Depends, I can talk with my friends for hours but with someone new I can struggle.
Mostly because I can’t go on long winded conversations about how I shagged their mum last night.
If I don't like someone its easy, its like If I think i'm better than them Its easy for me to have a conversation
If I don't think either way about them (like or dislike) its hard for me
If I like them it gets easier the more comfortable I am around them.
Then It gets really hard again If I really like them because I really care what they think
Then the people who i'm closest with (3 people in my life) I am care free and truly myself around. However this doesn't work out good for me most of the time with people i start to care for the most because they realize that I'm actually boring, quiet, and sad on the inside so I just sit in silence when there isn't anything to talk about and people start to realize how boring I am and sometimes lose interest in me.
No, not even with friends
It was not easy when i was younger, but rn i feel like yea, im easy to talk
yes. Im silent a majority of the time. Online? I can talk all day. Irl? Not a sound. I don't even have friends to talk to or hang out with anyway, well at least I used to.
Depends on the context, but I'd say that if the other person talks about things Im interested in and I feel comfortable then yes. Its not like Im a talking machine but Im not silent either (._.)_b
Yeah it's hard because im, for the most part, not willing to share anything about myself regarding the future. Any other topic? Sure, but first impression conversations will almost always revolve around the personal stuff. Which is not so personal for most people I guess but I feel its pretty personal stuff.
It really really really depends on the person I'm talking to. Chemistry means everything to me. I can smalltalk but I get a headache and can't help thinking how stupid and insignificant it is at times. That being said I also have a personality disorder that lends itself to me prefer being alone or with close mates and not being good at making new friends or smalltalk with strangers for hours.
Yes, alphas always take the lead
I think it is, but I'm so talkative and fast-paced in my thought process that sometimes it's a bit hard to follow what I want to say haha
But maybe it is cultural as well ? Like I'm French, we like to talk about everything and I'm a political sciences student, which means I always talk about stuff I don't really know.
When I lived in Oslo for two years, I realized it was somehow difficult to interact with Norwegians outside of a specific context. If I was at UiO (missing Blindern so much :( ) I could talk to pretty much everyone, especially within an activity like a course, or climbing, hiking etc.
But If I just told myself : "hey let's just talk to some strangers and try to make new friends" that would have been mission impossible.
So my point is... maybe you're just...too Norwegian ? :p
In highschool it was hard because i was miserable and wanted to kill myself but now its fine
Most people that talk to me are cool and like minded people
It’s easy if I think you’re at least somewhat interesting, otherwise I generally don’t see the point of trying to make conversation and simply choose not to.
Exceptions are of course work settings where I’d have to continue talking to someone I do not find interesting. It’s rare at my work, but it happens
I believe if people always become quiet when talk with you,the issue is not if you talk something or not,the issue is your words maybe improper
I mean at school i didnt rly like talking to people, but now when i have a job I can easily talk with all my colleagues for hours
id say say- its very easy for me because i actaully interact more with people 50%+ older than me. when it comes to people of the same age, it's different... not too difficult but often times they're like autistic and are coinsious of everything they say and you say, too much stess
Medium, not the best one to talk to.
Used to be quite bad at this but I like to think it's gotten better through the years
Very easy, I actually prefer IRL convo's and not texting/online, although it was the other way around a long time ago.
I dont wonder people's stories, thoughts, views. I dont find them exciting that is why i dont talk too much. If this means i am hard to interact with, then the answer is yes.
It's not like I don't like to talk to people The problem lies in that A lot of people don't really understand what I'm talking especially in school so I kinda stopped to talk with em. But It's not like I'm alone I still use to talk with my close friends with who I created great bonds over the years. Also often my Introverted side (as I'm dominant introvert) takes over me and I rather leave conversation. What my point is? It's rather what is your personality some people require lots of people and others only close friends. Maybe read about MBTI stuff as I consider it as pretty (but not 100%) accurate for finding out your personality.
For me it's vey hard to talk to new people that I meet. I usually wait for them to say something to me, otherwise I'm super quiet. It kinda sucks.
I think im hard to talk to sometimes cuz i dont want to talk at all.
I struggle a lot lately, because my hearing is gone worse.
Sometimes I dont realize how silently or loudly I talk. The biggest issue is when someone tells me something and I'm not ready for that - I react weirdly and answer "what?" automatically, or some retarded answer.
I'm gonna get a permanent hearing aid in a year or so.
It is very easy to maintain conversation for hours, if you just change your mindset to that you wanna know what this person is passionate about. You don't need to ask it directly, just talk about some random stuff ("weather, what do you do for work, hobbies) until you get a glimpse of something that really interests them, then step by step ask more about that. everybody has their own, i've even met person who is kinda passionate about maintaining his "im-boring-no-one-im-not-passionated-about-anything" image. People want to be heard, (except me since I'm a sociopath).
As long as you are not gay, wearing hats or have large feet you can easily talk to me. Otherwise I will probably rape you.
I am a terrible conversation starter, but I can hold a conversation pretty well.
I’m very shy and quiet. Though i would talk if someone would come to talk to me.
I can talk with friends for ever, but I have difficulty talking to strangers. I'm not shy or anything, I just don't feel like talking to people I don't know most of the time.
Yes, I'm open and easy to approach.
online im p chill ngl
irl im really hard to open up but i can keep a conversation going lol
I’m only easy to converse with in a completely joking fashion with a friend. Not like any serious adult conversations