>Today is the day of Russia
Maybe in USA xaxa
You need kind people to boost your confidence
seems like you care too much about what other people think about you, once you stop giving fucks you'll start enjoying life.
Just continue to lose weight and keep interacting with people in real life and you will slowly learn how to talk and stiff and get rid of anxiety mens))) 😎👍
thats good go walk outside bro
I used to be so socially anxious, if I tried to talk words physically wouldn't come out and if I tried to force it out it would just turn out like garbled nonsense.
If you want to fix your social anxiety, don't go on Charisma on Command and try to emulate some charismatic celebrity. Try to find some social flaw about yourself and try to fix just that in every future social interaction, after that's fixed move on to another one. If you stutter, focus on fixing that first, don't worry about how your voice sounds or anything else, everything else can be fixed after the stutter.
You are the only one who can change your destiny.
It's hard to tell someone young but a lot of your stress seems to be coming from how you think other perceive you, at the end of the day a stranger walking by gives zero fucks, this is not your fault it's how you've been brainwashed through media and Hollywood type films.
For example I legit turned down one of the hottest girls in high school because I was chubby and I thought I had a small cock, due to porn. Yet I have a 20cm cock...
Let go and relax.
Wrong forum to open up this topic. You should open it on a subreddit pal <3
Socializing is a skill like any other, and without practice your skills will become rusty. You just have to expose yourself to those situations again and relearn. It will be awkward at first, but once you get going, you will soon open up. When you get close to someone again, you can openly talk about even your dark past, and once you pass that step and you get to be in terms with yourself again, everything will be easier.
You seem like a very nice and caring person! I know its hard but the best thing you can do is to go socialize. The more you do it the more comfortable you will get with it. And keep losing weight dude it does a lot for the confidence. And dont overthink the situation, everyones been there when you only know one person and they talk about stuff you cant relate to because you werent there.
There is nothing wrong with playing computer games all day long.
I really hate the thought "You should go outside and meet your friends" Bitch, no! I'd rather sitting in front of computer for 15 hours than having twofaced pricks as friends and this shit doesnt mean I am socially awkward, this means I am just done with trying to have friendships with twofaced people.
All i can say is be relax, just don't speak empty but you don't have to be Einstein about everything, give your own comment on things but also don't jump in things that you have 0 knowledge or idea, be relax, don't interrupt people's talk and don't let other's interrupt yours. And also, don't make too long sentences. Keep it short. These advices are always good at talking.
tl;dr? won't read that whole sht sorry meen
"I'm socially awkward"
No shit Sherlock. You use hltv. All of us are socially awkward. You're not special
Wake up, sych, you obosralsya
move to Finland, u'll be fine
You fine dude what you on about
why you care about what others think
just say what u want- that's how people will talk to you and u get friends
You were fucking almost 300kg? U fucking kidding me?
Dont let this get to your head, you are not awkward, just go out more and you will be seeing changes, i had same problems, but i wasn't fat i actually were and im still skiny, but now i dont give fuck man and can talk more than before
Have you tried rushing b?
Nice to hear man, try to make going out and meeting people whenever possible more of a habit, start working out as well (start out slowly, jogging 2-3 times a week) and life should improve
Which city are you from ?
If you are from Tyumen we can be friends
what you say is not really important imo , the way you say is much more important.
stopped reading at so I'm a nerd
man keep up with the weightloss 30 kg down man its good. you should keep in touch with that guy and try to spend more time with him
You think your socially awkwardness' reason is looks. I think that's good. Because that means when you lose weight you surely gonna have higher self-confidence. Losing weight is not the sole solution, you can change yourself without it but it is easier. Being ugly or unattractive is not a big deal in friendships. No one thinks you are far or something in a conversation.
There are socially awkward people that don't have the problems you have. Their reason solely depends on their mind. I think this is harder to solve.
you need a conversation piece when you go out. i highly recommend a propeller beanie.
I was socially awkward too, just put yourself out there and start gonig out more and try new experiences, it won't be as hard as you might think.
U got this bro.
I know it sounds cliché but go find the hapiness, don't wait till it comes to you.
If u find hapiness in being with people, being socially,... go out and do it. And if you find hapiness in looking good, work hard to be in better shape.
U got this
You should look for a psychologist, it's seems u have some kind of depression as well. This professional will help u to find out and solve these issues. Also, I'd say to keep going with this lose weight stuff and talk about it with your family.
Stopped reading at “so you know my weight was almost 160kg“
hey, i can be ur online friend, i'm in ur situation too, so u are not alone bro :)
Try stop givin a fuck what others think of you. I startedbdoing that a week ago and I feel like I've been thinking about my future way brighter than I did before. I realized that it's almost 2020 and I haven't done anything different in the last 1.5 years. I decided I wanna fix myself, and Imma keep grinding, suggest you try and do the same.
just dont give a shit what people think about you, thats not a healthy mindset
i used to think the same, but then i realized that im only puting bullshit in my head for no reason and stopped caring
keep losing weight, eat less and eat healthy but tasty food, fish is good and later you can hit a gym or workout from home, losing weight and getting into shape is going to boost you and motivate you a lot