I appreciate this and I somewhat agree.
The thing is, my mom has done so much shit for me and I couldnt leave her hanging in there alone.
I make some money which is enough and if I ever had financial problems, I know she can help me out without a word.
My grandma is already 92 and she wont live for that long anymore. She recently started trip and fall a few times, which is usually a sign that the body shuts down more and more, not only the brain.
My other grandma had alzheimer, so I have some experience with this before and my mom works as a physical therapist, so she is very familiar with this situation aswell.
But I agree, if I see that it fucks up my life and I cant take it, I have to move out.
Thanks for your advice!