go outside of ur basement more often
Tupac said " when you die you're not really dead"
I didn't understand shit lad
Have a good day though
Move further away, so your nun cant "Help" you, do stuff on your own
Dude just don't try to be someone else, be yourself , what needs to happen will happen
That's my opinion
meditate - it will help with negative thought, u probably have them regarding ur awkward interactions
expose urself to social interactions - the more the better
i am the same like you cuz i dont leave my room and dont have social interactions, but few years ago when i worked on gas station for 6 months, it was super easy to just casually talk to random people in shops or something
The carpenter forgot about that interaction the second he left, don't dwell on it my guy
you are a beta loser, accept it
Just develop autism like me and you won't car about others anymore
Best advice you can find from HLTV:
"Ask to a professional, not to HLTV."
you need to become a weeb so you dont need to talk to people at all
I'm weird too, I tend to get anxiety from phone calls. Maybe you need to find likeminded people like I have. This won't necessarily solve your problem, which is really just a matter of practice for you and me, but having people accept you in spite of your strangeness does help me.
Mix #29w #32 and u gonna be fine
Man, you just need confidence. If you would go out more, with friends, you can easily increase your confidence and your voice won't be so shaky. Better yet, if you get drunk or smth you won't even care about being awkward. You sound like you are far too self conscious, relax :) Life isn't out to get you.
Also, a convo is not really awkward until you make it that way. e.g. thinking too much about how you act and stuff. Besides you aren't expected to talk to people all the time.. if you're doing sport, do it then laugh about it afterwards, if you're going on an outing, do whatever it is on an outing. Most of the time people don't even talk about interesting shit you know, it'll either be talking about how hot some girl is or the latest games or scores.
If you feel twitchy and unsure of what to say, just shrug your shoulders, smile and do whatever you want to do lol. Don't focus too much in the moment
Talk to more people. I was also socially awkward but opening up and talking to more people fixed it. I am still a bit nervous but far better than before
Work out, lose your virginity, go out more and do small things (do groceries and order something from the butcher, go up to the mcdonalds balcony and order one ice cream, ask random shit for the people selling stuff, how much is it, blablablaba)
even if you dont have an aptitude for conversation, social skills can be improved just like any other skill, through reading and practice. you gotta find opportunities to talk to other people. it doesnt matter if you're twitchy, weird, and awkward if you can hold a conversation.
'how to win friends and influence people' is a book thats pretty handy for people who have literally no idea where to start when it comes to conversation. the gist of it is that people really like talking about themselves, and that you should give the person you're talking with plenty of opportunities to do so [by asking them lots of questions].
Rape, then gf is not needed, ez women
u just learn, sign up for marketing workshops and u will learn.
Alprazolam or Opipramol might help. Ask your doctor.
Just join some club and meet a new one or get a new hobby.
Stop caring and just say “ok”
You are an idiot. Embrace that reality.
Not sure if you were serious or baiting with your post, just wanted to give you a heads up. I was in your situation when I was younger, super socially awkward and hard to talk to people. The best way (at least from my experience) is to do things outside your comfort zone.
Like don't stretch it too far. Take it bit by bit. As you get more comfortable with certain things, that means your comfort zone is now bigger than before. As you understand there's a continuous effort in trying to get more comfortable in social situations.
Like just start small. Try to small talk with the cashier at your local supermarket. When you are comfortable to speak with strangers, you will notice a huge difference in how you act in public. Or just try to speak with someone in class which you don't usually talk to.
Just try to push your limits, that's the only way to expand your comfort zone.
Hope that helps and good luck!
Im still really surprised that ppl talk about such things on HLTV.
Was the same till I started going out with my gf, helped me go out of my comfort zone little by little and I’m much better now
I wish I could give you some of my confidence in social situations. Im awesome af.
Dont think just do. Talk SLOWLY, so you dont fumble on your words. No erratic movement.
Do it often you will be more cofortable. Its all about experience)
its called social anxiety. Just stop overthinking too much, and let yourself be like that, just accept that its okay to be a bit shaky, or you cant stand still. Its something you can get better at overtime, and 100% will. But just try to accept that its okay to do that, just let the feeling be, because the more you think about it, the harder it gets away and the worse it feels for you.
But its something you will learn because you are still young, it comes with age but its called social anxiety, 1 in 5 people have it or maybe a bit less but hundreds of millions around the world have it, to some extent whether its a lot or just less. I have it too, many people have it, so youre not alone :D