have you put your animal in her zoo?
Drop the cummies one last time before you break up
why do people come on hltv just to lie?
Just talk with her and see if you guys can make some sacrifices for the relationship! Just don't break up for silly reasons..
Go out and do some activities like watch a film or go for a run etc.
If you always just talk you will run out of topics. Do something together.
So your only problem is that you don't have any "topics to talk about"?
Just go chill on the beach or sneak out of school or go to a basketball game in Limasol. Basically something where you dont have to talk very much but can have fun. Good luck brother.
Never been in ur position so I can't really talk from experience...
Guess the best is to openly talk with her about it and clear it up
You said you dodge each other alot and you don't talk that much anymore, so maybe find something you're both interested in or start a hobby together so you get along again
Stopped reading at the start.
You probably waited way too long to ask her to be your girl.
She thinks you only want her as a friend and nothing more, so she moved on.
I can't express enough how important it is to kiss or ask girls out as soon as you meet them before you get friend zoned for life.
Yo kid stop with this bullshit love drama, Your parents will be sad if you don't go to school properly, it's better to study than do this bullshit
Congratulations, you're experiencing your first dick vs brain battle. They're a delight.
The problem it seems is that early on, too much time was dedicated to each other. This creates a huge void when that amount of time can't be filled. It was the same with me and my wife ~9 years ago. Mix what you do and try not to rely on the other party and they'll do the same. It's like a passive cool down where you're still in contact but not all of the time, allowing some reprieve for both. Plus, it helps to create more opportunities to fill in the time that is spent. It also seems like neither of you have actually gone for the other but both expect the other one to do that. Shoot your fucking shot. It's better to get rejected than to not try imo.
I think you should have the courage to ask her out, honestly
you are wrong: it's not your heart which is saying 'she is fine and you forgive her everything' (spoiler: the part of saying this is placed downwards your body). your heart is saying: 'you are disappointed'.
second: if you are already annoyed by her after 6 month, then don't make any effort to get it to work.. I mean you are young and you will change - but you two are just to different. at least this is what you wrote - I mean I was not around and cannot fully judge this - but noone here can so it's anyway only one person who can decide and that's you - but with the information you gave us there is only this conclusion
For those asking, the girl is 16 years old, a 8.5/10 blondie; I would never publish pictures without her consent, though. Let's move on over those who are enough with this information.
So there is this above-described girl. Over the past months, it's been almost half a year, I've really had feelings towards her, she's had them for me too, I am 99% sure. There's been quite a lot signs of that. We were kinda getting closer and closer to each other, it's almost been like we were an established pair, we've really always kept on spending time together. She's been just so fine - beautiful plus smart, understanding, self-confident, just great. We've never explicitly came to that I'm her bf, she's my girl, but we were almost as if that was true, no need to "admit" it to ourselves, I believe. Honeymoon period.
Over and done with. Last week, it's been slowly falling apart. The infamous first phase is gone. Suddenly, we don't have topics to discuss, we can't make a talk, sometimes looking like if we were dodging each other, looking away, rather making our ways to the friends' circles. If your have never come thru this, you don't know how much it hurts, and I hope she's hurt by that too and I am not just blinded. No way I could. Well, I hope. Not sure if that's just all of that coming thru my emotions, but I've found out about so many her negative habits and features. Now my brain just says she's not worth my time and I should close up on her. Yet just everytime I look at her, my heart denies it. I can hear my inner self just saying "damn, she's so fine" and I would forgive her about anything, and my feelings for her pop up again. No idea if that could be happening to her as well. It's just so exhausting and disappointing, and I can't find a solution, I am almost afraid to ask her out again, and I've done that a bunch of times before. I still have respect for the girl and don't consider her anything less after all, I can feel like. The engine is having a hard time starting, though :(
It's like we need to get it running or I need to find a way to let go of her, escape myself.
I am seeking any kind of advice on this, would appreciate sharing some of your experience as well, if you've got some.
Thanks everyone who replies, even if it was just to bump the thread!
TLDR: I've been in a relationship with a girl for a few months, honeymoon phase is over and we can't get it back on. Calling for advice
TLDR of TLDR: Honeymoon phase with a girl is over, help
yeah, name checks out
Wall of text -> you have oneitis. Drop that shit and figure your own life out.
Stopped reading at "The girl is 16 years old" FBI OPEN UP
Well I noticed you talked about her bad habits. So I've been in that spot before, what you either have to do is try and help her fix those habits, or let her go my friend.
I was with a girl and she had bad habits, however her habits hadn't changed and so we broke up. Yours may be different and changeable, so it depends on what you want to do.
you need to fix her not it
Oh, these idiotic teenage angst threads.
asdagfasdasdasd so much words
I wouldn't say you're in a relationship if you haven't at the very least kissed. If you act friendly with a girl for period without ever trying to take it to the next level, the girl is likely to lose interest and think you just want to be friends.
idk if it applies here, but you might want to try asking her out again and try to kiss her then. Might be too late though.
Regarding the things you've noticed you don't like about her: when you're in love its easy to overlook all negative aspects of a person. This will eventually wear off, though, so it's important that those negative things aren't deal breakers, otherwise the relationship will most likely not last long after the initial feelings start to wear off.
You can find someone better
Think of it this way, would you want to spend the rest of your life with someone you can't have an interesting conversation with?
sorry for late comment but why did you remove all the other stories?