Thread has been deleted
Last comment
[18+] True Gentleman's Guidebook by Joeb
Poland joeb 
True Gentleman's Guidebook by Joeb 1. Don't like women's photos on social media. 2. Don't tell women compliments, unless they tell you a compliment. But still, tell less than she tells you. 3. Be unavailable, tough to reach, be a challenge. 4. Never schedule a date on Friday/Saturday, unless the girl is your girlfriend. 5. Respect everyone but first yourself. 6. Don't try to keep somebody that doesn't want to keep you. 7. Have humour, spend dates in a light and funny way. 8. Don't talk about negatives or your drawbacks, only positives. 9. Don't buy any present for the girl, unless she's your girlfriend. 10. Don't chat on fb/phone, only face to face meeting for talking. 11. Smile to people, have small talks with people. 12. Don't brag, be a little bit mysterious. 13. Don't touch a lady first, ever. Touch her less than she touches you. 14. Don't tell you love woman - she tells that first. 15. Let her wait, don't rush anything. Go slowly. 16. You like girl? Ask for the phone number. Wait around 8 days and call to set up a date. You can date multiple women at one time, they do the same with men.
2019-06-06 15:18
Topics are hidden when running Sport mode.
#3
 | 
Denmark Snakebye 
Nice tips men))))
2019-06-06 15:20
#4
Poland joeb 
I know men)))
2019-06-06 15:20
#273
 | 
Poland Ryunar 
best hltv thread unironically
2019-08-08 08:34
+1 make MENS great again!
2019-08-08 08:43
+1 be gay
2019-10-14 21:13
#7
 | 
United States EZ_4_Trump_CS 
8 days? goddamn that hoe would have forgotten you after 2 days lol
2019-06-06 15:21
#10
Poland joeb 
not really. there had been a survey on that. women tell that if they are interested in the guy, and he waits 8 days, they will be crazy about the thing that he haven't called yet. and will respect him more than other predictable guys that call after 1-2 days. women mind works different than ours
2019-06-06 15:22
#290
 | 
Denmark EyesWallow 
+1
2019-09-04 16:35
3-5 days is the smooth spot
2019-10-16 13:56
#9
china | 
Asia Ace_Y 
"Wait around 8 days and call to set up a date." Fucking hell, I bet after 8 days the girl already forgot that someone asked for her number
2019-06-06 15:21
#11
Poland joeb 
#10
2019-06-06 15:22
#14
china | 
Asia Ace_Y 
That only works if she is really into you tho
2019-06-06 15:23
#37
Poland joeb 
at least interested 51% 50% or less is friend only 51% or more is dating interest and potential boyfriend/husband material
2019-06-06 15:30
#12
 | 
Germany xxtimxx 
17. don't be a fucking cuckold and all gonna be ok
2019-06-06 15:25
#18
Poland joeb 
yes
2019-06-06 15:24
#369
 | 
United Kingdom Fizzhaz 
This is basically a guide to getting cucked...
2019-10-15 23:43
4. Never schedule a date on Friday/Saturday, unless the girl is your girlfriend. why is that?
2019-06-06 15:23
#19
Poland joeb 
because you need to be buys these days and don't make yourself looking like a lame videogamer having no social life and making woman feel like she's the only 1 way out of poor life for you. you are the MEN men! you are busy, hard to get you are the precious!
2019-06-06 15:25
Okay so let me ask you this mister joeb. I've asked a girl for a quick coffee she said yes! but because she is busy cause she runs her hair-salon, she can go out in the next week. We did not set up a speciffic day or nothing like this, i've just asked her in general. now, the problem is right here; My last message is somewhere in the lines- If you are free in the next week, just message me and we will figure it out, she did not reply. What to do, when next week comes? Do i message her or just let it slide and forget about it?
2019-06-06 15:31
#47
Poland joeb 
Remember to always be specific. You just propose a certain day form the moment you call let’s say in the next 4 days. If she says something like she’s busy - she’s out, throw number in the bin. If she says she’s buys ON x day but you can meet on Y day - then you are okay - accept that. So now with this particular situation if you didn’t communicate for several days, you can call her and ask her for certain date and make her confirm she goes. If she does not confirm during the short call she’s out and got for another woman.
2019-06-06 15:38
I've like your ideology. I thought the same when i spoke to my friend, if she denies my invitation and don't even suggest any other day, it's ggbbwp, i ain't no bitch boy to throw around
2019-06-06 15:41
#53
Poland joeb 
Exactly men. make MENS great again Boyz Power!
2019-06-06 15:51
nice mens, thanks!
2019-06-06 15:56
#15
 | 
Germany Imouto 
How to stay a virgin
2019-06-06 15:23
#20
Poland joeb 
avoid these tips
2019-06-06 15:25
#399
 | 
Guatemala Pakal_I 
+use HWML flair
2019-10-16 13:51
all bullshit, be urself girls will notice within a minute if u fake ur persona.
2019-06-06 15:24
#26
Poland joeb 
be yourself = of course but being yourself does not equal allowing yourself for poor ladish behaviours if you're a man, you're a man and you present: confidence, self control, challenge and humour, as all these tips include
2019-06-06 15:26
rejection is our best teacher. let rejection teach u. girls are just atoms like u and me. 1000000000000000000 atoms in this universe. dont worry to much.
2019-06-06 15:25
#34
Poland joeb 
you can teach one way or the other. successful and wise people make mistakes once :)
2019-06-06 15:29
#362
 | 
Canada YellowFish 
Men, more atoms in 20ml of water than in that number
2019-10-15 21:57
#22
 | 
Germany PeKay 
Tldr: be yourself
2019-06-06 15:26
#27
Poland joeb 
#26
2019-06-06 15:26
#279
 | 
Canada ActioN_ 
By yourself
2019-08-09 15:00
true gentlemen or wannabe alpha male?
2019-06-06 15:26
#29
Poland joeb 
true gentlemen alpha male is a stupid idea, macho boy as well. only gentlemen is a real role model
2019-06-06 15:27
#325
 | 
Sweden LimeyGaming 
This isn't how to be a proper gentleman though. Far from it. If you think it is you got some serious retardation going on.
2019-10-14 21:27
man I won't try to convince you, life and experience will
2019-10-14 21:54
#337
 | 
Sweden LimeyGaming 
Life and experience is something I probably have a lot more of than you. But hey, keep being confused with things for all I care.
2019-10-15 15:40
goodbye and have a nice day sir
2019-10-15 15:49
#400
 | 
Guatemala Pakal_I 
It's just a catchy title, I guess.
2019-10-16 13:52
this post is not bad at all 8/10
2019-06-06 15:26
#31
Poland joeb 
yes man))) it's best post
2019-06-06 15:27
3 and 6 are really something i've experienced myself with a girl, so it makes even more sense to me
2019-06-06 15:28
#35
Poland joeb 
all truth
2019-06-06 15:29
Nice guide mens))) can recommend😎👍 After reading that guide I now have a lot of grils trying to get my attention and let me sex them every day 😎👍 Also after a week of following this guide some rich guy gifted me a Lamborghini 😎😎😎 Ez life now mens))) 😎👍
2019-06-06 15:30
#40
Poland joeb 
love brother make MENS))) great again!
2019-06-06 15:31
Yes men, let's make MENS great again 😎😎😎😎😎
2019-06-06 15:32
#39
Poland joeb 
It's bulletproof boyz, all confirmed and all truth. I can defend these points no matter what. Stay strong and make MENS))) great again!
2019-06-06 15:30
2. No 4. No 5. No 13. No 14. No 16. No Your guide is not about being a gentlemen, at all.
2019-06-06 15:38
#50
Poland joeb 
proof?
2019-06-06 15:43
For exemple 16. " You can date multiple women at one time, they do the same with men." gentleman, noun. Plural noun: gentlemen : "a chivalrous, courteous, or honourable man". Loyalty is the principal principle of chivalry, so dating multiple women is not being a gentleman.
2019-06-06 15:48
#55
Poland joeb 
Loyalty but to whom? To Girl you met 2-3 times? You are loyal to girlfriend obviously but not to a stranger barely known
2019-06-06 15:53
Then you are not acting in a gentleman way. that's the definition and that's why so little people are real gentlemen
2019-06-06 15:58
#68
Poland joeb 
You definitely need to watch some Cary Grant movies ))) I suggest to check “To catch a Thief” first
2019-06-06 16:02
I believe you confound seducer with gentleman.
2019-06-06 16:06
#76
Poland joeb 
Not really. He was not seducing girlz. He behaved as gentleman and girlz wanted to chase him
2019-06-06 16:26
+1
2019-10-14 21:22
#326
 | 
Sweden LimeyGaming 
+1
2019-10-14 21:28
+1
2019-10-15 16:14
#367
 | 
Slovakia twat 
+1
2019-10-15 23:01
#65
SPUNJ | 
Netherlands Wazaguy 
Nothing is better in a girls eyes than finding out the guy you really like is sleeping with other people...
2019-06-06 16:00
#66
Poland joeb 
You sleep only with girlfriend and I suggest to wait until a long time for first sexy time ))))
2019-06-06 16:01
#67
SPUNJ | 
Netherlands Wazaguy 
Because.....?
2019-06-06 16:02
#69
Poland joeb 
Because it’s really serious business and you naturally want to know the person really well,, otherwise there is risk for unwanted pregnancy with somebody that turns out to have bad character. Plus, it’s not the foundation to build relationship on, it’s a really great addition, ADDITION.
2019-06-06 16:05
#71
SPUNJ | 
Netherlands Wazaguy 
You know that there are ways to pretty much prevent "unwanted pregnancy" right? I never said that it should be (or could be) the foundation of a relationship.
2019-06-06 16:08
#72
Poland joeb 
These are some new world work arounds men. I am talking common sense and basic rules. Basically today almost everything is possible but not everything is always beneficial - I am talking what is beneficial for long term
2019-06-06 16:18
#73
SPUNJ | 
Netherlands Wazaguy 
No you really aren't..... "new world workarounds "....? Some of the tips you posted are just things you should do regardless, and others (like Baguette already commented on) are just plain silly.
2019-06-06 16:20
#74
Poland joeb 
New world workarounds as there hadn’t been possibilities to remove children that easy in the past. I never said to have secret knowledge it’s just common sense but forgotten in this era of Instagram and gold diggers and incel boiz
2019-06-06 16:23
#79
SPUNJ | 
Netherlands Wazaguy 
Yes, but they exist now, so why not use those instead of I don't know, avoiding it altogether just because you don't want to use something that not only can protect you against unwanted pregnancy, but also protects you and your partner from unwanted diseases?
2019-06-06 16:29
#85
Poland joeb 
Isn’t it complicating things up instead of simplifying them? You meet a good girl, get to know each other slowly, fall in love, have sexy time and make children and stay together for life - this looks fun to me, not random sex with a thot
2019-06-06 16:36
#86
SPUNJ | 
Netherlands Wazaguy 
You do realize that everyone seeks different things in life, right? How is it complicating things?
2019-06-06 16:38
#87
Poland joeb 
I am about long term successful relationships here Of course not everyone wants that
2019-06-06 16:39
#89
SPUNJ | 
Netherlands Wazaguy 
That doesn't change anything about what I just said? Even in long term relationships, people seek different things.
2019-06-06 16:42
Agree on that wanted to better explain my point and goal - help decent men meet decent woman and have great love life
2019-06-06 17:11
#177
SPUNJ | 
Netherlands Wazaguy 
Which is your idea of a great love life. What if my partner wanted to make love every other day? Or what if the person I like takes me not talking to them for 8 days as a sign of me not being interested? Have you tried your own advice?
2019-06-06 17:41
I tried it works sex everyday is not beneficial as it's a risk of lovering stimulus with time so better rarely but quality + #143 about 8 days
2019-06-06 17:52
#189
SPUNJ | 
Netherlands Wazaguy 
You tried it? really? How often? You are creating scenarios that aren't really realistic at all, unless you go for the girls who are easily manipulated.
2019-06-06 18:08
girls who are interested in a guy are intrigued to go a date on, if he waits and allows them to think about him space creates magnetism
2019-06-06 18:17
#215
SPUNJ | 
Netherlands Wazaguy 
Girls who are interested in a guy and give them their number, don't enjoy being ghosted while he goes on dates with other girls. Add to that the fact that there is a difference between being mysterious and being a non responsive jerk who only goes for the girls that fall for your tricks.
2019-06-06 18:24
#88
 | 
Switzerland lordwigham 
This joeb-guy get's it. Listen to him!
2019-06-06 16:42
#302
 | 
Slovenia kekec_ 
+1
2019-09-04 16:56
Never schedule a date on Friday/Saturday, unless the girl is your girlfriend. why
2019-06-06 15:50
#57
 | 
Other delmaszm 
"be a gentleman ... don't compliment her and date multiple woman at the same time" BIG YIKESSSS man you mispelled "dont look thirsty guide"
2019-06-06 15:56
#62
Poland joeb 
It’s connected boi First don’t be thirsty then become gentleman
2019-06-06 15:57
That isn't a gentleman. What you're talking about is more like being an "alpha" I don't like to use alpha to refer to stuff/people but hey that's the only way to describe it.
2019-06-06 17:12
alpha wants to get his way all the time and in the beginning it attracts woman because she thinks he's confident but he's just ape gentleman knows his value and let's the girl to like him and want to do stuff for him so his life is even more great
2019-06-06 17:54
Goes the second line and you're completely wrong straight away. You mistook actual gentlemen for basement dwellers. Different things.
2019-06-06 16:26
#77
Poland joeb 
Proof
2019-06-06 16:27
You didn't provide any proof for your premature opinion on gentlemen either. Common sense and logic are my proof you're not familiar with.
2019-06-06 16:28
#80
Poland joeb 
Correct until proven wrong
2019-06-06 16:30
It's not how it works in a civilised society, you will be asked to provide proof and if you will say this, you will be laughed down upon, like I laugh at you now. You have no clue what gentlemen even means by definition. This thread has a name "when a kid has understood the concept of life".
2019-06-06 16:44
#94
Poland joeb 
What you want to know I can explain you
2019-06-06 16:48
What's your definition of a gentleman.
2019-06-06 17:13
gentleman treats himself great, treats others great - and girls he dates great - if they deserve it - as strangers, he's just pleasant, not falling to anyone's feet smiles to people, talks with people uses please and thank you does not curse does not touch woman first and does not talk or convince to have sex gentleman is not an incel who wants to buy a girl with presents or compliments he knows his value is enough for a woman to fall in love with him he has got strong character and does not change his mind because a woman said so controls himself, is confident, has got sense of humour, does not beg for attention, does not brag about himself works to improve his life works to help others wants to make a girl - that deserves it - happy
2019-06-06 17:58
A lot of things said on point but there's one big trouble that crosses everything. There's no word "deserved" in the gentlemen's book. Mark this and remember from this moment on. Hence why your thread made little to no sense.
2019-06-08 04:20
#81
 | 
United States _ATaXiA_ 
Rename it how to act like women have for the last 100 years. This is the narcissist's handbook.
2019-06-06 16:31
#83
Poland joeb 
Man are liers when they want sex in exchange for some presents or compliments or for giving attention to women. This is truth and if you throw away your ego, you will get it. You just slowly meet the girl get to know each other and have fun time and this rules allow to guide you to achieve this and not be used by a wrong woman
2019-06-06 16:33
#93
 | 
CIS chlenixon 
If u want a relationship with a girl, i wouldnt suggest this "all cool on the outside" method. But for being out on weekends meeting girls for the night, i think these are good tips, i mean, if u like to party you will be out often, and to stay relevant, u should apply some of these tips. But never for a long lasting relationship, she will get to know you and u will be screwed. Nice overall, u rly shouldnt be giving girls in bars too much attention or whatever, they are snakes. If u get bitten by one u will become like spiderman, but hoeman or the snakeman, youll get a good sense of how to act, and not falling into their bs.
2019-06-06 16:48
you had many puss in your life?
2019-06-06 16:33
#84
Poland joeb 
A gentleman won’t kiss and tell )))
2019-06-06 16:33
another nerds tutorial/thread on hltv.org i love it
2019-06-06 16:45
#92
Poland joeb 
Make MENs great again!))))
2019-06-06 16:47
1- Be yourself, and don't be a fuckboy that trys to mimic and be what you think girls want you to be. Is that simple. Forget this fuckboy, he's a pretender... guide to morph your way into geting puss by how you act and not by who you are... lmao..
2019-06-06 16:48
#96
 | 
CIS chlenixon 
In superficial situations like weekends in bars its much more acting than showing your cards mate. I hear what u say and i can agree kinda but still, saturday nights is for acting in the short run.
2019-06-06 16:51
#97
Poland joeb 
#26 #87 Also this be yourself bullshit... Obviously you act differently to your grandparents to your teacher to your boss to your mother to your best friend... why not tweaking how you act towards girls to get better results and better relationships?
2019-06-06 16:54
>Be a prentender >" am about long term successful relationships here Of course not everyone wants that" lmao dude
2019-06-06 16:53
#97 I added
2019-06-06 16:54
spoken like a true hltv user who has 0 experience with women and bought 2 second hand books from pick up artists on ebay.
2019-06-06 16:54
It’s not about pickup it’s about reverse of the process. To chase girls by boiz is a big lie today in movies and music. You just do the minimum, act according to the guideline and the results come
2019-06-06 16:57
that only works if you are rich and or handsome my friendo. trying to make women chase you when you have no equity is a losing game.
2019-06-06 16:56
Have you ever seen ugly guy with a beautiful woman? I have. So the principles works. Of course looks matter and helps same as status. If you want a model start your radio or tv show By the way did you know that Vin Diesel travelled to Europe to chase his girlfriend that dumped him? And he seems as masciline man. But turns out he completely has no idea how to treat women and despite the fact he’s successful business wise he gets rejected
2019-06-06 16:59
yes if they are rich. if you are rich, it doesnt matter what you do. women will try to get close to you without any effort even if youre a total asshole.
2019-06-06 16:59
I updated read again
2019-06-06 16:59
vin diesel is a typical bald latino man. never let go of his mother. too low iq to realize he is being cucked.
2019-06-06 17:00
And there are many big company owners being gold digged by some random thots. Because they are not using Gentleman’s Guidebook by Joeb
2019-06-06 17:02
yeah that guy from amazon just got scammed for a couple hundred million, easiest job in the world, have sex with a guy for 5 years and you get half his money.
2019-06-06 17:04
Nearly Neymar as well but he luckily had evidence. But I doubt the girl is going to be sentenced, this World cares more for women and feminist as rights
2019-06-06 17:05
that woman will be charged for at least defamation. idk if she actually lied in court. neymar shouldve waited until first court day and then submit these chats as evidence, then she would go to prison for lying in court.
2019-06-06 17:07
but if a rich guy follows your tips wouldnt that make it so that he gets even more golddiggers after him because they are willing to put in more effort to chase a goldmine than a regular girl who wants a healthy relationship without too much games being played?
2019-06-06 17:05
He’s going to be filtering bad girls that just want expensive dates or money benefits by not bragging about money by not buying presents and by not taking here anywhere expensive unless she presents a perfect character first for 10 days (then she asks if he will be her boyfriend) and then for 6 months time
2019-06-06 17:07
pretending not to be rich is basically impossible when ppl can just google you. youd have to have a fake identity complete with social media, id card, etc.
2019-06-06 17:08
You don’t need to pretend you are not rich rather slowly discover what the other person has got in mind and if she’s about you or about your money and stuff. That’s why it’s long term and advices to go slowly
2019-06-06 17:09
but tbh i have no idea how a man like that can consider to try to get a woman back who is dumb enough to dump him. thats the worst life decision ever. he must really love her.
2019-06-06 17:01
Romantic love is different from the Samaritans love or how a mother should love her child. I agree he was dumb to do so. How can you be with someone for life who once dumped you?
2019-06-06 17:03
well people arent rational machines they have hormones and emotions and stuff, so just because one time someone does something terrible doesnt mean you can never trust them again. if it becomes a pattern however...
2019-06-06 17:06
It’s a guideline that helps to notice flaws of the most dangerous creature on Earth which is beautiful woman)))) If you follow it you will notice more stuff and understand how the mating dance works and you will be able to reject bad girls
2019-06-06 17:08
oh i have no problem detecting bad people, man or woman. its right there in their eyes. they cant hide it. the problem is finding someone who isnt bad in this ocean of shit.
2019-06-06 17:09
It’s just a numbers game. If you try enough times you finally success. But don’t force if a woman is not suitable and be prepared always because you don’t know when you will meet her either in the shop or in museum or at work etc
2019-06-06 17:10
yeah well usually if i meet a nice looking girl they give me the right number but dont respond if i message them later, i guess i pick too goodlooking ones who get enough attention from fuckbois or something. im rather focusing on every other aspect of my life now, will see about a girl when i have everything settled with job and house etc.
2019-06-06 17:13
That’s why you follow guideline and don’t message only call after 8 days and set up a date for a short coffe chat first You save your time your money and your honour
2019-06-06 17:14
haha after 8 days those girls wouldnt even remember my face.
2019-06-06 17:14
You try it and tell me the result )))) nothing to lose right?
2019-06-06 17:18
sure just to try it, i will wait 8 days with the next girl i ask for number but she will respond "who is this" because i waited too long i guarantee you. 2-3 days is best.
2019-06-06 17:19
You gonna be surprised )) But keep in mind she needs to be interested in the first place - you can notice if she’s eagerly giving you the number or just givin you so you go away
2019-06-06 17:22
yeah i know the difference, like i said, you can see in peoples eyes. thats what fucks me up personally. i can see these girls like to talk to me but they shut off contact anyway. if they seemed to not enjoy it i wouldnt ask for number most ppl in this country are so broken emotionally it makes me sad.
2019-06-06 17:23
the question is whether "who is this" is a better response than no response at all.
2019-06-06 17:19
You just answer then: “sorry wrong number” )) and disconnect Girls who like you in the beginning remember your name - they have memory as elephants
2019-06-06 17:22
it really doesnt matter if you wait, thats just some movie stuff. if a girl gives you her number and she is interested she will message back when she wants if she thinks youre going too fast. this playing hard to get shit is for manipulative people. i dont want those. thats a nice filter for me
2019-06-06 17:16
“Girl talks with another girls: -Diana you know why I have my phone away last Monday to 10 guys that approached me. 9 of them predictably called within 2 days. But this one Superappelflap guy haven’t phoned yet and it’s been 7 days! Maybe he lost my number? Or he does not like me?? What do you think?” Who do you think the girl is going to think about for the week? Predictable punks or you?
2019-06-06 17:20
the predictable punks she can manipulate for sex and attention without having to put in any effort.
2019-06-06 17:21
And when she’s fed of them she gets rid of them. But you Padawan are going to be different )))
2019-06-06 17:23
yeah once im 30 and theyre stuck with a 75iq kid from some bald guy at a hardcore festival.
2019-06-06 17:24
Well age difference is personal pref you can find kindred spirits despite the age diff
2019-06-06 17:26
sure but if im 30 and dating younger women that greatly increases the odds of golddiggers
2019-06-06 17:27
15-23 they are mostly unstable but you can find a good one always
2019-06-06 17:29
unstable is not the issue, the ones on heavy antidepressants still pick the fuckbois.
2019-06-06 17:31
yes but are not a good option for long term relationship
2019-06-06 18:13
i already saw this in school when i was 15, all the girls i liked were dating some 18-23yo fuckboi with a faggotty beard because they had a car and money being manager at mcdonalds or some other shit job.
2019-06-06 17:28
Car and money and job position is not what the girls want but it’s a proof a guy has achieved something thanks to his male stength qualities as confidence self control challenge and humour
2019-06-06 17:30
its not an achievement in my society to have money to spend when youre 20. rather it means youre too stupid for more education so youre already working 40h a week at that age instead of enjoying university life. not that i enjoyed that...
2019-06-06 17:32
well, go against the stream if you don't want to be a brainless crowd :) and expect obstacles, but in the end its worth it education does not equal intelligence and wisdom, it just equals a diploma of learned set of skills/formulas the university wants you to have but thats another topic
2019-06-06 18:01
give a woman a good reason to not fuck fuckbois until they are 30 and commit to nothing. its simply the optimal strategy. with fuckbois they dont have to be afraid of any complications.
2019-06-06 17:26
Incels not following Gentleman’s Guidebook by Joeb break the market and cause the girls to be selfish and sure of themselves and they start to let loose and allow themselves to put the taboo aside and do whatever they want that’s why
2019-06-06 17:28
ah yes if only every man had honor, what a world we would live in.
2019-06-06 17:30
That’s why I work to make it better ))))
2019-06-06 17:30
in my country if i get a number and dont message for 8 days that girl would think im dating 8 other girls in the meantime.
2019-06-06 17:17
That’s even better man because she wants a guy that is chased by a lot of girls so that she can prove she’s the best one
2019-06-06 17:21
what kind of a shitty person thinks like that. i wouldnt even want them.
2019-06-06 17:34
they instinctively chase for the best mating partner, which for them equals the one popular with other woman
2019-06-06 18:01
these days i dont think women try to date the best mating partner, if that was true all those fuckboys would not get any because they are going to have a hard time being succesful in todays society and i and other smart guys who are good with computers and can make a lot of money would have loads of girls to choose from.
2019-06-06 18:06
girls want emotions remember that
2019-06-06 18:13
i feel tons of emotions just have 0 clue what to fucking do with them meanwhile those fockbois literally have the emotional range of a gorilla. youre narritive checks out everywhere else but this part to me doesnt make much sense.
2019-06-06 18:15
what i think plays a part is that girls/women my age dont know what the fuck they are doing with their lives either. older women, like 40+, they fucking love me. i could fuck some of them im pretty sure but im not really a milfhunter. those women have more experience in life, they see me. its interesting.
2019-06-06 18:18
its not just me, im autistic as fuck, i get that i have a hard time, but more normal guys i know also dont have a lot of success with women despite having great personalities and making a lot of money. and theyre not ugly guys either.
2019-06-06 18:10
life is not a competition for me, its a cooperative effort. i dont need all that fucking insecurity and desperation and ego. got enough of my own.
2019-06-06 17:36
I agree, but reality is reality
2019-06-06 18:02
like take it the other way around, if i was dating a girl who is messaging or seeing other guys, i would tell her i will either break your phone right here and walk out or you cut that shit out until further notice. completely unacceptable behaviour from any person regardless of sex. at least in monogamous cultures.
2019-06-06 17:39
when you date you dont set such rule, you cant forbid her. you do otherwise - negotiate. lets say after 10 great dates she asked you if youre going to be her boyfriend you tell her - listen, can I think about it and tell you next time we meet? she says ok (you let her wait and shes crazy about you now and youre a challenge) then you meet, she brings the topic once again asking if you thought about you being together then you say: well, are you contacting any other guys? facebook, phone? If she says yes they you say, well let's leave it as it is if she says she does not contact anyone, then you say with a grin on your face: guess what? you've got a new boyfriend you dont tell her what to do but guide her that you can be her only male and it needs to be her own choice if she said she does not contact anyone else and you accepted to be the boyfriend and it turned out she contacts someone else - you drop her
2019-06-06 18:09
its not really an optional thing though...why would i even date someone who feels the need to keep other options open.
2019-06-06 18:09
they dont rush things, they want to get to know other people better thats why it takes them time and couple of dates untill they reject a guy and they want to speed things up so they date couple of guys at one time
2019-06-06 18:11
in my class in highschool there were some girls where guys were basically standing in line at parties to make out with them in the hall next to the toilets. that fucking grosses me out. i dont think id enjoy feeling like being in that line. i didnt do it then and i wouldnt do it now.
2019-06-06 18:14
cause u respect yourself
2019-06-06 18:20
what you say feels right though, it would be the best way to deal with such a situation.
2019-06-06 18:11
i think thats also a good tip for anyone who is reading this for whatever reason, if you arent needy for attention or whatever and have your own thing going on its easier to have normal contact with women.
2019-06-06 17:14
U get it well
2019-06-06 17:23
in case of most hltv users who are unemployed, have low confidence, and barely go outside, and get anxious when they try to talk to a pretty girl, your tips will not help at all. chatting is literally their only way to have contact with the outside world
2019-06-06 16:58
Well I feel you. This is more advanced level xd First thing is to go to the dancing lessons and get comfortable to be with other people to talk to other people and to dance with different girls
2019-06-06 17:01
look now THAT is a tip i will +1000000000000
2019-06-06 17:02
Good luck MENs :)))) Boyz Power!
2019-06-06 17:04
#202
 | 
Poland misterr_ 
men im comfortable to talk with other girls only when im drunk at party help me((((((((((((
2019-06-06 18:16
#110
2019-06-06 18:20
#217
 | 
Poland misterr_ 
ok men but its because im skinny boi. when i was younger i had no problem with talking to girls because i didnt feel/know that i look bad or smth, now i see this and thats why im uncomfortable with talking to girls (im talking about normal friends) i think i need to hit gym and thats fix for me, but its so hard to do it frequently
2019-06-06 18:32
6. & 11. very important
2019-06-06 17:15
+1 u got it men Make MENs great again!)))
2019-06-06 17:25
#139
Cheater | 
Other wuF^ 
do i have to wear fedora too?
2019-06-06 17:18
Not necessarily
2019-06-06 17:25
More like the Supreme gentleman guide, aka the incel guide.
2019-06-06 17:25
U use it and u profit all I can say
2019-06-06 17:32
What profit? I don't know what kind of sites are you visiting (but I can imagine) but the opposite of "Putting women on a pedestal" isn't being a fucking asshole. This is some PUA shit, you'll never get laid by ignoring a woman.
2019-06-06 17:37
where did you get to be an asshole? you dont ignore her, youre just busy when on a date you look on her face and you are talking
2019-06-06 18:09
17. sex her
2019-06-06 17:28
But only later on when she’s the one )))) Otherwise it’s poor idea an animal instinct only
2019-06-06 17:31
Why i shouldn't listen to my instincts?
2019-06-06 17:34
they can lie to you :) something that seemed true at the age of 8 changed with time, no?
2019-06-06 18:10
like my state of mind, or my opinions no?
2019-06-06 20:20
yup
2019-06-06 21:01
This looks a lot like a summary of 3% , tho i might be wrong either way solid advices. Only thing i would change is that you can go out on weekends if one of you cant make it during the work week or you don't have your apartment/house free during the work week, as is my case. edit: Question to add: Have you implemented these rules, what are the results or is this just theoretical?
2019-06-06 17:58
If you love yourself, there will always be someone that loves you. You will not need anybody's acceptance, admiration or approval. You will feel good, and people will gravitate towards you. No expectations though. Any time you create a need or a want, you will never find it outside yourself, because every need and/or want is just a projection of your own mind, therefore only ever found inside yourself. If you still keep looking outside yourself, you will never find satisfaction.
2019-06-06 18:03
truth
2019-06-06 18:10
Great, short and concrete guide dude. :)
2019-06-06 18:14
+1
2019-06-06 18:22
thanks joeb
2019-06-06 18:16
+1
2019-06-06 18:22
#204
 | 
Poland misterr_ 
1. why? if the girl is normal girl not some attention looking bitch then why not
2019-06-06 18:17
no point, if you're interested you get her number if she's interested she gives you number likes only build inflated ego
2019-06-06 18:22
Calling a girl after 8 days is the most retarded thing I've ever heard. Girls will think you're some weirdo
2019-06-06 18:17
#143
2019-06-06 18:21
Those 8 days are supposed to be a kind of a filter. If for example girl gives her number to 10 dudes one night, usually all of them will call her in the next couple of days thus you are being different from the rest. If, when you call, she doesn't remember you that just means she wasn't interested in you anyway because otherwise if she was interested she would remember you. Another thing that this is supposed to show is that you actually have other stuff going in your life. All of this is better explained in a self-help book from which i guess Joeb took all of this but making this list without further explaining why you do what you do is kinda pointless.
2019-06-06 18:27
^ this guy knows
2019-07-19 10:42
Wtf i dont wanna be a gentle man 😡😡 I am tough and strong man 💪😎💪
2019-06-06 18:19
gentleman is gentle towards ladies and tough and strong towards life :)💪😎💪
2019-06-06 18:21
> Gentleman > Going on dates pick one
2019-06-06 20:24
wut? as if Cary Grant or James Bond did not have a date (for example a picnic)
2019-08-06 15:34
they weren't gentlemen though (i only know of bond), bond is literally an alpha male chad, he could abuse the women and they'd still want him...
2019-08-06 23:27
Man they were gentlemen, especially Cary Grant, I suggest you to try watching some movies with him
2019-08-07 10:49
i will take your word, but my point is that gentlemen dont get dates, the chances are they are alpha chads, that is why they get dates.
2019-08-07 16:59
how come? of course gentlemen do get dates
2019-08-07 19:17
women want bad boys/ alpha chads and not gentlemen gentlemen do deserve dates more but women dont want that.
2019-08-08 00:02
so a bad boy might be interesting at first for a women because he takes charge but later on he loses respect in her eyes because he’s an ape and a dictator. Once women loses respect for him she cannot love him. Gentleman easily wins long term
2019-08-08 07:55
Nope, she wont lose interest, if she does it is to date another bad boy and this happens until she is unappealing to bad boys then she becomes a cat lady.
2019-08-09 14:51
#222
 | 
United States Montezuman 
+1
2019-06-08 04:24
ty for support
2019-06-25 10:59
+1
2019-07-19 10:21
#227
 | 
Canada ProvexPyker 
Wait wtf this is actually a good guide.
2019-07-21 00:02
ofc it is and it works Thx
2019-07-21 00:36
8. No thank you, I'll keep doing that otherwise I'm not having fun
2019-08-06 15:36
well, only positives raise girl's interest level, so depending on what your goal is, you're free to go
2019-08-06 15:37
decent tips I guess BUT you forget one very important thing like so many people... DATING AND THIS KIND OF TIP DEPENDS ON THE COUNTRY YOU LIVE IN.
2019-08-07 10:55
a little bit cultural aspect is needed, thats right but the concept of challenge which I presented in this guide, man, even feministas cannot escape it. If a man is a gentleman, takes care of his looks, and is a challenge, even feministas would melt their legs
2019-08-07 14:15
yes I agree with what you say, I just wanted to nuance it a bit because this cultural aspect is important. Example: in France or so guys are always expected to do the first step, in Norway not
2019-08-07 14:57
do you mean in Norway a lady will approach totally unknown man and start talking to him, or do you mean that she will approach a friend of a friend to get to know him?
2019-08-07 15:02
both are possible. first one only in disco at midnight though men:))
2019-08-07 15:04
you see, this is different scenario :) discos have got much higher energy and different social barriers. normal situation during daytime, man is expected to take action, smile, walk up to a lady, chat, if chat goes well, take her number and disappear without any promises or suggestions to set a date
2019-08-07 15:06
13. Don't touch a lady first, ever. Touch her less than she touches you. this is some bullshit as a free man you can touch how much and whenever you want, beside that most girls are passive, receptive and submassive (by nautre, but aslo conditioned by culture) they want be lead, not leading
2019-08-07 10:56
you can't cause you don't know when the timing is right. lady knows that perfectly and if she touches you it's a good sign. but you don't touch her everytime in return - because you will keep being a challenge. she need to deserve for you then she will respect you and only then she can love you this is nothing about leading. this is about touching - ladies DO touch guys which they are interested in - it's a subtle touch sometimes, sometimes when you joke they are a little bit mad and touch you on the shoulder - but it needs to be her initiative to touch
2019-08-07 14:13
haha yeah that's a skill you devolope over time, the more women the better, and it's called calibration, nevertheless that should never be an excuse to touch woman when you feel it's right moment, women won't punish you if you miss the the timing, just show her state of empathy, oh sorry, i thought blaba xxx blala, then act like nothing big happned and try it later on rest what you've written after 2nc sentance is some virgins theory, touching is actually necessary to show man to woman frame, not some just polite meaningless conversation, touching shows: CONFINDANCE, DOMINANCE, and OPENNESS each positive male characterstic, obviously you need to calibrate to the situation and the girl as I wrote before
2019-08-07 21:03
If you are touching a lady first it shows you are needy basically that. Is the opposite of challenge which turns her on You will show dominance and conficence by kissing her on the lips at the end of third date
2019-08-08 08:02
please stop spreading beta male advice
2019-08-08 08:07
It’s reality and if you put your ego aside you can take advantage of it
2019-08-08 08:19
wrong - it's only "your" reality
2019-08-08 08:28
It’s the reality that works and is repetitive :)
2019-08-08 08:46
Final advice: Dont talk to Women
2019-08-07 11:00
well, depending what is your goal
2019-08-07 14:14
1800s finally hit poland... 200 more years guys and poland will hit the 21. century
2019-08-07 14:15
the concept works worldwide if you are brave enough to put your ego aside
2019-08-07 14:20
Some things are right, others completely wrong.
2019-08-07 14:17
right until proven wrong
2019-08-07 14:20
E.g. you need to educate yourself on the importance of kino.
2019-08-07 14:28
what is kino?
2019-08-07 14:53
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
2019-08-07 14:19
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDd
2019-08-07 14:21
Most retarded shit I've been reading in a couple of days, designed by "I think Im alpha and women should beg before my knees". Not really suprised by your flag either, typical Russian, Polish and Ukrain shit
2019-08-07 14:21
#244
2019-08-07 14:23
Pro gamer tip that's been tried and tested by people I know: just be a fucking decent person, hell you don't have to be extra nice just somebody people like having around them. To start being that person, be a good person.
2019-08-07 14:34
Lol who said anything about being "extra nice"
2019-08-07 14:59
well, a "nice guy" is perceived "weak" by ladies
2019-08-07 15:04
being extra nice makes u a Reddit niceguy
2019-08-08 07:16
men you just described me how i got my current gf... you have summarised everything on post what it takes to get a girl. i would like to add that you can make her to favours for you and you do one back, it makes respect on both sides and makes girl care you more, also if you have to text, always have shorter text sent than the girl to you.
2019-08-07 15:05
^ he knows, learn from the guy who experienced the guideline in reality guys +1 make MENS great again!
2019-08-07 15:08
this is more like a lady guide
2019-08-07 15:08
you never know until you try if it works, maybe you have got some different thought processes in mind which will turn out not correct?
2019-08-07 15:09
#260
 | 
Greece atlapse 
thank you mr joeb men))))))))
2019-08-07 15:08
+1 MENS)))))
2019-08-07 15:09
#277
 | 
United Kingdom Jonty04l32 
It's a good guide but most of these are common sense not strictly applicable to gentlemen. Just be yourself and be nice. Always think of your spouse before you think of yourself in most situations.
2019-08-09 14:54
indeed it's a common sense but seems like forgotten these days well, I would be careful with "being nice" as women treat nice guys as weak guys
2019-08-12 21:03
test
2019-08-09 14:57
thx for bump
2019-08-12 21:02
Some of those tips are douche bag moves that are very modern and utter BS. But there are also some good tips (4,5,6,7,9,11,12,13,15)
2019-08-12 21:05
Who taught you that you are supposed to be a nice guy in this world? You are supposed to respect everyone but being nice only to people who deserve it. These are not douche bag tips, these are Gentleman’s tips. Being too nice = weak in woman’s eyes
2019-08-29 08:04
#305
 | 
Serbia Duff555 
So true
2019-09-04 17:58
#284
 | 
Qatar olaolakaka 
Best thread ever thanks mens ))
2019-08-29 08:14
Youre welcome don’t forget to check Doc Love’s The System and YouTube videos, he’s my mentor make MENS great again!
2019-08-29 09:20
Why are dates forbidden at satuday? I thought saturday is the “date night”
2019-09-04 16:23
only for boyfriend and girlfriend not for some strangers trying to get to know each other saturday is for your girl, for family, friends, hobby etc. and you have to be busy during saturday if you don't have got anything to do on saturday and you show that to a girl she thinks you have poor social life and that she's some rescue for you to organize you the free time, and she's not liking it at all be unavailable on saturdays unil she asks you to be her boyfriend - then you might agree for a saturday date if shes not asking you to be a boyfriend - and asking for a date on saturday - you might propose her alternative day
2019-09-04 16:27
13. Small contacts are important bro, you could check reaction with it. Other points decent
2019-09-04 16:28
well yes, but you are not doing it first. she touches you first, several times and you reward her for her good company and behaviour with some touch later on (but again ratio is on her side) so example: she touches you several times because you said something funny, she taps you on the shoulder, slightly touches your arm when you speak, when you walk she touches your hand with her hand then you can grab her arm and show her some basic dance moves just for several seconds, have fun with it later lets say you say you want to touch or smell her hair if she agrees you do it for a little while if shes smiling and there is this pleasant tension in the air you are all fine then at the end or during 3/4 of the time of the 2nd and 3rd date you go for the kiss on the lips but obviously, there needs to be some physical contact building up to the kiss as I said you can't go for the kiss if she did not touch you and you did not touch her in return at all
2019-09-04 16:36
That's true, but, i would say that you can touch her first, cuz alphas do it... Some girls are just to shy or afraid of a contact, by touching her first you make her squirt.
2019-09-04 16:42
well, the impatience plays the role here so if she likes you and you let her wait, she likes you even more they are just like cats - whatever door is closed they want to go through it whatever is higher and out of reach they want to get it if she touches you 10 times you touch her 3 times in return (if she's a good girl) you can stroke a cat 10 minutes straight and it will walk away egoistically or you can give a cat stroke once in 10 minutes and it will be mad and purr like crazy liking you
2019-10-14 13:50
#291
 | 
Netherlands BigMarvin 
Thanks you men))) I will get many womens))) now Edit: Thanks to the guidebook I know have a girlfriend, she's a model btw.
2019-09-04 16:38
I'm here for long term and for a 1 good women as a final goal )) gl mens ))) Edit: wow, gratz you were fast
2019-09-04 16:38
#293
 | 
Netherlands BigMarvin 
Thanks you men))))
2019-09-04 16:39
last tip is bestest
2019-09-04 16:39
thx mens I appreciate make MENS great again! )))
2019-09-04 16:41
+11
2019-09-04 16:46
#296
 | 
Korea OKOptimistic 
thank you joeb smart man 👍
2019-09-04 16:41
you're welcome man let's make MENS again!
2019-09-04 16:53
i like alabama style so this is shit
2019-09-04 16:47
for hltv that was really unexpected lol
2019-09-04 16:49
:) I am sent from above for help guys out here make MENS great again
2019-09-28 00:30
1. I am barely using social media and almost never like anything overall, I am very picky when I have to like anything. 2. If you are throwing compliments left and right then you are either liying or u are a very weak person with a very low standards, compiment has to be deserved but I'd give him to a girl If I think she deserves him, even If I'd be the first one to give it to her. 3. Well, If you are too easy to reach than you are probably just a man whore that is not taking any girl seriously, soo It has sense to be a bit more closed bcz If you'd fuck with anyone than you are an idiot that can not control his insticts. quality>quantity 4. Have no idea how this one works, never had a gf and I am not sure why you shouldn't do this(I heard that you were mentioning how she'll think like u have a pretty bad social life If u do it, idk, neither agree or disagree atm). 5. This is not only advice for a gf, It works with friends and all ppl you are going to meet in general. You should always respect urself first. 6. Same as 5. 7. Idk, never had a gf and obviously a good sense of humour is always a +, don't know about the other part tho, sometimes you may want an intimacy rather than lights... 8. Mostly agree but I am not sure why It's not ok to talk about negative things ocassionaly? Life is not bread and butter, sometimes you can also say some of ur drawbacks but of course they shouldn't be the main focus of ur conversation. 9. Idk, I guess I agree but I am not completely sure about this one. 10. Well, If you want to talk more with somebody then chatting on fb simply doesn't make sense, It's better to just come straight to that person. 11. Well, of course you should not look at other ppl like you'd want to kill them, that one is obvious but I am not sure If you should constantly force urself to have a small talks If u are just not good in them/or If you hate/despise them. 12. this is not only a gf advice, It's an overall advice If you want ppl to like you and It makes sense, why'd you want to be the friend to someone who likes to brag all the time... 13. Makes sense too, however I think u still shouldn't be too passive bcz that would probably be even worse than being the 1st one that starts touching. 14. For me personally, she never has to tell me that, I know that girls(I mean females, womans in general) like to get the confirmation for their acts much more than mens do soo If she rly loves you I guess you should force her to tell it first, not bcz It's the problem for a guy/dude/male to do it first but bcz If she rly does love you then she should not need any kind of confirmation to say you that. 15. You should wait in general to not get urself dissapinted, there is no need to rush, u should focus on other things in ur life too. 16. Idk If dating more womans at once is a good idea, sounds a bit stupid to me. And as the guy on #277 said(and I don't even like him but I'll agree with him on this one)most of the things you mentioned are just a common sense, with a little bit of brain usage you can understand pretty much all of them.
2019-09-04 17:30
Common sense obviously! But forgotten among many make Mens great again!
2019-09-04 17:46
no compliments???
2019-09-28 19:53
Not that many that guys think they should say. When you see her you tell her you look nice or good to see you and when you say goodbye you say I had fun time with you or sth like that. Not bombarding her with compliments like every weak guy does
2019-09-29 12:43
handbook for being an emotionally unavailable idiot
2019-10-14 16:28
not for everyone for sure, if you can't put your ego aside, you're not ready for truth
2019-10-14 19:05
everything you said isnt about putting your ego aside at all. its actually about inflating your ego until its so big no one can fit in a room with you
2019-10-14 21:09
you clearly just read some books from pickup artists and summarized them let me give you a tip: those guys are all antisocial arrogant narcissist manipulative dickheads who are not even capable of loving anyone other than themselves, and so are you probably. so stop wasting your time on women and just jerk off looking at a mirror. you'll be much happier.
2019-10-14 21:12
gl man
2019-10-14 21:55
yeah got nothing left to say now huh. exposed.
2019-10-14 21:55
what to argument about? :)
2019-10-14 21:55
nothing, youre exposed, leave now and never come back.
2019-10-14 21:56
goodbye man and have a good evening
2019-10-14 21:56
This is me and maybe thats why I'm alone.
2019-10-14 16:36
Do you approach women in social situations? Like in a museum, after the move in cinema, in the park (during the day or it's creepy) in dance lessons on parties? Do you chat a little bit and close (ask for the number and goodbye politely)? Do you date?
2019-10-15 15:53
Rofl let me adress a few things: 1. Just dont use social media shit at all, not doing something because you like someone is bullshit. You are basically telling people to lie from the very beginning 2. You should compliment someone you like ina nice way, there is nothing wrong about it and if you make a "you have to go first" game out of that, its just pathetic. 3. Aka, lie on purpose and act against what you want, again a great way to start something with another person! 4. Schedule when you both have time. 5. Agree 6. Agree 7. Kinda, you can spend your date with serious and emotionally loaded topics aswell if that is what both seek for at that moment. 8. Dont hide your weaknesses, dont emphasize them, be yourself and show you can deal with your weaknesses. There arent perfect people and if someone acts like they are and hide every weakness, you can be sure, they are weak as fuck. 9. Buy a present for someone if you like them and think its an appropiate way. If you dont have money for that, then no presents, easy as that. 10. You can use whatever you wnat to communicate, but obviously seeing each other IRl is much more important. 11. Dont hide behind a fakesmile, if a person cant stand you when you are not happy, they wont make a good partner anyways. 12. Be honest about your strength aswell, your strength could be her weakness and its always nice to see both sides complement each other. 13. Touch her as much as you want and as much as its alirght for her, there is no need to deprive someone you like from touches, thats bullshit. 14. Same as with everything, stop retarded mindgames and be honest and tell her if you love her. 15. Dont let her wait unless you have a good reason to. Imagine Someone would let you wait on purpose and waste your time like that. Wpuld you want that as a partner? 16. You like girl? Ask for the phone number and write or call her if you want to and you feel its appropiate. What you made is a list of how to succeed a few date by lying and manipulating the other person. If you date reatrds like yourself seem to be one, then yes, maybe your tips make sense, but for every other person: Dont lie or try to manipulate the other person, thats literally sabotaging the relationship before it even started.
2019-10-14 19:21
wow someone who actually sounds like a normal person, on hltv?
2019-10-14 21:12
ok reported
2019-10-14 21:11
True Gentleman's Guidebook by Joeb 1. Don't like women's photos on social media. = Instagram just removed the activity feed so now i can like and comment on all the thots pictures without other thots seeing it. 2. Don't tell women compliments, unless they tell you a compliment. But still, tell less than she tells you. = opposite worked for me, i feel gay if the woman is complementing me more, like im some handsome gay man 3. Be unavailable, tough to reach, be a challenge = im currently trying this method im on day 189 and no text. 4. Never schedule a date on Friday/Saturday, unless the girl is your girlfriend. = but i work the other days :( 5. Respect everyone but first yourself. = yes men 6. Don't try to keep somebody that doesn't want to keep you. = ofc men 7. Have humour, spend dates in a light and funny way. = humar #1 men 8. Don't talk about negatives or your drawbacks, only positives. = yes men 9. Don't buy any present for the girl, unless she's your girlfriend. = yes men, no incel here 10. Don't chat on fb/phone, only face to face meeting for talking. = wtf men 11. Smile to people, have small talks with people. = i hate small talk but okay men 12. Don't brag, be a little bit mysterious. = correct men 13. Don't touch a lady first, ever. Touch her less than she touches you. = No way men! 14. Don't tell you love woman - she tells that first. = yes men 15. Let her wait, don't rush anything. Go slowly. = yes men 16. You like girl? Ask for the phone number. Wait around 8 days and call to set up a date. You can date multiple women at one time, they do the same with men. = she forgot me after 2 days, unless i do something special
2019-10-14 22:07
ad 16. - so she was not the one you want the girl to chase you and be crazy about you - would you like to marry someone that forgot you after 2 days? :) also you want her for liking you as you are - not for some additional stuff you can do for her, not for acting to get some profits
2019-10-15 15:52
pro pretty girls get attention from incels every second of the day, if you don't stand out she will forget you real quick as there is a whole horde of men that are standing in line, just because a girl you have met one time forgets you don't mean she isnt wife material, she don't even know you yet, and you don't know her, maybe once she sees who you really are she will remember you, if you don't make an impression or stand out you will just be one of many
2019-10-15 21:54
man if there is a whole horde of man standing in line and just wanting her be different and follow this guide so you are controling yourself and not needy towards her that's gonna be different man I am not saying be incel stay at home dont look at girls dont talk to girls you check if she's interested 1st - she gives you number 2nd - she agrees for the date 3rd - she comes to a date
2019-10-15 22:18
#338
 | 
Germany Sonnabend 
ok
2019-10-15 15:43
yes
2019-10-15 15:53
#343
 | 
Brazil dan1zika 
thats why u are virgin
2019-10-15 15:54
the fact is this guide works in reality and is repetitive and allows men to take right choice in dating life. it will also contribute to the lowering of divorce and abortion rate because it protects men from getting involved with some crazy girls who fake their interest for personal gains like validating self esteem or getting free meals during dates this guide helps to filter out bad girls and date only those who are really interested and serious = saves time
2019-10-15 15:58
#348
 | 
Brazil dan1zika 
she gets free meals, you get a pussy. Both happy
2019-10-15 16:00
depending on what goals you both have I am about long term happiness, helping good guys not to appear weak in front of a good lady and to have a good long term relationship developed with patience
2019-10-15 16:05
showed this and translated it too my grandma and she laughed cuz she always claimed my grandpa was a big gentleman
2019-10-15 15:57
I'm curious what did she say specifically mens
2019-10-15 15:59
she was very skeptical with #2 she never gave a compliment to my grandpa in the first stages and he did many. not the normal compliments but more like special ones. 9, u can always bring flowers or candles and wine as present but men thats like 60-70's dating style. 14 u should tell her i love u when u feel something like love. even if its after just 1 week. it shows massive strength and for 16 u should always contact the woman as fast as possible. cuz she will most likely forget who u are. and also never date more woman at a time cuz thats not gentleman like. on avarage she thinks its alright mayb a little too modern for her.
2019-10-15 16:05
yup I expected that answers but to get to the real truth right questions are needed to be asked it's what she feels is the right answer remember, not what is the truth neccessarily remember - girls talk through emotions - they may say one thing and emotionally believe in another thing for example. did any girl tell you she won't date you because she doesn't like you? of course they won't say anything like that - they don't want to make you fell bad. they will create excuse > or even accept so you feel good, but then don't appear on date filter man, and check women's actions not words!
2019-10-15 16:09
just stay real to urself pal. if u follow someones guide on how to get girlfriend and who to be gentleman. it will never work for a longer period. after 2- 3 weeks the real of u comes out in the relationship.
2019-10-15 16:00
ok about staying real to yourself / being yourself etc. are you the same yourself in front of your mom, boss, teacher, collegues, friend, best friend, priest, girlfriend? of course you are changing and adapting your behaviour a little bit according to the situation and a person you are communicating with it's about adapting the behaviour to get the most results out of dating life and choose wisely a partner for life guys do research to buy a car for 2 months but in dating they tell themselves "oh I'm just gonna be myself and somebody will love me" ok there are 3% naturally gifted men who understand women and can handle them because of their genes truth is most guys have no clue how to behave and how to get good dating/relationship life and this guide helps 97% of mens make MENS great again!
2019-10-15 16:02
#350
Sonic | 
Germany SSimonL 
Yes
2019-10-15 16:02
+1 mens
2019-10-15 16:04
the only thing to be a gentleman is to be a well-mannered grown up who can handle himself and doesn't criticize others and has goals to reach in his mind/life, not settling for anything less but this goals.
2019-10-15 16:09
it doesn't contradict with the guide which is more specific and with examples of actions
2019-10-15 16:10
Gentlemen are dying, we have brainwashed idiots all copying each other pretending they are gentlemen but not a single action comes from the heart but only cuz they want something.
2019-10-15 16:12
exactly, gentleman is not needy and makes up enough for himself he can be alone, no problem if rejected, he is happy and takes life as it is doesn't try to change thing he cannot, he only changes what he can and works on that he won't push a girl to like him by force or buy her some flowers or expensive presents to "buy her attention" he will be himself and he knows he deserves a great woman for being just himself
2019-10-15 16:14
#360
 | 
United Kingdom Megamo10 
You said how not to be a cuck or white knight, but not how to actually get women in the first place!
2019-10-15 16:35
1 You need to engage talking with people to learn how to talk without wanting anything in return, just try to both have fun with the talker 2 Then take dance lessons to get comfortable dancing with many woman so that you’re physically experienced 3 Then you try to engage talking with girls you see and if you like them after you talk a bit ask for the phone number - show her your phone and tell to type in the number If you are confident then jump straight to number 3
2019-10-15 22:54
#366
 | 
United Kingdom Megamo10 
Can I go up to a girl, pull out my phone with the keypad and give it to her? If I am confident about my attractiveness currently
2019-10-15 23:00
Well it might work but you want to chat a little bit make her laugh connect and build a little bit of trust Then you go for the number wish a nice day and leave
2019-10-16 11:40
#371
 | 
United Kingdom Megamo10 
Yes, but would it also work if I just have it to her and nodded? Without saying a single word lol.
2019-10-16 12:39
it could but the thing is - will she remember you once you will be calling her after 7 days? will she know your name to trust you a little bit? won't she be scared to answer the call?
2019-10-16 13:16
#373
 | 
United Kingdom Megamo10 
Maybe I will say once she gives it ' I'll text you tonight' or something.
2019-10-16 13:18
no no man, you never talk about the future with woman, especially in the beginning, because that breaks the challenge you want to be challange and not easy to get it's cat and mouse game you don;t tell your plans
2019-10-16 13:21
#375
 | 
United Kingdom Megamo10 
Oh you mean make her want to text me instead?
2019-10-16 13:22
The girls know you like them because they are good at reading emotions. So what advantage can we have if they read us as a book? Patience. You talk to a girl you make good impression and connect a little bit. You take the number and then you are silent. The girl starts to wonder about why u are not calling her like all the other guys. Then after 7 days (if she liked you in the beginning) you call her and invite for a date. Anything different from confirmation (or other certain date proposal) means she did not like you once you met her and she’s making excuses now. So no she’s not texting - your are a man and you take action and you do it slow and let her wait so there is a buildup and increased interest and impatience on girls side
2019-10-16 13:26
#380
 | 
United Kingdom Megamo10 
Wow 200IQ mens. I will try it
2019-10-16 13:27
Gl men but remember not every girl likes every guy, but as long as she likes you a little bit 51% or more in the beginning, you start your strategy campaign and move forward slowly If it won’t work with one girl you don’t blame yourself but you appreciate the learning process and start over And stick to the plan man - 1 date a week and no Friday/Saturday until she asks you to be her boyfriend. You check if she’s serious about you by kissing her after 3rd and following dates. Then once she asks you to be her boyfriend you ask her if she sees anyone else or writes with her male friends. If she says yes you answer let’s keep things as they are, if she says no you tell her you will think about it and let her know next meeting. Then you bring her first gift - 1 red rose in black-golden box. And she will jump on you man with pure happiness. Because you were a challenge and you negotiated things, like no guy does.
2019-10-16 13:35
#405
 | 
United Kingdom Megamo10 
Wow thay sounds good. Can you explain the no friday/Saturday thing though?
2019-10-16 14:33
until she's your girlfriend you don't date on Friday Saturday because it's reserved for family and friends you need to be busy during this days and not responsive she will like you more because of that if she's a good girl
2019-10-16 14:36
#408
 | 
United Kingdom Megamo10 
Ok which days do you date on? You mean mon -thurs and sun?
2019-10-16 14:37
yup for not a girlfriend these are the days to date
2019-10-16 14:38
I would rather be lonely for my entire life than resort to so blatantly faking my character. The most prosperous of relationships are founded on the ability for men and women to be honest with each other. Without honesty in conduct, hiding things, and acting overall toxic by avoiding your partner, you are harming them, yourself, and the ability for a relationship to form. Your advice is horrible, I am genuinely disgusted
2019-10-15 22:56
There is no dishonesty just ossification not to tell everything in the beginning You sell perception in the beginning stages of relationship not reality
2019-10-15 23:14
#376
 | 
Belgium KevinYoGates 
Incel guide by joeb
2019-10-16 13:25
U jelly?
2019-10-16 13:27
#382
 | 
Belgium KevinYoGates 
I've been married to a model for 11 years now and I make 7 figures a year while you write Incel guides for Incels on HLTV forum.
2019-10-16 13:28
I am happy for you man
2019-10-16 13:36
#401
 | 
Guatemala Pakal_I 
You just made him very sad, very quickly. You're mean 😭
2019-10-16 13:53
I have found these kinda rules truly works irl. Good thread 8/8
2019-10-16 13:27
Thx man appreciate the compliment
2019-10-16 13:37
#381
 | 
Belgium KevinYoGates 
lmao
2019-10-16 13:28
This is utter bs. Being a gentleman is simple. 1. Talk to everyone. Even the lonely girl in the corner. 2. Smile to, help and be nice to everyone you meet 3. Dress up nice 4. Never ever talk bad about another person 5. ...? That's it. It's really that simple.
2019-10-16 13:30
Agreed and I would just replace* nice with polite Because in dating life nice is perceived weak by girls But you are always polite and cultural and handle the emotions
2019-10-16 13:41
I think joeb and u are talking about little bit different thing. Your way is truly a nice and gentleman way and it doesnt wet panties like joeb way.
2019-10-16 13:45
Yep. His kind of a gentleman is not really my cup of tea though, but i see and respect his view.
2019-10-16 15:02
tobyy knows his stuff
2019-11-17 10:10
xd
2019-10-16 13:30
#389
 | 
Singapore BOOMZOOM 
Can u explain what's bad about confessing to the girl first? They always wait for the guy to make the first move
2019-10-16 13:38
You will show your interest towards her by being a gentleman for her and by inviting her and paying for her and letting her have great time with you You will not be falling into some brainwashing romantic movies stuff about confessing love which will make you look like a weak boi
2019-10-16 13:39
#403
 | 
Singapore BOOMZOOM 
Yes I've alr done what you said and now do I just wait for her to tell me she wants a serious relationship? She's comfortable around me but i dont know long to wait
2019-10-16 14:10
normally she should ask about relationship after 8-12 dates she should ask also about weekend dates (Friday/Saturday)
2019-10-16 14:21
1-10. hard to get for the girls is the most important thing, otherwise shes not worth - when she wont work for you ;)
2019-10-16 13:41
This mens know it ^
2019-10-16 13:41
yes bruh, i dont need to invest - they HAD to - just for the opener iam investing. but then it should be her WORK!
2019-10-16 13:43
Exactly, you got it right man
2019-10-16 13:44
its mindfucking her, cause every boy who is in contact with her, is so much investing . cause hes needy. these girls need an task to get the recognition from you. when this wont happen, they go crazy. its so easy - not rocket science at all- GG HF
2019-10-16 13:47
#397
 | 
Turkey sonbafrali 
I'll print this to memorize every topic.
2019-10-16 13:47
GL man!
2019-10-16 13:48
Forever virgin tips
2019-10-16 14:36
#415
2019-11-16 19:33
bullshit
2019-10-16 14:41
keep listening to your ego and devil's whisper and hope you can wing a relatonship without a guide and sumbission to certain rules men understand that there are rules in life and that submitting to them or omitting them has consequences when you have a car there is a rule to take care about it and change oils, breaks, etc. in a while when you bake a cake you need certain ingredients and certain temperature to bake it properly but in love men think they will just behave as they think they should - not analyzing what behaviour brings which consequences
2019-11-16 19:32
Stfu virgin. I have a girlfriend for 3 years now. I dont give a fuck about you and your bullshit
2019-11-16 19:40
I am happy for you then, goodbye
2019-11-16 19:43
how to stay a virgin forever 101
2019-10-16 14:41
#415
2019-11-16 19:30
#413
 | 
Germany sommares 
6. that is so true but the rest sounds kinda like a virgin tutorial
2019-10-16 15:05
6 - good you admit rest - #415
2019-11-16 19:31
it's bulletproof mens and works every time also allows to assess which girls are not suitable for relationship checked by many students!
2019-11-16 19:28
#419
 | 
Poland cGev 
13. Don't touch a lady first, ever. Touch her less than she touches you. Some girls I met are very shy, and they won't start touching or opening up. Hence, you need to take the initiative in those cases, then "Touch her less than she touches you." applies.
2019-11-16 19:33
nope man, it's not bad thing they are shy, just let the time do it's job you can't water a rose with 1 bucket in 1 day and hope it will grow faster you water it constantly over time, let's say once in 5 days shy girls touch a lot as well!! have more patience and wait for them to do so if they are not doing that for a long time - means either they are not interested or you are not doing everything right which is being a challenge being a gentleman, treating her as a lady, having charm, making her laugh
2019-11-16 19:36
How to get a real girl/woman Real Guide By Johnnybrav0 1. Be yourself. Don't try to be someone you are not. Let things flow naturally even if they don't always flow at all. Eventually you will find someone you like that likes you back, not for who you pretend to be like joeb, but by who you really are. 2. Sex her. 3. Find new girl. 4. Repeat no1.
2019-11-16 19:35
about 1. >> #415 and #349 actually
2019-11-16 19:37
#425
 | 
France daniel19 
16-depends on the country, in France almost any relation become exclusive from the first date
2019-11-16 19:47
well I would love it to be like that, anyway people live in a rush nowadays even good girls are in a rush to find a good men, so they want to date multiple men at a time to get rid of bad choices quicker - not talking about bad girls which may date just for "sports" and free meals but yeah, it's nice thing that it's like that in France
2019-11-16 19:49
#427
 | 
France daniel19 
They don't understand that you can't find the right man, you can only build the right relationship, if people would get that then it would be easier, but I believe in France the social relationship system is fine, there is no pressure and people are open minded
2019-11-16 19:50
Its hard to follow these steps when you get nervous while talking (anxiety)
2019-11-16 19:52
step by step man talk more and more to people eventually you will grow it's the same with muscle training you beging with 5kg then move on and end up with 50kg with time take dancing lessons, do stuff, anything outside and with computer/iphone shut down
2019-11-16 19:58
idk man, i tried socializing at the end i prefer staying in my room (i dont get chubby cuz gym) but i really didnt like the experience of talking to the oposite gender
2019-11-16 19:59
anyways most important thing is to be content with yourself before you get a girlfriend, whatever you do, whether you are a chess champion, you play cs, you are a strongman or an actor or a car mechanic
2019-11-16 20:03
+1 my voice kinda childish and i talk too fast so its sounds even worse
2019-11-16 19:59
It feels horrible for me because i speak 3 languages on a good level (Spanish english and Bulgarian) but i dont dominate them at 100% so sometimes getting words out under pressure is REALLY hard i feel you brother
2019-11-16 20:00
it comes from inside, if you are confident and have a good sense of self esteem you will make your words sound much better and people will listen to you more eagerly
2019-11-16 20:01
you cant feel confident if you feel inferior to some people
2019-11-16 20:02
it's the wrong approach - try seeing other people as someone you can help and bring something interesting to their life not someone you need to compete with if you are happy with yourself you dont need to prove anything to anyone and girls sense that it's also in the guidebook - about bragging I mean
2019-11-16 20:04
you may want to record yourself talking with people, noone needs to know, then listen to it and then practice talking alone, in front of the mirror etc. then record it as well and listen to understand the difference you will grow really fast that way
2019-11-16 20:00
Instructions unclear , head stuck in a hoes ass
2019-11-16 19:56
well, name checks out mens
2019-11-16 19:58
this is pathetic in so many ways
2019-11-16 20:07
no proof = nothing to debate on
2019-11-16 20:07
Login or register to add your comment to the discussion.