never do long distance man, it never works out.
Lol you got cucked. Also next time you get a gf do it with someone less flakey and alot more competent, there is no point dating someone who will leave you as soon as the estrogen wears off.
Buy a hooker and say you love her
Unfortunately, this is how some girls are. They want one thing one day, another thing the next. Dont know what they want in life, constantly seeking new adventure, seeing pointless potential in everybody. Some just cant stick with one person. Pretty much the same happened to me. You probably did nothing wrong, its just her personality thats fucked up. I am really pissed at my ex and I can honestly say from reading this Im pissed at yours too. What can you call girls like these? Hoes. I dont even care. They are literally like females in animal kingdom, constantly looking for upgrades, cant settle with any fine man like yourself. Fuck that. Youll find someone better, lets hope she gets a really bad experience with her next dude so she really regrets it.
Also, everything will feel empty for a while now. But dont worry, it all comes back.
she's getting piped by other dudes
i can be your friend mens
You’ll find someone man, just focus on yourself, your appearance, work out etc
The girls will come to you
been there done that. Love aint for everyone, just be glad you got a chance. You'll get another one if you wish. I prefer a life of celibacy.
I'm sorry to hear that. Try to get some new connections by maybe cs or other things you love to do
Long distance relationship = no relationship
Yes, she is thinking about fucking others/has already fucked others. Anyway, she did you a favor. Go out, meet people, make friends and meet women in your city. Flying around the globe for pussy is desperate as fuck.
Sucks man. You will find someone
if that can make you feel better i'm feeling very depressed for kind of the same reasons right now. hang tight bro
Sadly girls are like that, find one that actually wants to build a family and dont let her go. Good luck and stay strong dude.
do you even have been really together? or just far relationshp?
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If she socializes and looks good, long distant relationship = 0% good ending chance
Girls are totally not worth to care about, trust me. Im considering to become gay tbh
Honestly, its just about finding the right person. I started dating my gf about 7 months ago, and that was during the last few months of our high school senior year. We are going to different colleges and honestly both of us just miss each other so much. We video call everyday, I text her and I let her know when I can't talk, and she doesnt complain at all she understands. We constantly make future plans when we come back for thanksgiving break and then christmas eve. Tbh i feel so lucky to have found someone so understanding and kind. Ngl ive known her since middle school but actually started talking in 11th grade, but I knew what type of person she was. So the only piece of advice I can give you is dont go straight in, get to know the person as a friend, get close, if you hurry into things it'll just end up crashing down. Good things come to people who are patient, and I was patient for a few years, mostly cus I wasn't interested in being in a relationship. So just socialise, I wouldn't have gotten here if it weren't for my friends who I always hung out with. Find new friends, and find motivation to enhance yourself. And most of all find someone who understands and accepts you.
It is zero problem since you don't have kids. Take your time, relax, and enter another affair.
go tinder and listen to frank ocean
chill, asses are temporary, focus on studies and make your parents proud.
U should work on improving yourself and maybe if you see her again in the future she will regret dumping u, tuff situation mens hope it gets better ((((
Move on bro, guarantee you look back and are thankful she broke up with you now. You're still soooo early in life that you can easily move past this and get on with your life.
Best thing you can do is focus on moving on, definitely don't harp on it. Do the superficial bullshit (go to parties, hang out with friends, focus on yourself.. Don't be afraid to be single until you recover). Whatever you can do to take your mind off of it, do it. We've all been there dude.
The worst thing you can do is get into the mindset where you'll do anything to get her back. It's not worth it.
At the end of the day, just let it go.
You'll be alright man, there are plenty of fish in the sea, fish interested in the platonic, the sexual, and the romantic. Just go at your own pace and build it back up bro.
leave her and find a new one
nice, now u can focus on becoming a pro cs player
long distances suck anyways, also just let her go not worth your time if the hoe just gonna cuck you life that
I think she clearly has an immature view of "love". Love is not a feeling like lust or infatuation. You don't love someone one day, then not love them the next, and then love them again suddenly. She is confusing these things and im guessing she is pretty young
If that's how she views it, then you dodged a bullet if anything.
best thing that ever worked for me during break up is just letting time pass. it will suck for a while. hitting the gym is the only thing that has ever helped me speed this process up
You should just get a watering can, fill it in and then just water you crotch section. That way, maybe you would grow some balls and man up to talk to new people.
go get a hot hocker and before u fuck her take a selfies with her like u r a couple and post it in ur social media as fast as possible and let ur ex sees it and said with my beautiful ..... life goes on .
your ex will run to u or at lest will feel burn
Advise number #1. Dont look for advise at HLTV.org
Bro i was broken for a long time, Move on find new things in life be strong. And don't give a fuck about your ex she will come to you like a bitchM#ade
Life will go on, it's not the end of the world.
forget her already
dont be beta
Don't overthink it, there's nothing you can do just forget her men((( im here if you need some manly hugs
Why would you want a long distance relationship?
please help me mens, i am panicking and have no one to talk to :(
I was in a similar situation a while ago.
its going to hurt like hell now, but it does get better.
I'm currently 1month out of my first relationship after she broke up with me out of nowhere. I was extremely sad the first days, but decided to start a new chapter in my life by trying to better myself and making changes to the way i behave. After a while you will be over her and you'll find out life isn't as bad as you are currently imagining. I also smoked aloooooot of weed which helped))))))
Well you just need to chill out, find friends in your class and have fun witht them. Thats a pretty common way to forget a girlfriend is to have fun with your friends. And when the next girl you are interested in comes along wait a bit and get to really know the girl, but don´t wait for to long cuz I made that misstake and its one that I will regret for the rest of my life.
It was long distance, you didn't have anyone to talk to face to face anyways, find some friends in class and just enjoy life. 2 things happen, she forgets about you or she will feel the emptiness of not having you, so either way is a win-win.
How long did u was with her?
I have a gf too
In a long distance too, we are almost 1,5 year together and there no way that we will brake up, because our love is so strong and so real! Sometimes it is really hard that I can’t meet her for just 1 day, but we don’t give up and in a 2 years time I will back to her and start our live together. Now all we have to do is finish school and do everything possible the get the best result and then start our live together as I said.
I believe in it! <3
Hoes are replacable man . Dont ever think your done because 1 ho decided to move on to another dick.
They are all the same in the end . I would say take this as a lesson how cruel the world can be and move on. Never let the ho see you care or that it hurts cause they feed on that . Act as if you dont care .
Once you have that other girl this one is easily forgotten. Just never show that you miss her or anything, she might come crawling back.
yeah i know
she is now with me
im the true alpha
Eat shit bro...i never had a gf in my life so thank you for reducing my stress level
Welcome to Gf-less world ! All hail 2Ds
Hey bro! Dont lose your mid on this silly things! There are a lot of ppl more that u can meet, dont worry and keep doing nice!!! :D
Hey! I'm a bit like you bro! 1,5 years of relationship and she just start speaking whit "just a friend" and I saw that she wasn't into me anymore. So I just ask her about her feeling toward me and toward him she said that I shouldn't be worried. But I was too sad and too bad and i broke up. It hasn't been a week but now their are always together. And I saw them every day because we live in the same small town. So I you want an advice from a broken man to a broken man try to do a lot of activities like running,boxing and other stuff like that. When I'm doing this thing I don't think to her anymore so I'm a bit happier. Hope you will be happy soon. Don't chase love it's useless
Just was reading through the comments and wanted to say that I also was in a similar situation. Was dating a girl for 3 years, 6 months of which were long distance (4 hour timezone difference). I really thought we were gonna be together forever, but then one day while I was out of the country, she just broke up with me over text like that. I came back a week later and tried to talk to her about it and it turns out she ALREADY had a new boyfriend she met the same day she broke up with me. Obviously I was devastated. I didn't want to eat or sleep or do anything for like a week. Everyone said to me 'wow why aren't you sad' because I didn't show it but it's just because I was so emotionally exhausted at that time. I'm sure you are probably going through something similar right now and I just want to let you know to always remember that time heals everything. Well in terms of relationships I guess lol. You have two options right now: 1) Hate yourself and do nothing but mope around / get drunk or whatever 2) realize that what's done is done, and move on. I know it sounds harsh, but if she made her choice that's it. I read your comments and you sound just like me so I know you can do this. Head to the gym or do exercises at home. Spend your time on a hobby (existing or a new one) or learning something new (programming / languages/ a skill). The point is to get your mind off stuff and use your energy productively instead of self-destructively. I believe you can do this mens)
just forget her keep your head straight on focus on the present and future dont think back and i promise you will find better girls, she wasnt right for you.
Go Tinder and fuck randoms girls
Don't worry, she's most likely fucking one or two of those guys already. You just gotta suck it up and move forward. Crying and bitching won't do any good.
theres alot of fish in the sea bro dw
I'm sorry bro, stay strong and try to move on slowly, there is very few other options.
If i may ask, how old are you
dont worry about that shit
nt fakeflagger i bet she didn't say those words in English. JK, you'll find another girl brother<3
Don't worry, you've got a hand!
wait a bit and you will feel better surely
broke with my gf after 2years some time ago
now i feel good and basicly FREE for everything
best is to get back with them for a night and putt it in her butt.
im feeling a little bit better but still sad for the 0 hltvers out there who cares
well it was your mistake just find another one
i have spent the whole week crying
lol ur at uni my dude. Go outside and talk to girls. Problem solved. Forget about that other skank.
IN RUSSIA YOU BREAK HER UP
You know, you said that nobody here cares. I'll be honest, I feel like a ton of people do care, more people than I thought a thread like this on HLTV can gather. And i'll let you know that I do care too. I experienced something similar to you and others here who have also talked about it.
I was so deeply in love with the ex. We were long distance as well. She too was the only person I could really profess my problems to. I had known her for a while. I met her over CSGO too so I guess that is funny in itself lol. It wasn't a catfish either. She deleted me because I stopped wanting to hang around her when she's with her shitty friends who are shit not only to me, but to her. I missed her and never forgot her. Then around Christmas time almost 2 years ago now, she found me again and we started talking.
I didn't really change much but we grew closer. I tried to kill myself and she called the cops and "saved" me I guess (That whole story is a shit show lmao). But I never realized the signs of it being a bad relationship. She told me to kill myself a few days after coming home from a psychiatric hospital. She would constantly tell me that it's "like we are in a relationship already." I would only ask, why aren't we then? When she dumped me she said that I pressured her into a relationship, but it is actually the opposite. She had so much doubt yet she would say that. She was the one poking at the relationship bubble.
Yes, I did meet her. She lived in a different state. I got plane tickets, stayed for around 4-5 days. She called me a cuck because I didn't really know where to go or what to do and I would always say whatever you want or makes you happy because I wasn't sure of what was neat, what to do and what she personally liked. I just wanted to enjoy my time with her honestly and if she was happy with the activity we were doing then so was I. But I guess that makes you a cuck nowadays lmao.
She kept saying it's over, literally 20+ times over the course of our relationship. She would constantly break my heart and then I would try my hardest to change. I was constantly given ultimatums and I would fulfill them. But the one I had trouble with is that she would ALWAYS ditch me for her friends when she's mad. I mean it got to a point where either you hang with your guy friends or you hang with me. And while that is shitty of me, honestly I felt like I wasn't wanted anymore. To say it's over so many times and show a distinct pattern of going to her friends, crying to them about me and telling them shit that I thought was only between us? Yeah no lmao.
Bear in mind this only happened around a few months ago now I think, maybe less. So it's also a fresh wound for me. I don 't know if i'll feel better. I don't want another relationship to be honest because of this experience. But i'll tell you right now that I believe in you and that the pain will disappear. But the only thing I can recommend is to not try and bond with another man or woman and create that reliance on THAT one person. It seems like you and I have something alike where we did only have that one person. Now without them it's like we are empty. I honestly have suicidal thoughts more frequently now than before, but now it's different due to all the fucking counseling I was forced to go through lmao.
TL;DR: I'm going through a similar thing. It fucking sucks and I can't give you some optimistic outlook but I do know that at the very least we will learn to just live with this shitty feeling. I sometimes have suicidal thoughts. Do not give into them if you have them. And do not look for someone else to replace her. If you try to replace the hole in your heart with someone else, it's just like covering something up with something that will fall apart and make a larger hole. It's ok to be sad and honestly you will be for a while because like me, you fell for this person so hard. I know it's corny and cliche and to be honest I wouldn't believe it if I was told it, but everything will be ok.
sorry this happened to you bro, it sucks but remember that this isn't your fault. Time will help you out but try and get yourself more involved around school and try and make some friends, hope everything works out <3
you are not around. what do you expect. totally normal especially when you both are younger and were not together for at least 1 year before going abroad.
update for the 0 that care:
we are talking a little bit now and she says she feels bad
I Expected mickeybieber thread
use steroids, get rich, like scharzenegger
If the only thing you have is that one person, then your life isn't doing very well. If her love for you is the only thing that keeps your head up, then it's merely a decoy, and she will see it (saw it) in time.
You need to focus on yourself. As cheesy as it sounds, you cannot truly be happy until you're happy with your own life, because every time she doesn't give you the attention you so desperately need, your emotions are going to be a rollercoaster. Forget about everything she said a week ago about how much she loves you - stop trying to make sense of it, because it will never make sense. Once you realize that you have to move on and forget her, you've taken the first step. Make your own life a success instead of trying to make a success of a relationship that didn't have the best odds to begin with.
It all gonna be ok<3 Go talk to someone stranger in class next time u got the courage, and sit next to that person serveral times, and then one day ask if they want to join you on a trip to the city or shopping or something. Thats how u can make new friends, and maybe a rebound for your ex <3
GOOD LUCK DEAR.
ask her to watch MIBR x Luminosity tomorrow
i feel so useless now mens
i am just so fucking alone, not even games or anything brings me joy anymore. hurting myself is the only real way to distract myself
hurts to know she uprooted my life, meanwhile, she is being chased by boys and enjoying life