just open ur hand wtf men
realize that nothing last's and nothing is of big importance in this life.
one day u will be forgotten just like that bam. even einstein will be forgotten in 50.000 years, nothing special. just go with the flow and focus on things that give u a feelgood feeling.
God said you should accept anyone and that all men are equal.
"For in Christ Jesus you are all sons of God, through faith."
"The second is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.”"
Regarding physical health, try to exercise to sleep and eat more. Maybe lift weights or go running.
Actually my parents were both raised in a heavily religious environment - church every Sunday, praying before food etc. They are sexually "normal" - nonqueer, though.
They told me they just started studying more and realizing how manipulative and untrue Christianity seems to be for them. How low are the odds something written in the Bible is real. And their belief was getting weaker and weaker, and now it's gone. Could seem pretty simple and not really helpful from your POV, but yeah, it's like this. Feel free to ask
You don't have to believe, it's your choice but perhaps if you looked at things from more objective pov rather than subjective you would understand and see some new perspectives in the world which you don't see right now. I understand how it is to be surrounded with religious people but you should stick your believing to yourself and let them think whatever they want... if they want from you to be religious so what be either way, they can't find out the truth. My pov on religion is simple: Ignore it. If there're 10 miracles that God did I can give 10 bad examples where he didn't do anything, for every example of good I can give an example of bad based on my real life experience so I'm not bothering with that stuff anymore.
There's no one forcing you to do anything, if you're surrounded with people who judge you leave them, in my case I would rather leave my family then leave my girlfriend when my family is the problem and not her...(obviously im giving an example but you should understand the point) because sooner or later you have to wake up and start living on your own, with or without person that you love.. that should be a fairly easy choice.
Can't help you about lgbt problem doe
i was raised religious and dont go to curch anymore cuz i really dislike what Curch stands for. I believe there is some greater good above us but not sure about the form. I dont have a felling that i will get punished for my sins and root in hell and even if fuck it. I dont really know how to stop believing you just have to have a good reason for it i guess which i think you do, maybe try to discuss it with some of your friends who are not religious before going to your parents
believing in god in 2019, smh
The more you think about your problem - I mean, trying to solve it or just constantly seeking truth - the more you dig your own grave. You just have to let it go. You need strong substitution that carries you away and occupies as much of your time as possible. Try to find a hobby and become obsessed with it so that you won't even think about anything else
Bro, as unimaginable it may sound you need to speak to your parents otherwise it's gonna eat you from the inside. I can't promise that everything will work out but I can't think of any other scenario than this. My parents told me once that If I was gay they would accept and love me the same way and I believe that ! They wouldn't say such thing 10 years ago and I can see that they are changing and it's not only them, a lot of people have started to develop their believs and they opened their eyes on religion and can see what a big bunch of lies it is. Before you "come out" check the ground, ask your parents few questions like how they feel about homosexuality etc maybe they have changed too or at least they are in transition. Nonetheless, Good luck pal and keep your head up. Remember that you're beautiful how you are.
You really just need to be honest with them. Tell them everything you just told us. That you already tried everything, wished it weren't this way, but it is. If they can't accept it and would rather see their child be unhealthy from the stress, that's their fault.
Wait till you can move out, then go full gay, going full gay before might have a negative impact on your life, it sucks, but that's how it is - move far away from that weird queerphobic environment as fast as you can, any environment that looks down upon things like that is bound to be inherently toxic. It's not you there's something wrong with, it's your environment.
I never was religious, not even a believer in a higher consciousness, although I don't consider the latter impossible to exist. The only thing that I can think of which may alter your beliefs are convincing arguments. Now just keep in mind that I'm not going to argue against God, but against God depicted in a religious way, which seems to be what you currently believe in if I understood correctly. Here I go: The Bible, or any such book for that matter, supposedly contains the word of God conveyed to us human beings if I'm not mistaken. But don't you think it's presumptuous to assume that any one finite being can know the word of an allmighty being? Isn't it incredibly conceited to believe that the human race does somehow stand above all others despite being made up of mostly Hydrogen, Oxygen and Carbon just like any other living being? My point being, how can anyone so confidently spout the words of this supposed God, when merely presuming to know his word is a sin already. Wouldn't that be very contradictory, a believer conceited enough to believe themselves chosen by God to convey his words. This in my opinion is already enough proof that religions and what they preach are just utter made up nonsense to give people as a reason to continue living, to keep them modest back when they might have rebelled against the church. Another way to look at it would be this: What kind of a pathetic God would need to tell his creations that they must have no one standing besides God. That would imply that this God is insecure and jealous, quite the imperfection for a supposed perfect being. Don't get me wrong, anyone can believe what they want, but if you don't want to believe anmore you just have to realize that the religious construct is contradictory and thus it cannot be true. This construct falls down on the simple assumption to "know" anything.
Now, I know that my words won't be enough to make you stop believing in religion, such a thing doesn't happen overnight. I don't even know how effective what I wrote was or if it makes sense to you, but in any case, if you want to free yourself from religion, comtemplate these and other arguments again and again, everyday. But don't just consider our side of coin, do not indoctrinate yourself, otherwise you're no better than any orthodox religious person who doesn't even listen to the opposition's arguments. To completely destroy the opposite side, in this case your religious belief, you need to fully understand it, infiltrate it and then come to your own conclusion, which hopefully will be one similar to what I wrote. And remember, for every day you fail, there's still a next day, for as long as you live.
As for your other issues, I cannot really say anything that hasn't been said already. I'm only good at thinking rationally and contemplating philosophical concepts, I'm sure others here can help you more than I can, but I'd feel honored for any contribution I might have made to free your mind so that you can make your own choices and live a happy life. I hope this helped, and feel free to ask anything. I reply within a day, always.
its 2019, grow the fuck up nobody cares if you are gay or not and even if some people do why do you even care... live your own life
Brother, I can't say that I know what you are going through, but the God that you believe is the same God who died for you. God loves you regardless of how you are. It's easy to talk, I know, and in the Bible it says it's a sin, but stealing, lying, and more stoff are also a sin, and that's not why you'll be condemned, good luck brother. You are a strong man
As Barney Stinson once said and let me quote 'You can't get over a woman Until you can no longer picture her boob's. It's a scientific fact. The average male brain Can only store a finite number Of boob images or Jpeg's (...). They won't go away Until you overwrite Them with Other women's boobs. '
If this works with women maybe it works with God.
If i can't sleep at night i usually go to the gym Opened 24/7 and after i sleep like a little baby. I got as well underweight as well but i think its caused by lower amount of activity and you need to increase caloric demand
didnt even read it all but i expect your problems to be some horseshit. take a shower and go to bed. tomorrow go to your workplace
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heres some advice from a bisexual guy:
- tell your Family About it as soon as youre able to live on your own... if they cant live with it, leave them be... you shouldnt be around People that dont accept homosexuality as it will drive you mad being torn between your love for them and their hate for your true nature
- dont think About eternal hellfire and stuff like that… this might Sound half-hearted since im an agnostic and never believed, but you have to see that the bible is humanmade and from a time where morals/values were significantly Closer minded than now… and even if this eternal hellfire would exist and gays would go there after their life in sin (omegakappa) theres Nothing you can do About it anymore, youre already gay mate :D so literally Zero use in worrying About it
- get off your unhealthy Habits asap, eat healthy and enough, do some Sports, try some light Supplements if you really cant get any Sleep (even though i think with a good diet and Training-Regimen you will Sleep like a Baby)
- never stop loving yourself, never blame yourself for your true nature…
- never Forget that the undefeated hltv Chess Champion is your friend, we may be seperated by thousands of kilometres, but im still here for you through the power of the hltv Forums and i think that youre a great guy who deserves happiness :)
- the undefeated friend
Christianity was based on Jesus' teachings. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I am pretty sure Jesus doesn't talk about homosexuality being wrong. What he does talk about however is loving yourself and the people around you. You can be queer and still hold on to your beliefs. But you shouldn't hide your true self, that's not healthy.
I have no advice for you but good luck bro.