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Is it embarrassing to live with parents?
Germany COVID19_Pandemic 
I’m 19 and live with my parents who are 38 and 43. Is this embarrassing?
2020-04-06 14:12
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You should have moved out at 14
2020-04-06 14:13
2020-04-06 15:53
+1 Imagine living with your parents after you learn to walk
2020-04-06 16:20
Yeah just walk right outta there
2020-04-06 16:21
2020-04-06 16:21
Alright mum, thanks for the milk and diaper changes, but I'm off.
2020-04-07 08:18
2020-04-07 11:46
Brunei BruneiMen 
Wtf men, u can’t walk yet?
2020-04-07 11:51
Yesterday I had leg day so no, now I can't walk
2020-04-07 13:33
Brunei BruneiMen 
2020-04-07 13:33
African Union Schnauze 
leg day in baden württemberg?
2020-04-08 16:50
Leg day in my home in Baden-Württemberg 😎
2020-04-08 17:20
African Union Schnauze 
what did you do
2020-04-08 17:22
I did exercises that stimulated my leg muscles
2020-04-08 17:22
walk? dude the moment I was taking my first own breath I was outta there.. cya later virgins
2020-04-06 16:26
I wish I was born as alpha as you :(
2020-04-06 16:27
youll get there men!!
2020-04-06 16:28
I hope, I'm currently studying in MIT at 5 years old
2020-04-06 16:30
harvard at 4, astronaut at 6, nobel price at 9.. *arrogantsmirk
2020-04-06 16:36
Korea XigNw0w 
I got my fingers first nobel war crime prize at the age of seven
2020-04-07 13:37
lmao as soon as my fathers sperm entered my mum i already moved out, spent the first 9 months out of my mom
2020-04-06 16:39
damn.. that umbilical cord had to be loooooooong af
2020-04-06 16:40
nah man i cut it off, didnt want anything to do with my parents you know what i mean?
2020-04-06 16:40
yeah I get it. sometimes its better to cut everything off and be your own man!
2020-04-06 16:41
you know how it works man! damn it was so nice to leave them, i felt like i was stuck with them forever
2020-04-06 16:42
2020-04-08 10:35
Now this is a true alpha... Wish I were like u mens))
2020-04-08 10:35
Brazil zzzzzzznt 
2020-04-06 16:32
2020-04-06 16:32
Brazil zzzzzzznt 
baby escapes nuclear shelter to restores world's peace
2020-04-06 16:35
Thats me bro wtf
2020-04-06 16:36
Brazil zzzzzzznt 
i know mens XD
2020-04-06 16:39
2020-04-06 16:40
Brollan | 
Sweden p0pps 
no but if you're still living with youre parents in 2-3 years things starts to get embarrassing yes
2020-04-06 14:14
No? Once you earn enough, just move out.
2020-04-06 14:14
sh1ro | 
Taiwan Mafuuyu 
it depends on culture. In some countries in Asia, you must live and support your parents or you are a disgrace or indebtedness for short
2020-04-06 16:01
Lithuania KingOfPing 
it depends where u live, how u live, do you have a work and etc :D
2020-04-06 16:03
It shouldnt be. Its an excellent economic decision, even if you pay your parents rent, it will almost always be less then an apartment
2020-04-06 16:05
I don’t pay them rent
2020-04-06 16:07
they do so only in America, cause there the parents are always in debt
2020-04-07 08:44
Why are Americans always in debt?
2020-04-07 11:21
Because they're stupid and irresponsible with their money
2020-04-07 11:44
Palestine TwistXxX 
your country maybe but mine first.above everything.
2020-04-06 16:06
Well it’s probably really different in Palestine to Germany
2020-04-06 16:08
Denmark r0zen^_^ 
Saving up for your own tent?
2020-04-06 17:01
Palestine TwistXxX 
we dont leave parents untill getting married.after that still have regularly gathering.after that parents come and still with children at elderly ages
2020-04-06 17:26
So you live wih ur parents until ure like 30?
2020-04-07 06:51
Palestine TwistXxX 
2020-04-07 08:05
cyx | 
Germany Shadyy89 
only for male. for girls it is 12-14.
2020-04-07 08:13
Why that big of a difference. Here we live at the same ages.
2020-04-07 08:41
who | 
Russia d0lbaeb 
2020-04-07 11:53
no it's ok
2020-04-06 16:09
Finland Miroyev 
It's not unless you just sit around doing literally nothing
2020-04-06 16:10
i do work in my garden, idk thats enough
2020-04-06 16:56
I mean, if you're helping around the house yes, but maybe you should get a job
2020-04-07 11:45
i don't have much to choose from, i'm still in high school
2020-04-07 16:47
Question 1. Why are you still in high school??? Question 2. Then no if you're still studying its not embarrassing
2020-04-08 00:24
device | 
Morocco Morocco 
if your parents don't mind, then it's fine, it's only a problem if your parents want you to move but you stay
2020-04-06 16:16
Azerbaijan Verylising 
I moved out when I was 11 lmao get a life bro
2020-04-06 16:17
Canada gatssbyy 
If you're working and you're saving for your future than good on you for making a smart financial choice. Don't worry about what others think, just save that money well and you'll be golden
2020-04-06 16:21
No. Depends though. Soon it could get a little bit embarrassing. If you get into your early to mid 20s, still live at home, and no job, that's when it gets bad.
2020-04-06 16:22
So your mom was 19 years old when she gave birth ?
2020-04-06 16:22
Lekr0 | 
Sweden Onkov 
what a whore
2020-04-06 16:24
lol... xD
2020-04-06 16:34
It doesn’t mean that she is a whore
2020-04-06 17:10
Wtf dude
2020-04-06 16:57
u not swedish person 1000%
2020-04-07 11:47
Lekr0 | 
Sweden Onkov 
1/4 finnish 1/4 danish 2/4 swedish
2020-04-07 13:13
2020-04-07 11:25
nah, i mean at some point yeah. i plan to live with parents until im like 20 so when i move out i dont have to worry as much about money and can get a place without worry.
2020-04-06 16:23
21 is considered adult in usa or am i wrong?
2020-04-06 16:58
18. mostly only difference is that at 21 you can buy alcohol and in some states cigs.
2020-04-06 17:22
Lekr0 | 
Sweden Onkov 
only if youre not doing anything with your life. if youre studying then its ok to live at home for a few years since (at least here in swe) housing can be difficult to find
2020-04-06 16:23
+1 rent is expensive
2020-04-06 16:26
2020-04-07 11:40
Brazil hrp__ 
2020-04-06 16:25
Well can you masturbate in peace? Can you do drugs without someone ruining your high with some bullshit? Can you have sex with any companion you bring home? I would seriously consider these things.
2020-04-06 16:25
2020-04-06 16:36
Maybe last but other things no
2020-04-06 16:58
Czech Republic realProkda 
name checks out
2020-04-06 17:33
schnauze kosm0
2020-04-06 16:28
Moving out isn't always the best or only option. I lived with my parents until I was 20, then they divorced and my mother moved away. Two years later my father also moved away and now the house is all mine. It's a bit large though but the rent is 0€
2020-04-06 16:29
but u gotta pay the bills rent is 0 wtf lmao
2020-04-06 16:33
Nah, my father covers the water and electricity because "someone's gotta be the housekeeper". It's just to keep the house warm and dry, and the yard clean. He's going to renovate the house after he retires and then maybe sell.
2020-04-06 16:43
Denmark r0zen^_^ 
So you’ve litterally broken up your own parents, cause you didnt wanna move out. They had to divorce and move out seperately to not have to deal with you. Thats pretty gangsta.
2020-04-06 17:04
damn u so lucky mah men. can i live with u?
2020-04-07 11:48
You know it isn't, but if you're in Germany, specially outside of Berlin...i dont think you can justify staying with them after 24-25 , unless you're literally saving to buy a huge house in the center of Berlin or Frankfurt.
2020-04-06 16:32
cyx | 
Germany Shadyy89 
you gonna be saving until you are 70yo xD
2020-04-07 08:18
Sweden GeT_CoRrEcT 
2020-04-06 16:32
Not at all imo Take full advantage of whatever opportunity you get until you have the experience necessary to get a good job if you can manage getting along with your parents. Pretty difficult to have that at 19
2020-04-06 16:33
no lol
2020-04-06 16:34
not yet
2020-04-06 16:39
Other Filipum 
2020-04-06 16:44
Malaysia Suno[t] 
wow they are so young. you should be happy bro you can live with your parents that are healthy and taking care of your welfare. trust me. ;_;
2020-04-06 16:44
United States JoshDAA 
If there is a reason then yea, 19 still is young but if you are pike 24 and living with them but not providing financial backing then something is wrong
2020-04-06 16:45
New Zealand rOtten_97 
No? you could live until you're 25 and it won't be embarrassing. That is if you are independent (have a job, a girlfriend etc...)
2020-04-06 16:46
no dude, but what's the jobs of your parents ?
2020-04-06 16:47
Embarrassing for who? Who cares what ppl say, but are you really comfortable yourself? I started living on my own at 15 and I don't think I could last any time longer.
2020-04-06 16:52
schnauze kosm0
2020-04-06 16:54
No,how the fuck are you supposed to have enough money to move out?Maybe if your parent give you money
2020-04-06 16:58
My mom is too poor for that and my dad probably doesn’t want to
2020-04-06 17:00
Happy | 
Russia Jovik! 
You don't have to move out to your own apps necessarily. Move to the common places like all the rest flake.
2020-04-06 17:30
you should have moved out at 8
2020-04-06 17:00
I built my house before I was even born
2020-04-06 17:02
yes I started living alone at the age of 18
2020-04-06 17:24
Happy | 
Russia Jovik! 
I think yes, it's depressing and stopping you from developing further. Social lacking will bring new problems down the road. I remember living with them, it was hell, finally I'm alone.
2020-04-06 17:29
Denmark Kon10R 
Don't mind others' opinion. If you are on good terms, you like them and y'all good friends ... After all they're the only parents you've got! Ask the guy in the mirror. NOT ppl in here ... without saying too much about the forum/users ... ;O)
2020-04-06 17:29
usually i camp in tspown but if my parents say something to me i push ct
2020-04-06 17:39
2020-04-06 21:05
hell no
2020-04-07 06:51
25 yo no job finishing a degree in May. Live w/ parents I camp t-spawn sometimes holding outside long or b-tunnels (analogy for my motivation in life)
2020-04-07 08:14
No dude, no, you are very young
2020-04-07 08:19
17-21 in here, i moved when i was 19 but i have friends who are the same age as i and they still live with their parents and they are currently 21yo
2020-04-07 08:29
Ukraine S7R4V0X1D 
I moved when I was 17. Moved to a big city all alone. It is so shit to live with parents, idk how can different generations be harmonious
2020-04-07 08:37
Japan eternaL_ 
It depends on a lot of factors doesn’t it? Where you live, whether you’re studying, how much money you have, your relationship with your parents, what you want, what they want etc. I think the only context it would be embarrassing is if you’re at home every day doing nothing productive and nothing to help them. For example I’m 17, I live in Tokyo rn and am planning to go to a university here as well so moving out any time soon would be dumb considering how much money I will save.
2020-04-07 08:47
LeX | 
Turkmenistan Homo_Deus 
I left my family for education when I was 13 (special boarding school). Then University years abroad. Then married. Then children... omg I miss living with my family. Live with your family as long as you have a chance.
2020-04-07 08:53
Then I would be like 30 and livinhc qith them and maybe even older
2020-04-07 11:24
LeX | 
Turkmenistan Homo_Deus 
If you have financial possiblity to live alone but you live with your family because you love your family, it is OK, nothing to ashamed of.
2020-04-07 12:23
i moved out with mates when i was 17, but im pretty sure average age is like 25 or something
2020-04-07 11:23
as long ur relationship is not in a i wanna my murder my parents state, i dont see a problem. i mean they raised u they put u in this world. as long u can stay, u should be happy. dont listen to bullshitters saying u gotta move out with 20 get a job , thats the system, the system is no longer working. be there for them and be a good son
2020-04-07 11:24
tabseN | 
Sweden wyv0 
Live with parents until 30. Use all your income in investing in stocks for 10 years. You dont have to work a day in your life when you hit 30.
2020-04-07 11:25
I checked apartments 3 years ago. the prices are so fkin ridiculous in rotterdam, not a single person can afford it at age 18-19 unless parents pay for it. 50 square meters for 900-1000€ like wtf. my parents have a big house with 3 floors. Ofc I will stay there until i get my shit together.
2020-04-07 11:26
France daniel19 
no it's fine, i left at 20
2020-04-07 11:27
i was kicked out with 16-17, cuz i had always fights with my stepdad and shit. if ur in good terms i think its okay to stay around 25+
2020-04-07 11:27
Damn so you guys competed for ur mom but u lost. How old was she then?
2020-04-07 11:32
she was only 30 at this point, i mean i was a retarded kid not gonna lie. ^^ now i have my own child and realise all my parents have done for me. but u learn the most when ur oldder.
2020-04-07 11:36
What?!??! You were 17 when ur mom was 30? Many think my mom is my sister and it’s nowhere as extreme.
2020-04-07 11:37
this would mean she was 13 when she got me haha. im just fkin with u im still living at home.
2020-04-07 12:02
Ah ok
2020-04-07 12:52
If you have some where to go, yea, why not go move there. If not, dw about it aslong as your parents are happy. Its all about your financial gain
2020-04-07 11:49
Portugal NabasKi 
Yes, I left as soon as my dad jacked off the first time, grew up in the sewers
2020-04-07 11:52
I mean Im 21 now and on College in different city where I live with friends in flat, but now that the colleges are closed, I am home with them.,..most of my friends have it same long as you still are student it should be fine
2020-04-07 12:55
atm I too live with my parents, cuz quarantine and shit. Normally, I would live in a uni dorm, would not recommend. Being an 18 yo guy, I have no way of obtaining an apartment of my own, thus saying that this is ridiculous is stupid af
2020-04-07 13:02
no if they love you
2020-04-07 13:14
Why tf not live with your parents when you don't have to move out? Enjoy living with parents while you can, but you'd better get some gig and start saving up. I moved from parents' house when I was 22 y/o, and I probably would have lived on, if I didn't have to move to another town to work, and that's fine. There is nothing wrong about living with parents for as long as you want or have to.
2020-04-07 13:29
Korea XigNw0w 
No, just take care of them and support them.
2020-04-07 13:39
rain | 
Russia HikZ 
2020-04-07 13:44
I will have to move out this year because of uni, I dont think it should be something embarrassing as long as you work/study/help with the house
2020-04-07 13:49
Man you're still a kid, how's that embarrassing?
2020-04-07 13:53
I don’t know about Israel but here you are an adult at 18
2020-04-09 09:07
Legally of course, but I bet you're still not in the mental state of "adult" nor your surroundings(friends etc), thus I cant find one reason that it's somehow embarrassing.
2020-04-09 17:18
i dont think anyone should care. You'll want/be able to leave at some point, untill that time comes, who cares. "The people who care dont matter, and the people who matter dont care" Dont be a sheep!!
2020-04-07 14:04
NT k0sm0
2020-04-07 14:05
United Kingdom macrocephaly 
Everyone moves out at different time, poorer families tend to require their kids moving out earlier than more wealthy families but I'd say most western families can sustain having children at home a bit longer they're in a stable enough position to leave home, some of the problems we are facing now in Europe and especially in Britain is housing prices are very high and they're increasing plus we're importing more and more people into our country so housing is becoming a more and more distant prospect for young adults.
2020-04-07 14:07
nice plug for your anti immigration shit, yeah the problem is totally immigrants and not the ECB printing 80 billion every quarter and giving it to the banks for free, or the british govt allowing speculation on real estate and allowing multiple home ownership. nah its those brown people. im really glad you retards actually are leaving the eu now. good riddance.
2020-04-08 09:44
United Kingdom macrocephaly 
Most of Britain's immigrants aren't brown you fucking retard they're European which last time I checked were white, the overwhelming majority of migrants to Britain are polish and I'm glad we're leaving the EU too so your taxes go up in order to keep the shithole going for a few more years until it inevitably collapses.
2020-04-08 09:53
oh yeah the polish what a bunch of assholes living in 1 house with 20 guys picking our tomatoes for shit wage, working hard and not complaining, what a bunch of degenerates ahahahahahaha fucking inbred islander with delusions of grandeur
2020-04-08 09:55
United Kingdom macrocephaly 
Nice strawman, just shows how shit you are at arguing that you result to making up your own points to argue against you dumbass.
2020-04-08 09:55
please look up on wikipedia what strawman argument means kiddo
2020-04-08 09:56
United Kingdom macrocephaly 
No where in anything I said did I say that first of all "brown people were the problem" that's something you said, probably projection, and then after that you try to say that I think polish people are degenerates and that I have delusions of grandeur which again must be projection. You're just a moron what I stated was just fact and you've sperged out like an autistic child.
2020-04-08 09:59
>plus we're importing more and more people into our country anti immigration bullshit and i adequately explained there are several other more significant factors in housing prices than the bullshit immigration "problem" you are trying to shoehorn in. then you said "no no i dont mean brown people i mean the polish" as if that makes you any less of an asshat. those poles work harder than you do, kiddo. may i suggest you get a nice hot cup of shut the fuck up? and btw pls stop trying to sound smart.
2020-04-08 10:02
United Kingdom macrocephaly 
and no I didn't say "no no i don't mean brown people i mean the polish" I said the majority of people migrating to Britain aren't brown after you said I was against immigration because they were brown, you're getting worse and worse at replying every time you're not a very smart person are you? very dishonest kind of expected from people such as yourself though, can't win an argument against nuance so you have to try and make up your own arguments and frame people how you want the argument to go
2020-04-08 10:05
>the overwhelming majority of migrants to Britain are polish > I didn't say "no no i don't mean brown people i mean the polish" pick one.
2020-04-08 10:06
United Kingdom macrocephaly 
So if your brain incapable of nuance? like anyone can see how you're misrepresenting what I said you're not even using the correct quotes, you're actually even quoting yourself you dumbass
2020-04-08 10:07
i am actually using the literal quotes you retard ahahaha
2020-04-08 10:08
United Kingdom macrocephaly 
You're quoting yourself you moron.
2020-04-08 10:09
United Kingdom macrocephaly 
You've tried to call me a racist based on literally no evidence, you're a perfect example of a modern far left ideologue.
2020-04-08 10:00
your flag, you shitting on immigrants, and on the polish, is all i need to call you a racist asshat, kiddo. what the fuck is your problem with the polish?
2020-04-08 10:03
United Kingdom macrocephaly 
I don't have a problem with the polish again that's you trying to frame the argument you moron, I can't believe how delusional you are, I simply stated facts that the majority of migrants into Britain are polish.
2020-04-08 10:06
you literally went straight from "immigrants bad" to "look at these polaks" lmao just give up and go wash your mouth with soap and dont talk like this again about people from other countries, its very disrespectful then go tell your single mom she is doing a shit job raising you
2020-04-08 10:07
United Kingdom macrocephaly 
I mean at this point I pity you you're clearly mentally ill and have a literacy rate of a child because you can't seem to grasp what I'm saying at all you can't even read apparently you're saying I said things that I didn't say and you're quoting yourself as if you're quoting me
2020-04-08 10:09
scroll up and read back your own posts kid. im done. thanks for the laugh.
2020-04-08 10:09
United Kingdom macrocephaly 
Nice ad hom attack and good job making yourself look absolutely moronic and spurging out next time read what I actually said you complete retard
2020-04-08 10:10
United Kingdom macrocephaly 
I love how quickly people bail from arguments when they are proven completely wrong and just have nothing left to stand on, they could do the adult thing and admit hey maybe they were wrong but in the era of the Internet they just choose to act like welp this is a loss time for me to get out of here and pretend I didn't say any of that.
2020-04-08 10:28
lmao kiddo im 26 and i still live with family and i save tens of thousands every year saving up to buy a house for myself. this whole "you have to move out when you are 20 and pay 1000 euro in rent every month or you are a failure in life" thing is some bullshit rich kids came up with to make you feel inferior because you dont have a rich daddy. and because they want you to pay 1000 euro in rent to their daddy who owns the rental houses, every month. i know because i was surrounded by these rich kids for the past 14 years of my life. fuck those kids. they never had to work for it. they wont even appreciate it.
2020-04-08 09:42
+1 men take your time and get a good job
2020-04-08 10:04
2020-04-09 03:32
No man,if your famility has the money to have you at home and help you achieve your wanted job then take your time...
2020-04-08 10:03
not embarassing at all man, at 19 most people still study or they are starters in their job
2020-04-08 10:13
I am 32 and I would still live at my mums if I had the chance :D :D Nothing beats "Hotel Mama"
2020-04-08 10:14
Not if you know how to help your parents and take care of your own stuff. Clean your room etc.
2020-04-08 10:16
yes u should move out right after you are born otherwise it gets embarrassing
2020-04-08 10:30
Germany Xantennn 
Ye it's pathetic. I moved out when I was 19. So should you..
2020-04-08 17:10
I moved out to become professional tennisplayer at 17, moved back home at 19. Moved to USA from 20-21. Now been living home and im 22,5. Home is best ive realized lol.
2020-04-08 17:14
I'm 18, my parents are 50 and 55, I still live with them and currently no plans of moving out
2020-04-08 17:16
So old. Must suck.
2020-04-09 09:05
Yes very, you should have your own house and grandchildren by now, fucking beta virgin...
2020-04-08 17:22
i don't feel embarrassed at all. But in these days I feel I need to get smart with money and I feel I need savings so I can move out. I had those thought since years ago but it's expansive to live as alone because I don't earn much. Everything is depended on money. If you have high income then it's easy to move out. That's why I think I need to get smart with money.
2020-04-08 17:29
It used be that way. You shouldn't anymore. Housing costs have went through the roof, while the general wages have not increased comparative to inflation. Population keeps rising, while land mass stays the same. Overtime it'll start to be more acceptable to return to old cultural roots of families living together for as long as possible until a new family via child or grandchild with another partner. I have a feeling the industrial complex will begin to change to accomodate multiple families, by building bigger homes with more privacy when the economy will keep taking hits. The current system is stupid and greed driven. We build condos, but keep making the apartments smaller and smaller. Simple financial math means, the more units per square foot of the property = more income (this started with hotels). This makes sense in theory, as you can fit more tenants in, for a smaller square foot area. However, the housing costs rose past the amount of what an apartment 2x the size was 20 years ago, at 2x the cost. Eventually this will force the housing market to collapse, and run a lot of Realtors out of business. Then we will find other efficient ways of fitting large families into single complexes.. until of course greed will find a way to ruin that as well. Hopefully we colonize Mars when it gets to that point.
2020-04-09 03:45
It's fucking embarrassing and you probably are not even global. Stop wasting your life.
2020-04-09 04:50
Why do you care what other people think about it? I'll say women don't. If it makes sense for you and you have a good relationship don't let HLTV stop you
2020-04-09 17:24
Nah, not at all mate. Live with your parents until you can afford a comfortable living while renting a place. I'm 22 and still living with parents cuz I don't wanna spend 1/3 of my salary on the housing alone. The one big downside is that you can't show your global to gf as much as you'd like, so I had to rent some places overnight from time to time xD
2020-04-09 17:32
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