You shouldn't hate the concept of hookers.
I'm well aware some are forced to do it, but don't pick those then.
Imagine the courage these ladies have to do what they do. And they are in fact helping the society by endorsing such life.
But if you rather to not use them, that's your choice and that is totally respectable.
No idea what DTF means btw.
Also, why 1 day? If there is any rush then not using hookers seems contradictory to me.
Anyway, in your dream, you find a chick. But it is up to you to achieve that dream. I know easy to say. But that's the only way out : it is 100% up to you.
You should solves your issues one way or another. If anxiety is your problem, then go see a doctors, there is many ways to solve this. Xanax being one.