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Very sad day. Me very sad :(
autist | 
Albania SEX_IS_OVERRATED 
It's been weeks since my only friend texted me . And at school he barely stays with me . Idk why maybe I am boring for him or weird. Now he has found a new friend. I feel really sad even when I was watching that s1mple 1v4 clutch I didn't even blink . Nothing is exciting for me anymore. Idk what to do . He was my only friend.
2020-02-28 19:49
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#1
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China KoreanFan 
Find a new friend?
2020-02-28 19:50
I have social anxiety men. I am too scared to talk with people . In 12 years of school that was my only friend .
2020-02-28 19:51
depends what point in school you are at. If you start new school next year (like from middleschool to highschool) then its whatever ur gonna make new friends there even if u have social anxiety
2020-02-28 19:53
This is my last year of school
2020-02-28 19:57
enroll in university and find new friends. life goes on and often you lose your friends along the way. people change.
2020-02-28 20:14
I'm waiting.
2020-02-28 20:30
U won't achieve anything by waiting bro. Relax, take a step back and work on finding solutions for your problem.
2020-02-28 20:34
#13
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China KoreanFan 
You need to change or even look for a psychologist.
2020-02-28 19:55
I don't want to tell my parents that I don't have any friends. My mom would be sad .
2020-02-28 19:58
#27
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China KoreanFan 
So find one. :DDDDD Start with something small, like sometimes telling a joke or just conversating with a small group of people. You can use social media if you have anxiety.
2020-02-28 20:01
I'm anti social men I don't have any social media . I only use hltv and reddit . The only places I talk to people
2020-02-28 20:05
start doing activities where you can find new friends, for example i had the same problem (i had 2 friends, and was affraid to get in contact with new people) then i started going into gym and found many more, i cant even count who i am friend with it doesnt have to be gym, if your hobby is for example swimming, u will find them, skateboarding- u will find them, just dont be so shy and everything will be fine
2020-02-28 20:15
I don't have any hobbies
2020-02-28 20:18
dont try to find any excuses, and get things in your hands cmon man, i believe in u
2020-02-28 20:22
This is a lot of pressure haha.
2020-02-28 20:24
excuse excuse excuse excuse excuse excuse
2020-02-28 20:25
True
2020-02-28 20:28
#64
KRIMZ | 
France Vilmarh 
And yet you wonder why you don't have friends ? "Antisocial" doesn't even exist, it is just an excuse for being lazy and/or a coward. You spend too much time thinking about what you will do, you get paralyzed by all the bad scenarios you are thinking of and then you are never able to act. Man up. Stop caring too much. Stop overthinking. People are not complicated, they are very accessible and easy to befriend for the vast majority. Maybe try some lectures that could help you. "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie is a classic.
2020-02-28 20:20
I don't know how to respond to this. But I can tell that you're trying to help me. I will take your advices and I will make a thread when I make new friends.
2020-02-28 20:23
Don't watch anime
2020-02-28 20:25
I love anime wtf men .
2020-02-28 20:26
There's your answer. Get a job, force yourself to talk to people. Learn to live with your weaknesses and discover your strengths. Only when you accept that you're for the most part an average, mediocre person, you'll relate to people and they'll relate to you. Conversations come way more easy and natural at that point, even with complete strangers. This wisdom was brought to you by the anti weeb and self-pity squad. Edit: Btw, you're naturally gonna think you're some exception to this, and that's the big lie.
2020-02-28 20:43
we have like a discord friend group with about 25 active people every day, about 7 of them had extreme social anxiety, just talking to people online, befriending them & talking about it helped them loads, try & find a good online friendgroup that is full of meme mens)) but also supporting to u as friend, gl man <3333
2020-02-28 21:26
#3
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Germany ohmeingutness 
who needs friends lmaoooo
2020-02-28 19:51
Men I'm not in mood to laugh Please don't
2020-02-28 19:51
Maybe try make friends on a casual game you enjoy playing cuz no one makes friends on cs go way too competitive
2020-02-28 19:53
That was my IRL friend.
2020-02-28 19:54
Maybe I am scaring the girls away that's why he doesn't want to stay with me .
2020-02-28 19:53
Become a real man. In France they’re so many people like you that wait for life to end. Just do something. Stop watching yourself being a loser, do something, even tho you’re a loser.
2020-02-28 19:53
I can't men Idk what to do .
2020-02-28 19:54
Just do something Exercize, study, talk, meet people Don’t even think about it, just do it Don’t watch yourself dying, world isn’t waiting for you, it doesn’t care you’re having issues, that’s natural selection in the end; we live in a society and you gotta be good at living in it. You can’t be, you can’t exist, if you don’t do shit. Stop complaining and do something
2020-02-28 19:59
#54
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Israel wetz 
+1
2020-02-28 20:15
Preach man.
2020-02-28 20:19
+1
2020-02-28 20:31
#9
Bulgaria R4D1 
you my consider friends alot of people since you release someday that of all people you been friends whit only 1 ore max 2 are real ones dont be sad every one only has 1 ore 2 max who said any other things its retarded , you can find who is your friend by check how they tread you when they dont need you
2020-02-28 19:54
That was my only true and loyal friend. Idk what happened.
2020-02-28 19:55
#21
Bulgaria R4D1 
there is aways changes relationships change if you realy enjoy being friend whit him the only thing you can do is tell him maybe he has some new thing in his life by the way you write you are no more than 15 so dont worry about those things just life
2020-02-28 19:58
I'm 18 men .
2020-02-28 20:11
#62
Bulgaria R4D1 
you sond way younger
2020-02-28 20:19
Really ? Maybe that english it's not my native language ?
2020-02-28 20:20
not its not that its that you care about somenthing like a friend who probably does not thing that way for you , when he need you he will contact again and let you down again thats no friend at all
2020-02-28 21:21
men don't be sed i be your ferd :)
2020-02-28 19:54
#14
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Hungary EZ4WINLANDIA 
sex her/him
2020-02-28 19:55
#4
2020-02-28 19:55
#16
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Spain G3CK0 
I dont know how old are you or hows your situation but I promise things get better! Take this as a chance to meet new people, maybe go up to someone and ask them about a random topic (the weather, coronavirus, etc) and try to make new connections. Go and take up a new hobby, start practising a new sport or whatever, youll meet tons of people if you go in with the right mentality! Stay strong brother!
2020-02-28 19:55
Ty men But I don't think I'm that brave .
2020-02-28 19:56
#20
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Spain G3CK0 
If you are not that brave, just fake it! People wont know youre insecure if you dont say so. Try to stop giving a fuck and everything will be much easier
2020-02-28 19:57
I can't men. I can't socialize . I have severe social anxiety . It's really bad.
2020-02-28 20:00
#34
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Spain G3CK0 
I used to take medication for that and while it helped me, what was best for me was to stop caring. It may sound really hard to do, but when you analize the importance of the interactions that give you anxiety, it really isnt that important. Anyway, hope things work put for you!
2020-02-28 20:02
Ty men)))
2020-02-28 20:03
#23
North America TL0 
Lmfao 1 friend
2020-02-28 19:59
How many do you have ?
2020-02-28 20:09
#79
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United States America! 
very funny!
2020-02-28 20:28
#24
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Brazil edgy_man 
i mean, fuck him. you dont need him, he's a dick, you are better off without him, you get used to it king. for now, you gotta focus on studying, focus on becoming a better version of yourself.. it's always lonely at the top, you got this !
2020-02-28 20:02
The bad thing is that I have terrible grades . I'm not that smart .
2020-02-28 20:07
#42
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Brazil edgy_man 
there's no such thing as a " not that smart " person you just don't have enough motivation to try hard enough take this sadness and turn it into motivation, so you can re-build yourself. hard work beats talent all the time, i've seen it.
2020-02-28 20:10
I will try . I will try .
2020-02-28 20:11
The bad thing is that I have terrible grades . I'm not that smart .
2020-02-28 20:07
#26
tabseN | 
Europe oofmens 
get a dog u will have a new best friend
2020-02-28 19:59
I have cats .
2020-02-28 20:02
#37
tabseN | 
Europe oofmens 
hmmm then its hard to answer, i have like u had only 1 friend, since 15 years we are best friends. idk man dont wait for him to text u, he might think the same like you (or does he ignore you?) that you dont want to be friends with him anymore. if u want to be friends with him u gotta show some interest aswell. i really recommend to not give up ur only friend, really bad thoughts will come to ur mind then...
2020-02-28 20:05
Yeah I text him but he rarely replys back. I try my hardest.
2020-02-28 20:08
#46
tabseN | 
Europe oofmens 
damn... in that case i would say fuck him, its only bad for u if you feel like a dog running after him, its hard to find real people, getting a woman/girlfriend would be the best option i guess. love can do very good things in ur brain
2020-02-28 20:11
I would like that but... When I talk to girls I lose my ability to speak.
2020-02-28 20:13
#53
tabseN | 
Europe oofmens 
fuck, same... its easy to say but thats the best i can do xdd i had only 1 gf 5 years ago i guess im not the best consultant when i have almost same problems
2020-02-28 20:15
You tried your best . Thank you . You're a good man .
2020-02-28 20:19
I can be your friend mens))
2020-02-28 20:00
Mens))))
2020-02-28 20:02
#30
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Libya green_wizard 
tbh he was probably sick of your attitude mens))
2020-02-28 20:01
Perhaps
2020-02-28 20:02
bro keep on, all be fine I give u promise u can find urself, send love <3 <3
2020-02-28 20:09
Ty men <3
2020-02-28 20:14
Ok It will go away as soon as you say to yourself "it cant be like this anymore, i need to change something" Now you latently get off on the state, arent you?
2020-02-28 20:11
#47
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Other t0ki 
Start going to a gym, u will get a lot of confidence and become alpha. Then ppl will want to be with u
2020-02-28 20:12
I already have a fit body . I've been doing exercises for 3-4 years .
2020-02-28 20:16
#52
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Poland Feym 
Get better man :)
2020-02-28 20:14
I'm trying men
2020-02-28 20:17
#58
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Kazakhstan joegarn 
try to watch some anime im not joking men one day it prevented me from doing ripperinho by headshot to myself hope it helps for u as well men take care
2020-02-28 20:17
I watch anime all day men lol
2020-02-28 20:23
#59
ZywOo | 
United States 7RU7H 
stay strong life isnt easy nor happy all the time
2020-02-28 20:18
Ty
2020-02-28 20:23
Fine some outside school activity. Spots, chess, school clubs etc. Dont let yourself be isolated, human beings are social creatures if you have anxiety approaching your classmates thinking you'll embarrass yourself then try socialising outside of school.
2020-02-28 20:23
Ty I will try .
2020-02-28 20:27
He still is your friend, dont worry. Sometimes dudes get bored of eachother for a while. Id recommend you to talk to him face to face about what you are stating here
2020-02-28 20:26
It's just really awkward . I can't do that .
2020-02-28 20:26
It really isn't, its mature. Wait, how old are you?
2020-02-28 20:30
18
2020-02-28 20:32
So yeah, shouldnt be awkward
2020-02-28 21:44
Please dont use space in front of "." 😄
2020-02-28 20:31
Ahaha sry sry
2020-02-28 20:33
I've been in a similar situation as you, while I may not be able to provide any solid advice I hope you can find the strength to move on and find something that interests you and makes life enjoyable again. Gl mens)))
2020-02-28 20:33
Thank you men)) What did you do ?
2020-02-28 20:34
I was in uni, and lost touch with all my friends, my grades were bad too. So i decided to forget about everything else including CS and socializing and study my ass off. Listening to music and some fun podcasts helped when it got too lonely but eventually it was fine. A couple years I just reconnected with the bois again like nothing happened and its been all good since, we play cs and some other games occasionally and chill out. Whatever you do, just keep at it and don't let the loneliness get to you.
2020-02-28 20:38
Good men I'm happy for you .
2020-02-28 20:45
I hope you can be happy too bro, gl <3
2020-02-28 21:09
#88
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Hungary Shiron212 
Just try to talk to people You will see who's a fake person and who's not If you aren't comfortable then just leave and look for someone else
2020-02-28 20:34
I may have a another much more serious problem. When I sleep I'm always thinking and I really enjoy thinking about a school shooting and killing my classmates and the teachers. Don't misunderstand I will never do it I just think about it.
2020-02-28 20:42
#97
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Hungary Shiron212 
:/ You should see a psychologist, just in case But if it's your final year at school then you just have to hold on
2020-02-28 20:45
I will never do it . It's just because of how much I hate school . When I'm sleeping and thinking I escape from my problems and I use my imagination on things that make me happy.
2020-02-28 20:47
#103
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Hungary Shiron212 
That's great actually I'm kinda in the same situation, I get sick of school pretty easily so I listen to music and daydream whenever I can to lift up my mood
2020-02-28 20:49
It's really embarrasing for me to tell you this but I like imaging when I am sleeping that I have superpowers like a very cool anime character.
2020-02-28 20:51
#107
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Hungary Shiron212 
I don't mind, it's okay, don't be embarrassed That just means that you are a creative person
2020-02-28 20:54
Haha. Thank you You're the first person that I have told this.
2020-02-28 20:57
#112
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Hungary Shiron212 
No problem ^^ Good luck, be happy Things will change if you keep working on it
2020-02-28 21:00
+1
2020-02-28 21:05
I'm calling cops, mass shooting is not a joke, you are going to be arested brother cya
2020-02-28 20:46
It's just a thought
2020-02-28 20:48
#90
Snax | 
Poland Thukan 
Well I think trying to make people like you cant be finished with succes. Just do whatever you like, spend time on your hobby, if you like being with JUST yourself, people will to make you like them. Dont worry
2020-02-28 20:37
Idk what to say . This is another problem that I have for example like in this moment I don't know what to respond to people when they say something even online.
2020-02-28 20:44
#125
Snax | 
Poland Thukan 
I cant help you with that, go to some kind of therapist. Remember, everybody can have some problems and that doesn't mean you are crazy and not normal. Therapist can help with that, I can't.
2020-02-29 12:16
Beeing antisocial and having social anxiety is no excuse -it is the sole reason to stand up, and find others like you! -don't for a minute think that you are alone with those feelings. Talk to your family, they want to help.. ocf they will worry a bit, but give them the chance at helping and speak up. Remember to help likeminds -it takes one like you to understand.
2020-02-28 20:45
#101
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Portugal xxxruixxx 
Another bait. Courtesy of HLTV.
2020-02-28 20:49
#4
2020-02-28 20:52
have u tried having sex with your friend? maybe he wont find you boring then
2020-02-28 20:49
I'm 100% straight and so he is.
2020-02-28 20:52
I know it's hard and it will be. You have to change somehow
2020-02-28 20:56
I know because idk what I'm gonna do I don't.
2020-02-28 20:58
Sadly you are the only one who knows what to do. Think strong idk
2020-02-28 20:59
No, why should he change himself for someone else. Just be yourself
2020-02-28 21:45
not for someone elsexddd
2020-02-28 22:05
No one should stay alone forever and he can't make friends so he needs to change a bit
2020-02-28 22:05
Maybe he just needs to wait till he finishes school
2020-02-28 22:56
You can be my friend :)
2020-02-28 21:02
0k
2020-02-28 21:05
#119
s1mple | 
Poland Roxin 
You can be my friend :)
2020-02-28 21:26
No.
2020-02-29 14:28
At least you not sad as thoring lol but let me give you a virtual hug🤗
2020-02-29 14:37
#128
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Yugoslavia RIP_MY_NIP 
Remember that you are still a good person. You are self-conscious about what you might have done to make him turn away from your friendship, which is a good trait. Too many times people blame the other party without having the courage to look within themselves. I believe that you can make new friendships, and I hope that you aren't alone in the future, because that is bad for your mental health; something you should avoid at all costs.
2020-02-29 14:42
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