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Friends with benefits
Kjaerbye | 
Canada Ibetcsgo 
So I have this one girl that I been friends with for 7 years and we became friends with benefits 2 years ago, but now I really like her as in I want a serious relationship. but I feel like if I tell her this she will drop me as a friend, what to do ?
2019-10-23 10:11
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virgin
2019-10-23 10:11
#2
It's my | 
Germany Schauma 
can confirm, im his friend
2019-10-23 10:12
im the brother of his friend and i can confirm
2019-10-23 10:15
#57
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United Kingdom compl3xii 
can confirm, im his uncles wifes cousins daughters guinea pigs food suppliers sex slaves inbred mother, he's a virgin
2019-10-23 10:48
Can confirm, im his dick
2019-10-24 04:17
lmao just cause ur a virgin doesnt mean everyone is fucking loser
2019-10-23 10:13
ofc dude he just troll
2019-10-23 10:16
triggered NA virgin hahaah
2019-10-23 10:19
#34
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France Kimir0iq 
I cry cause you call me virgin now ) :
2019-10-23 10:25
not u lol
2019-10-23 10:27
#41
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France Kimir0iq 
but I am and I feel attacked
2019-10-23 10:27
why
2019-10-23 10:37
#48
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France Kimir0iq 
cause you talk about being virgin negatively, and as a good man I am only taking my time and not falling into retarded girls with barely good looking. So I feel like you bully me now
2019-10-23 10:39
how im I talking about it negatively? lmao
2019-10-23 10:47
I called the guy a loser for trolling not all virgins losers lmao
2019-10-23 10:47
#56
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France Kimir0iq 
ok I understand Thank you
2019-10-23 10:48
#114
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United States ferric 
In the past, being virgin was a good thing... it's crazy how things change over time...
2019-10-24 04:06
#126
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France Kimir0iq 
xd maybe, I think sex will be good. But I want to find someone that I enjoy laughing with, having time with and sex will be the icing on the cake. I'm not really hurried and I have luck not being ugly or whatever, without being arrogant I have attention without acting so I'm fine :p
2019-10-24 07:36
Can confirm, I'm the girl he fucks
2019-10-23 11:41
> having a fwb > virgin pick one
2019-10-23 13:44
#3
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United States DiabIo 
that problem is as old as time
2019-10-23 10:12
At max she will drop you as a "friend with benefits"
2019-10-23 10:13
Wtfmens? Forget about relationships and just sex her mens))) 😎👍
2019-10-23 10:14
#98
HUNDEN | 
United States DervGuy 
+1 fuck relations just sex her mens)))))
2019-10-23 13:20
#7
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Germany dosenwichtel 
happens all the time, thats why frenz with benefits never works over time. "but now I really like her as in I want a serious relationship" tell her this and its over. safecall
2019-10-23 10:14
ughhhhhh idk mens
2019-10-23 10:16
#16
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Germany dosenwichtel 
ik mens
2019-10-23 10:17
Man if you have been having sex for two years and she hasn´t fallen for you yet, I am afraid that he is right.
2019-10-23 10:46
yea or maybe she has and feels same way who knows
2019-10-23 10:49
#72
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Sweden Nokkeri 
If a girl would have fallen for you in those two years while having sex often, you would have noticed, trust me bro.
2019-10-23 11:29
Source: Trust me bro
2019-10-23 11:42
I trust
2019-10-23 12:05
Girls are much more emotional and have much harder time to suppress feelings therefore if there was anything deeper from her, she'd tell you by this time. If you didn't notice any hints like asking to stay over longer, cuddle her, longer eye contact, spending more time etc. then it's most likely one sided from you. But if you value deep relationship, it's worth to risk it, better to live the truth than a lie with no perspective.
2019-10-23 11:46
Hmm ok
2019-10-23 12:07
Man, no way she would've keep having sex with you for 2 long years without feeling something for you.. trust me! Being a man myself i can.. we Mens dont really care too much about ''feelings'' but Women do.
2019-10-23 13:54
True
2019-10-24 03:52
You can win only if you are ready to lose. So is the way of the Samurai. Said otherwise, get prepared to lose her as friend if you want any improvement.
2019-10-23 10:14
Nice mr bigbaguette
2019-10-23 10:21
lol +1
2019-10-23 10:25
Does he have to commit Sudoku if he loses?
2019-10-23 11:42
no
2019-10-23 13:41
But so is the way of the samurai
2019-10-23 13:43
no
2019-10-23 13:45
thx mens, now I'm gonna live by the blade as a samuray)))
2019-10-23 13:45
you can live by following the bushido without a blade too.
2019-10-23 13:46
nah, having a blade sounds cool
2019-10-23 18:01
#10
JaCkz | 
France Bubuche 
Regret is the worst thing imo Just imagine if you tell her and she is thinking the same you'll live maybe the best love relationship ever. IF you don't tell her, you'll regret it and be sad Don't be sad
2019-10-23 10:15
true men idk yet though im scared :(
2019-10-23 10:16
#18
JaCkz | 
France Bubuche 
I know it is EZ to say but be a man and assume your feelings is the best thing i can tell you .....
2019-10-23 10:17
ok bro
2019-10-23 10:25
it can go both ways though, you can regret telling her making things awkward :D
2019-10-23 10:27
#45
JaCkz | 
France Bubuche 
you're right bro ahah
2019-10-23 10:28
If you talk like literal friends besides just sex, then you can start to build it up slowly
2019-10-23 10:16
#13
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Slovakia LINF 
Why would you do such a thing . Having friend with benefits is much better than having an actual girlfriend cuz you dont have to deal with all the other bullshit and just have fun .
2019-10-23 10:16
I have feelings for her men, she just is perfect for me, we are so comfortable with each other and tell each other everything and are always honest with one another
2019-10-23 10:17
#20
JaCkz | 
France Bubuche 
So she probably feels the same as you so go tell her she is waiting for it. Man 2 years friends with benefits is a lot she MUST have feeling for you if she stays 2 years in this situation
2019-10-23 10:18
but what she just wants to stay friends with benefits and her knowing that I like her more then that makes her not want to be with me at all
2019-10-23 10:20
#27
JaCkz | 
France Bubuche 
Imo, loosers keep what they already have and take no risks Alpha male take risks to have what they really want. Be a alpha male. Moreover, I can confirm with my experience that nothing is better than a good love relationship if you are more than 23yo
2019-10-23 10:23
+1 Babuche talks the real talk
2019-10-23 10:41
#25
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Slovakia LINF 
Just keep it that way then . I can guarantee you it wont be the same once you get into relationship with her if you even get to that lol
2019-10-23 10:21
#28
JaCkz | 
France Bubuche 
-1
2019-10-23 10:23
#39
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Slovakia LINF 
ok Mr. True love
2019-10-23 10:27
she prolly fucking other dudes too lmao
2019-10-23 10:18
#22
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Pakistan Ligm@ 
+1 He thinks they are friends with benefits but in reality he is just a cuck
2019-10-23 10:20
even if she was thats not my business we arent dating yet lmao
2019-10-23 10:21
Another day, another cuck confirmed 😎 #cuck_confirmed #you_are_gay
2019-10-23 10:25
ok lmao
2019-10-23 10:27
haha dude u dumb as hell gaynadian
2019-10-23 11:25
Imagine being from us and calling someone dumb LOL
2019-10-23 12:02
ahahaha LMAO the absolute state of NA "its ok that hes getting pounded by 5 dudes cus were not dating yet, its her life" gl with life bro shshshhshaahhahah
2019-10-23 11:06
but she isnt? lmao
2019-10-23 11:07
AHAHAHAHAHHAA shes literally youre fwb for 2 years. how deluded can you be to think that shes not sleeping with other guys too if a girl can be ur fuckdoll. she can be a fuckdoll for everyone
2019-10-23 11:08
#87
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Norway Bigg1 
You sound like a real incel lol
2019-10-23 11:49
ahaha u mad cus im speaking fax bruh XD
2019-10-24 04:04
and btw ur wife in the future will prob have 20 or more dudes that banged her
2019-10-23 11:07
ahahahaha nice cope that one hit hard i see
2019-10-23 11:09
Why so mad
2019-10-23 12:02
#95
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Norway Bigg1 
If you don’t get laid you get mad I would assume,this guy has some issues.
2019-10-23 13:09
Yea lmao
2019-10-23 13:18
u getting played son lmfao
2019-10-24 04:04
Lost case, you were both idiots to just start that childish affair, you had to start a relationship straight away, now just end it fast and release her from this waste of a time. Find some girl and be the best you can. Some child just grow into manchild... Ooh!
2019-10-23 10:24
#30
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Austria JamesHarden 
In high school i was banging my female best friend, it was good for a while but she caught feelings for me so i had to stop it, then she started acting crazy and at the end when i had a serious girlfriend she nearly committed suicide when she was told i have a girlfriend
2019-10-23 10:24
wow.... thats crazy, do you think I should stop this relationship before it gets out of hand?
2019-10-23 10:26
#47
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Austria JamesHarden 
i don't know man, it really depends on what person she is. For me personally this friends with benefits thing is bullsh*t, if you are banging 100% she has some feelings for you its not just sex because girls can get d easier than us getting p*ssy, so try to talk with her if u want something serious with her(i dont know how to explain it in english) but something small to see if she responds well then try to have that serious talk
2019-10-23 10:37
Ight thanks
2019-10-23 11:22
liar detected
2019-10-23 10:42
#58
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Austria JamesHarden 
sheep intestines lover detected
2019-10-23 10:49
#35
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Germany sommares 
dont do it
2019-10-23 10:25
You obviously don't tell each other everything if you go 2 years fucking with this elephant in the room. The fuck are you both doing?
2019-10-23 10:27
first of all i dont know if she feels the same way with me and second of all this is the one thing i have not told her because im afraid it will ruin everything
2019-10-23 10:28
You're both lying to each other and keeping information from each other, and you feel comfortable with this.
2019-10-23 10:42
how is she lying lmao
2019-10-23 10:46
idc, it's your problem
2019-10-23 10:55
huh
2019-10-23 11:04
#60
rko | 
Saudi Arabia WWF 
7 year as friend but still not relation ship 0/8
2019-10-23 10:50
Kk
2019-10-23 11:22
Tell her and see what happens
2019-10-23 11:27
great advice rechtsolini
2019-10-23 11:30
Waddafak I'm not Musolini
2019-10-23 11:31
u said brown eyes are ugly once, wtfmen racist((
2019-10-23 11:33
Wtf men it's personal preference :((((
2019-10-23 11:33
personal prefrence = racism
2019-10-23 11:34
Personal preference = Homophobic too?(((((
2019-10-23 11:36
if you don't prefer men over women then you are homophobic
2019-10-23 11:42
FAAAAK I'm a monster((((
2019-10-23 11:43
Lmao
2019-10-24 17:01
Thx I try
2019-10-24 17:01
friends with benefits is for immature teens
2019-10-23 11:29
How
2019-10-23 12:03
#80
Europe Soec 
if you are friends and you have sex... well. that's what a relationship is. Confidence in every aspect. I don't think that she would be scared at all. Maybe the problem would be that she doesn't want to stop meeting other guys...
2019-10-23 11:39
Ight ty
2019-10-25 00:45
I had same situation. 5-6 years of friendship 1-2 years of friends with benefits then she made the first move to talk how she feel and now we are engaged :) just do what you think is best if u fail u fail life goes on. Gl bro
2019-10-23 11:56
Thanks men
2019-10-23 13:18
#92
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Netherlands Gosharu1 
lel i thought usually guys do that
2019-10-23 12:03
#102
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Germany RobiDable 
impregnate her.
2019-10-23 13:45
This would work....
2019-10-23 18:05
LOL nah
2019-10-24 03:52
i think you should go for it, she will not drop a 7yo relationship.
2019-10-24 03:59
Ok bro thank u
2019-10-24 05:25
i think im in a worse situation than you :( hltv.org/forums/threads/2171205/girl-i-f..
2019-10-24 05:26
Lmaooo wow
2019-10-24 06:27
#115
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Portugal ZePagode 
What the hell is wrong with you, to ask this type of question in this nerd forum?! We are not alfa like you bro
2019-10-24 04:07
Lmaooo
2019-10-24 05:25
if he's Alfa I'm Romeo who cars
2019-10-24 05:34
#117
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Australia njoi 
"It's better to regret something you did than something you didn't do". go get it bruh
2019-10-24 04:27
wow thanks
2019-10-24 05:35
+1
2019-10-24 06:28
Are you crazy ? You are lucky to get that ...keep banging her man...no strings attached.
2019-10-24 05:36
lmao thx
2019-10-24 15:01
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