Virginity is overrated imo, yeah its nice but experience is good too.
Dont be too sad either if you are virgin, somedays miracles happen
almost 21 and virgin here and idc :))
Says the non virgin, lets see how u would act if u would be stuck at 20+ as a virgin lol
Who cares if a guy is a virgin.
You can't even tell if he's a virgin or not.
All he has to do is shoot a load and that's it.
For girls it's worse because you have to break Vaginas wall or whatever it's called.
Of course it's not great to be a virgin at a certain age, but I think the most important thing is that your first time is with someone you actually like/love, and not with some random girl you're never going to see again, or even a hooker.
Well you just said it yourself: "In modern world its rare to see 18+ virgin". So the people that are 18+ virgins feel bad about themselves because they're "below average". And humans don't like to be below average.
People now days: don’t shame someone for sleeping with hundreds of different people
Also people: LOOOL you haven’t slept with anyone yet LoooooooL what a loser
Why do people care so much, just let people do what they want
Virginity isnt overrated, sex is :) Sex is supposed to be all about expressing the feelings to each other and not just using each other to please yourself. I'd rather fuck someone I love than go into a woman who had hundreds just digging her hole to get myself pleased or whatever. But ofc its just me, I just see more things in life than just fucking some ig models with AIDS and so on.
U feel shit if ur virgin at like 21 (me for example). "society" tells u ur "weird" if ur still a virgin after 18years. It's frustrating.
Not even funny. Any modern slut will tell you sex is just sex, you have it to get orgasm and feel pleased, it's not about love, she may love you but have sex with someone else and it doesn't mean she doesn't love you.
I think the biggest problem is that the more you wait the harder it gets. When you are around 20 its still expected that you are a virgin but the limit starts cutting off right there. You see, I believe that sex, attraction and so on improves and changes as you age. As long as you actually have sexual partners and relationships.
Many men (and women, but Ive never seen it) have hit the age of 50 and have maybe never had sex, nor any partner. They are still in their teen years mentally, thats why many unattractive and really weird men sit on facebook and jerk their ding dong off to 18 year old girls. They simply never got out of that stage.
Having sex is important for your personal development. So is having a relationship with someone. So its not a problem for the society that people dont get laid and never get together with someone, but its a problem for themselves, these people are often not very happy and tend to just let go of everything when everything feels hopeless. (The people who are actively trying to have sex but just cant. Religion is a different thing)
Sure, you can say that "Its up to every person to do whatever they want", but its actually more important than you think. Introvert or extrovert, most people need to be close to someone at some point. Internet plays a huge role, we dont socialize as much and the new generation grows up and knows nothing about how to approach another person.
I personally felt a lot of pressure to have sex, and get into a relationship. I was 20 and had never been in a relationship, I longed for it so badly but I couldnt find anyone. I was working full time and my life was rather boring. But some hard work and active seeking paid off in the end. I met a girl, we got together, had lots of sex and we loved each other. Sex is extremely important in a relationship. It was probably the best feeling Ive ever felt. Just being so close to the one girl you love, your bodies connected, nothing else matters at that moment, time stops, I was in bliss. Sex without a relationship is not important, it mostly boost your confidence if you actually venture out to do it.
The best way to have sex is to get into a relationship. It comes naturally then. Trying to lose your virginity to someone at a party or whatever is really bad. Because most likely you wont be able to get an erection due to the pressure (This happens to soo many people) or something else will happen and you will hate yourself. Do it with someone who cares about you for real, someone who actually loves you. THAT is sex. Not a one night stand with a random hooker from the bar. Keep that in mind.
I was in a bad place, but I got out of it. I know exactly how many of you feel. You gotta actively try to find someone. Just dont sit at your arse and think that the "right person will come". Thats not how it works. Period.
You lose your virginity -> you get addicted to sex -> your a fuckboy
Find a girlfriend and stick with her, she has to be worth your time.
im 31 virgin i dont feel bad?
I lost my virginity when i was 20, i used to think it was ultra weird to be a virgin at 20 lol
I didn't feel bad. Nobody should. I think some people do because of the underlying mental issues.
Because when everyone except the virgin is getting laid they think something is wrong with them.
is cool to see all those neckbeards and mgtows saying things like “dude, is okay to be virgin with +20, I’m 32 and never touched a woman, now let me go back to my mom’s basement”
Still a Virgin at 21 (Almost 22), Still dont give a fuck.
Virgin at 18+ lmao (yes i am the evil society)