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asking a girl out
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Albania randomguywitha$500haircut 
so i visited my ex colleagues after quite a while and i always had this bond with this girl. we enjoy each others company and always hug get close and she touches my arms etc, but i always fail to ask her out. how do i ask her out? what should i say? pls help hltv casanovas :D troll posts will be ignored.
2019-11-09 16:05
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Europe 322iq 
hi want to go out
2019-11-09 16:05
#2
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Brazil kitten[!] 
let's drink something? (ik u're shy and wouldn't consider even the best advice but nvm)
2019-11-09 16:07
I don't know I used to have crippling social anxiety but i think i'm over that tbh. i don't have problems talking to strangers and I'm usually quite comfortably once i'm over the approaching phase.
2019-11-09 16:10
#15
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Brazil kitten[!] 
if u were over social anxiety u'd ask her out instead of asking how to do so
2019-11-09 16:14
I used to have a hard time looking people in the eyes 2-3 years ago so i definitely made progress.
2019-11-09 16:37
Find common interest (i always asked my female friends out to cafes and art expos, but didnt want to sex them cuz knew them too well)
2019-11-09 16:07
#4
Mexico evm 
hello u want fuk?
2019-11-09 16:07
Ask her if she wants to go on a date with you.
2019-11-09 16:07
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Kazakhstan Elietsch 
Pretend to really want to see a movie and discuss it with her? Some great band playing near you? Tell her how much you like it. Try to find an occasion for it. Makes it seem less awkward. Or just go full-on and ask if she wanna hangout and get some coffee on a sunday. Just chill, walk, talk and laugh.
2019-11-09 16:08
I don't have her number, so i could only approach her at her work place which would be kinda awkward :(
2019-11-09 16:09
#11
EliGE | 
Kazakhstan Elietsch 
So? What's awkward about that? Talk about you wanting to go see "Joker" at the movies but all your friends hate those kinda movies. Like just try some conversations right? Get a feel for what she likes and move on that.
2019-11-09 16:10
I watched the joker already and it is definitely not a good movie for a first date :D
2019-11-09 16:19
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EliGE | 
Kazakhstan Elietsch 
How lucky there's other movies at the cinema too? You get my point.
2019-11-09 16:20
#7
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Canada ProvexPyker 
Just speak your mind, im sure it'll work out
2019-11-09 16:09
#9
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Reunion 1iquser 
say something like "lets chill and shit"
2019-11-09 16:10
#19
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Portugal Zedonp 
in a toilet with our phones connected by teh same internet
2019-11-09 16:15
#12
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Slovenia Josip09 
are you fucking retarded? don't overthink stuff.... if you like her ask her out for a coffee/drink don't be a fucking weirdo. If she likes you she is going to agree if she don't she'll say no and you can move on. If you are going to over complicate stuff and ask her for something too much she is going to think you are pushy and just say no
2019-11-09 16:11
I read a book on female pyschology and it is like the worst thing possible if you seem neady or unexperienced with other women...
2019-11-09 16:16
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COCAINE | 
Mongolia bozgor 
mate stop being autistic
2019-11-09 16:26
#13
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China SwooksarV2 
Uh... What I did was that I just had a normal everyday conversation, and then I just brought up " do you want to be my girlfriend" casually in the middle of the conversation out of nowhere, and she said yes. Soo... Idk. Just to try be casual about it, I'm not sure if your girl likes over the top confessions.
2019-11-09 16:13
#17
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China SwooksarV2 
I've got a friend who confessed with his car full or roses and makeup and stuff.( Things that the girl likes) and he just brought her up to his car at night, opened the trunk, and gave her a flower banquet
2019-11-09 16:14
#18
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China SwooksarV2 
But, it really depends on what type of girl she is. So, gl man.
2019-11-09 16:15
Whip your dick out in her face to show dominance
2019-11-09 16:13
#16
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Portugal Zedonp 
and fuck her father in her grandfather presence
2019-11-09 16:14
+1
2019-11-09 16:18
#24
COCAINE | 
Mongolia bozgor 
just ask her for a coffee to catch up and you are set from there if she likes you for another meeting
2019-11-09 16:26
it really doesnt matter much what you say… the delivery is way more important.. Maybe the next time you see each other, when you talk and laugh together and have some privacy just stay calm and say something like "hey, ich habe mich schon ein paar mal gefragt, ob es nicht cool wäre, wenn wir mal zusammen auf ein date gehen.. was hälst du davon?"
2019-11-09 16:29
I love the fact that you even phrased it in perfect german ;D I'm gonna try that but unfortunately we only meet if i go to my previous week place to meet her there.
2019-11-09 16:30
#28
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Portugal Zedonp 
you taking the time to do so is already a indication to her that you want to spend time with her. Ask her fast before she thinks you are only after her cousin of smt
2019-11-09 16:33
"hey, ich habe mich schon ein paar mal gefragt, ob es nicht cool wäre, wenn wir mal zusammen auf ein date gehen.. was hälst du davon?" HAHAHAHHAAHA thats not gonna work i promise
2019-11-09 16:34
I think if you like each other is doesn't really matter what you say...
2019-11-09 16:34
but it doesnt change the fact that it sounds wierd and it doesnt increase your chances at all. be more like: just talk to her and then u need to catch a right moment like: she: i have never been to a footballstadium you: we can go together if u want or something like that. thats how i have dated a chick recently
2019-11-09 16:37
like i said it really doesnt matter how you word it.. obviously he knows his and her slang better than i do.. what matters is to pick the Right Moment and to stay calm and cool in the role shes familiar with while asking her out
2019-11-09 16:35
she can feel unconfortable and maybe denie, doesnt matter if she likes him or not. women are unpredictable in cases like that.
2019-11-09 16:39
do you speak german?
2019-11-09 16:39
yes im fakeflagger from Germany ;P
2019-11-09 16:39
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Iran Tajik! 
Maybe when you are hanging out next time, just ask her for a coffee or out to have dinner, ask if she would like to come to movies with you etc. If you don't feel comfortable doing it face-to-face, then you could message and ask her to come for coffee, but I don't recommend messaging and asking for dinner, rather ask that type of questions face-to-face.
2019-11-09 16:36
#35
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Poland Adisky 
just ask her "want to go to x place tomorrow" wtf men
2019-11-09 16:39
xxx-shop :D
2019-11-09 16:40
funny how you always act like the biggest guy on hltv but now lol
2019-11-09 16:46
actually i'm not but whatever.
2019-11-09 16:48
Flex your airpods
2019-11-09 16:50
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