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gf broke up w me
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Hungary subzera 
it was a long distance relationship and she said shes been having phases where she just doesnt love me any more and she said she didnt think the feeling was going to come back so she should do it now. i know shes been hanging out with a lot of boys recently and i have no doubt they played a role in this. what the fuck am i supposed to do now. i dont have any friends or connections here at uni, she was the 1 person i could talk to about anything and everything
2019-09-16 21:15
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Make friends nerd.
2019-09-16 21:16
easy to say
2019-09-18 12:40
#205
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Brazil eoteamo 
easier to do
2019-09-18 21:44
stupid to say that
2019-09-19 14:05
#217
sh1ro | 
Russia mens))) 
easier said than done
2019-09-19 14:07
#249
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Russia Islademuerto 
no
2019-09-30 09:33
#3
halo | 
United States fraus 
never do long distance man, it never works out.
2019-09-16 21:17
#5
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African Union OllieMaN 
It does, but the golden rule is never start the relationship with it. I mean if the feeling stays the same after long distance then it can be something special
2019-09-16 21:18
#11
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Hungary subzera 
my brother had a long distance relationship going for like 1.5 years. she lives here but was going to uni in another state but now shes living at home and its great for them i only doubted this relationship once, it was months ago but i got over it quickly
2019-09-16 21:22
#17
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African Union OllieMaN 
I feel like its really good to do a long distance relationship, because you will see whether it can work or not (but only if you already know the person irl and have spent time with them). Im in the similar situation and i mean if we have same feelings after she comes back then all of my doubts will be answered and i mean that regardless of the outcome. Its a good thing i guess
2019-09-16 21:27
#20
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Hungary subzera 
i really wanted to see her but shes a student and im a student and travel is expensive and i fucking hate college and she could talk me thru it but now its like whats the fucking point. hate what im doing and dont have anyone to fall back on now
2019-09-16 21:27
#21
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African Union OllieMaN 
Well studies always have to be a #1 in this situation. Focus now on what is important, and i mean she didnt feel the same way, so it would have probably been bad to continue this thing and in the future you might have been more heartbroken than now. For now just go to the city where you study and talk to some people in concerts or something i dont know. Just socialise it helps a lot
2019-09-16 21:29
#58
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Hungary subzera 
i didnt even want to go to college but my parents made me and i hate what im doing (student who dont know what they want choose a major in computer sciences.) i knew i hated this from when i started doing it. but i had her. i could talk about my problems to her and she would help me. no, she doesnt know computer sciences, but she would help me think rationally and give me a reason to do what im doing.
2019-09-16 21:49
One thing I don’t understand is the fact thst you act as if you have to take her out of your life. You dont really, just be friends lol
2019-09-17 09:45
#131
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African Union OllieMaN 
This dude obviously fell so hard for her that it just doesnt seem smart to be friends for him and her. (im too lazy to explain this)
2019-09-17 15:23
#155
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Finland Teukkasd 
+1 always when i break up with someone i doesn’t want to be even friends anymore i just delete her from my life
2019-09-18 09:51
Looks like your doubts came true 8)
2019-09-23 21:52
#15
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Korea ARBOGA 
Yup, I got catfished almost five years ago, never e-dated since, you get pulled in real quick and once they got you with a hook, they keep pulling you in. And when you least expect it "she"'s gone and you lost $300 and your dignity (yed I wanted her to fly to me), and " she" agreed on it but she never came when "she" was supposed to arrive and I never saw my money. I stood outside "her" gate waiting, I was thinking that the plane must be late or something but I was wrong, very wrong. Drove home and cried so hard that day, I even told my friends and family about her, most embarassing year for me ever. Still cringe at it to this day. I'm such a loser lol.
2019-09-16 21:24
that's naive as fuck to pay a ticket for a random to fly to you
2019-09-16 21:38
#246
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United Kingdom Kaiiid 
+1
2019-09-30 09:06
She must be such a bitch and have childish mind and ugly personality, she played you and lied and forced you do drive somewhere and wait with no respect at your time. And robbed your money? I mean you theoretically could meet her and once beat in face, i guess she deserves it
2019-09-16 21:45
#60
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Hungary subzera 
im sorry mens, shes a piece of shit human being
2019-09-16 21:50
They dont allow 2D girls in airplanes
2019-09-17 07:58
#153
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Turkey Slapdash 
Everything checks out
2019-09-18 09:41
What country was she from?
2019-09-18 21:35
#201
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Korea ARBOGA 
Russia
2019-09-18 21:39
I don't want to be rude, but I was in Russia 3 times and from what I've seen and what I've heard from other LDR with girls from Russia, I hate to say it but, "expected".
2019-09-18 21:45
For reals, this guy is 100% correct.
2019-09-16 21:43
My sister long distance dated a British boy and they are getting married in a few months NT
2019-09-17 01:29
I had 7 years long-distance relationship, worked pretty well till we both went separate ways :D
2019-09-18 21:35
Lol you got cucked. Also next time you get a gf do it with someone less flakey and alot more competent, there is no point dating someone who will leave you as soon as the estrogen wears off.
2019-09-16 21:18
Wrong comment, sorry
2019-09-16 21:40
It's fine. Tough but a fair point.
2019-09-16 21:44
what did you say originally.
2019-09-16 21:50
#71
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Bulgaria Omaiguudnes 
No he didnt Cuck: Likes that someone fucks his GF Him: He didnt enjoy it So hes not a cuck
2019-09-16 22:03
A cuck is a man who has a partner who is sexually unfaithful.
2019-09-16 22:14
#84
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Bulgaria Omaiguudnes 
no
2019-09-16 22:52
That is the definition of cuckold :D
2019-09-17 00:25
No it isnt you spastic
2019-09-17 07:34
That is just blatantly incorrect...
2019-09-17 07:36
Oxford is blatantly incorrect? One of the oldest universities in England
2019-09-17 07:37
Yes, it is. You arent a cuck for being unaware that your wife is cheating on you. Your a cuck if you allow it to happen. Your a cuck if you enjoy your wife fucking other men. Your a cuck if you see nothing wrong with it happening, even if you have no sexual desire for your woman. How can i be a cuck if the wife willingly fucked someone else knowing its against what i believe in
2019-09-17 07:40
You are literally disputing a dictionary, to make someone a cuck or cuckold them is defined very clearly in the Oxford Dictionary, Oxford is literally one of the oldest universities in the world, and in all of England
2019-09-17 07:42
#213
Liazz | 
Australia Dadecum 
youre wrong, a cuck is someone who's s/o cheats on them, don't have to be aware or not
2019-09-19 09:01
When you argue against a dictionary
2019-10-10 19:09
Buy a hooker and say you love her
2019-09-16 21:19
+1
2019-09-16 21:19
#13
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Hungary subzera 
im not gonna pay to get stds
2019-09-16 21:22
#193
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Latvia latvianguy 
You can get them for free too, you never know.
2019-09-18 21:29
#199
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Poland PanArek 
XD
2019-09-18 21:38
#9
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Sweden DEFENSE! 
Unfortunately, this is how some girls are. They want one thing one day, another thing the next. Dont know what they want in life, constantly seeking new adventure, seeing pointless potential in everybody. Some just cant stick with one person. Pretty much the same happened to me. You probably did nothing wrong, its just her personality thats fucked up. I am really pissed at my ex and I can honestly say from reading this Im pissed at yours too. What can you call girls like these? Hoes. I dont even care. They are literally like females in animal kingdom, constantly looking for upgrades, cant settle with any fine man like yourself. Fuck that. Youll find someone better, lets hope she gets a really bad experience with her next dude so she really regrets it. Also, everything will feel empty for a while now. But dont worry, it all comes back.
2019-09-16 21:23
#26
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Hungary subzera 
i dont even fucking understand. a week ago she said she wants me to be her one and only. and now she said she doesnt feel it. her birthday is in a week too so i was preparing a package to send to her. im just so ffucking distraught right now, ive been sitting in this chair for like 3 hours. i only need 1 person. she was that 1 person and she was great. now i have 0 persons.
2019-09-16 21:31
shes into the guy currently pounding her out, only reason they change their mind so quick
2019-09-16 21:33
#32
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Sweden DEFENSE! 
I totally understand. Mine was exactly the same. Probably shes got some mental issues with relationships, maybe trust issues, maybe she needs to work with herself. Regardless, she can NOT be trusted if she said that a week ago. Even if you did something, she needs to tell you, its so fucked up to just say she doesnt feel anything when she said she wants you a week back. You dont change your feelings that fast. I mean, it might not be over, she might change her mind. Dont give up on her yet, but dont go running after her either. She needs to understand she has made a mistake here, and she might come back if she realizes that. There are plenty of cool people out there and you will find new friends and all that in time. Right now you need to melt the whole situation down, though. Its gonna take a while and you just need to handle it. Time heals everything. But yeah I totally understand. Totally independable. I really feel you.
2019-09-16 21:35
#56
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Hungary subzera 
when i started talking to her, she was constantly upset and sad and i gave her the support she needed. she said i helped her grow a lot as a person and its easy to see. so its like she doesnt need me anymore. she doesnt need my support. she can do it herself now. she has plenty of friends to help her and she just doesnt need me. and im still here, the same sad sack of shit i was when we first started.
2019-09-16 21:46
#64
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Sweden DEFENSE! 
Wtf dude its like im reading about someone explaining my own situation. The same thing happened to me, I met a girl and she had lots of mental issues, had been raped by her ex, had family issues and depression, and I seemed to be the only person she could trust and made her happy. Then she kind of got out if it and didnt need me anymore. I can imagine that you, just like I did, would let go of ANYTHING to be with her, you dedicated your life to be with her and to make her feel good. And then she might just have pissed it away because she doesnt need you anymore. Im telling you dude, some girls... They have no feelings whatsoever. Can treat you like shit. Sometimes, being too nice is too bad. You give them too much space to do whatever they want, because its always on "her terms". You are not a sad sack of shit. You will grow from this, learn what you want and what to give, learn that some people are just not as nice as you are. But you are not useless. I felt useless and sad too, but now like 1,5 months later it feels good. Maybe it was for the better. Maybe you will find someone who truly values you. Was this your first gf? Usually when its your first you think no one will be like her, that you lost something you will never have again. But believe me there is more out there. Better than all of this. She showed her true colors. Really try to move on my brother. Im very sorry for everything. I cant relate more.
2019-09-16 21:51
#66
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Hungary subzera 
i had a gf back in middle school but 99% of people will agree thats not a legit thing so yes, she was my first genuine gf
2019-09-16 21:57
#67
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Sweden DEFENSE! 
Then take my advice. I am really sorry but yeah lay low and check what happens. Dont do anything stupid like she did.
2019-09-16 21:58
#70
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Hungary subzera 
i cant even go back and read what she said. we had a discord server with just us so we could have emotes. and i just woke up to like 30 new messages. and then i said 1 thing and she deleted the discord. all that history, gone.
2019-09-16 22:01
#90
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Sweden DEFENSE! 
Heh, another sign she is not so emotionally stable she might want to adress. That really fucking sucks, what a childish move.
2019-09-17 06:14
#98
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Hungary subzera 
:( Reply needs to have actual content
2019-09-17 07:12
#159
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Finland Teukkasd 
tbh that is so accurate many girls are whores who doesn’t give a fuck about anybody else just herself
2019-09-18 10:07
#62
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Germany BIG_is_alpha 
I never was in such situation but would you really give her a chance? Maybe she dumped him for a new guy but he dumped her. Everything could happen, so I would have trust issues, especially after saying that he is the only one but one week after dumping him.
2019-09-16 21:50
#65
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Sweden DEFENSE! 
There is no telling 100 % she is with someone else. Maybe she just got sad or had some mental breakdown or emotion dip or something that forced her to do this. She might regret it in afew days so I would say lay low for at least a week. Thats how girls work. They are often very dramatic.
2019-09-16 21:54
#68
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Germany BIG_is_alpha 
I agree with you there. Women are one of a kind. It doesn't matter how good you know one girl, she still is full of mysteries. But he also wrote that she was hanging up with boys, so like I said, it could be everything and she could use the mental breakdown card to get his trust back. People can be manipulative as hell.
2019-09-16 21:58
#73
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Hungary subzera 
yes i have no doubt they are a part of it. like a month ago (or around them) an old friend(m) messaged her because they were going to the same con. so, she joined him and all his friends. and theyve been hanging out a lot since. it feels like every time i woke up and asked how her day was, she would tell me about how she did blahblahblah with mark or the boys. i knew she was doing this and hugging them and i really didnt like it because i knew itd lead to this. but i didnt say anything. i didnt think i should be allowed to tell her who she can and cant be friends with.
2019-09-16 22:07
#77
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Germany BIG_is_alpha 
I respect you for that my dude. Really, just fucking forget her and move on with life. You will be thankful that she broke up with you instead of lying to you for your next, I don't know, years. When you find a real gf who really loves you for what you are and doesn't take advantage of you. You will look back and think that if the break up didn't happen that you would be even sadder than you are right now (fucked up sentence, mb :D).Experience is always a good thing. Experience doesn't mean good things. It's normal to be sad at the moment but don't let it grow inside your mind. Have a good one bro
2019-09-16 22:13
Its all about the nervous system, people say they want something but their emotions arent coherent or strategic. They say I want you as the one, but they only say because they feel some vague sense of immense desire, that thought is based upon emotion and emotion isn't permanent.
2019-09-16 21:38
u right, thats why im into boys now
2019-09-16 21:32
she's getting piped by other dudes
2019-09-16 21:21
#14
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Sweden fazeBOIS 
i can be your friend mens
2019-09-16 21:22
#178
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Germany t1meey 
hltv frends best frens
2019-09-18 19:11
You’ll find someone man, just focus on yourself, your appearance, work out etc The girls will come to you
2019-09-16 21:23
#37
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Hungary subzera 
i played sports and worked out in hs but the gyms on campus are always crowded and i dont have a car to drive to my gym. she was what gave me confidence but i dont even care anymore
2019-09-16 21:37
been there done that. Love aint for everyone, just be glad you got a chance. You'll get another one if you wish. I prefer a life of celibacy.
2019-09-16 21:26
I'm sorry to hear that. Try to get some new connections by maybe cs or other things you love to do
2019-09-16 21:30
you should make friends
2019-09-16 21:31
#30
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Sweden IdkAnymore 
Break her legs.
2019-09-16 21:34
+1
2019-09-18 09:48
#31
chrisJ | 
Netherlands Rubrix 
Slap her tits
2019-09-16 21:35
#232
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Netherlands gay_marriage 
Damm son
2019-09-23 08:14
Long distance relationship = no relationship Yes, she is thinking about fucking others/has already fucked others. Anyway, she did you a favor. Go out, meet people, make friends and meet women in your city. Flying around the globe for pussy is desperate as fuck.
2019-09-16 21:37
#44
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Sweden Bakkmann 
Sucks man. You will find someone
2019-09-16 21:39
#46
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Reunion eggshells 
school shoot her
2019-09-16 21:41
if that can make you feel better i'm feeling very depressed for kind of the same reasons right now. hang tight bro
2019-09-16 21:42
Sadly girls are like that, find one that actually wants to build a family and dont let her go. Good luck and stay strong dude.
2019-09-16 21:44
#54
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Portugal HentaiFapper 
do you even have been really together? or just far relationshp?
2019-09-16 21:45
flag checks out nt Bulgarian
2019-09-16 21:50
If she socializes and looks good, long distant relationship = 0% good ending chance
2019-09-16 21:51
im sorry bro
2019-09-16 22:00
Girls are totally not worth to care about, trust me. Im considering to become gay tbh
2019-09-16 22:04
#74
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Hungary subzera 
well i do like girls and im not gay so that isnt the solution for me
2019-09-16 22:08
#75
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United States LoneTC 
Honestly, its just about finding the right person. I started dating my gf about 7 months ago, and that was during the last few months of our high school senior year. We are going to different colleges and honestly both of us just miss each other so much. We video call everyday, I text her and I let her know when I can't talk, and she doesnt complain at all she understands. We constantly make future plans when we come back for thanksgiving break and then christmas eve. Tbh i feel so lucky to have found someone so understanding and kind. Ngl ive known her since middle school but actually started talking in 11th grade, but I knew what type of person she was. So the only piece of advice I can give you is dont go straight in, get to know the person as a friend, get close, if you hurry into things it'll just end up crashing down. Good things come to people who are patient, and I was patient for a few years, mostly cus I wasn't interested in being in a relationship. So just socialise, I wouldn't have gotten here if it weren't for my friends who I always hung out with. Find new friends, and find motivation to enhance yourself. And most of all find someone who understands and accepts you.
2019-09-16 22:13
+11111111 this is so true
2019-09-17 06:27
#169
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Romania krenfixx 
+1
2019-09-18 12:22
It is zero problem since you don't have kids. Take your time, relax, and enter another affair.
2019-09-16 22:12
#80
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Netherlands Gosharu1 
go tinder and listen to frank ocean
2019-09-16 22:14
#82
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Hungary subzera 
bro i cant flirt
2019-09-16 22:26
#83
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Hungary subzera 
also tinder is for people who have good pics
2019-09-16 22:46
#99
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Netherlands Gosharu1 
yea you need decent pics i give u that, flirting is something to learn and tinder is a good place to learn that as it doesnt matter if you're to rude or insult someone or it doesnt work out, there's plenty of girls there and its ez, but yea u need some good pics
2019-09-17 07:20
#111
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Hungary subzera 
i dont have any good pics or the know how to flirt, im a fucking recluse
2019-09-17 07:48
#122
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Netherlands Gosharu1 
dont be so harsh on urself. As i said, its no problem you don't know how to flirt, as you need to practice it anyway. I don't ''flirt'' like in cheesy openers or so, I just show ''more'' interest in her then that I would do normally as in; - i ask her what she studies, why she studies (why questions are always good, let her explain). Ask her her passions, interests, political convictions, favorite music and let her explain. - Follow up questions are crucial. Yes, you need some decent pictures, but that is really possible. Dress nicely, go to some nice location and behave like a tourist and ask them, or your parents for god's sake, to take a decent pic. You don't have to be the prettiest, but then dont aim for the ''highest'' either.
2019-09-17 09:40
Political questions ehh thats mby to much dude
2019-09-18 19:50
#207
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Netherlands Gosharu1 
when you want to date some humanities university girl, not really. Besides that i'm interested in it myself, I love discussing politics with my tinder and rl dates, makes a good conversation and an easy way to profile urself as a decent person (as long as your not some conservative incel ofcourse).
2019-09-18 22:26
ok fair enought.
2019-09-18 22:40
#81
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Brazil Belgrade 
chill, asses are temporary, focus on studies and make your parents proud.
2019-09-16 22:15
#87
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Hungary subzera 
i hate my studies and she was the only real connection i had
2019-09-17 00:48
#130
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Brazil Belgrade 
then go make something you like
2019-09-17 14:16
U should work on improving yourself and maybe if you see her again in the future she will regret dumping u, tuff situation mens hope it gets better ((((
2019-09-17 00:51
go gay wtf mens)))))
2019-09-17 06:15
Move on bro, guarantee you look back and are thankful she broke up with you now. You're still soooo early in life that you can easily move past this and get on with your life. Best thing you can do is focus on moving on, definitely don't harp on it. Do the superficial bullshit (go to parties, hang out with friends, focus on yourself.. Don't be afraid to be single until you recover). Whatever you can do to take your mind off of it, do it. We've all been there dude. The worst thing you can do is get into the mindset where you'll do anything to get her back. It's not worth it. At the end of the day, just let it go.
2019-09-17 06:21
#102
shox | 
India iejesus 
+1
2019-09-17 07:31
#97
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United States GiantDays 
You'll be alright man, there are plenty of fish in the sea, fish interested in the platonic, the sexual, and the romantic. Just go at your own pace and build it back up bro.
2019-09-17 06:47
#100
flusha | 
Korea ailee 
leave her and find a new one
2019-09-17 07:22
#101
shox | 
India iejesus 
We are here friend
2019-09-17 07:31
nice, now u can focus on becoming a pro cs player
2019-09-17 07:40
#112
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Hungary subzera 
i have been mg for like 5 years
2019-09-17 07:50
long distances suck anyways, also just let her go not worth your time if the hoe just gonna cuck you life that
2019-09-17 07:54
#116
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Hungary subzera 
cya idiot
2019-09-17 08:53
I think she clearly has an immature view of "love". Love is not a feeling like lust or infatuation. You don't love someone one day, then not love them the next, and then love them again suddenly. She is confusing these things and im guessing she is pretty young If that's how she views it, then you dodged a bullet if anything. best thing that ever worked for me during break up is just letting time pass. it will suck for a while. hitting the gym is the only thing that has ever helped me speed this process up
2019-09-17 09:02
wtf 2 #117? n1 hltv.
2019-09-17 09:03
You should just get a watering can, fill it in and then just water you crotch section. That way, maybe you would grow some balls and man up to talk to new people.
2019-09-17 09:04
#129
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Belgium Miiyata 
:DDDDD
2019-09-17 10:24
sounds nice, very good strategy OMG BROTHER IM YOUR BIGGEST FAN
2019-09-19 08:48
send steam link, I'll sign
2019-09-19 08:51
2019-09-19 08:52
#120
loli | 
United States credit 
mgtow
2019-09-17 09:10
#136
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Finland k2015 
men growing their own weed
2019-09-17 22:46
Az a szép
2019-09-17 09:51
go get a hot hocker and before u fuck her take a selfies with her like u r a couple and post it in ur social media as fast as possible and let ur ex sees it and said with my beautiful ..... life goes on . your ex will run to u or at lest will feel burn
2019-09-17 09:52
LMFAO
2019-09-17 10:11
#138
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Hungary subzera 
Thatis even more pathetic than where I am now
2019-09-17 23:58
#127
blameF | 
Denmark megz 
Advise number #1. Dont look for advise at HLTV.org
2019-09-17 10:15
#135
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Hungary subzera 
i dont have anywhere else to go or anyone else to talk to
2019-09-17 22:38
Bro i was broken for a long time, Move on find new things in life be strong. And don't give a fuck about your ex she will come to you like a bitchM#ade
2019-09-17 10:20
#132
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Iran Shia 
Life will go on, it's not the end of the world.
2019-09-17 15:24
Sometimes it does feel like it, it takes time man, a long ass time.
2019-09-18 09:31
#167
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Iran Shia 
I know, but it will heal over time.
2019-09-18 11:04
forget her
2019-09-17 15:25
#139
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Qatar olaolakaka 
forget her already dont be beta
2019-09-18 00:00
Don't overthink it, there's nothing you can do just forget her men((( im here if you need some manly hugs
2019-09-18 00:02
#143
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Lithuania Mr|Julius 
Why would you want a long distance relationship?
2019-09-18 03:09
#145
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Hungary subzera 
because ive known her a while and like hell im gonna be able to form a relationship with the people around me
2019-09-18 08:12
#149
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Lithuania Mr|Julius 
No long distance friends?
2019-09-18 09:10
#146
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Hungary subzera 
please help me mens, i am panicking and have no one to talk to :(
2019-09-18 08:23
#179
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Germany t1meey 
how old are you bruh, do you live close to balaton?
2019-09-18 19:15
#186
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Hungary subzera 
19 no
2019-09-18 19:59
you are a nobody until somebody loves you
2019-09-18 19:16
I was in a similar situation a while ago. its going to hurt like hell now, but it does get better. I'm currently 1month out of my first relationship after she broke up with me out of nowhere. I was extremely sad the first days, but decided to start a new chapter in my life by trying to better myself and making changes to the way i behave. After a while you will be over her and you'll find out life isn't as bad as you are currently imagining. I also smoked aloooooot of weed which helped))))))
2019-09-18 08:37
Well you just need to chill out, find friends in your class and have fun witht them. Thats a pretty common way to forget a girlfriend is to have fun with your friends. And when the next girl you are interested in comes along wait a bit and get to really know the girl, but don´t wait for to long cuz I made that misstake and its one that I will regret for the rest of my life.
2019-09-18 08:39
#150
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Australia FlaKeXD 
It was long distance, you didn't have anyone to talk to face to face anyways, find some friends in class and just enjoy life. 2 things happen, she forgets about you or she will feel the emptiness of not having you, so either way is a win-win.
2019-09-18 09:13
#156
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Poland Damiqn1910 
That’s sad How long did u was with her? I have a gf too In a long distance too, we are almost 1,5 year together and there no way that we will brake up, because our love is so strong and so real! Sometimes it is really hard that I can’t meet her for just 1 day, but we don’t give up and in a 2 years time I will back to her and start our live together. Now all we have to do is finish school and do everything possible the get the best result and then start our live together as I said. I believe in it! <3
2019-09-18 09:52
#161
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Hungary subzera 
ive know her like 19 or 20 months i think and we were together for like the last 9. i thought we were strong. i really cared for her and she did the same. but then i just woke up to "i dont love you anymore, bye". out of nowhere. there were no signs of anything. just fucking blindsided me. i still cant even really put the emotions into words like, where did this come from? why
2019-09-18 10:24
#165
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Poland Damiqn1910 
That’s really sad I don’t want to happened it to me Good luck bro
2019-09-18 10:59
#157
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Netherlands xDtrololo 
Hoes are replacable man . Dont ever think your done because 1 ho decided to move on to another dick. They are all the same in the end . I would say take this as a lesson how cruel the world can be and move on. Never let the ho see you care or that it hurts cause they feed on that . Act as if you dont care . Once you have that other girl this one is easily forgotten. Just never show that you miss her or anything, she might come crawling back.
2019-09-18 09:53
yeah i know she is now with me im the true alpha
2019-09-18 10:00
Eat shit bro...i never had a gf in my life so thank you for reducing my stress level Welcome to Gf-less world ! All hail 2Ds
2019-09-18 10:17
Hey bro! Dont lose your mid on this silly things! There are a lot of ppl more that u can meet, dont worry and keep doing nice!!! :D -FJFM
2019-09-18 10:28
#163
hommii | 
Iceland ban1c 
dating women in 2019 XD
2019-09-18 10:29
Hey! I'm a bit like you bro! 1,5 years of relationship and she just start speaking whit "just a friend" and I saw that she wasn't into me anymore. So I just ask her about her feeling toward me and toward him she said that I shouldn't be worried. But I was too sad and too bad and i broke up. It hasn't been a week but now their are always together. And I saw them every day because we live in the same small town. So I you want an advice from a broken man to a broken man try to do a lot of activities like running,boxing and other stuff like that. When I'm doing this thing I don't think to her anymore so I'm a bit happier. Hope you will be happy soon. Don't chase love it's useless
2019-09-18 11:01
#168
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United States bmdyy 
Just was reading through the comments and wanted to say that I also was in a similar situation. Was dating a girl for 3 years, 6 months of which were long distance (4 hour timezone difference). I really thought we were gonna be together forever, but then one day while I was out of the country, she just broke up with me over text like that. I came back a week later and tried to talk to her about it and it turns out she ALREADY had a new boyfriend she met the same day she broke up with me. Obviously I was devastated. I didn't want to eat or sleep or do anything for like a week. Everyone said to me 'wow why aren't you sad' because I didn't show it but it's just because I was so emotionally exhausted at that time. I'm sure you are probably going through something similar right now and I just want to let you know to always remember that time heals everything. Well in terms of relationships I guess lol. You have two options right now: 1) Hate yourself and do nothing but mope around / get drunk or whatever 2) realize that what's done is done, and move on. I know it sounds harsh, but if she made her choice that's it. I read your comments and you sound just like me so I know you can do this. Head to the gym or do exercises at home. Spend your time on a hobby (existing or a new one) or learning something new (programming / languages/ a skill). The point is to get your mind off stuff and use your energy productively instead of self-destructively. I believe you can do this mens)
2019-09-18 12:11
#170
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Singapore introspect 
+99999 Op, just channel your energy to something else more meaningful. such as life goals or activities that make you a better person overall. Take the opportunity to meet and socialise with as many people as you can, without thinking about whether the girl will be a good fit for you at first sight. It will make you more attractive and likeable as a person and before you know it, girls are already coming for you. Girls are not attracted to needy guys can't survive without a relationship; but rather exciting guys who already lead enriching lives by themselves and have a mind of their own.
2019-09-18 12:45
#173
hqx | 
France hqx- 
feelsbad
2019-09-18 15:08
just forget her keep your head straight on focus on the present and future dont think back and i promise you will find better girls, she wasnt right for you.
2019-09-18 15:10
Go Tinder and fuck randoms girls
2019-09-18 15:18
Don't worry, she's most likely fucking one or two of those guys already. You just gotta suck it up and move forward. Crying and bitching won't do any good.
2019-09-18 19:09
#180
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Germany bVicious 
Welcome back on hltv
2019-09-18 19:16
theres alot of fish in the sea bro dw
2019-09-18 19:16
#184
Hobbit | 
Iran Tajik! 
I'm sorry bro, stay strong and try to move on slowly, there is very few other options.
2019-09-18 19:51
If i may ask, how old are you
2019-09-18 19:51
#187
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Hungary subzera 
19
2019-09-18 20:00
hey dude.... I am 33 years old, possibly visiting this page for around 17 years now and just created this account (my first account here). I did that only because I am reading your shit and I think you need somebody to wake you up. So here I am to help you to get yourself out of that shitty bitty mindset ......I can feel you and your thoughts, because I went through this several times ... I figured out that this way of thinking is stupid af. Get in touch with me and I`ll share my old mans wisdom with you. We will get you back on track again my friend.
2019-09-18 20:17
youre too young, dw about it you'll find your soul mate soon))
2019-09-18 22:40
#189
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Ukraine L3ZZ3rG 
dont worry about that shit
2019-09-18 21:25
#191
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United States SS_imP 
nt fakeflagger i bet she didn't say those words in English. JK, you'll find another girl brother<3
2019-09-18 21:27
F
2019-09-18 21:31
#200
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Poland PanArek 
Don't worry, you've got a hand!
2019-09-18 21:38
#203
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Canada LARRATT 
another hand*
2019-09-18 21:41
#204
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Poland PanArek 
XAAXXAXAXAXAA
2019-09-18 21:42
wait a bit and you will feel better surely broke with my gf after 2years some time ago now i feel good and basicly FREE for everything
2019-09-19 09:03
#215
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Finland ToxicDUD 
nice
2019-09-19 09:07
best is to get back with them for a night and putt it in her butt.
2019-09-19 14:10
#219
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Hungary subzera 
im feeling a little bit better but still sad for the 0 hltvers out there who cares
2019-09-20 10:11
well it was your mistake just find another one
2019-09-20 10:32
#223
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Hungary subzera 
i lied, i am sad again
2019-09-20 21:57
#227
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Finland Teukkasd 
are u feeling any better?
2019-09-23 07:30
#231
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Hungary subzera 
:( Reply needs to have actual content
2019-09-23 08:11
#224
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Hungary subzera 
i have spent the whole week crying
2019-09-23 07:22
Just fuck her and break her heart
2019-09-23 07:28
lol ur at uni my dude. Go outside and talk to girls. Problem solved. Forget about that other skank.
2019-09-23 07:29
IN RUSSIA YOU BREAK HER UP
2019-09-23 07:36
You know, you said that nobody here cares. I'll be honest, I feel like a ton of people do care, more people than I thought a thread like this on HLTV can gather. And i'll let you know that I do care too. I experienced something similar to you and others here who have also talked about it. I was so deeply in love with the ex. We were long distance as well. She too was the only person I could really profess my problems to. I had known her for a while. I met her over CSGO too so I guess that is funny in itself lol. It wasn't a catfish either. She deleted me because I stopped wanting to hang around her when she's with her shitty friends who are shit not only to me, but to her. I missed her and never forgot her. Then around Christmas time almost 2 years ago now, she found me again and we started talking. I didn't really change much but we grew closer. I tried to kill myself and she called the cops and "saved" me I guess (That whole story is a shit show lmao). But I never realized the signs of it being a bad relationship. She told me to kill myself a few days after coming home from a psychiatric hospital. She would constantly tell me that it's "like we are in a relationship already." I would only ask, why aren't we then? When she dumped me she said that I pressured her into a relationship, but it is actually the opposite. She had so much doubt yet she would say that. She was the one poking at the relationship bubble. Yes, I did meet her. She lived in a different state. I got plane tickets, stayed for around 4-5 days. She called me a cuck because I didn't really know where to go or what to do and I would always say whatever you want or makes you happy because I wasn't sure of what was neat, what to do and what she personally liked. I just wanted to enjoy my time with her honestly and if she was happy with the activity we were doing then so was I. But I guess that makes you a cuck nowadays lmao. She kept saying it's over, literally 20+ times over the course of our relationship. She would constantly break my heart and then I would try my hardest to change. I was constantly given ultimatums and I would fulfill them. But the one I had trouble with is that she would ALWAYS ditch me for her friends when she's mad. I mean it got to a point where either you hang with your guy friends or you hang with me. And while that is shitty of me, honestly I felt like I wasn't wanted anymore. To say it's over so many times and show a distinct pattern of going to her friends, crying to them about me and telling them shit that I thought was only between us? Yeah no lmao. Bear in mind this only happened around a few months ago now I think, maybe less. So it's also a fresh wound for me. I don 't know if i'll feel better. I don't want another relationship to be honest because of this experience. But i'll tell you right now that I believe in you and that the pain will disappear. But the only thing I can recommend is to not try and bond with another man or woman and create that reliance on THAT one person. It seems like you and I have something alike where we did only have that one person. Now without them it's like we are empty. I honestly have suicidal thoughts more frequently now than before, but now it's different due to all the fucking counseling I was forced to go through lmao. TL;DR: I'm going through a similar thing. It fucking sucks and I can't give you some optimistic outlook but I do know that at the very least we will learn to just live with this shitty feeling. I sometimes have suicidal thoughts. Do not give into them if you have them. And do not look for someone else to replace her. If you try to replace the hole in your heart with someone else, it's just like covering something up with something that will fall apart and make a larger hole. It's ok to be sad and honestly you will be for a while because like me, you fell for this person so hard. I know it's corny and cliche and to be honest I wouldn't believe it if I was told it, but everything will be ok.
2019-09-23 07:49
#234
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Hungary subzera 
thanks men :( she sounds like a terrible person and it is best for you to stay away from her but we never even had any hint of a toxic relationship. she was always supportive of me and would listen to my problems and give me confidence as best as she could. and i did the same for her. then i just woke up to her saying she doesnt love me anymore. i am still so confused because there was never any sign. i asked if she even wants to talk to me anymore and she said not really and she feels bad talking to me or anyone. she is still on my friends list but i feel like if i even try to talk to her, she will unfriend and/or block me. ive been having suicidal thoughts since starting college and shes helped with them. i have been slashing my leg for the last several months because when i am breaking down and have too many emotions and not able to talk to her, it is the only thing that can really 'wake me up' and put my mind on something else. i dont wanna be here and never really had any ambition and now i dont even have the person i need and im just fucking empty
2019-09-23 09:01
I honestly wasn't there for your relationship so I can only take what you tell me. I would just try and give her the space she needs. You know that whole saying of how guys have no idea how girls think and work has a lot of truth to it. To be fair, maybe there were signs you missed. Maybe she didn't really have love to start with and it was forced? It's all speculation. I don't know if you are like me and can't stay friends after a relationship but if you do wish to be her friend still, keep her on your friends list and just give her time. Maybe after a little while you can try talking to her again. However if it's too painful for you to have her added, then you HAVE to get rid of her. Whether or not your relationship was toxic, honestly the situation she has put you in is very toxic of her to do. To bring up that she just doesn't love you anymore and it's over without a sign or really talking about it? That leaves you with a gigantic question mark over your head doesn't it? Lastly, please stop harming yourself. Please don't start picking up on it more heavily because of this. I have been distracting myself a TON more too now. I have my own horrible behavior of drinking a lot more and honestly eating more and sleeping more because i'm trying to distract myself from the pain. I have anxiety, a lot of it caused by my ex and what she personally did to me during the relationship. But let me tell you that you can rise above her and everything. Just take some time to YOURSELF. Don't let this girl harm you more. As good as she was, she has hurt you so deeply that you are hurting yourself. Ambition is so hard to find. I am trying to find it too, but I believe that you will find it. I consider you a friend and if you need someone to talk to then i'm all ears. Believe me when I tell you that you don't "NEED" her. Honestly, needing someone and having another person fill in gaps for you is a dangerous thing because of situations like this. You and I feel empty now, but I believe you'll find ambition and have dreams of what you want and that will be enough to make you feel whole again. After that, you'll find someone 100000x better and then things like this will blur into the background.
2019-09-23 21:49
#237
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Hungary subzera 
I don't even have time to take to myself. I am taking a lighter semester because my other 2 have gone horribly and I thought this is all I'd be able to handle, and I'm hardly even able to handle it rn. I hate my major. I cant understand it. It just adds to my frustration. And I cant take time to myself because every minute I distract myself from it, I just dig myself deeper into the hole. And now she is always on my mind. I dont want to be here
2019-09-23 22:58
You know you can take a break from your studies to focus on yourself right? At least here where I live, it is very common for people to change their major, even multiple times. It's clear that you need to just take a step back from these stresses and take those few breaths you need. Try to weather out this semester then you can possibly take a semester off and then resume your studies with a clearer mind. Perhaps even with a new sense of direction with what you want to study. It's all this stress that drives us crazy and makes us perform so much worse. I know she isn't the only stress too. It's very hard.
2019-09-24 04:47
#240
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Hungary subzera 
if i were too take a semester off, i knew id be too scared to return. and then i would be a big disappointment. my parents said i would do something great, but they couldnt be more wrong
2019-09-24 07:12
sorry this happened to you bro, it sucks but remember that this isn't your fault. Time will help you out but try and get yourself more involved around school and try and make some friends, hope everything works out <3
2019-09-23 07:57
you are not around. what do you expect. totally normal especially when you both are younger and were not together for at least 1 year before going abroad.
2019-09-23 08:16
#238
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Qatar PrisMcsgo 
Find a new gj simple
2019-09-23 23:13
#241
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Hungary subzera 
update for the 0 that care: we are talking a little bit now and she says she feels bad
2019-09-30 08:39
#243
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Netherlands NELK 
I Expected mickeybieber thread
2019-09-30 08:47
#244
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Brazil pilastra 
use steroids, get rich, like scharzenegger
2019-09-30 08:59
#248
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Hungary subzera 
i wont wanna be gross and jacked
2019-09-30 09:25
play csgo
2019-09-30 09:00
#251
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Hungary subzera 
already do and i am not good ever
2019-09-30 09:37
If the only thing you have is that one person, then your life isn't doing very well. If her love for you is the only thing that keeps your head up, then it's merely a decoy, and she will see it (saw it) in time. You need to focus on yourself. As cheesy as it sounds, you cannot truly be happy until you're happy with your own life, because every time she doesn't give you the attention you so desperately need, your emotions are going to be a rollercoaster. Forget about everything she said a week ago about how much she loves you - stop trying to make sense of it, because it will never make sense. Once you realize that you have to move on and forget her, you've taken the first step. Make your own life a success instead of trying to make a success of a relationship that didn't have the best odds to begin with.
2019-09-30 09:09
#250
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Denmark SmireP 
It all gonna be ok<3 Go talk to someone stranger in class next time u got the courage, and sit next to that person serveral times, and then one day ask if they want to join you on a trip to the city or shopping or something. Thats how u can make new friends, and maybe a rebound for your ex <3 GOOD LUCK DEAR.
2019-09-30 09:34
#252
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Brazil pilastra 
ask her to watch MIBR x Luminosity tomorrow
2019-09-30 09:38
#253
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Hungary subzera 
no one outside of brazil is interested in that match, lets be honest
2019-09-30 09:44
#254
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Hungary subzera 
i feel so useless now mens
2019-10-02 07:32
#255
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Hungary subzera 
i am just so fucking alone, not even games or anything brings me joy anymore. hurting myself is the only real way to distract myself
2019-10-03 23:16
#256
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Hungary subzera 
hurts to know she uprooted my life, meanwhile, she is being chased by boys and enjoying life
2019-10-10 19:00
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