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My parents were raging alcoholics. Dad died when I was 11-12 my mom died when I was 16, then my grandfather who practically raised me died from the same thing. Multiple other family members either in jail or addicts or what have you. I don’t know a single family member that isn’t an addict. They’re all fucked, and all poor. To my knowledge, I’m the only one who “made it.” I took all that angst, hate, and resentment- that will never leave me- and use it as fuel to make family I’m making to break the chain. I worked my ass off since I was able to, and vowed to myself to not be like my parents. Your past, nor your parents define you. You are your own person, you decide your destiny. Your parents are just people. There comes a point where they aren’t good for you in your life and you have to cut them off. Personally I’m glad my parents died in a fucked up sense. I don’t have to deal with their suffering and bullshit. Some parents just suck, and are selfish assholes. Work hard, network yourself, and climb the ladder of success and never look back.
TLDR - your moms and family are pieces of shit, leave them behind, keep up and help the good ones but make yourself successful. Your past doesn’t define you.
I was taught that every member of the family cares about each other and if your mother has such serious problems, then you and your sister and father should take care of her mental health. Fortunately, I've never had any problem with/in family, can wish you good luck and do not limp along with these problems
I've had similar experiences
You have to get rid of your parents and family from your life as you said they can't live much longer anyway.
So you both left why worry about it? If you’re parents were that toxic you really shouldn’t care for them. Now that you left don’t look back just because they were your parents doesn’t mean shit.
get all your siblings to move out and forgive your mother, she didn't know better. also forgive your father for not doing anything about it.
dude it's not a place for this
people aren't taught how to respond to such a situation
go to psychologist for your own good
28yo still living at home? lmao