really looking for any conversation, though. I found out she started talking more with my classmate who is ok looking but 80 iq. I thought she was trying the same she was trying on me (first thread), still it wasnt entirely like that. I think she knows he is pretty primitive and she gotta be a little picky, I hope.
Tuesday, yesterday, we were back on, having fun talking in sentences about sea (previous part of this post). That day, she also finally understood that I heavily prefer having a talk just face-to-face, no other listeners involved, and in person, not something one could screenshot and send. Looks like with that she came to a conclusion that she has to talk to me when we're alone and we can get much deeper. Otherwise, nothing out of the usual.
Today, 10 April, was a way more interesting day, yet way more confusing and brain-tickling as well. Also, it's the art lesson on Wednesday. She came in the exact same trousers I was talking about in the first thread, and the top I actually like the most on her, you'd have to see it but doesn't matter. The morning was kinda disappointing, I can say. She started talking again with the 80iq guy who I really dont like after knowing him for 9 years for how stupid he is. She was having as much fun with him as she does with me (my personal opinion, she acted similarly) but actually I am talking to her a lot and make jokes that make a real sense and are laughable in the situation, whilst with him they were just showing themselves some pictures of classmate he took when they didnt expect it. How stupid, right? Then it was a break before art, she kinda gave up on him and came to me, was having fun with me, normal conversation we both enjoyed. During the art lesson, the teacher had some troubles she had to deal with so she wasn't in the classroom at all.
Obviously, we didnt paint a lot, firstly we were talking in a group of people discussing a new photo album she's got from her trip to Scotland she had two months ago. Then she kinda realised that I don't really like saying just the things that are meant only for her in groups like this, so we sat down in a desk in a corner of the room where no one bothered us, which I was thankful for. We were discussing sea again, then she showed me some photos in the album and asked me if she looks good in them, I obviously replied she does in a nice way. She was getting closer and closer to me as our talk was progressing... Out of nowhere, she started fixing her hair and clothes, stood up, told me to stand up, I did, and told me to rate her smile. I was caught off guard by this question, who wouldn't be. I had to react fast, in the final I just said a bit funnily like rating a product "bright, clear, beautiful, even better than expected, 10/10." She laughed but she looked really happy, then we sat down again. Her top was black but there was some white mess on her back, probably from standing by a white wall. I told her and she said that I can try to clean it off. I was just a little spot and it disappeared immediately but she didn't know, so looked like I was trying hard, then I switched to actually rubbing her back. It lasted for like 3 seconds and then a reaction came. She clearly didn't expect me to do that because she knows how I like to keep a distance. It wasn't quite obvious if it was positive or negative, but it could be just because she was surprised and didn't know how to act in the situation. We got over that and talking continued. She started talking a lot more intimately from that movement, talking about how hard is it to choose a good bra etc, idk, I just listened and appeared interested. Art was over.
Our next common lesson was touchtyping. It's also the fat greasy weirdo who goes in none other than the red sweatshirt. The break before the lesson, she was only talking to him, barely noticing me, I act like I don't care who she's talking to as much. The lesson started, we were seperated. The teacher actually brought an old typewriter to show us how it was in the past and she's probably never seen one before and I knew how it works, obviously, and she liked how I was explaining all of the stuff to her, she was getting closer to me absolutely not noticing the sweaty retard, said we need one in the sea :D and did the thing I described in the first thread, just going so close to me, she was touching me with her bra under the top, it looked pretty intentional this time and she positioned herself so my hand was at her back, so I did a smooth rub for her. Again, a reaction not telling if she really liked it. Then we came back to our PCs.
Next stop - lockerroom. She had to go away quickly (busy schedule) but I definitely heard my name when she was talking to her female friends, no idea what was it about tho. This was like 2 hours ago from ago.
Now like this I stand pretty confused. Is she giving me last bits of chance as she is already trying the other guys? I don't know and seek help answering to this. After a bit of thinking, it could very well be me just being too jealous. What should I do, when I don't know if she actually liked me touching her a bit? Is there any chance for me or does she just take me as a friend? Are the guys just normal friends?
Thank you so much in advance for every useful reply, or just a bump!
This a follow up thread to this one:
The 1st thread TLDR: a 9/10 girl recently started talking to me a lot, touching me, telling her secrets, showing her cute belly etc. idk what to think and how to react
This thread TLDR: she started talking to other guys (worse than me imo) as well, not sure if in a friendly or a deeper way. She wanted me to rate her, talking about more intimate girl problem. She kept on touching me a lot, I rubbed her back but not really sure if she liked it, she acted surprised, not positive or negative. Then she positioned to get rubbed again and gave me the same reaction which was weird. I dont know how to progress and if she actually liked me touching her.