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Poland Aydenowskyy 
So, I had a girlfriend, we were together for about 3 years, and then I cheated on her because I was on my friend birthday party and I were completely drunk. She knew about eveyrthing, we talked peacefully with each other and broke up. At the start I didn't care about this break up but with time when I start thinking of her I still think I feel something towards her, but now she has a boyfriend which he lives with in city 100km away from me because she went to university now. Today we had a little chat on instagram, casual talk like "what's up" etc but she doesn't even write with emotions anymore, her responses are like "whatever" or something like this. What should I do?
2019-10-02 13:38
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2019-10-02 13:39
#2
Sosa | 
Europe wtfmen)) 
)))0)))0
2019-10-02 13:40
wtfmen))
2019-10-02 13:40
#4
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Sweden tesn606 
Go on with life
2019-10-02 13:41
+1
2019-10-02 14:32
+1 ur name
2019-10-02 15:04
<3
2019-10-02 15:36
"I were completely drunk" Is such a lame excuse for cheating
2019-10-02 13:41
you know how drunk brain behave, do u ?
2019-10-02 13:42
#21
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North America B0bbutttoast 
If you can't stay loyal drunk then don't get drunk. Sounds like she deserves a guy whose not a complete buffoon.
2019-10-02 13:45
+1
2019-10-02 13:47
+1 Like come on that's not a fucking excuse
2019-10-02 14:04
#94
f0rest | 
Greece Graecos 
+1
2019-10-02 14:15
#110
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Finland wrathh 
+3
2019-10-02 14:27
+1
2019-10-02 14:34
#119
ppk | 
Brazil 4vengerr 
+1
2019-10-02 14:36
+1
2019-10-02 14:56
#127
Sweden PPH 
+1
2019-10-02 15:01
#143
reVicer | 
Finland uGGo 
+1
2019-10-07 14:07
+1
2019-10-08 00:05
+1
2019-10-08 00:17
#154
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Brazil Eneas56 
+1
2019-10-08 00:20
#23
NEO | 
Poland Striker112 
So why would she trust you again if you can get drunk at any time, cheat on her again and use this as an excuse? "wololo its not my fault i was drunk". u are just not worth the effort
2019-10-02 13:46
best friend birthday is once per year, I don't even drink beer otherwise
2019-10-02 13:46
Cheating once per year seems fair
2019-10-02 13:47
I wouldn't even do it again, I didn't even kiss the girl I cheated on or smth
2019-10-02 13:47
"you know how drunk brain behave, do u ?" -Aydenowskyy
2019-10-02 13:48
#72
NEO | 
Poland Striker112 
lmao rekt
2019-10-02 14:00
#100
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Singapore Foshh 
Lmfao
2019-10-02 14:17
ahahah
2019-10-02 14:30
how you cheated and not kissed? kkkkkkk
2019-10-07 14:06
#36
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North America B0bbutttoast 
You don't have to get drunk to social drink. Stop making excuses. Maybe if you fessed up to your mistake and admitted its your fault she might forgive you.
2019-10-02 13:49
living with her boyfriend since like a month already and u think so? I already admitted is's my fault, but she didn't even react to this
2019-10-02 13:49
#77
koosta | 
United States yghj 
yea and i can still use my goddamn brain. you completely deserve this and shes better of without you. dont drink if you cant handle it you goddamn clown
2019-10-02 14:03
you are a moron
2019-10-02 14:18
being drunk doesnt change person, it just reveals who you really are without boundaries, so deep inside you there is still a cheater and she doesnt deserve that.
2019-10-07 13:11
What a pussy Then don’t drink if u can’t control yourself soiboi
2019-10-08 00:05
#10
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Brazil dan1zika 
+1
2019-10-02 13:42
he found some BBC i guess, ur pencil is easily forgettable
2019-10-02 13:42
name xD
2019-10-02 13:42
>he
2019-10-02 14:57
#9
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Brazil RmM_oo 
Forget
2019-10-02 13:42
can't, when I do my stuff during the day like work or something then a random thought goes through my brain about her and I can't stop thinking about it
2019-10-02 13:42
#12
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Brazil RmM_oo 
Kinda late now don't you think? Best thing to forget a pussy is another one.
2019-10-02 13:43
but that's the thing - I don't really want other one, It's not about her pussy, it's about her character and that she took care of me whatever it was
2019-10-02 13:44
You fucked up. Actions have consequences, learn and move on.
2019-10-02 13:51
I know, sadly
2019-10-02 13:52
#48
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Switzerland thndrstrke 
then why did you cheat on her haha
2019-10-02 13:52
I was completely drunk that I could barely stand by myself
2019-10-02 13:52
#13
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Slovakia itsab8 
Forget about her
2019-10-02 13:43
#11
2019-10-02 13:44
#40
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Slovakia itsab8 
You realized it too late, even if you got back together it wont be the same. You think that she is the one but there are plenty like her out there, probably even close to you, even better ones. Women are not unique in any way, you can always find a better woman for you. If it makes you feel better try to become friends with her or forget about her completely.
2019-10-02 13:49
being friends with her would completely make me get into depression or something because I would suffer that I can't be with her
2019-10-02 13:51
#68
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Slovakia itsab8 
In that case just forget and accept that you will never be with her again, as sad that may sound, it's the truth. It may not seem like it now but if you slowly let her go you will feel much better in a few days/weeks.
2019-10-02 14:00
right now it's about 4 months and I still feel bad
2019-10-02 14:00
#76
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Slovakia itsab8 
Because she is still inside your mind and you are refusing to let her go, I too find it sad but it's the best long-term option.
2019-10-02 14:02
#134
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Hungary Shaperz 
+1
2019-10-07 12:29
PIC pls or LIAR
2019-10-02 13:43
#17
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Latvia Zau 
whatever means don't bother
2019-10-02 13:44
#11
2019-10-02 13:47
#18
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Brazil dan1zika 
if she had cheated on you and had the same shit talk "I was drunk bla bla" would you accept?
2019-10-02 13:44
ye
2019-10-02 13:45
#30
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Brazil dan1zika 
so the problem is you, not her
2019-10-02 13:47
I know, the cheating was the problem, I'm completely sure with that
2019-10-02 13:48
#60
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Brazil dan1zika 
There's 2 problems 1- you cheated on her 2- you belive that "I were completely drunk" is a fair excuse if you had admited your fault like a man and not blamed the alcohol MAYBE she would think that you really regreated what you did but even so you fucked the things up
2019-10-02 13:57
I didn't blame the alcohol while talking to her
2019-10-02 13:57
#93
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Brazil dan1zika 
So if it still affects you stop talking to her, don't see her photos and forget her, as the other guy said, get another girl, meet new people and move on because your ex-gf is done with you
2019-10-02 14:13
#19
Valencio | 
Czech Republic stinx 
Ahhahahah That's what you deserve
2019-10-02 13:44
Reply needs to have actual content
2019-10-02 13:46
You're a scum anyways so nobody cares. /close
2019-10-02 13:45
/open
2019-10-02 13:46
It's your fault. Hope she is happy with non idiotic bf and you will be alone.
2019-10-02 13:56
#32
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Finland Teukkasd 
oh yeah i kinda have same situation atm, we were together only like 1.5 years tho, we broke up like 3-4 months ago, i have fucked 3 girls after the break up but still almost daily think about her, i want to forget her but dont know how, maybe time will tell brother
2019-10-02 13:54
Him?
2019-10-02 13:52
#55
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Finland Teukkasd 
edited, sry bad english bro
2019-10-02 13:54
Nt. It's ok to be gay
2019-10-02 13:56
#86
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Finland Teukkasd 
sounds pretty funny when weeb says that lmao
2019-10-02 14:10
Nt gay
2019-10-02 14:12
#90
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Finland Teukkasd 
go watch anime LULW
2019-10-02 14:12
Imagine using twitch emote in hltv. Next lvl autism. Have a good day
2019-10-02 14:19
#107
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Finland Teukkasd 
imagine watching anime XD
2019-10-02 14:21
#155
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Brazil Eneas56 
Kkkkkkkk
2019-10-08 00:22
#35
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Belgium SNeKstLevel 
Go fuck yourself for cheating on her tbh.
2019-10-02 13:49
#37
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Sweden KHARDAR 
relatable, but what you can do is just go on and learn from mistakes and become a better person. Realistically, most people have plenty of relationships and they only get better so just do whatever you want until you find someone else.
2019-10-02 13:49
that's a good advice tho, ty
2019-10-02 13:52
#89
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Sweden KHARDAR 
<3
2019-10-02 14:12
#38
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Philippines !kbn 
7 Billion people on this planet bro. "just" go out and meet other peopley you'll find someone else eventually. maybe not as good but maybe even better. and stop cheating bro. noone likes cheaters
2019-10-02 13:49
6k people living in my town, hard to find someone here, 80% are elder people and rest are kids 5-12 yrs old so
2019-10-02 13:51
#61
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Philippines !kbn 
Trust the process. idk how old you are but i can imagine around 20yrs. you have plenty of time to find someone to live the rest of your life with.
2019-10-02 13:57
idk how u guessed that im 20 but gj :D
2019-10-02 13:58
#41
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Bosnia and Herzegovina VeryColdGuy 
I know u will write "#11" but, for real, forget her...
2019-10-02 13:50
can't, it's literally too hard, I get flashbacks every day
2019-10-02 13:52
#75
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Bosnia and Herzegovina VeryColdGuy 
it's hard, not impossible
2019-10-02 14:01
suicide
2019-10-02 13:54
thought about it, that's not an option
2019-10-02 13:54
+1
2019-10-02 13:54
sex her hard when u get the chance again
2019-10-02 13:54
If I would write one sex message towards her I would get immidiately blocked kek
2019-10-02 14:00
is there any chance u would meet her in person? live? in a room? xDD
2019-10-02 14:01
u broke up dont be a pussy and move on
2019-10-02 13:55
that's hard
2019-10-02 13:58
the longer u think about her or try the longer it will "be hard" go get drunk again and sleep with other girls like you did in the past
2019-10-02 14:03
#59
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Netherlands NELK 
Asking for GF help on hltv omegalul 0/8
2019-10-02 13:56
#64
INS | 
Australia CLEGGY 
>uses hltv >was able to get a girlfriend choose one
2019-10-02 13:58
i do both
2019-10-02 13:59
#70
INS | 
Australia CLEGGY 
and also some serious advice. dont care about no old hoes you deserve better bro. If u broke up with her something about her wasn't right
2019-10-02 14:00
Except for the fact that he's the idiot for cheating, so she's better off without him.
2019-10-02 14:12
+1
2019-10-07 23:53
had kinda same situation, its passed 10 years still thinking about that women, yeah men are stupid.
2019-10-02 14:00
I smell irony or smth
2019-10-02 14:01
#80
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Turkey Rjea 
Move on bro, its pretty late to win her back :(
2019-10-02 14:05
Sit down and cry
2019-10-02 14:05
Delete her everywhere. Don't talk to her ever again. Meet new women. You know what to do, stop asking for obvious answers. By the way, women like sharing an alpha more than having a beta for themselves. Work on yourself.
2019-10-02 14:06
+1
2019-10-02 14:16
that's not true women are the same way brainwashed and social conditioned as men, that cheating is "bad" that sex = love, which is bullshit therefore if you had sex with someone elase you don't love her, you love someone other women, that you can truly love just one person women also have an ego actually they are more willing to create safe relationship with beta, and cheat with alpha on the side
2019-10-02 14:28
That happens once they hit the wall with 28+ and they have to settle with a beta provider for life. There is no "one".
2019-10-02 14:31
yeah and before that she had a rollercoster of cool guys so
2019-10-02 14:33
#83
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Myanmar Guzhas 
there’s more fish in the sea, it’s hard to replace one that you love, but it’s possible. you’ll get over her, dw
2019-10-02 14:07
you should just realize that you acted like a jerk on that party and think about this situation from a different perspective, what would you do in this case if you were her ? would you give someone a second chance if they cheated on you? would you forgive that person ?
2019-10-02 14:07
#85
lynxi | 
Sweden lyNxiiii 
haha move on you fucking incel, you're just jealous she has someone and you don't
2019-10-02 14:08
#91
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Pakistan Ligm@ 
Deserved. People who cheat are scumbags. There's no excuse,drunk or not.
2019-10-02 14:12
#92
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Germany FanOfSaitama 
are you retarded???
2019-10-02 14:12
#95
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Poland Hanse 
send her pics so we can have better image of your problem
2019-10-02 14:15
+1
2019-10-02 14:21
Get over it and move on.
2019-10-02 14:15
Dude the cheating thing was not the main problem more like a catalyst. If you cheat on your GF (like drunk one night stand) it does not change that much in realtionship. I have a GF for 5 years now, I had once affair with one girl and that sucked...having intimate night with someone who you basicly dont care about is pointless (thats what i learned from that). I told my GF what happened, she was little bit mad few days but we overcome that since we both know that sticking your peepee to another women vagina once cannot break a healthy realtionship. You are not used to be monogamy person, you are force to do it, since parents and TV and centuries of Christianty forced some "rules" to all people how they should behave. You should not feel bad just because you have human instictcs, you will fuck another woman in life anyway later in life. You just want to find out the right one, that will not care about those "missteps" once in a while and she is very good frined and you can trust her. Plenty fish in the sea my friend :)
2019-10-02 14:16
#116
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Pakistan Ligm@ 
Yikes. Would you be okay if your girlfriend cheated on you?
2019-10-02 14:33
#129
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Portugal NabasKi 
i probably wouldn't as i can be pretty jealous sometimes, but almost everyone deserves a second chance
2019-10-02 15:03
I wont mind if that will happen, ofcourse I will not tell her Gj you did great, but Im sure I will overcome that. Im not jealous type of person, jelaousy is killer of any relationship. Another thing is if she keep doing that constantly and with the same person, that would no be okay.
2019-10-02 15:45
Just go ahead, you was the dumbass, you deserved it.
2019-10-02 14:17
First you are a cheater.. you dont deserve a girlfriend because you are not a man. 2... to have an ex you need to have had that gf.. 3.. Its good for her she moved on if it where true. so even though you are selfish be happy that you now know she is not with a selfish idiot..
2019-10-02 14:17
#102
Zeus | 
Ukraine Najara 
sex her boyfriend
2019-10-02 14:17
ask some of her friend you know too is she happy with that guy, if the answer is more to yes then probably leave her alone
2019-10-02 14:18
#108
tiziaN | 
Germany FREIER 
You deserve this.
2019-10-02 14:24
if she was your new girlfriend, living with you, do u want some schmuk that cheated on her thats her ex to text her on Instagram? get back, this guy might just be the wrong one to fk with
2019-10-02 14:32
#118
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Belgium KevinYoGates 
EG ONE TIME FLUKE LUL
2019-10-02 14:35
#120
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France Fran6k1D 
How can you be with s1 for 3 years and not care about her leaving u... wtf men
2019-10-02 14:48
#121
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Namibia nawledge 
" she doesn't even write with emotions anymore, her responses are like "whatever" " maybe because u cheated on her?
2019-10-02 14:50
#122
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Russia cuba_libre10 
stop being a lame beta and move on
2019-10-02 14:53
deserved cheater
2019-10-02 14:57
being drunk is never and excuse you can validly use,. its like blaming it on the rain and so on. was it sex or just a kiss?
2019-10-02 15:00
kissing isnt cheating imo (assuming its not emotional cheating)
2019-10-02 15:02
how
2019-10-07 12:24
kissing is cheating, are you okay?
2019-10-07 12:29
it aint
2019-10-07 23:44
#151
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Bulgaria Cloudyx 
It's not cheating but its not pleasant
2019-10-08 00:15
It's very clearly cheating
2019-10-08 15:47
What if i french kiss her inside her asshole? Just a kiss, no big deal? xD
2019-10-07 13:56
Move on... you wouldn't have cheated if she was the one... you're just lonely
2019-10-07 13:09
#138
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Germany Xantennn 
Fuck her new bf. That will show her!
2019-10-07 13:53
Find a new gf, maybe call the one you was having fun with at the party? xD
2019-10-07 13:55
Shit happens
2019-10-07 13:58
Sex ur grandmother
2019-10-07 23:47
Find someone else and move on, learn from your mistakes.
2019-10-08 00:07
#150
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Bulgaria Cloudyx 
Leave her, she won't watch you with the same eyes as before, don't ruin her life more Learn a lesson, cheating is for noobs and do not repeat it And yea i know how "drunk brain" works and believe me if you are loyal alcohol won't make you cheat on her, also if you are drunk enough to forget your loyalty you are also drunk enough to lay down to the toilet and "sex" will be the last thing you will do in this condition
2019-10-08 00:13
You screwed up. You have to live it and make sure you don't do it to the next girl you get with. Mistakes are only mistakes if you learn from them, otherwise it's behaviour.
2019-10-08 00:18
#157
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Brazil Eneas56 
+1 well said
2019-10-08 00:26
#156
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Brazil Eneas56 
There are things in life you ain't got two chances, unfortunately you messed up and I can't see you reversing this situation, I've had this kind of feelings before (multiple times) and I know just like you feel, eventually it will get better.
2019-10-08 00:25
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