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Is my female coworker into me?
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Poland 07110711071107110711 
She (24f) tells me (21m) a lot about her personal life considering I am only there since 3 weeks. Also she called me honey while she explained me some of my tasks. I dont know if that says a lot but she also started to wear brighter colors and tighter shirts to the office. Yesterday at lunch (she also goes to the cafetaria with me every day) I asked what she likes to do in her freetime and she said she likes to watch netflix (not sure if that was a sign because I like to do that alone aswell). I know you will all be like 'its so obvious she is into you make a move you fucking beta' but I am careful because I am new and dont want to emberass myself in the first month. Helpful comments appreciated and dont write stupid tips for me I am 150 IQ and can smell virgins trying to bait me
2019-09-20 20:07
#1
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United States Globebuster 
show pic
2019-09-20 20:08
#32
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Brazil Daniel_Boone 
+1
2019-09-20 20:23
#34
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Slovakia Kubman 
+1
2019-09-20 20:23
#54
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Iran yashpashar 
+1
2019-09-20 20:45
+1
2019-09-20 23:04
#115
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Netherlands NELK 
+1
2019-09-21 13:48
deji🤣🤣🤣
2019-09-21 14:03
+1
2019-09-21 14:53
#138
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Netherlands NELK 
You ruined the chain😡🤬🤬
2019-09-21 15:13
#66
s1mple | 
Argentina c0tiCS 
he has an iq more than you ...
2019-09-20 21:04
#79
masq | 
Czech Republic Puget1 
he has an iq more than you ...
2019-09-20 23:03
he has an iq more than you ...
2019-09-21 11:11
he has an iq more than you ...
2019-09-21 13:47
he has more iq than you
2019-09-21 15:00
NO 🙂
2019-09-20 20:08
Who cares? Just play videogames.
2019-09-20 20:08
#6
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Algeria Maxmeister 
du bist gut krank
2019-09-20 20:10
#95
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Japan ToshikoSatoru 
underated comment +1
2019-09-21 11:09
Just keep being close to her and it will happen
2019-09-20 20:09
So you both like to watch netflix? That's something you can build a relationship on, should probably get married already tbh.
2019-09-20 20:09
I can detect sarcasm and I agree that watching netflix isnt a personality trait. 150 IQ kid cant troll me.
2019-09-20 20:10
Many that have very high IQ, are the worst people in real life to understand humans emotions... you can't be that smart with last one, since you are asking on hltv. Good luck tho tiger! xD
2019-09-20 20:15
LMAO +1
2019-09-21 21:55
It was a hint obviously. Ask her to netflix n chill. But u wont since u are a virgin
2019-09-20 20:17
Virginity doesn't matter. Attractiveness, charisma and confidence do.
2019-09-20 20:18
And you dont have charisma/confidence when u are a virgin my friend. Otherwise u wouldve banged her 2weeks ago
2019-09-20 21:15
You can still be a virgin while never being rejected once in your life. A lot of perfectly fine young men are virgins because their standards are too high, they are too shy to approach a women or they have had other priorities.
2019-09-20 21:17
Spoken like a true virgin lmao
2019-09-21 21:41
#25
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Lithuania LevelUpp 
That's a very smart kid holy
2019-09-20 20:19
#8
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Poland FitPolak 
Plot twist: She's a trap
2019-09-20 20:11
flag and name checks out 😎👍🏻
2019-09-20 20:12
what's ur job?
2019-09-20 20:12
6 month long paid internship in special ground engineering but she isnt an engineer she just shows me a lot of things during the first month
2019-09-20 20:14
well, there are 2 possibilities, she considers u are dear friend even tho only 4 weeks have passed (i've seen it happen multiple times) or she truly likes u, i would try teasing her or even invite her to a movie or dinner, that would definitely give u an answer
2019-09-20 20:18
Take it slow but not too slow, not the point u rush it but not to the point she loses interest. Ask her out for coffee or smth after work, something simple to start. Gl with it
2019-09-20 20:14
#57
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United States h4gg4rd 
S1mple
2019-09-20 20:49
purpel
2019-09-21 12:15
No
2019-09-20 20:15
#14
loli | 
United States credit 
pics or fake
2019-09-20 20:15
Keep it professional at the workplace, let her keep getting wet over you until you get a new job/transfer/whatever and then fuck like bunnies for a few months. Then again, she might get tired of this fantasy and move on to another one if you don't do anything...
2019-09-20 20:15
xaxaxa
2019-09-20 20:17
#61
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United States vikingswine 
Terrible answer
2019-09-20 20:57
nt virgin
2019-09-20 20:15
is this some kinda bad bait or are you really that stupid to look for serious advice on hltv either way who cares
2019-09-20 20:18
i dont see any real signs she likes you, if she calls you honey it more likely means she views you as a child
2019-09-20 20:18
#52
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Turkey yasiN_ 
That's what I thought, I don't see anything which could lead to her beeing into him, what an idiotic thread.
2019-09-20 20:44
#24
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United States GiantDays 
Could be. Never hurts to try, and as long as you're not a fucking predator about it if you misread it won't affect your job much. Ask her for coffee sometime on the weekend mane.
2019-09-20 20:18
#26
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Germany Landwirt 
just ask her on your last day 😎
2019-09-20 20:20
I will finish my internship at the end of february. Then I will write my thesis for half a year and hopefully start there full time or atleast junior construction manager in october.
2019-09-20 20:22
#37
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Germany Landwirt 
how regularly will you see her when you're employed tho?
2019-09-20 20:24
not as often. I am only at the headquarters for the first 2 months and go on Baustelle in november.
2019-09-20 20:25
#42
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Germany Landwirt 
then ask her out before November
2019-09-20 20:25
I will pay attention if I notice more behaviour like that before I will either do or not do this.
2019-09-20 20:27
#46
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Germany Landwirt 
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take
2019-09-20 20:27
it isnt that easy.
2019-09-20 20:34
It is that easy, your mind just makes it harder for yourself. When in reality its like 10 words, pretty easy to say 10 words.
2019-09-21 14:53
#84
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Poland Ryunar 
you are thinking you are a psychologist when in reality you are cucking yourself by thinking about a female this much
2019-09-21 00:20
#27
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Poland Ryunar 
figment of your imagination
2019-09-20 20:21
haha +1
2019-09-20 23:07
Are you really that big of a virgin that you think ur coworker is into u, just because she talks to you? LMAO wtf
2019-09-20 20:22
apparently I am. I just haven't noticed any other male coworkers getting that kind of positive attention from her.
2019-09-20 20:23
#62
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United States vikingswine 
Maybe because she is there to help you, not other males.
2019-09-20 20:58
#63
Olivia | 
Austria SplasJ 
or she just feels bad if she ignores him as he is new + nobody else talks to him there
2019-09-20 21:01
#65
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United States vikingswine 
a good. He should be mean to her and see if she hangs around.
2019-09-20 21:03
I treat her the way she treats me and won't disrespect her for a childish experiment.
2019-09-20 21:07
#76
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United States vikingswine 
Fren, wamen are not looking for a nice boy.
2019-09-20 21:21
why would she feel bad for me? I have no problem with eating alone
2019-09-20 21:04
#78
Olivia | 
Austria SplasJ 
some people think that way though. Just cause you dont have a problem with it doesnt mean that she cant think that you do or that she just wants to be nice as u are new
2019-09-20 23:02
#30
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Netherlands poeya 
another high quility KevinDurant fantasy novel ty
2019-09-20 20:23
hltv.org/forums/threads/2143335/people-c.. your threads are retarted. stop talking to me you retard.
2019-09-20 20:23
#36
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Netherlands poeya 
I gave you compliment wtf its a good novel
2019-09-20 20:24
retard.
2019-09-20 20:24
#39
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Netherlands poeya 
XDDD go netflix and chill with her ''smart'' guy
2019-09-20 20:24
ok thank you.
2019-09-20 20:25
#35
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Qatar olaolakaka 
No she just want to play the big sis role on you
2019-09-20 20:24
why?
2019-09-21 11:05
#111
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Qatar olaolakaka 
some woman have such fetish
2019-09-21 13:46
#43
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Finland Here1sJohnny 
Just ask her to do something with you which is neutral. So that it's cool whether she is into you or not. Like maybe ask if there are any movies she would like to see, which you could happen to wan't to see too *wink wink* and ask if she wants to go see it together. Or just drinks after work, or maybe dinner. But to be honest she just sounds friendly, but that doesn't mean it couldn't grow in to deeper feelings. TLDR: But just ask her to do something you both enjoy doing, and something you could also do with a friend.
2019-09-20 20:26
youtube.com/watch?v=xa-4IAR_9Yw here you have your answer
2019-09-20 20:27
didn't help. still cant tell if she is into me
2019-09-20 20:31
'didnt help' u got baited so hard
2019-09-20 21:02
I enjoyed the whole video. Nice
2019-09-21 14:05
the more u wait the hotter it will be
2019-09-20 20:29
Maybe he will become a volcano one day
2019-09-21 14:05
No
2019-09-20 20:39
#51
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Netherlands PasscaLl 
no but your male coleage is
2019-09-20 20:41
#53
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Latvia Zigis 
Just be friendly and things will evolve naturally. Worst case scenario - she'll stay a good colleague. Best case - sexy time while watching suits on netflix.
2019-09-20 20:46
that show is so bad
2019-09-20 20:56
You have an IQ of 150 and you are asking hltv users for the advice? Wait what?
2019-09-20 20:50
#56
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Slovenia Josip09 
Ok here is my advice.. I was in the similar situation my advice would be do the move right away while things are still fresh. Just fuck it and ask her out on a date.. something easygoing like coffee, movies or some shit. This way you will know if she is into you and if she is not you can just be friends or if things go well she is going to be your gf. Worst thing to do imo is to wait because if you won't do something someone alse will.
2019-09-20 20:48
OMEGALUL
2019-09-20 20:52
#60
kNgV- | 
Brazil fuKencio 
does she smile a lot? feel the vibe, u an engineer, then u know u cant bring science into this cant help u more than this
2019-09-20 20:56
#68
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Other TapioKuusela 
Its a bit naive to think whether u should make a move or not. Often women just want to get some attention to boost their confidence, if she wants something more she'll let u know. Relax, be yourself, take the chance if it shows up with this girl :)
2019-09-20 21:07
do you even know if she is single ? if you are really carefull you havent really talked about private stuff i guess. at my work you have diffrent people.. somebody dont notice other people and others want new employers to feel welcome. maybe she is just including.. sucks when you come to new work and you only meet people that have their own personal jokes etc.
2019-09-20 21:12
yes she is single
2019-09-20 21:14
you ll be her new gayfriend.
2019-09-20 21:12
Work place relationships can get complicated really quick, so be careful. That you are eating lunch together and all means she doesn't dislike you, but it may be she is just friendly. Maybe just keep having conversations, tell her you appreciate her making you feel welcome at your new job and maybe talk more on what you like to do outside work (best make it not just Netflix, but also something a little more social/fun). Ie. take it slow. Then maybe at some time ask her if she would like to go watch a movie you would both like or something.
2019-09-20 21:15
#77
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Europe braxtey 
just have sex with her!
2019-09-20 21:40
#80
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Dominican Republic SantoDomingo 
I doubt it, but why don't you ask her out first and figure it out yourself?
2019-09-20 23:03
since you lie about IQ I wonder what else is just your fantasy
2019-09-20 23:11
#85
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Other mikeydelon 
yes she is most likely interested. girls usually dont make friends with guys out of nowhere. the guy usually tries to fuck the girl and then gets friendzoned
2019-09-21 00:29
what can I do to not get friendzoned?
2019-09-21 10:57
Same thing that we do to be rich. Buying skins, bitcoins and watching anime.
2019-09-21 11:00
#139
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Lithuania arres 
I think the best way to find out if you have any chance with her is to suggest going to concert about a week from the date. The less romantic it is - the better, you can't be obvious. The more neutral the band is the better. It cannot be the band she loves and you hate. It would be the best if you love the band and she at least kind of likes it and you go to the concert anyway with or without her. Don't even try thinking about drinks on Friday together, inviting her to dinner or the worst - to your place to watch netflix. If she says a firm no or some bs like "I don't know if I'll be free that day", then you're screwed and there is probably nothing you can do about it. If she tags along, during the concert don't let it be obvious that you are interested in her, enjoy the show like you would enjoy it with any other person, don't let her think that you are enjoying just because she came along and just scout for signs. Don't do any cliche bullshit "wow you look very nice" or grabing her hand to wave together to the song.
2019-09-21 15:29
#87
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Brazil fuNNa 
its so obvious she is into you make a move you fucking beta
2019-09-21 10:59
expected from 99 damage fuNNa
2019-09-21 11:00
#103
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Brazil fuNNa 
NT Kevin
2019-09-21 11:25
#132
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Canada ProvexPyker 
>obvious >normal interactions Niiiiice one bud
2019-09-21 14:46
Hello Arbeiter. Yup shes into you.
2019-09-21 11:00
Hello Doktor16513765. What should I do about this?
2019-09-21 11:01
Start flirting with her. They like it.
2019-09-21 11:09
how can I flirt?
2019-09-21 11:11
#90
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Other zeroflo 
you should go netflix and chill her
2019-09-21 11:00
#97
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Japan ToshikoSatoru 
Ur a dunce, If she gives you hints, give her hints, just because she gives hints you have to still be "careful" what are you planning to do? say OMG I LOVE YOU BE WITH ME? No you fuking dunce, give some hints back, like say "oi wanna eat with me today" or some shit, she initiated something so should u, can't ask a girl to keep risking herself you beta.
2019-09-21 11:11
I eat with her every day anyways
2019-09-21 11:14
You're not getting the point, you're hopeless.
2019-09-21 11:14
A large majority of registered users that frequently uses the hltv's forum platform has real life problems that they engrossed themselves with, they're nothing but nuisances. I will never in my life befriend one or even sustain a relationship with them because all they do is attract bullshit to themselves and the people they're associated with. You're one of them, why you wondering? because you're asking for "relationship" advice on HLTV, simple as that, you don't even need another valid reason. Good luck. Hopefully you will be less idiotic when you become older.
2019-09-21 11:23
Women at work: The most important thing is trust,their worst nightmare is people figuring out,so,dont make moves,imo at all. If she sees your a kid ( you are 21,so you are to an extent) she wont give u a chance. Best thing you can do is propose a netflix night,without anyone knowing,dont tell it and propose it in silence. Usually in life older women come to you,she is not that older but still.. Pro tips edit : Women at this age seek for acceptance,act cool,dont show excitment cause if she see that you like her she get what she wants,untill you go to bed,and even after,dont be all excited etc ,and trust is the key,that she can get laid with you and noone will ever know
2019-09-21 11:29
#104
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Lithuania arres 
That's a tough one. Office relationships are fucking weird men... From what you described, I myself would stay the fuck away from this one because probably nothing good could come from it with the exception of couple of orgasms. You're a virgin, no? I noticed you didn't denied it here. Try to find out how she acts with other people. If she is very cheerful and pleasant with everyone, then it might be that she is just that kind of person. Especially if she has to show you around a lot of things and you both stuck together for some time. A LOT OF females are like that in the offices. Guys usually gives less of a fuck to be overly pleasant. So if that is your first experience being in office, tread real careful because you might don't know how things flows there and you might misinterpret some things. However, if you see obvious differences in a way she talks with other people, then she might like you. The key word - MIGHT. Another good sign is if she shares something with you personal or something that if were to come out, she would be in trouble or really embarased. That's probably the biggest sign of trust in the offices. However it still doesn't 100% mean that this person wants to fuck you lol. The fact that you are 3 years younger is a very bad sign because people don't tend to do relationships in the office that would make them look bad/weird. And 3 years difference in other people's eyes when the girl is older is weird and don't even try to brainwash yourself that it's not weird for at least some people. And if people do relationships like that, then you should be super worried if everything is right in that person's head. P.S. I'm in a office for 7 years now and couple of months ago started dating with a girl from different department lol
2019-09-21 11:53
Well said.check 102
2019-09-21 12:21
#105
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Finland D_Scimmy 
Just grab her by the pussy
2019-09-21 12:13
#108
Szohn | 
Nepal Nepali 
I grab your boypussy.
2019-09-21 12:17
#107
Szohn | 
Nepal Nepali 
Yes
2019-09-21 12:17
#110
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Malta 9fiesta 
shes 3y older than u lmao u can find younger pussy
2019-09-21 12:29
24>18 when it comes to many many things
2019-09-21 14:09
#124
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Malta 9fiesta 
18 will be 24 too so younger>older
2019-09-21 14:17
You clearly are clueless aka teenager
2019-09-21 15:55
#141
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Malta 9fiesta 
yes im clueless teenager but im just saying that 24y would be fine for me if i was 24-28 myself just a preference
2019-09-21 15:58
fucking hilarious
2019-09-21 13:47
#114
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Brazil JMB_17 
Ask her if she watches csgo 😎 if not you never talk to her again
2019-09-21 13:48
#119
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Netherlands melajr112 
I am 150 IQ and can smell virgins trying to bait me had me rolling
2019-09-21 14:05
#120
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Kazakhstan tomik0 
dat bitch want ur d
2019-09-21 14:07
If u are there only 3 weeks, u dont need to worry alot. Just do it.
2019-09-21 14:08
150 iq cant sex ez beach? i think iq in poland has different values than the rest of the globe ^^
2019-09-21 14:11
Imagine being 150iq and still have to ask hltv
2019-09-21 14:18
#126
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Canada ProvexPyker 
Sorry to say but my answers no. Older women tend to talk like that with younger folks, saying honey is a clear sign of how she views you as a kid. Not to mention the day to day routine and the personal life talk, it's just normal for them. If anything, you could consider yourselves good friends with how personal your convos get
2019-09-21 14:26
#127
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Other mikeydelon 
u cant just say no or yes lmao. just because some woman dont like younger guys doesnt mean they all dont. in fact a girl that sat next to me in school (i approached her cuz i wanted to fuck her) had a boyfriend that was 3 years younger than him lmao i also had a coworker who always said i was cute etc. she was my age. doesnt mean she thought of me as a kid
2019-09-21 14:28
#128
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Canada ProvexPyker 
Why can't I say no? I didn't say all older women don't like younger guys? Besides 21 and 24 isn't even that big of a difference
2019-09-21 14:31
#129
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Other mikeydelon 
Sorry to say but my answers no.
2019-09-21 14:31
#130
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Canada ProvexPyker 
Niiiiice one bud
2019-09-21 14:34
Dont you hesitate to ask her out. Example: 2 days ago in uni I met this cute af smol chick. 2min convo blabala, forgot her name, didnt ask her for number/fb cause i was in a hurry. Cant find her cause shes in another group and the uni is flooded with ppl and im regretting that everyminute cause she indeed was cute. Fml
2019-09-21 14:48
You missed it bruh, when she said she liked netflix you shouldve invited her to some good ol netflix and chill
2019-09-21 14:51
she is older than you. wtf do you like grannies?
2019-09-21 21:44
#144
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United Kingdom Megamo10 
Just ask if she wants to fuk and if not, apologise and tell her you got the wrong signals. If yes, you just did the biggest alpha move, she will call you daddy and sign an FWB contract with you.
2019-09-21 21:45
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