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True Gentleman's Guidebook by Joeb
1. Don't like women's photos on social media.
2. Don't tell women compliments, unless they tell you a compliment. But still, tell less than she tells you.
3. Be unavailable, tough to reach, be a challenge.
4. Never schedule a date on Friday/Saturday, unless the girl is your girlfriend.
5. Respect everyone but first yourself.
6. Don't try to keep somebody that doesn't want to keep you.
7. Have humour, spend dates in a light and funny way.
8. Don't talk about negatives or your drawbacks, only positives.
9. Don't buy any present for the girl, unless she's your girlfriend.
10. Don't chat on fb/phone, only face to face meeting for talking.
11. Smile to people, have small talks with people.
12. Don't brag, be a little bit mysterious.
13. Don't touch a lady first, ever. Touch her less than she touches you.
14. Don't tell you love woman - she tells that first.
15. Let her wait, don't rush anything. Go slowly.
16. You like girl? Ask for the phone number. Wait around 8 days and call to set up a date. You can date multiple women at one time, they do the same with men.
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8 days? goddamn that hoe would have forgotten you after 2 days lol
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not really. there had been a survey on that.
women tell that if they are interested in the guy, and he waits 8 days, they will be crazy about the thing that he haven't called yet. and will respect him more than other predictable guys that call after 1-2 days. women mind works different than ours
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depends on a girl and culture, it's way more appealing to be laid back but confident in any approach u decide for than following some dogmatic day rules. After all she's in for you and if you're a boring pussy no amount of timing will help you.
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you have interest meter with 1% accuracy?
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Okay so let me ask you this mister joeb.
I've asked a girl for a quick coffee she said yes! but because she is busy cause she runs her hair-salon, she can go out in the next week.
We did not set up a speciffic day or nothing like this, i've just asked her in general.
now, the problem is right here; My last message is somewhere in the lines- If you are free in the next week, just message me and we will figure it out, she did not reply.
What to do, when next week comes? Do i message her or just let it slide and forget about it?
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Remember to always be specific. You just propose a certain day form the moment you call let’s say in the next 4 days. If she says something like she’s busy - she’s out, throw number in the bin. If she says she’s buys ON x day but you can meet on Y day - then you are okay - accept that. So now with this particular situation if you didn’t communicate for several days, you can call her and ask her for certain date and make her confirm she goes. If she does not confirm during the short call she’s out and got for another woman.
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rejection is our best teacher. let rejection teach u. girls are just atoms like u and me. 1000000000000000000 atoms in this universe. dont worry to much.
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Men, more atoms in 20ml of water than in that number
true gentlemen or wannabe alpha male?
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This isn't how to be a proper gentleman though. Far from it. If you think it is you got some serious retardation going on.
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Life and experience is something I probably have a lot more of than you. But hey, keep being confused with things for all I care.
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you got rekt so hard
It's just a catchy title, I guess.
A gentleman is a man and gentle. So being a man = alpha, being gentle = beta
Alpha-Beta = Be both in the right situations.
this post is not bad at all
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3 and 6 are really something i've experienced myself with a girl, so it makes even more sense to me
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Nice guide mens))) can recommend😎👍
After reading that guide I now have a lot of grils trying to get my attention and let me sex them every day 😎👍
Also after a week of following this guide some rich guy gifted me a Lamborghini 😎😎😎
Ez life now mens))) 😎👍
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Yes men, let's make MENS great again 😎😎😎😎😎
2. No
4. No
5. No
13. No
14. No
16. No
Your guide is not about being a gentlemen, at all.
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For exemple 16. " You can date multiple women at one time, they do the same with men."
gentleman, noun. Plural noun: gentlemen : "a chivalrous, courteous, or honourable man".
Loyalty is the principal principle of chivalry, so dating multiple women is not being a gentleman.
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Then you are not acting in a gentleman way.
that's the definition and that's why so little people are real gentlemen
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Girls who are interested in a guy and give them their number, don't enjoy being ghosted while he goes on dates with other girls.
Add to that the fact that there is a difference between being mysterious and being a non responsive jerk who only goes for the girls that fall for your tricks.
This joeb-guy get's it. Listen to him!
Never schedule a date on Friday/Saturday, unless the girl is your girlfriend.
why
Goes the second line and you're completely wrong straight away.
You mistook actual gentlemen for basement dwellers. Different things.
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You didn't provide any proof for your premature opinion on gentlemen either. Common sense and logic are my proof you're not familiar with.
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It's not how it works in a civilised society, you will be asked to provide proof and if you will say this, you will be laughed down upon, like I laugh at you now.
You have no clue what gentlemen even means by definition.
This thread has a name "when a kid has understood the concept of life".
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What's your definition of a gentleman.
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gentleman treats himself great, treats others great - and girls he dates great - if they deserve it - as strangers, he's just pleasant, not falling to anyone's feet
smiles to people, talks with people
uses please and thank you
does not curse
does not touch woman first and does not talk or convince to have sex
gentleman is not an incel who wants to buy a girl with presents or compliments
he knows his value is enough for a woman to fall in love with him
he has got strong character and does not change his mind because a woman said so
controls himself, is confident, has got sense of humour, does not beg for attention, does not brag about himself
works to improve his life works to help others
wants to make a girl - that deserves it - happy
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A lot of things said on point but there's one big trouble that crosses everything. There's no word "deserved" in the gentlemen's book. Mark this and remember from this moment on. Hence why your thread made little to no sense.
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Man are liers when they want sex in exchange for some presents or compliments or for giving attention to women. This is truth and if you throw away your ego, you will get it.
You just slowly meet the girl get to know each other and have fun time and this rules allow to guide you to achieve this and not be used by a wrong woman
If u want a relationship with a girl, i wouldnt suggest this "all cool on the outside" method.
But for being out on weekends meeting girls for the night, i think these are good tips, i mean, if u like to party you will be out often, and to stay relevant, u should apply some of these tips. But never for a long lasting relationship, she will get to know you and u will be screwed.
Nice overall, u rly shouldnt be giving girls in bars too much attention or whatever, they are snakes. If u get bitten by one u will become like spiderman, but hoeman or the snakeman, youll get a good sense of how to act, and not falling into their bs.
you had many puss in your life?
1- Be yourself, and don't be a fuckboy that trys to mimic and be what you think girls want you to be. Is that simple.
Forget this fuckboy, he's a pretender... guide to morph your way into geting puss by how you act and not by who you are... lmao..
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>Be a prentender
>" am about long term successful relationships here
Of course not everyone wants that"
lmao dude
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spoken like a true hltv user who has 0 experience with women and bought 2 second hand books from pick up artists on ebay.
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that only works if you are rich and or handsome my friendo. trying to make women chase you when you have no equity is a losing game.
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Have you ever seen ugly guy with a beautiful woman? I have.
So the principles works. Of course looks matter and helps same as status. If you want a model start your radio or tv show
By the way did you know that Vin Diesel travelled to Europe to chase his girlfriend that dumped him? And he seems as masciline man. But turns out he completely has no idea how to treat women and despite the fact he’s successful business wise he gets rejected
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yes if they are rich. if you are rich, it doesnt matter what you do. women will try to get close to you without any effort even if youre a total asshole.
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vin diesel is a typical bald latino man. never let go of his mother. too low iq to realize he is being cucked.
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yeah that guy from amazon just got scammed for a couple hundred million, easiest job in the world, have sex with a guy for 5 years and you get half his money.
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that woman will be charged for at least defamation.
idk if she actually lied in court. neymar shouldve waited until first court day and then submit these chats as evidence, then she would go to prison for lying in court.
but if a rich guy follows your tips wouldnt that make it so that he gets even more golddiggers after him because they are willing to put in more effort to chase a goldmine than a regular girl who wants a healthy relationship without too much games being played?
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He’s going to be filtering bad girls that just want expensive dates or money benefits by not bragging about money by not buying presents and by not taking here anywhere expensive unless she presents a perfect character first for 10 days (then she asks if he will be her boyfriend) and then for 6 months time
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pretending not to be rich is basically impossible when ppl can just google you. youd have to have a fake identity complete with social media, id card, etc.
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but tbh i have no idea how a man like that can consider to try to get a woman back who is dumb enough to dump him. thats the worst life decision ever. he must really love her.
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well people arent rational machines they have hormones and emotions and stuff, so just because one time someone does something terrible doesnt mean you can never trust them again. if it becomes a pattern however...
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oh i have no problem detecting bad people, man or woman. its right there in their eyes. they cant hide it.
the problem is finding someone who isnt bad in this ocean of shit.
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yeah well usually if i meet a nice looking girl they give me the right number but dont respond if i message them later, i guess i pick too goodlooking ones who get enough attention from fuckbois or something.
im rather focusing on every other aspect of my life now, will see about a girl when i have everything settled with job and house etc.
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haha after 8 days those girls wouldnt even remember my face.
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sure just to try it, i will wait 8 days with the next girl i ask for number but she will respond "who is this" because i waited too long i guarantee you.
2-3 days is best.
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yeah i know the difference, like i said, you can see in peoples eyes.
thats what fucks me up personally. i can see these girls like to talk to me but they shut off contact anyway. if they seemed to not enjoy it i wouldnt ask for number
most ppl in this country are so broken emotionally it makes me sad.
the question is whether "who is this" is a better response than no response at all.
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it really doesnt matter if you wait, thats just some movie stuff. if a girl gives you her number and she is interested she will message back when she wants if she thinks youre going too fast. this playing hard to get shit is for manipulative people. i dont want those.
thats a nice filter for me
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“Girl talks with another girls:
-Diana you know why I have my phone away last Monday to 10 guys that approached me. 9 of them predictably called within 2 days. But this one Superappelflap guy haven’t phoned yet and it’s been 7 days! Maybe he lost my number? Or he does not like me?? What do you think?”
Who do you think the girl is going to think about for the week? Predictable punks or you?
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the predictable punks she can manipulate for sex and attention without having to put in any effort.
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yeah once im 30 and theyre stuck with a 75iq kid from some bald guy at a hardcore festival.
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sure but if im 30 and dating younger women that greatly increases the odds of golddiggers
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i already saw this in school when i was 15, all the girls i liked were dating some 18-23yo fuckboi with a faggotty beard because they had a car and money being manager at mcdonalds or some other shit job.
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its not an achievement in my society to have money to spend when youre 20. rather it means youre too stupid for more education so youre already working 40h a week at that age instead of enjoying university life.
not that i enjoyed that...
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give a woman a good reason to not fuck fuckbois until they are 30 and commit to nothing. its simply the optimal strategy. with fuckbois they dont have to be afraid of any complications.
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ah yes if only every man had honor, what a world we would live in.
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in my country if i get a number and dont message for 8 days that girl would think im dating 8 other girls in the meantime.
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what kind of a shitty person thinks like that. i wouldnt even want them.
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these days i dont think women try to date the best mating partner, if that was true all those fuckboys would not get any because they are going to have a hard time being succesful in todays society and i and other smart guys who are good with computers and can make a lot of money would have loads of girls to choose from.
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i feel tons of emotions just have 0 clue what to fucking do with them
meanwhile those fockbois literally have the emotional range of a gorilla.
youre narritive checks out everywhere else but this part to me doesnt make much sense.
what i think plays a part is that girls/women my age dont know what the fuck they are doing with their lives either.
older women, like 40+, they fucking love me. i could fuck some of them im pretty sure but im not really a milfhunter. those women have more experience in life, they see me. its interesting.
its not just me, im autistic as fuck, i get that i have a hard time, but more normal guys i know also dont have a lot of success with women despite having great personalities and making a lot of money.
and theyre not ugly guys either.
life is not a competition for me, its a cooperative effort. i dont need all that fucking insecurity and desperation and ego. got enough of my own.
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like take it the other way around, if i was dating a girl who is messaging or seeing other guys, i would tell her i will either break your phone right here and walk out or you cut that shit out until further notice.
completely unacceptable behaviour from any person regardless of sex. at least in monogamous cultures.
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when you date you dont set such rule, you cant forbid her.
you do otherwise - negotiate.
lets say after 10 great dates she asked you if youre going to be her boyfriend
you tell her - listen, can I think about it and tell you next time we meet?
she says ok
(you let her wait and shes crazy about you now and youre a challenge)
then you meet, she brings the topic once again asking if you thought about you being together
then you say: well, are you contacting any other guys? facebook, phone?
If she says yes
they you say, well let's leave it as it is
if she says she does not contact anyone, then you say with a grin on your face: guess what? you've got a new boyfriend
you dont tell her what to do but guide her that you can be her only male and it needs to be her own choice
if she said she does not contact anyone else and you accepted to be the boyfriend and it turned out she contacts someone else - you drop her
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its not really an optional thing though...why would i even date someone who feels the need to keep other options open.
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in my class in highschool there were some girls where guys were basically standing in line at parties to make out with them in the hall next to the toilets. that fucking grosses me out. i dont think id enjoy feeling like being in that line. i didnt do it then and i wouldnt do it now.
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what you say feels right though, it would be the best way to deal with such a situation.
i think thats also a good tip for anyone who is reading this for whatever reason, if you arent needy for attention or whatever and have your own thing going on its easier to have normal contact with women.
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in case of most hltv users who are unemployed, have low confidence, and barely go outside, and get anxious when they try to talk to a pretty girl, your tips will not help at all.
chatting is literally their only way to have contact with the outside world
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look now THAT is a tip i will +1000000000000
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men im comfortable to talk with other girls only when im drunk at party help me((((((((((((
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ok men but its because im skinny boi. when i was younger i had no problem with talking to girls because i didnt feel/know that i look bad or smth, now i see this and thats why im uncomfortable with talking to girls (im talking about normal friends)
i think i need to hit gym and thats fix for me, but its so hard to do it frequently
6. & 11. very important
do i have to wear fedora too?
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17. sex her
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Why i shouldn't listen to my instincts?
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This looks a lot like a summary of 3% , tho i might be wrong either way solid advices. Only thing i would change is that you can go out on weekends if one of you cant make it during the work week or you don't have your apartment/house free during the work week, as is my case.
edit: Question to add: Have you implemented these rules, what are the results or is this just theoretical?
If you love yourself, there will always be someone that loves you. You will not need anybody's acceptance, admiration or approval. You will feel good, and people will gravitate towards you.
No expectations though. Any time you create a need or a want, you will never find it outside yourself, because every need and/or want is just a projection of your own mind, therefore only ever found inside yourself. If you still keep looking outside yourself, you will never find satisfaction.
Great, short and concrete guide dude. :)
thanks joeb
1. why? if the girl is normal girl not some attention looking bitch then why not
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Calling a girl after 8 days is the most retarded thing I've ever heard. Girls will think you're some weirdo
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Those 8 days are supposed to be a kind of a filter. If for example girl gives her number to 10 dudes one night, usually all of them will call her in the next couple of days thus you are being different from the rest. If, when you call, she doesn't remember you that just means she wasn't interested in you anyway because otherwise if she was interested she would remember you.
Another thing that this is supposed to show is that you actually have other stuff going in your life.
All of this is better explained in a self-help book from which i guess Joeb took all of this but making this list without further explaining why you do what you do is kinda pointless.
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Wtf i dont wanna be a gentle man 😡😡
I am tough and strong man 💪😎💪
> Gentleman
> Going on dates
pick one
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they weren't gentlemen though (i only know of bond),
bond is literally an alpha male chad, he could abuse the women and they'd still want him...
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i will take your word, but my point is that gentlemen dont get dates,
the chances are they are alpha chads, that is why they get dates.
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women want bad boys/ alpha chads and not gentlemen
gentlemen do deserve dates more but women dont want that.
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Nope, she wont lose interest, if she does it is to date another bad boy and this happens until she is unappealing to bad boys then she becomes a cat lady.
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Wait wtf this is actually a good guide.
8. No thank you, I'll keep doing that otherwise I'm not having fun
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decent tips I guess BUT you forget one very important thing like so many people...
DATING AND THIS KIND OF TIP DEPENDS ON THE COUNTRY YOU LIVE IN.
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yes I agree with what you say, I just wanted to nuance it a bit because this cultural aspect is important.
Example: in France or so guys are always expected to do the first step, in Norway not
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both are possible.
first one only in disco at midnight though men:))
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you see, this is different scenario :) discos have got much higher energy and different social barriers.
normal situation during daytime, man is expected to take action, smile, walk up to a lady, chat, if chat goes well, take her number and disappear without any promises or suggestions to set a date
13. Don't touch a lady first, ever. Touch her less than she touches you.
this is some bullshit
as a free man you can touch how much and whenever you want,
beside that most girls are passive, receptive and submassive (by nautre, but aslo conditioned by culture)
they want be lead, not leading
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you can't cause you don't know when the timing is right. lady knows that perfectly and if she touches you it's a good sign.
but you don't touch her everytime in return - because you will keep being a challenge. she need to deserve for you then she will respect you and only then she can love you
this is nothing about leading. this is about touching - ladies DO touch guys which they are interested in - it's a subtle touch sometimes, sometimes when you joke they are a little bit mad and touch you on the shoulder - but it needs to be her initiative to touch
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haha yeah that's a skill you devolope over time, the more women the better,
and it's called calibration,
nevertheless that should never be an excuse to touch woman when you feel it's right moment, women won't punish you if you miss the the timing,
just show her state of empathy, oh sorry, i thought blaba xxx blala,
then act like nothing big happned and try it later on
rest what you've written after 2nc sentance is some virgins theory,
touching is actually necessary to show man to woman frame, not some just polite meaningless conversation,
touching shows: CONFINDANCE, DOMINANCE, and OPENNESS
each positive male characterstic,
obviously you need to calibrate to the situation and the girl as I wrote before
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Final advice: Dont talk to Women
Some things are right, others completely wrong.
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men you just described me how i got my current gf... you have summarised everything on post what it takes to get a girl. i would like to add that you can make her to favours for you and you do one back, it makes respect on both sides and makes girl care you more, also if you have to text, always have shorter text sent than the girl to you.
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It's a good guide but most of these are common sense not strictly applicable to gentlemen.
Just be yourself and be nice. Always think of your spouse before you think of yourself in most situations.
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Some of those tips are douche bag moves that are very modern and utter BS.
But there are also some good tips (4,5,6,7,9,11,12,13,15)
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Best thread ever thanks mens ))
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only for boyfriend and girlfriend
not for some strangers trying to get to know each other
saturday is for your girl, for family, friends, hobby etc. and you have to be busy during saturday
if you don't have got anything to do on saturday and you show that to a girl she thinks you have poor social life and that she's some rescue for you to organize you the free time, and she's not liking it at all
be unavailable on saturdays unil she asks you to be her boyfriend - then you might agree for a saturday date
if shes not asking you to be a boyfriend - and asking for a date on saturday - you might propose her alternative day
13. Small contacts are important bro, you could check reaction with it.
Other points decent
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well yes, but you are not doing it first. she touches you first, several times and you reward her for her good company and behaviour with some touch later on (but again ratio is on her side)
so example:
she touches you several times because you said something funny, she taps you on the shoulder, slightly touches your arm when you speak, when you walk she touches your hand with her hand
then you can grab her arm and show her some basic dance moves just for several seconds, have fun with it
later lets say you say you want to touch or smell her hair
if she agrees you do it for a little while
if shes smiling and there is this pleasant tension in the air you are all fine
then at the end or during 3/4 of the time of the 2nd and 3rd date you go for the kiss on the lips
but obviously, there needs to be some physical contact building up to the kiss as I said
you can't go for the kiss if she did not touch you and you did not touch her in return at all
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That's true, but, i would say that you can touch her first, cuz alphas do it...
Some girls are just to shy or afraid of a contact, by touching her first you make her squirt.
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well, the impatience plays the role here
so if she likes you and you let her wait, she likes you even more
they are just like cats - whatever door is closed they want to go through it
whatever is higher and out of reach they want to get it
if she touches you 10 times you touch her 3 times in return (if she's a good girl)
you can stroke a cat 10 minutes straight and it will walk away egoistically or you can give a cat stroke once in 10 minutes and it will be mad and purr like crazy liking you
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last tip is bestest
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thank you joeb smart man 👍
1. I am barely using social media and almost never like anything overall, I am very picky when I have to like anything.
2. If you are throwing compliments left and right then you are either liying or u are a very weak person with a very low standards, compiment has to be deserved but I'd give him to a girl If I think she deserves him, even If I'd be the first one to give it to her.
3. Well, If you are too easy to reach than you are probably just a man whore that is not taking any girl seriously, soo It has sense to be a bit more closed bcz If you'd fuck with anyone than you are an idiot that can not control his insticts. quality>quantity
4. Have no idea how this one works, never had a gf and I am not sure why you shouldn't do this(I heard that you were mentioning how she'll think like u have a pretty bad social life If u do it, idk, neither agree or disagree atm).
5. This is not only advice for a gf, It works with friends and all ppl you are going to meet in general. You should always respect urself first.
6. Same as 5.
7. Idk, never had a gf and obviously a good sense of humour is always a +, don't know about the other part tho, sometimes you may want an intimacy rather than lights...
8. Mostly agree but I am not sure why It's not ok to talk about negative things ocassionaly? Life is not bread and butter, sometimes you can also say some of ur drawbacks but of course they shouldn't be the main focus of ur conversation.
9. Idk, I guess I agree but I am not completely sure about this one.
10. Well, If you want to talk more with somebody then chatting on fb simply doesn't make sense, It's better to just come straight to that person.
11. Well, of course you should not look at other ppl like you'd want to kill them, that one is obvious but I am not sure If you should constantly force urself to have a small talks If u are just not good in them/or If you hate/despise them.
12. this is not only a gf advice, It's an overall advice If you want ppl to like you and It makes sense, why'd you want to be the friend to someone who likes to brag all the time...
13. Makes sense too, however I think u still shouldn't be too passive bcz that would probably be even worse than being the 1st one that starts touching.
14. For me personally, she never has to tell me that, I know that girls(I mean females, womans in general) like to get the confirmation for their acts much more than mens do soo If she rly loves you I guess you should force her to tell it first, not bcz It's the problem for a guy/dude/male to do it first but bcz If she rly does love you then she should not need any kind of confirmation to say you that.
15. You should wait in general to not get urself dissapinted, there is no need to rush, u should focus on other things in ur life too.
16. Idk If dating more womans at once is a good idea, sounds a bit stupid to me.
And as the guy on #277 said(and I don't even like him but I'll agree with him on this one)most of the things you mentioned are just a common sense, with a little bit of brain usage you can understand pretty much all of them.
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You should've explained it better, I see a lot of ppl attacking you bcz they can't understand what was the point that u were trying to make (like dude on #313,#317 and etc), you gotta explain ur point and why is it valid, I was in able to do it myself this time but not everyone is me nor I am going to always realize from the beginning the point that someone was trying to make.
I am also not sure If I was clear when i was explaining ur 14th point (if u've even read it), I don't like saying obvious things, that's why I wouldn't say such a thing as "I love you.
If I've spent some time with another person then I am prolly enjoying the company of that person, however I see womans tend to struggle with such kind of things, they need a confirmation for the most obvious things that should never even be asked, It's like sometimes don't know how to think for themselves soo they need another person to agree with their thoughts and If the person doesn't do it they'll start wondering If they are right or not even If reality is more than obvious.
no compliments???
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handbook for being an emotionally unavailable idiot
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everything you said isnt about putting your ego aside at all. its actually about inflating your ego until its so big no one can fit in a room with you
you clearly just read some books from pickup artists and summarized them
let me give you a tip: those guys are all antisocial arrogant narcissist manipulative dickheads who are not even capable of loving anyone other than themselves, and so are you probably.
so stop wasting your time on women and just jerk off looking at a mirror. you'll be much happier.
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yeah got nothing left to say now huh. exposed.
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Rofl let me adress a few things:
1. Just dont use social media shit at all, not doing something because you like someone is bullshit. You are basically telling people to lie from the very beginning
2. You should compliment someone you like ina nice way, there is nothing wrong about it and if you make a "you have to go first" game out of that, its just pathetic.
3. Aka, lie on purpose and act against what you want, again a great way to start something with another person!
4. Schedule when you both have time.
5. Agree
6. Agree
7. Kinda, you can spend your date with serious and emotionally loaded topics aswell if that is what both seek for at that moment.
8. Dont hide your weaknesses, dont emphasize them, be yourself and show you can deal with your weaknesses. There arent perfect people and if someone acts like they are and hide every weakness, you can be sure, they are weak as fuck.
9. Buy a present for someone if you like them and think its an appropiate way. If you dont have money for that, then no presents, easy as that.
10. You can use whatever you wnat to communicate, but obviously seeing each other IRl is much more important.
11. Dont hide behind a fakesmile, if a person cant stand you when you are not happy, they wont make a good partner anyways.
12. Be honest about your strength aswell, your strength could be her weakness and its always nice to see both sides complement each other.
13. Touch her as much as you want and as much as its alirght for her, there is no need to deprive someone you like from touches, thats bullshit.
14. Same as with everything, stop retarded mindgames and be honest and tell her if you love her.
15. Dont let her wait unless you have a good reason to. Imagine Someone would let you wait on purpose and waste your time like that. Wpuld you want that as a partner?
16. You like girl? Ask for the phone number and write or call her if you want to and you feel its appropiate.
What you made is a list of how to succeed a few date by lying and manipulating the other person.
If you date reatrds like yourself seem to be one, then yes, maybe your tips make sense, but for every other person: Dont lie or try to manipulate the other person, thats literally sabotaging the relationship before it even started.
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wow someone who actually sounds like a normal person, on hltv?
ok reported
True Gentleman's Guidebook by Joeb
1. Don't like women's photos on social media. = Instagram just removed the activity feed so now i can like and comment on all the thots pictures without other thots seeing it.
2. Don't tell women compliments, unless they tell you a compliment. But still, tell less than she tells you. = opposite worked for me, i feel gay if the woman is complementing me more, like im some handsome gay man
3. Be unavailable, tough to reach, be a challenge = im currently trying this method im on day 189 and no text.
4. Never schedule a date on Friday/Saturday, unless the girl is your girlfriend. = but i work the other days :(
5. Respect everyone but first yourself. = yes men
6. Don't try to keep somebody that doesn't want to keep you. = ofc men
7. Have humour, spend dates in a light and funny way. = humar #1 men
8. Don't talk about negatives or your drawbacks, only positives. = yes men
9. Don't buy any present for the girl, unless she's your girlfriend. = yes men, no incel here
10. Don't chat on fb/phone, only face to face meeting for talking. = wtf men
11. Smile to people, have small talks with people. = i hate small talk but okay men
12. Don't brag, be a little bit mysterious. = correct men
13. Don't touch a lady first, ever. Touch her less than she touches you. = No way men!
14. Don't tell you love woman - she tells that first. = yes men
15. Let her wait, don't rush anything. Go slowly. = yes men
16. You like girl? Ask for the phone number. Wait around 8 days and call to set up a date. You can date multiple women at one time, they do the same with men. = she forgot me after 2 days, unless i do something special
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pro pretty girls get attention from incels every second of the day, if you don't stand out she will forget you real quick as there is a whole horde of men that are standing in line, just because a girl you have met one time forgets you don't mean she isnt wife material, she don't even know you yet, and you don't know her, maybe once she sees who you really are she will remember you, if you don't make an impression or stand out you will just be one of many
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man if there is a whole horde of man standing in line and just wanting her be different and follow this guide so you are controling yourself and not needy towards her
that's gonna be different man
I am not saying be incel stay at home dont look at girls dont talk to girls
you check if she's interested 1st - she gives you number 2nd - she agrees for the date 3rd - she comes to a date
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the fact is this guide works in reality and is repetitive and allows men to take right choice in dating life.
it will also contribute to the lowering of divorce and abortion rate because it protects men from getting involved with some crazy girls who fake their interest for personal gains like validating self esteem or getting free meals during dates
this guide helps to filter out bad girls and date only those who are really interested and serious = saves time
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showed this and translated it too my grandma and she laughed cuz she always claimed my grandpa was a big gentleman
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she was very skeptical with #2 she never gave a compliment to my grandpa in the first stages and he did many. not the normal compliments but more like special ones.
9, u can always bring flowers or candles and wine as present but men thats like 60-70's dating style.
14 u should tell her i love u when u feel something like love. even if its after just 1 week. it shows massive strength
and for 16 u should always contact the woman as fast as possible. cuz she will most likely forget who u are. and also never date more woman at a time cuz thats not gentleman like.
on avarage she thinks its alright mayb a little too modern for her.
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yup I expected that answers but to get to the real truth right questions are needed to be asked
it's what she feels is the right answer remember, not what is the truth neccessarily
remember - girls talk through emotions - they may say one thing and emotionally believe in another thing
for example. did any girl tell you she won't date you because she doesn't like you? of course they won't say anything like that - they don't want to make you fell bad. they will create excuse > or even accept so you feel good, but then don't appear on date
filter man, and check women's actions not words!
just stay real to urself pal. if u follow someones guide on how to get girlfriend and who to be gentleman. it will never work for a longer period. after 2- 3 weeks the real of u comes out in the relationship.
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ok about staying real to yourself / being yourself etc.
are you the same yourself in front of your mom, boss, teacher, collegues, friend, best friend, priest, girlfriend?
of course you are changing and adapting your behaviour a little bit according to the situation and a person you are communicating with
it's about adapting the behaviour to get the most results out of dating life and choose wisely a partner for life
guys do research to buy a car for 2 months but in dating they tell themselves "oh I'm just gonna be myself and somebody will love me"
ok there are 3% naturally gifted men who understand women and can handle them because of their genes
truth is most guys have no clue how to behave and how to get good dating/relationship life
and this guide helps 97% of mens
make MENS great again!
the only thing to be a gentleman is to be a well-mannered grown up who can handle himself and doesn't criticize others and has goals to reach in his mind/life, not settling for anything less but this goals.
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"doesn't criticize others"
Why is it bad to criticize a person that is doing something stupid?
You can't say nice things forever, you'd either have to lie or be stupid and have low standards which means that you are a weak person that is happy with the smallest things.
I'd rather want a person in my life that has high standards which doesn't mean that you shouldn't learn to appreciate small things but you should always aim for the highest both for urself and ppl around u that u want to spend time with (or not bcz they under your standards).
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cuz he stands over that and knows better. he will criticize his close circle if needed but not give a fuck about strangers. and if u think critic is the same as an opinion, ur dead wrong sir.
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exactly, gentleman is not needy and makes up enough for himself
he can be alone, no problem
if rejected, he is happy and takes life as it is
doesn't try to change thing he cannot, he only changes what he can and works on that
he won't push a girl to like him by force or buy her some flowers or expensive presents to "buy her attention"
he will be himself and he knows he deserves a great woman for being just himself
I would rather be lonely for my entire life than resort to so blatantly faking my character. The most prosperous of relationships are founded on the ability for men and women to be honest with each other. Without honesty in conduct, hiding things, and acting overall toxic by avoiding your partner, you are harming them, yourself, and the ability for a relationship to form. Your advice is horrible, I am genuinely disgusted
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Incel guide by joeb
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I've been married to a model for 11 years now and I make 7 figures a year while you write Incel guides for Incels on HLTV forum.
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You just made him very sad, very quickly. You're mean 😭
I have found these kinda rules truly works irl. Good thread 8/8
lmao
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I think joeb and u are talking about little bit different thing. Your way is truly a nice and gentleman way and it doesnt wet panties like joeb way.
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tobyy knows his stuff
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1-10. hard to get for the girls is the most important thing, otherwise shes not worth - when she wont work for you ;)
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yes bruh, i dont need to invest - they HAD to - just for the opener iam investing. but then it should be her WORK!
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its mindfucking her, cause every boy who is in contact with her, is so much investing . cause hes needy. these girls need an task to get the recognition from you. when this wont happen, they go crazy. its so easy - not rocket science at all- GG HF
I'll print this to memorize every topic.
Forever virgin tips
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keep listening to your ego and devil's whisper and hope you can wing a relatonship without a guide and sumbission to certain rules
men understand that there are rules in life and that submitting to them or omitting them has consequences
when you have a car there is a rule to take care about it and change oils, breaks, etc. in a while
when you bake a cake you need certain ingredients and certain temperature to bake it properly
but in love men think they will just behave as they think they should - not analyzing what behaviour brings which consequences
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nope man, it's not bad thing they are shy, just let the time do it's job
you can't water a rose with 1 bucket in 1 day and hope it will grow faster
you water it constantly over time, let's say once in 5 days
shy girls touch a lot as well!! have more patience and wait for them to do so
if they are not doing that for a long time - means either they are not interested or you are not doing everything right which is being a challenge being a gentleman, treating her as a lady, having charm, making her laugh
How to get a real girl/woman Real Guide By Johnnybrav0
1. Be yourself. Don't try to be someone you are not. Let things flow naturally even if they don't always flow at all. Eventually you will find someone you like that likes you back, not for who you pretend to be like joeb, but by who you really are.
2. Sex her.
3. Find new girl.
4. Repeat no1.
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> not for who you pretend to be like joeb
Lul. The advice is good though.
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well I would love it to be like that, anyway people live in a rush nowadays
even good girls are in a rush to find a good men, so they want to date multiple men at a time to get rid of bad choices quicker - not talking about bad girls which may date just for "sports" and free meals
but yeah, it's nice thing that it's like that in France
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Instructions unclear , head stuck in a hoes ass
this is pathetic in so many ways
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the proof is if you need a guide to meet women you are probably so ugly and uninteresting no ticks will help you in a long run
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+1
Actually they arent that bad, you can use some of these tips, but dont follow every of them, some of them are really stupid
+1.
+1 i was a TRP follower 5 years ago(now its filled with garbage people) and I see where OP is coming from
its a point of a view in life that is hard to swallow because it hurts us to know how cruel reality is. you just gotta learn how to roll with it and still see the beautiful parts. ive had a gf that I seducted exactly with these steps, however, I became too controlling and blind of being the "alpha" in our relationship that she had no freedom at all and thus was unhealthy for her,I also fucked alot of girls while we were in a relationship(cus spin plates and all) I ended up telling her that i dont deserve to be with her because im an asshole.
thing is, always find balance between the two(heart and mind). OP is more about using your mind which definitely fucking works 101% of the time.. but whats life living if you dont wager with emotions and love, thats the excitement. I followed these for a long time and it was fun being on top of the game, i was one step ahead of every girl i was tryna fuck(i knew what their reactions will be etc etc) until i was all bored and i ended up being a jerk fucking hoes left n right with no sense of sympathy. u just need to find balance mens))
good post OP
I agree nearly with every statement in your guide
I've read "The Mystery Method" book and your post reminded me that a lot
But I'm not sure about #13
Kinesthetic is very important and u have to start touching a girl because she has to get used to it. Of course u should not do that straight away but it is not necessary to wait for her to be the first imo. I m not talking about hugs of something like that, but a high five or handshake could be a good start.
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we should comment this thread forever so it has a reserved spot in the forum homepage
Mostly bullshit tbh.
Edit: after reading some of joeb's comments it's now obvious he's baiting.
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There is nothing wrong with that.
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He has the recipe for meeting worst sluts ever.
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So many people agree with this shit (except 1-2 advices maybe), this is ridiculous. Well, good luck in life boys.
I don't get 1 and 2
4 schedule dates when?
The rest looks good
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schedule dates during the week
1 and 2 is simple - if everyone gives woman attention on social media + telling them compliments, they become picky and market is spoiled, they start to have really high expectations, because every other guy is liking their photos and telling them they are beautiful
ty I seduced my grandma with this advice <3
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