You must have a trash family usually when i borrow family money they give it back straight away
Why would you give them money in the first place?
Only if they can payback in a few weeks.
Remember this, when "loaning" money to family never expect it back.
dont expect it back any time soon. and dont give your family money again in the future unless you're willing to lose it
Your family is fucked.
Come to Zeeland!
Never lend money to family members. This is only effective for ruining your relationship with them.
Either GIVE them money, or do nothing.
Perhaps they can't give them back at the moment or struggle financially? Don't be harsh on them, it is your family after all.
If you dont need it let i be. Surely one day u see them or maybe not. But it's family, so who gives.
Honestly, if you lend money to family members, don't expect to get it back
Only suggestion i can think of is this.
Do not remind them that they owe you money.
Write the money off, forget it ever existed.
When they ask for money again in the future & they probably will, just say you haven't got it, especially if you do have it.
If family members don't pay it back right away without you having to jog their memories, never lend them a penny ever again. They already took you for a ride once. People like this do not know the value of money nor appreciate what it takes to get it.
I know it sucks, i really do. Maybe just consider it a lesson learned about those family members ? And then move on with your life :)
gave my mum 15k. will never get anything back.
Can you give me money pls? I'm a poor student without home :(
Welcome to the club, My sister is 9years older than me, has a family rly good wage and so does her husband but i lent her 4k for her Honeymoon a few years back, I haven't received it yet... If i bring it up subject change and if she does say about it she says "Money isn't important compared to family"...
stop talking to your family
Close related ((grand)parents + brothers)? If yes, then forget it. If not, then keep pushing until you find a solution. I had plenty of issues with that in the past, and my experience tells me that the best solution is to reach an agreement. Maybe you can propose an installment, where they pay you a sum on a monthly basis until the whole debt is covered (forget about interests).
Ask em if they can pay you in nature, like sis
Demand the money back immediately and never lend them anything again.
Do they have jobs? I wouldn't lend money to a family member that couldn't pay it back.
don't lend money. They borrow money because they don't have money. If they don't have money right now. That means you won't get it any time soon. So don't lend money to anybody.
Lending money is for bank. Or someone who can send someone to your home to collect money by force.
Dude its only money and its ur family whats wrong with society nowadays
but excepted from Germany where Family isnt a big thing and Im living in Germay so I can say that
murder them and sell their kidneys and hearts on organ black market, should make up for your loss easy
When lending money to friends or family that you want or need to be reimbursed for it's a good idea to set a very well-defined return date. Make them understand that you need the money back by a specific day. It's better to come off as a little rude or overbearing initially than to have to ask them over and over for the money back.
Also this might make them think twice about borrowing from you if they are unsure if they will be able to pay you back in a timely manner.
when you lend someone money unless you trust them 100% expect the money to be gone
I just bought a bike for 3000€ (shouldn't have done that tbh) for my brother, help pay for his weeding which is in a few days, and going to help him pay his degree (5years)..
Ps: he's 4years older