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[+18] [SERIOUS] VIRGINITY
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Poland ZionWilliamson 
Why Virgins feel bad about being virgins. In modern world its rare to see 18+ virgin. I wish i lost it with someone i loved. /discuss
2019-08-24 08:42
Virginity is overrated imo, yeah its nice but experience is good too. Dont be too sad either if you are virgin, somedays miracles happen
2019-08-24 08:47
No man, miracles don't happen
2019-08-24 08:49
Well maybe not for you then 🤭
2019-08-24 08:51
Neither happening for me
2019-08-24 10:33
Man I read about people who met on Rocket League getting married, some got married when they met in WoW before. So dont lose hope miracles will happen
2019-08-24 10:36
Ty mens for motivation
2019-08-24 11:54
But I'm Silver Is there any chance
2019-08-24 12:17
Then no, unless you are literally made of silver then maybe level 2 golddigger
2019-08-24 12:18
I'm not
2019-08-24 12:51
unluko men ((
2019-08-24 12:51
Sedlife
2019-08-24 12:52
#76
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Portugal NabasKi 
it must be a silverdigger
2019-08-24 13:09
#87
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Poland aiken 
Most of the women are Silver, those boosted to LE already have boyfriends.
2019-08-24 19:39
in Poland also
2019-08-25 05:06
#2
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United States burzeus 
almost 21 and virgin here and idc :))
2019-08-24 08:47
#4
nexa | 
Finland Sp0rk1859 
^^ future shooter here, watch this one
2019-08-24 08:49
#7
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United States burzeus 
lol , im not braindead like those kids
2019-08-24 08:50
United States of School Shootings
2019-08-24 08:57
+1
2019-08-24 11:40
#102
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Germany Merkelistan 
lmao they should rename it
2019-08-24 22:16
#22
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Germany Landwirt 
Bruh
2019-08-24 10:26
#89
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United States Azuhh 
shootings arent a joke people die from those, even young ones filled with passion. yikes
2019-08-24 19:41
good for u bro i hope u find love of your life :D
2019-08-24 08:50
#8
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United States burzeus 
ty
2019-08-24 08:50
Hello I am 25 and still a virgin
2019-08-24 10:34
#50
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Sri Lanka falsegod 
21 still virgin, never worried about it , jst havin fun
2019-08-24 12:11
23 here m8, im not losing it unless i find someone i like
2019-08-24 12:41
#66
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Lithuania Eddie_Black 
21 and virgin that's impressive i meen how did u manage to last so long?
2019-08-24 12:49
#72
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United States burzeus 
most of the people are incompetent so maybe thats how i was never intruiged
2019-08-24 12:52
#104
Liazz | 
Brazil Vitorrs 
This guys simply attacking you for nothing... You're cool, im 18 and still a virgin
2019-08-25 05:12
#114
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United States burzeus 
i dont mind , its the internet afterall , people say all kinds of things , one must just ignore all these things :D
2019-08-25 09:01
Says the non virgin, lets see how u would act if u would be stuck at 20+ as a virgin lol
2019-08-24 08:50
+1 It's kind of a big deal until you get it done, then you realize its not that big of a deal
2019-08-24 08:52
+1
2019-08-25 06:09
IDK bro sex without love sucks. But yea i understand social pressure on that topic. People are like"whaaat u still virgin bro. Cmon get some pussy"
2019-08-24 08:54
Sure, but at least you experienced it, how would you feel knowing that some random 15yo kid has better sexual life then u as, lets say, 24yo? Kinda pathetic, isn't it?
2019-08-24 08:55
I mean its about priorities. if its really important for u yea it sucks. at 24 id be more worried about not having a gf instead of not fucking random bitch at the club.
2019-08-24 09:07
guys who spend all their time in bars chasing pussy without improving their education, their career, are also kinda pathetic. there are also other important things besides fucking people. as with all things in life, for most ppl its about having a good balance
2019-08-24 10:56
'guys who spend all their time in bars chasing pussy without improving their education, their career, are also kinda pathetic. there are also other important things besides fucking people.' These are idiots but so are people who spend the best years of their life (18-25) studying and playing videogames. There are millions of people who are able to study for a degree that gives them good career options and still hit the bar on friday night.
2019-08-24 12:21
which is a giant waste of time, you could be spending your friday nights doing something way more fun than getting drunk in bars and having stupid conversations with drunk people and listening to shit music you dont have to waste your time to meet women
2019-08-24 12:39
#36
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World ZMDR 
not really. not everyone cares about that kind of stuff.
2019-08-24 10:57
#42
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Sweden Bakkmann 
It only matters IF you need it. IF you are living a Good life without it, its not something you need. Love is more important and Will lead to more exciting stuff later
2019-08-24 11:31
#56
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Cyprus Swishh_ 
I agree with you on this and I am a bit confused about the fact that I am not a good person to be in the mood for the most important thing to do with the event itself and I am not sure what to do with my life
2019-08-24 12:20
#15
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Pakistan Ligm@ 
Who cares if a guy is a virgin. You can't even tell if he's a virgin or not. All he has to do is shoot a load and that's it. For girls it's worse because you have to break Vaginas wall or whatever it's called.
2019-08-24 09:24
"For girls it's worse because you have to break Vaginas wall or whatever it's called." What are u talking about?
2019-08-24 09:28
yea there is thing called hymen. Its like wall of blood in pussy, Not best experience for woman tho.
2019-08-24 09:39
#79
REZ | 
Sweden katt1n 
That's not how girls work mate
2019-08-24 14:05
i dont know man. I unvirgined??? one girl and it looked like that. - half of dick goes in. - SCREAM - lots of blood on my carpet - end of sex ofc - and crying gf( idk from happines)
2019-08-24 14:09
#84
REZ | 
Sweden katt1n 
8/8
2019-08-24 18:52
#92
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Poland ruhoks 
XD
2019-08-24 19:45
#19
Jame | 
Bulgaria lektor 
I think he is talking about some windows firewall settings or something like that
2019-08-24 09:48
LULW
2019-08-24 10:33
AhHahah
2019-08-25 06:11
8/8
2019-08-25 06:21
#20
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Pakistan Ligm@ 
wtf Found the virgin ^
2019-08-24 10:16
Or he was not the first to hit it xaxaxaxa
2019-08-24 10:25
#31
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Pakistan Ligm@ 
Maybe dick was too small and couldn't reach it xD
2019-08-24 10:51
#23
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Germany Landwirt 
Found the virgin
2019-08-24 10:26
exposed
2019-08-24 10:56
Oh, hello there Justin Beiber
2019-08-24 12:16
Hymen, it's called hymen
2019-08-24 10:35
#43
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Sweden Bakkmann 
Its a half myth half real..
2019-08-24 11:32
you can tell, maybe not 100% accurate but it's pretty obvious where the guy is standing in social ladder hierarchy and therefore what kind of girls he have access to, you just need a littlie bit o social awarness
2019-08-25 06:19
#16
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Greece knk74 
incels LUL
2019-08-24 09:27
yes
2019-08-24 10:30
Of course it's not great to be a virgin at a certain age, but I think the most important thing is that your first time is with someone you actually like/love, and not with some random girl you're never going to see again, or even a hooker.
2019-08-24 10:36
Does anything matter nowadays? No one will ever know about it , even I am thinking of paying for hooker
2019-08-24 10:53
you will know about it
2019-08-24 10:57
I mean, do you want to feel more or less comfortable your first time, do you want it to be a satisfying experience, do you want to be able to talk about it afterwards? I think if you want it to be meaningfull, if you want to be able to look back and say: 'it was the right moment and the right person, and I enjoyed it', in that case I think it matters.
2019-08-24 14:03
Well you just said it yourself: "In modern world its rare to see 18+ virgin". So the people that are 18+ virgins feel bad about themselves because they're "below average". And humans don't like to be below average.
2019-08-24 11:01
#38
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Norway CheNaLii 
But being a virgin at 18+ doesnt need to be negative though. It could instead mean that they are above average
2019-08-24 11:10
Of course but that's just what I think they feel like
2019-08-24 11:18
#54
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Sri Lanka falsegod 
they feel nothing bro cuz most of the people they worry about lot of other stuff like education and having a good job
2019-08-24 12:18
#39
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United States ImFat 
People now days: don’t shame someone for sleeping with hundreds of different people Also people: LOOOL you haven’t slept with anyone yet LoooooooL what a loser Why do people care so much, just let people do what they want
2019-08-24 11:17
#41
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Norway CheNaLii 
+1
2019-08-24 11:25
+1
2019-08-24 12:43
+1
2019-08-24 14:13
#83
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Norway Easy_for_FaZe 
+1
2019-08-24 14:39
+1
2019-08-25 06:18
name check out
2019-08-25 06:23
#44
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Lithuania SiTyGas 
Virginity isnt overrated, sex is :) Sex is supposed to be all about expressing the feelings to each other and not just using each other to please yourself. I'd rather fuck someone I love than go into a woman who had hundreds just digging her hole to get myself pleased or whatever. But ofc its just me, I just see more things in life than just fucking some ig models with AIDS and so on.
2019-08-24 11:33
Sex with love is 100 times better than sex without love.
2019-08-24 11:37
Sex is overrated anyway, atleast from what you see it as when you are a young teenager. Lost it at 15 and it was pretty good, loved the girl and still W her but it wasn't like God came down and jerked my dick himself. 8/10, good pussy, nice night
2019-08-24 12:51
U feel shit if ur virgin at like 21 (me for example). "society" tells u ur "weird" if ur still a virgin after 18years. It's frustrating.
2019-08-24 12:07
#58
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Sri Lanka falsegod 
still a virgin same as u but not worried at all, jst because some random person on internet tells ur weird doesnt mean ur weird, i think u shuold go see some phycologist or some advicing centre
2019-08-24 12:24
Nono idc about being virgin on not. It's just the average guy who thinks like this. Me personally idc
2019-08-24 12:32
#115
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Sri Lanka falsegod 
great
2019-08-25 10:05
#91
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Poland aiken 
Don't listen to so called "society". Intelligent people won't say that to you so don't get roasted by stupid cunts. There's no need to rush. There are tons of people who regret their first sex with random person.
2019-08-24 19:44
#59)))
2019-08-24 22:12
+1
2019-08-24 12:11
Not even funny. Any modern slut will tell you sex is just sex, you have it to get orgasm and feel pleased, it's not about love, she may love you but have sex with someone else and it doesn't mean she doesn't love you.
2019-08-24 12:15
#60
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Sweden DEFENSE! 
I think the biggest problem is that the more you wait the harder it gets. When you are around 20 its still expected that you are a virgin but the limit starts cutting off right there. You see, I believe that sex, attraction and so on improves and changes as you age. As long as you actually have sexual partners and relationships. Many men (and women, but Ive never seen it) have hit the age of 50 and have maybe never had sex, nor any partner. They are still in their teen years mentally, thats why many unattractive and really weird men sit on facebook and jerk their ding dong off to 18 year old girls. They simply never got out of that stage. Having sex is important for your personal development. So is having a relationship with someone. So its not a problem for the society that people dont get laid and never get together with someone, but its a problem for themselves, these people are often not very happy and tend to just let go of everything when everything feels hopeless. (The people who are actively trying to have sex but just cant. Religion is a different thing) Sure, you can say that "Its up to every person to do whatever they want", but its actually more important than you think. Introvert or extrovert, most people need to be close to someone at some point. Internet plays a huge role, we dont socialize as much and the new generation grows up and knows nothing about how to approach another person. I personally felt a lot of pressure to have sex, and get into a relationship. I was 20 and had never been in a relationship, I longed for it so badly but I couldnt find anyone. I was working full time and my life was rather boring. But some hard work and active seeking paid off in the end. I met a girl, we got together, had lots of sex and we loved each other. Sex is extremely important in a relationship. It was probably the best feeling Ive ever felt. Just being so close to the one girl you love, your bodies connected, nothing else matters at that moment, time stops, I was in bliss. Sex without a relationship is not important, it mostly boost your confidence if you actually venture out to do it. The best way to have sex is to get into a relationship. It comes naturally then. Trying to lose your virginity to someone at a party or whatever is really bad. Because most likely you wont be able to get an erection due to the pressure (This happens to soo many people) or something else will happen and you will hate yourself. Do it with someone who cares about you for real, someone who actually loves you. THAT is sex. Not a one night stand with a random hooker from the bar. Keep that in mind. I was in a bad place, but I got out of it. I know exactly how many of you feel. You gotta actively try to find someone. Just dont sit at your arse and think that the "right person will come". Thats not how it works. Period.
2019-08-24 12:33
almost stopped reading at "Having sex is important for your personal development"
2019-08-24 12:47
#65
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Sweden DEFENSE! 
Is that all you're going to respond with? Or maybe you can tell me why you dont agree.
2019-08-24 12:48
i don't understand how anything primitive can be important for your personal development,i don't see incredibly developed dogs tell me why do you think putting your dick into vagina makes you better person
2019-08-24 12:54
#74
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Sweden DEFENSE! 
As I said, you just view it as "sex", and the actual dick in the vagina. Surely you know sex is much more than that if you are in a loving relationship? All the foreplay, what happens afterwards, you getting very close to the person you love, the enjoyment that you share with each other. For me its obvious its beneficial for you, learning to be close to, and respect, another human being and their feelings. As I said, a one night stand is completely different and probably what you refer to. Maybe you have never had sex with a person you love? Its very different. I might be a sensitive and over emotional person for saying it, but I can understand how for some people this aspect of sex doesnt exist. For them its just something you do for yourself, to extinguish your own lust, get confidence, and move on with your life. Sex with my partner was just as much thinking about how she felt and that she enjoyed it as well.
2019-08-24 13:01
lol no matter if you sex random grill or your beloved gf it's still pretty much same thing, your body wants you to do it so that humankind will survive "For me its obvious its beneficial for you, learning to be close to, and respect, another human being and their feelings." - i don't think you need sex to learn to respect other people "Sex with my partner was just as much thinking about how she felt and that she enjoyed it as well." so in what way it improved you as person? you started respecting your partner more just because you sexed her?
2019-08-24 13:07
#77
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Sweden DEFENSE! 
I dont agree with you. But you dont really say anything to counter my arguments you just say you dont agree so I dont have much to respond to. I always respected my partner. But I wanted to adress that I didnt have sex just because I wanted to stick my dick in her and cum. To see my girlfriend enjoy it, was super important for me. And as I stated before, its not a problem for society if someone never have sex. Only on a personal level. You learn about consent, caring about other peoples feelings, and how to treat someone you love. I think these are super important things. Perhaps not in ordinary life, but when it comes to being close to other people.
2019-08-24 13:16
"I dont agree with you. But you dont really say anything to counter my arguments you just say you dont agree so I dont have much to respond to. " Bcz you didn't give us any arguments in the 1st place? You expect somebody to give you arguments while you did not do it urself? "I think the biggest problem is that the more you wait the harder it gets. When you are around 20 its still expected that you are a virgin but the limit starts cutting off right there. You see, I BELIEVE that sex, attraction and so on improves and changes as you age. As long as you actually have sexual partners and relationships." What's the point of arguing with ur beliefs, why'd anyone care what you believe in? You can believe in whatever you want and most of ur wall of text was a pure crap too, thx for wasting our time.
2019-08-24 19:30
#86
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Sweden DEFENSE! 
Wait, what? I was the one who wrote the original response with a lot of thoughts on how its good for you personally. He just came at me and said he didnt agree but didnt tell me why he didnt agree so I found it hard to follow up on his response. Why did you copy everything I said and afterwards just said no one cares? Usually people care a lot about what I respond with because I take my time to respond with meaningful answers. You are doing exactly the same as he did. Saying what I wrote was crap but you can't tell me why. Disagreeing with me im fine with, but at least tell me why you disagree? Guess you can't, which makes your responses even more meaningless. Are you also a alpha male who cant think on a deeper level and just have sex to stimulate yourself? I dont understand how what I said was pure crap, Ive read many times that sex is something important in peoples lives, that it makes you more understanding of many things, and also stimulates you very positively. I've talked with many people, especially adults, who have come to the same conclusion.
2019-08-24 19:37
Not gonna waste my time here, It's not worth it, nothing will change ur opinion, bye. You won, If It makes u feel better.
2019-08-24 19:39
#90
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Sweden DEFENSE! 
This is not a debate. No one is here to change others opinion, but to share their beliefs and thoughts on the subject. Both you and the other guy came at me and disagreed, but didnt tell me why. Its like saying "No, Trump is bad. Why? Because he is wrong." And finishing there. Anyone can say that, but if you dont state why, it has no meaning. This is like basic knowledge. In many other threads on the same subjects I have had meaningful conversations with people who said they agree or dont agree and they have given their thoughts, and I have always been open minded. I was never here to win but to share my experiences and thoughts as there were many virgins in this thread who wondered if they were bad for not losing their virginity and what impacts it would have etc etc. I guess you just didnt have anything to say, just wanted to provoke because normally its not something people talk about or something. I am open to discuss anything with you, I dont wanna win anything. xD
2019-08-24 19:43
You expect me to read all this shit while you can't even read my 3 lines? "I dont agree with you." and this is how you counter what someone else said, anyone can do the same but I don't care, I am tired of this stupid site and I already told u, you won If It makes u feel better.
2019-08-24 19:55
#98
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Sweden DEFENSE! 
I am not the one opposing the original statement. I made that statement. Saying "I dont agree with you" is not how I countered the person disagreeing with me. Everything I stand for is in the original response I made. You are not very smart.
2019-08-24 21:51
"You are not very smart." And that's why you are here to remind me that! i already told u that u are right, what else do you want? This is not even arguing, you just want to have the last word, If soo, fine, I don't care.
2019-08-24 22:15
nt virgin
2019-08-24 12:49
gay
2019-08-24 14:15
#93
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Latvia kw1337 
You lose your virginity -> you get addicted to sex -> your a fuckboy Find a girlfriend and stick with her, she has to be worth your time.
2019-08-24 19:49
im 31 virgin i dont feel bad?
2019-08-24 19:56
I lost my virginity when i was 20, i used to think it was ultra weird to be a virgin at 20 lol
2019-08-24 19:57
#97
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Europe letqpena 
I didn't feel bad. Nobody should. I think some people do because of the underlying mental issues.
2019-08-24 20:04
Because when everyone except the virgin is getting laid they think something is wrong with them.
2019-08-24 22:01
is cool to see all those neckbeards and mgtows saying things like “dude, is okay to be virgin with +20, I’m 32 and never touched a woman, now let me go back to my mom’s basement”
2019-08-25 05:14
#106
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United States Wemaster 
Still a Virgin at 21 (Almost 22), Still dont give a fuck.
2019-08-25 05:20
Virgin at 18+ lmao (yes i am the evil society)
2019-08-25 06:22
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