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How do I like my friends
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Other The_Merchant_of_Venice 
I have friends at school but I think each one of them is boisterous and annoyning. I don't know how to be happy around my friends
2019-09-12 07:43
#1
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Europe Wallflower 
how old? you will get new ones after time when u will end or switch the school
2019-09-12 07:45
15 I just transferred
2019-09-12 07:46
#3
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Europe Wallflower 
so the new ones be crap or you still got the old ones?
2019-09-12 07:47
No I moved twice in two years.
2019-09-12 07:49
#8
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Europe Wallflower 
try to find people on near events like concerts, sport or whatever. so you get people with same Interests
2019-09-12 07:51
I don't really like any of those types of things I have met people through courses really that is all
2019-09-12 07:55
#4
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Korea XigNw0w 
Just meet new people?
2019-09-12 07:49
Like who? Ahahah
2019-09-12 07:50
#10
shrek | 
New Zealand is_love 
Johnathan E.
2019-09-12 07:52
#11
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Korea XigNw0w 
If you have hobbies you probably meet a lot of new people
2019-09-12 07:52
My hobbies are writing essays and reading books or doing math
2019-09-12 08:00
#31
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Romania Iosif 
Go to some book reading events, like new releases or lecture clubs, you will meet people there.
2019-09-12 08:25
#36
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Korea XigNw0w 
Like #31 there are some book clubs that have regular meetings and events and if you attend lectures you most likely meet new people there as well. I had no friends two years ago when I moved to Seoul to Daegu, just because I felt more comfortable studying here than in Seoul where bar is super high. I attended classes&lectures and now I have a lot of good friends, I even met my girlfriend throughout one of my close friends. Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that it's possible to meet the same thinking people through these activities if you just want to.
2019-09-12 12:16
#6
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India rohansamal 
If you just transferred as i saw in another comment, give it time. Friends are weird, downright disgusting even; but they grow on you. You just have not seen the things you like about them.
2019-09-12 07:49
My friends have never grown on me even after years.
2019-09-12 07:52
so you're the problem, either cope or embrace the social outcast life
2019-09-12 07:53
Dumbass I never said I wasn't the problem if I was t the problem I wouldn't write a post about me
2019-09-12 07:56
why so triggered though, i just gave you 2 options kiddo
2019-09-12 07:58
Calling me a kiddo? Ok tard. I'm not even mad you're just an idiot
2019-09-12 08:00
you're 15, you're a kiddo. you're also ignorant and easily offended, it all makes sense now
2019-09-12 08:08
You're clearly a conceited idiot, who believes that he years passed since their birth is indicative of their superiority to other people. I'm not ignorant, you are clearly judgemental and shortsighted, you will take any opportunity to assert your own opinion as truth, you are likely senile, lazy, judgemental, conceited. So more or else in my experience the average American adult male. I don't really care what you think about my age, especially considering at my current age chances are I am likely more educated than you, statistically speaking. You have yet to cite anything showing ignorance or how easily offended I am, you also seem to think that you can somehow determine my reaction to your worthlessness and that that reaction is offense.
2019-09-12 08:13
didn't read but like i said earlier, ignorant and easily triggered, future social outcast.
2019-09-12 08:20
Yes for brainlets like you reading really is a burden. Its funny that you call me a social outcast or to be social outcast, since if you even read the post you would realize I have plenty of friends among different social activities. Its funny that you call me ignorant as well, as an ignorant person would never ask for advice. To ever even have a notion that I would flinch over the words of someone as worthless and stupid as you is ridiculous.
2019-09-12 17:57
#35
Xyp9x | 
Denmark grindz 
Essay hobby checks out
2019-09-12 09:59
:D
2019-09-12 21:45
#18
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Serbia d1ckson 
That's exactly why you are the problem.
2019-09-12 07:58
I don't call people names irl I'm usually very quiet about how I feel
2019-09-12 08:01
#24
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Serbia d1ckson 
And what's wrong with your friends? Do they act weird or what? I had the same problem, I thought I was better than anyone else, but then I got lonely, and realized that I was the problem. Then I worked on myself and my social life has drastically improved.
2019-09-12 08:03
People aren't problems they have problems, in reality I am the problem and I have never denied this... If I didn't think my attitude was a problem then why would I make this post? I obviously have a problem, which is why I asked for advice. What did you do to work on yourself that improved your social life. My social life is pretty awful, I will be friends with just about anyone, my family is so awful I like to go to school. I just want to like the only people in my life that give me some resemblance of acceptance or enjoyment? And I don't know how.
2019-09-12 08:15
#34
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Serbia d1ckson 
Well, I had a problem of being over pulsive and attacky. I basically acted like a kid and saught attention. I got into a lot of fights and had a pretty shitty view on the world. I was very pessimistic. I hated everything new, cigarettes alcohol and other shit that kids do nowadays. Then after spending the New Year's Eve alone I realised I need help. I became less attacky and stopped interupting people and fighting with them. I always thought I was ugly so I started to go on the self imrpovemrnt route which says that no matter how bad your situation is you can improve if you try. After a while I got invited to a birthday pary, and I tried drinking alchohol. I got very relaxed and had a blast. I understood why they do it and drugs (i never did any drugs) and my world view changed. My tips for you: be relaxed and positive even in bad situations. Don't interupt people and just don't be weird. Time your jokes batter. Din't make too edgy jokes unless you tell it to a close friend who can understand. Try to get invited to hang out/parties (i din't know hoe yet) I asked r/selfimprovement and r/socialskills on reddit a lot of questions and almost never had trolls in the comments (reddit is still not a very good site, but these subreddits are). I wish I could tell you more, but it's on you to find out what your problems are and fix them.
2019-09-12 09:56
same with me i just think that the group im friends with has different interests and stuff, all the people at school who are into the same shit as me are WEIRDOS. Anyway only got 1 year left ;)
2019-09-12 07:55
#19
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Serbia d1ckson 
Be weird with them, have fun men)))
2019-09-12 07:59
nah rather not lose 80% of my friends (some of which i like) to hang with weirdos
2019-09-12 08:23
#33
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Serbia d1ckson 
Then don't if you already have friends))
2019-09-12 09:45
I have 0 friend and that works fine
2019-09-12 07:56
Ehm no
2019-09-12 08:01
play a sport, athletes are never weird like that
2019-09-12 08:16
I do cross country so its not really a sport.
2019-09-12 17:59
i have no friends it's boring
2019-09-12 08:27
#37
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Brazil kekeke_ 
download tinder, find new people
2019-09-12 12:19
Im a schoolboy not a degenerate.
2019-09-12 17:59
Cut one pound of your friends flesh
2019-09-12 12:20
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