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I have no social life.
sdy | 
Russia iDeserveMore 
I just sit at my PC all the time or watch Netflix and barely leave home actually (only to buy food and stuff) I have 0 friends and literally 0 people to hang out or go out with. I wanna change it but I don't know how. recently I bought a gym membership but it didn't change much. I go there for like 2 hours a day but I still almost don't interact with people at all and I also I just feel so clueless there
2020-07-01 18:53
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Become politician
2020-07-01 18:53
+1
2020-07-01 20:40
MY DREAM
2020-07-01 20:57
+1 It works, especially in China
2020-07-01 22:11
#286
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Europe H1P_STER
+1
2020-07-02 21:32
#2
stinx | 
Sweden günT
For the love of god Dimitrii please ban this guy
2020-07-01 18:54
wtf why
2020-07-01 18:55
#12
stinx | 
Sweden günT
I can't tell if you're baiting, you probably are. Either way I'm fed up with seeing these posts from you all the time. If you actually are being serious, complaining on hltv all the time isn't going to do anything.
2020-07-01 18:57
but I'm not? It's literally pure truth
2020-07-01 19:03
dont listen to Taiwan. man, just try something new, small talk to people. just step by step. you got this brother.
2020-07-01 19:12
#71
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United States RopzIsCute
+1
2020-07-01 19:25
#79
stinx | 
Sweden günT
He didn't listen to me when I actually did try to help him... about 8 months and 200 threads ago. gj and gl tho
2020-07-01 19:37
You probably said some basic stuff like “go do sports” or “find a hobby” or “just go out and meet people” But nether of these advice are suitable for me
2020-07-01 20:39
Dude most people are boring and they still have friends. You need to pinpoint you weaknesses when interacting with people and read books on social psychology that address these weaknesses. Then, you need to force yourself to fix these behaviors. Some advice I can give you is the problem with most loners is they look like loners and give off loner vibes. You can't seem to be bitter about your life or have weak body language, making yourself look like someone who isn't confident.
2020-07-01 21:16
I mean I guess you are right. I think I know my weaknesses and I’m honest with myself, I just don’t know how to get rid of them
2020-07-01 22:26
You need to read about them or see a therapist dude.
2020-07-01 23:32
wtf mens y u got ukrainian flag now? >:((
2020-07-02 16:26
Fan of Poland
2020-07-02 16:26
very nice i like 👍
2020-07-02 17:09
you are like a mirror for him and he cant handle that 👌😟
2020-07-01 18:57
#20
stinx | 
Sweden günT
hahaha lol 😂😂😂
2020-07-01 18:58
im still concerned men 👌😟
2020-07-01 18:59
#26
stinx | 
Sweden günT
obsessed* ?
2020-07-01 19:00
I am obsessed with helping people but some cases are lost, still I cannot close my eyes or look away 👌😭
2020-07-01 19:01
Too many threads about same thing, you could bump old threads and it would be the same
2020-07-01 18:58
#33
stinx | 
Sweden günT
iDeserveMore = t1m1d I think yes
2020-07-01 19:03
dont go gym, go football club or some shit
2020-07-01 21:01
#39
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Ukraine volod1m1r
Nt dimitri never bans people for no reason. Also you cant cheat of VAC secured servers.
2020-07-01 19:08
#40
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Peru TheJuan
Very rude
2020-07-01 19:08
#81
stinx | 
Sweden günT
Also very rude to tell kosm0 to shut up when he's just looking for friendly advice about his mom!
2020-07-01 19:30
#99
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Peru TheJuan
WTF
2020-07-01 19:46
cünT
2020-07-01 19:20
#82
stinx | 
Sweden günT
Was going to tell dimitrii to ban you too but he obviously doesn't need any help with that 😟
2020-07-01 19:31
+1
2020-07-01 19:47
Fk u why Dimitrii he is the worse admin also TAIWAN NOW? TF
2020-07-02 09:06
Then go outside and socialize with people?
2020-07-01 18:54
Well it's much easier said than done for me
2020-07-01 18:55
Do you not meet people at work, school, gym etc?
2020-07-01 18:56
I finished school on home-shooling and I'm studying remotely in uni atm. I know that's probably the main reason why I don't have any friends cuz I basically don't encounter people IRL. I also have some kind of social anxiety or smth, it's harder to explain but when I'm in a big company of people I'm just so insecure and even intimidated to talk, idk
2020-07-01 19:00
#72
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United States RopzIsCute
When your university starts meeting in person, go and talk to people
2020-07-01 19:26
It’s not glong to, it’s permanently this way (was like this even before corona outbreak)
2020-07-01 20:21
#182
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Russia SW@G
get a job maybe? I've heard stories of people who worked part time even at a place like mcdonalds and made good friends
2020-07-01 21:00
I mean if you live in Russia you must know how terrible our situation with salaries/jobs is. If you don’t have higher education yet you can only get like a mediocre job with like 220$ a month at max by working 8+ hours each day. In Moscow it’s different ofc but Moscow is like a completely different country separated from the the rest of Russia
2020-07-01 22:31
Most people don't go to work because of a salary, they go to work so they have something to wake up to and to feel valuable, which boosts self esteem. So why are you worried about salary? Money is secondary, friends and social life is your primary concern, so go get a job!
2020-07-01 23:00
Because it’s basically slavery and in Russia it’s absolutely outrageous. You can’t possibly live with that amount and people who are renting a flat for example sometimes don’t even have enough to pay. And you gotta buy food and other stuff I’d go to work for sure if the salary was reasonable and it would be enough for me to live comfortably but it’s just not the case
2020-07-02 01:14
Ok I'm realising you are baiting. You live at home since you are studying or watching Netflix 24/7. Crying that you live a boring life and have no friends. So money is not a concern for you since mommy provides food and a bed for you. Everybody in this world is working except you. Go work a "slave" job like every other young person in this world. You get a few bucks, but most importantly you meet people and new opportunities arise. Honestly you sound extremely spoiled. You need a reality check.
2020-07-02 10:04
#289
fnx | 
Brazil Jontsz
Damn. Well said.
2020-07-02 22:08
LOL! Are you, like, 13? 98% of people work because they need money 😂😂😂
2020-07-02 05:16
#80
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Finland mayrakoira
go to bar and drink, then go talk to someone and someone will take you in their group to hang out with you 10/10 works very many times
2020-07-01 19:29
I don’t think I’m confident enough even to enter a bar by myself, like the thought that everyone will be looking at me already makes me scared and uncomfortable. I know it’s weird but if I had someone I know to come with me - I’d go for sure
2020-07-01 20:37
Same 👌😔
2020-07-01 20:43
Go into a bar with a pair of sunglasses, place a 100dollar buck on the table and ask people beside you what do they want to drink ez 10/10 works everytime guaranteed
2020-07-01 21:03
you are insecure in social situations because you don't have a lot of experience of it and you are afraid of it. If you overcome your insecurities and start doing it, it will get easier overtime.
2020-07-01 19:56
+1
2020-07-01 20:29
Most likely you are right but I need to practice it constantly but I just don’t know how to encounter It and even if I did I would still be afraid
2020-07-01 20:38
Same men((
2020-07-01 20:44
Ofc you dont know and you are afraid. You just have to start doong it. Talk to random strangers in the store, on public transport etc. It does not have to be a big conversation only a few words. It will be awkward at first but it will get better. I went through the same man.
2020-07-02 05:07
how do people struggle with the most basic shit in the world, just speak to people ffs, whats the worst thing that could happen? i hate this fragile pussy society
2020-07-01 18:54
how do people struggle with the most basic shit in the world, just speak to people ffs, whats the worst thing that could happen? i hate this fragile pussy society
2020-07-01 18:55
Only people with this problem would understand.
2020-07-01 19:02
if my sister could see what you wrote she would think it is very inconsiderate and douchey you need to respect his feelings
2020-07-01 19:25
snowflake society, whole generation full of pussies, everything is offensive, everything is an illness, everything has to be politcally correct, unbelievable.
2020-07-01 19:29
you sound like a trump supporter people need contact with other humans, nothing wrong with that you don't need to get so worked up because of that
2020-07-01 19:32
this has nothing to do with my political view, if you can't see the problem, you're part of the problem.
2020-07-01 19:35
now i'm a problem? you know, if a person would view everyone else as a problem maybe he should take a look in the mirror what you wrote could be considered offensive by some people
2020-07-01 19:37
terrible take, don't even know what you're trying to tell me. please stop responding.
2020-07-01 19:45
expected
2020-07-01 20:05
it looks like you are denying the existence of every mental ilness or mental problem, which you obviously know is not reasonable. I dont think understanding that some1 is afraid of something is that hard, you are afraid of some things too, just different ones
2020-07-01 23:37
never said that, it's more like my issue is that everything is considered an illness nowadays. some basement dweller who spend all his time nerding online games instead of socializing like any other normal human would, apparently is diagnosed with "social anxiety". shit like that makes me sick to the stomach. i do respect serious mental ilnesses, but you cant deny the fact that we've gottenincredibly soft.
2020-07-02 00:03
its hard to tell 100% accurately. You might be right, but the world dramatically changed in the last few decades, so new problems became relevant
2020-07-02 01:36
You sound insecure, little guy! Why don't you take a breather and think like an adult. Someone has an issue and they need help. If you're not helping FUCK OFF
2020-07-02 09:52
6'5 and shredded btw, impossible to have insecurities if you look like a greek god. also i can smell the soy from you over here, please stop responding to me.
2020-07-02 09:58
Unfortunately, you still fail to grasp that you're the problem here. You're attacking someone for wanting help. I hope when you ask for help, nobody throws a temper tantrum like you did.
2020-07-02 15:06
People have different backgrounds that you don't know about, if you were raped as child you'll probably have a different perception of the world than a guy that was raised in a loving family
2020-07-01 19:35
obviously not talking about the extreme cases. otherwise #77
2020-07-01 19:36
don't mind man. You are just deeply retarded. how do people struggle with the most basic shit in the world, just try to understand people ffs, whats the worst thing that could happen? i hate people who do not try to consider others and actually making yourself better by trying to understand others
2020-07-01 20:40
fragility overload
2020-07-01 21:09
nt fragil isn't egual trying to understand. Trying to understand others makes you stronger and wiser. I won't answer you anymore you are just baiting or really retarded
2020-07-01 21:36
+1
2020-07-01 20:35
nvm
2020-07-01 20:23
#290
fnx | 
Brazil Jontsz
Yeah everybody is a snowflake until you're the one with a problem, huh? Stupid and insensitive. What's easy for you isn't easy for everyone, you should start taking that in considerantion.
2020-07-02 22:10
there we go again.... 0iq comment
2020-07-01 20:38
low iq snowflake can't cope with the reality, keep hiding behind your pc nerd
2020-07-01 20:39
lmao lowiq calls me back lowiq... sense?? i can only tell u im highly intelligent and talented but im shit in social life bcs im so intelligent i admit that, there is no hope for me in social life. now come and talk shit again bcs i dont give a fuck about my grammar
2020-07-01 20:41
highly intelligent but can't form a proper english sentence lmao, please stop replying to me nerd and seek a therapist.
2020-07-01 20:42
"now come and talk shit again bcs i dont give a fuck about my grammar" HAHAHAHAH #147
2020-07-01 20:43
makes no sense, never seen a self proclaimed "highly intelligent" person who can't seem to master basic english. > seek a therapist please.
2020-07-01 20:45
not even self proclaimed idiot. imagine thinking that intelligence reflects in grammar WAHAHAHAHAHAH WTF its honestly sad how dumb u are. well my therapist and my doctor said im highly intelligent, they were suprised that i can easily match my intelligence with highly educated doctors. ur dumbshit brain thinks im lying anyways so...
2020-07-01 20:49
i can literally tell you're an actual dumbass by the way you express yourself, but since you're already in therapy, you're on the right track. I wish you all the best and hope you will find happiness in life.
2020-07-01 20:51
sadly im not what u think:) just bcs my english sucks doesnt mean i cant speak out my intelligence in my mother language. just expressing myself this way bcs hltv is full of retards and its actually funny so there is my autistic "HAHAHAHAHAHAHA" anyways thx i wish u also the best
2020-07-01 20:54
#228
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Finland hermion
I don't think you understand how mental illnesses work.
2020-07-01 22:35
#5
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Albania qiwiumber
naidi rabotu i vseo pomenyaetsa
2020-07-01 18:55
ny za 20k rubles po 8 hours v den' rabotat' ya ne xuchu, mojno bol'she deneg daje na stavkax podnyat'
2020-07-01 18:57
#23
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Russia pvcure13
xaxaxaxax stavki xaxaxaxaxa vidno chto dolbaeb bezmozglii
2020-07-01 18:59
Maybe learn to read in at least in your own language? 20k - eto ochen' malo i eto summy mojno spokoyno v mes daje na stavkax derjat'
2020-07-01 19:01
#102
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Russia pvcure13
prikol v tom cho ti dumaesh chit xot kopeiku zarabotaesh na stavkax kkkkkkk
2020-07-01 19:51
I have already done, speaking from experience that’s why I’m so assertive. But what I was earning wasn’t enough for me, so
2020-07-01 20:34
#143
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Russia pvcure13
You do realize that on average people lose and that people who think they’re good at predicting are either on a lucky streak or are delusional? Do you realize that over 85% of people who make 10 bets or more end up in the red?
2020-07-01 20:36
on dolbaeb. kstati mne predlojili rabotu 100k+ rubles iz rosii, dumayu poka 4to. prosto tyt eto eli minimum stavka
2020-07-01 20:55
#204
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Russia pvcure13
malo blya. v moskve nado 400-500k chtob udobno xot kak to, v regionax 150-200...
2020-07-01 21:20
ta ladno!! tut (v izraile) 400k eto zhit ni v chem ne otkazivaya. d9d9, ti peregibayesh dumayu. nu max dlya moskvi dumayu 300k
2020-07-01 21:21
#207
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Russia pvcure13
vozmozhno nemnogo peregibau, prosto ya psevdomazhor shestnadtsatiletnii, xot v ekonomike ochen dazhe razbirus ( vseros ), 300k vpolne na samom dele, no 100k eto nikak vot tochno. kak v izraele ta zhivetsa, a? chem zanimaeshsya?
2020-07-01 21:27
Ty eblan, dazhe argumentirovat' ne budu. Razbiraetsya on 😂😂😂
2020-07-02 05:19
#271
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Russia pvcure13
ya vserosnik po ekonomike
2020-07-02 14:32
Putinskoi ekonomike ili real'noi 😂😂😂😂
2020-07-02 16:16
#274
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Russia pvcure13
Po toi prozerstvo v kotoroi daet tebe 300k + BVI na luboi ekonomicheskii fakultet
2020-07-02 16:24
Zhivetsya tajko. Dela ploho idut, eli dengi pokushat est. rabotu eli nashol no hot kakuyu nibut izbza koroni. Potom hochu nasobirat na uchebu Brat
2020-07-02 19:31
Well, obviously. Most people lose but there’s always exceptions? I’ve been betting on csgo scene since early 2015, even when there was csgolounge and it started with skins. Back then it was way more consistent and stable, nowadays csgo scene is somewhat random. But you can still make a profit out of it
2020-07-01 22:40
stop speaking russki ffs. transliteration cringe stidoba. wtf dud u complain that have no social life at the same time u choose online education and too lazy to get ur ass off the couch to get a real job instead of the gambling addiction. quit the online education go to the real university where there is actual people to meet doesn't really matter which pohuy hot zaborostroitely PTU. get any job for 20k rub a month everybody start from nothing, then start looking for a real one which requires some skills and interesting for you. I started from 15k almost 10 years ago, and was always switching jobs and cities, now live in Moscow and earn 100k + bonuses, tbf I'm not even working too hard and that's not rly too much here some people of my age make twice as much. But that's Moscow in other cities you can expect may b around 30-40k after several years of experience. I think that's more than enough to rent an apartment and buy groceries. If you get a job u get the chance to socialize with ur colleagues thats something. If u just sit at ur home and never go out for a job or education u will never be able overcome the social anxiety.
2020-07-02 09:38
#278
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Russia pvcure13
100k is nothing in Moscow men
2020-07-02 18:25
Ikr, but 100k is ok for homeless person, everything so expensive here. I live on the street, play CSGO from internet cafe mens)))
2020-07-02 19:10
#283
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Russia pvcure13
If you’re serious wtf - 100k isn’t much but you could rent a kvartira for like 30k in some parts...
2020-07-02 20:30
Ahaha. You have no idea what u're talking about son of mongrel. With 30k may b u can rent a closet in whatever shi7hole ure from.
2020-07-02 21:31
#292
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Russia pvcure13
Men I live in Moscow my dad earned 2-3Mrubles a month in the 2000s and we rent out 9 apartments.
2020-07-02 22:25
Ahaha that's peanuts. My dad owns one of the largest retail networks, he is earning 10 mills a month. He bought the house near Kremlin. Live in poverty dog. Kkkkkkkk.
2020-07-02 22:48
subhuman
2020-07-01 19:15
#101
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Russia pvcure13
me? sure bro, being against gambling sure makes me subhuman WeirdChamp
2020-07-01 19:50
It's not about that. You behave like a subhuman.
2020-07-01 20:06
#140
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Russia pvcure13
What exactly about my behavior is subhuman-like?
2020-07-01 20:34
re-read your messages. If u don't see anything bad in it ur only proving my words then :D
2020-07-01 21:26
#208
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Russia pvcure13
You've said nothing of substance and are now being both smug and passive-aggressive. If it's a subhuman you want to see take a good long look in the mirror. xoroshevo vam vechera
2020-07-01 21:29
first of all learn how to talk with people without insults :DDDDDD
2020-07-01 22:53
#234
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Russia pvcure13
> subhuman k
2020-07-01 22:56
yep re read your message again. It was about your behavior
2020-07-02 00:56
#269
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Albania qiwiumber
ya pro denigi i ne govoril, eto vsego lish shag k tomu chto bi narmolizovati svoiy social life
2020-07-02 10:33
same :)))
2020-07-01 18:55
sounds like good life)))
2020-07-01 18:56
Not really. I get bored and sad sometimes because I see all the people having fun and hanging out together but I just keep sitting at home alone
2020-07-01 18:57
Im basically just like you but without a job . So it's not that bad 😃 There's always worse , like me 😔👌
2020-07-01 20:48
I don’t have a job either
2020-07-01 22:32
then get a job and start function like normal people in society, et voila, its gonna change automatically.
2020-07-02 20:33
meet your cs:go friends in real life, at least you can talk about cs, you can start from there
2020-07-01 18:56
That's rather unrealistic
2020-07-01 18:57
there have to be some cs:go friends that live around you. Although if you are a high rank you will have lower chances. I found like 6-7 fun people to hang out with through cs:go that live within a couple hours from me. that is ontop of the dudes from school who I knew before i played cs with them, which is like 10 people. not in a big city btw.
2020-07-01 19:07
The one screaming rush b idi nahui ?
2020-07-01 19:21
yeah that's my guy
2020-07-01 19:37
probably fun to hang out with
2020-07-01 20:25
#215
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Serbia Provizija
what you can talk about cs? when i met someone who play cs only stuff i could remember to ask him about cs is what is your favorit map
2020-07-01 22:09
esports maybe? idk, just an idea
2020-07-01 22:14
#218
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Serbia Provizija
most people dont watch esports, at least here in serbia
2020-07-01 22:16
Good, then you are safe from corona
2020-07-01 18:57
#161
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Brazil oldStar
+1
2020-07-01 20:45
+1
2020-07-02 09:07
Zaymi sebya chem-nibud,naprimer nauchis delat chto-to v fotoshope ili je v vegase/ae,fotoshopom seychas ochen vigodno nauchistya polzovatsya,vsem postoyanno nujni previyu dlya video ili je avatarki+shapki na kanal.Da eto slojno,no vsyako luchshe chem sidet afk zalipaya v ekran i ne poluchat s etogo profit
2020-07-01 18:58
Da zabei 4el delaet stolko tredov nachet jizni I ne delaet ni4ego
2020-07-01 19:15
On delaet, tol'ko tredi :DDDDDD
2020-07-01 20:10
2020-07-01 18:59
How old are you? Could help me to tell you some tips
2020-07-01 19:00
Hitting 20 soon
2020-07-01 19:02
You could try to go to like night clubs or parties if you can find any. Also working out and going to the gym can help you socialize. For example you can try to speak to people in the gym. If someone looks like they could use some spotting you could ask them or smthng. Just try to be overall a nice guy and when you see a situation where you could socialize just go for it.
2020-07-01 19:10
I don’t feel confident going there alone. If I had a friend or someone I know to go there with me, I would go for sure. But I’m kinda insecure and as fried at the same time that I will fail or be ashamed if I say or do something wrong and it will be embarrassing. I tend to overthink a lot
2020-07-01 20:33
Overthinking is a big issue for everyone. What worked for me was when i realized that none gives too shits. I dont care if someone stutters a bit or looks very nervous so why would anyone else? Also working out helps with confidence a lot. Also if i for example say something wrong that sounds so stupid i usually laugh and people tend to laugh with me not necessary for me.
2020-07-01 21:10
you gotta take a risk at some point, man. put yourself out there and meet somebody
2020-07-01 21:11
I got the same problems and I'm 23.
2020-07-01 19:03
#43
2020-07-01 19:10
Hm really not stuff for me and a way to socialize. I'm extremely antisocial. I guess it would be better to try to start off with very casual conversations. I'll start exercising once I move to another city, but at home that is.
2020-07-01 19:13
Being confident and showing it is easiest way to make new friends. Confidence is something you can practice and work on
2020-07-01 19:14
Well that's true. But I'm still trying to get any confidence after years of being a joke everywhere and my family does not help.
2020-07-01 19:16
Making friends in night club lul
2020-07-01 19:16
Wasn't really for the friends part was for the socializing part. Easy way to talk to people and have some fun
2020-07-01 19:17
U can't socialise if u don't wanna imo
2020-07-01 19:41
an actual title of this thread: "I wanna change it but I don't know how"
2020-07-01 20:11
True but he never said he doesn't want to socialise?
2020-07-01 21:08
He wants change city to try socialise. What's stopping him to try socialise in current city? LEL
2020-07-01 22:03
#32
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Estonia RopzTop1
Your username explains why
2020-07-01 19:03
name checks out hard
2020-07-01 19:04
#37
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Russia Praeter
wow, that's literally me
2020-07-01 19:06
nt
2020-07-01 19:09
Just go outside more WTF dont say its "easier said than done" what do you think, somebody will appear just like that and be your best brat?)))
2020-07-01 19:09
well so you're suggesting I should just approach strangers outside?
2020-07-01 19:10
Probably the easiest way to do it would be taking with people you see every day now - at work. Renew old contacts you ignored cuz of games.
2020-07-01 19:14
The issue is that I don’t encounter people at all, if not counting random strangers or cashiers and stuff
2020-07-01 20:28
#44
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Poland JKG
I dont know TBH I met all my friends in school or at some parties I was invited to I don't really know how to met people besides school/work or parties
2020-07-01 19:10
yeah exactly thats what I also think, most people get initial friends from school and then u meet other people and by their acquaintances and get more friends
2020-07-01 19:17
#96
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Poland JKG
Yeah people will say some bullshit like "go out LOL" or something, but it's really hard when you think about it
2020-07-01 19:45
Exactly, you’re reading my mind
2020-07-01 20:30
+1000000 dude my friends only come from school considering I'm not going to parties
2020-07-01 20:48
#47
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Malaysia Suno[t]
enjoy it whilst it last. one day life will force itself on you and you will regret being down in those moments. These are one of the best days of your life, embrace it whilst it last!
2020-07-01 19:11
I don’t really agree with this statement
2020-07-01 20:27
#128
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Malaysia Suno[t]
I used to feel the same way until life forced itself on me. I cherish those moments 100%
2020-07-01 20:28
#48
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Poland aluaP
There might be no need to socialize with others. Some people are just introverts and being alone is actually better than with people. You will probably find some friends by getting a job, that should be absolutely fine. Even if you don't have courage to make friends irl you can still try on the internet. You might get to know someone there, then extend the relationship in reality which should be easier. Good luck :)
2020-07-01 19:11
This is true but still I feel lonely sometimes and jealous of some people have have friends/girlfriends. Actually I think I would be fine I I just found that one good suitable girlfriend
2020-07-01 20:27
I just hope that she doesn't have onlyfans account KEK
2020-07-02 09:47
just smoke weed
2020-07-01 19:13
i dont even know where to get it and it's probably garbage in our city
2020-07-01 19:18
Dude weed is scientifically shown to make people lazy. You'll probably never fix your social life if start smoking it.
2020-07-01 21:19
But I might feel bette or happier? idk but I was considering it
2020-07-01 22:23
passing it to you right now my scandinavian viking brother......(exhales slowly)
2020-07-01 19:21
goof for you peapole are worse than animals
2020-07-01 19:14
same
2020-07-01 19:17
hit up ppl from ur hs
2020-07-01 19:19
hs?
2020-07-01 20:25
high school
2020-07-01 20:32
I was on home-schilling during high school time that’s the problem and probably why I don’t have any friends from the childhood
2020-07-01 22:24
maybe you can do a therapy to learn it? no offense, this is serious advice. but u miss nothing, talked to people for 20 years. annoying af, they start to repeat themselfs after a while over and over again. same shit different day.
2020-07-01 19:24
It’s probably expensive af and I can’t even afford some stuff I need I don’t think you can get it for free
2020-07-01 20:25
ah ok that sucks, we have health care here in germany, those sessions are paid by our insurance companys. then you need to make a leap. start a routine, have a goal and learn slowy but steady to loose your fear and anxiety. go to public places, join some sort of sports/team/club. every effort is good. google youtube videos about your issues / smalltalk. skip bullshit you are not interested in. school yourself. plus there a plenty of books. you need to work on yourself, grow as a person. reading is one way to do it. I recommend this very much: How To Win Friends And Influence People by Dale Carnegie. - it's so helpful and easy once understood. give yourself time, even if it takes months to make real progress. but you need to DO something to CHANGE something.
2020-07-02 10:24
relax my man if you have 1 legit friend in your life your good to go. instead of going to the gym, go for a run each day. it is the best therapy every and of course remember to smoke a big juicy spliff 😎
2020-07-01 19:25
But I don’t have even one that’s the problem
2020-07-01 20:24
I was in a similar situation in the past. I’d suggest going to some drama/theatre course... I also went to a dance course (some turkish folkloric dance)... Plus, finding a parttime or full time job helps a lot with meeting people. I never had a friend from the gym but others i mentioned worked with me.
2020-07-01 19:26
#106
flusha | 
Finland )))
yeah if you want gay/female friends
2020-07-01 20:07
nt alpha male
2020-07-01 20:23
Ahahaha
2020-07-01 21:17
you can fuck them all :| it's a win win
2020-07-02 10:25
same but i enjoy it and i still have some friends to play games with but i cba going out with them
2020-07-01 19:28
haha, good for you, its not ok you have 0 friends, good people will never have 0 friends. karma
2020-07-01 19:28
in fact i m not social person too, i prefer web world i meet people here and do anything i need also here except for eating of course lol
2020-07-01 19:28
you need to develop interests that will allow you to interact with people with common interest. Like consider joining some societies, clubs, etc. For instance, if you like netflix you must like cinema, then see if there are any film clubs at the uni. Take it easy though, initially attend once a month and see how you feel but make the effort and try to talk to people. Use the common interest as a catalyst and initiate a conversation. Once you make one friend, then it is easier to make more. Event that single friend could introduce you to new friends.
2020-07-01 19:28
Our city is kinda undeveloped and there isn’t much stuff like in good countries/cities
2020-07-01 20:23
The older you get, the harder it is to git gud friends. Source: I'm in the older bracket of this website regarding age You got a good ideia but bad execution - hobbies really approach people but gym goers ain't there to chit chat bruh. You won't get more than "oh wassup m8, care to spot me 200kg bench?" "wtf stop taking pics of me ass u pervert psycho!!1!" My advice: find a another hobby. Cyclist usually ride in sizable groups. Martial arts, like BJJ, are awesome as well (my fav nowadays). Did you try Airsoft?
2020-07-01 19:29
+1
2020-07-01 19:44
Yeah I actually think the same, it’s just that a lot of people have suggesting starting with a gym. And I also want to improve my body, so
2020-07-01 20:22
a legend right here
2020-07-01 20:33
You shouldn't be going to the gym with the purpose of interaction,interaction should perhaps only happen in the changing room.
2020-07-01 19:32
same, + no work and i like drinking because its easier live when u are drunk.
2020-07-01 19:35
i love to read comments and write mine; im happy to stay in the background as long as i want - Internet Forever!
2020-07-01 19:36
#94
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Argentina iamNOTgay
ok
2020-07-01 19:41
become happy with ur own personality first and then u will attract many ppl. self confidence attracts everything in your life.
2020-07-01 19:46
This might be true but it will take a lot of time and whiling doing that I’m still gonna be lonely
2020-07-01 20:29
youtube.com/watch?v=lP077RitNAc this song help me when drinking, maybe help u too.
2020-07-01 20:12
same yet i don't feel terrible nor happy not dead inside but more like empty or lifeless
2020-07-01 20:16
#112
HS | 
Poland xBG1
psychopaths are usualy different from society
2020-07-01 20:19
#163
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Brazil oldStar
+1
2020-07-01 20:47
Go hang out with the local gypsies
2020-07-01 20:27
Hahahaha
2020-07-01 21:18
Go get a job and learn to know people from there
2020-07-01 20:28
start at a sport or join a club or some other sort - you will have natural inclinatiom towards people who shares the same interests. Maybe you have seen something on netflix that was interesting. Gym is bad place to get friends btw. you go there with friends you have already if so.
2020-07-01 20:28
do you study?
2020-07-01 20:28
HAHA SAME BRATAAAAN, ik this feeling man; no money no friends sadly
2020-07-01 20:29
Vpervi pomenai svoj nick, nexuia ti ne zadeservil, idi paxai, trudis, vkalavij na rabote.
2020-07-01 20:33
I know man, i am experiencing same shit. Part of the reason is me
2020-07-01 20:32
school? job? anything where can meet people if not download tinder
2020-07-01 20:36
Well, i finished school and i worked 2 summer jobs. With some school friends i lost touch and some other backstabbed me so i don’t want to do anything with them anymore. Also met new people at summer jobs and i became rly good friends with some of them, we hanged out every day and stuff. When summer ended, everyone parted ways with each other and i slowly lost touch with almost all of them. And now i am pretty much like the guy who made this thread. That’s how it goes in life i guess..
2020-07-01 20:49
if you cant get friends irl get online if that helps
2020-07-01 20:50
and as i said tinder?
2020-07-01 20:50
Not much of a help
2020-07-01 21:07
you look that bad?
2020-07-01 21:36
No, but why would tinder help me?
2020-07-01 21:55
get a gf?
2020-07-01 21:56
download tinder dude
2020-07-01 20:36
Worst dating app .
2020-07-01 20:54
i dont use it i dont need it but if you got nobody its better than nothing
2020-07-01 20:55
Okay men ))
2020-07-01 20:57
for me i would get girls and actually one hit me up on party was cringe af but i dont want em just waste of time i got male friends to i like to drink and play cs or league thats all i want
2020-07-01 20:59
also remember girls like to suck dick most after your wallet
2020-07-01 20:59
Not all
2020-07-01 21:06
its like csgo, if u play 1 hour u will suck if u play like 1000 hours u will be good if u play 10.000 hours u will be really good. speaking to strangers is the same, u just gotta do it alot and realise that its not that bad.
2020-07-01 20:38
so? I do too, but I feel fine.
2020-07-01 20:43
ass
2020-07-01 20:44
#162
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Brazil oldStar
I am you but happy because i have my PC and Hands... that's all i need !
2020-07-01 20:46
wifi?
2020-07-01 20:50
I am him but without a job and with a shit pc 😔👌
2020-07-01 20:53
what about legs
2020-07-01 21:13
Have you seen these youtube pranks ? 😹 Just do what they do and then ask a girl for their number . Warning this only works if you're attractive or average 😹👌 Like ask them where is the library lol , and then you know 👀
2020-07-01 20:53
Same, but I do have friends IRL but I choose to be alone and learn new shit on the internet every day, there's no set of rules in your life do whatever the fuck you want and enjoy life dude.
2020-07-01 21:02
Hah, I do
2020-07-01 21:04
start smoking and drinking and you get friends easy, but if you give up drinking & smoke, they disappear easier
2020-07-01 21:04
what about work?
2020-07-01 21:05
looking at your responses it seems like you're afraid of everything. that wont get you anywhere, you have to put yourself in an uncomfortable position to start something
2020-07-01 21:11
Its okay, just go to work like i did. you will have socialism there, although usually the max you can get out of a work like this is 1 person at most, that you will be in contact with after you leave that work. just remember, never get attached to anybody: ENJOY THE MOMENT, BE GRATEFUL FOR THESE MOMENTS, AND AT THE SAME TIME UNDERSTAND THAT THIS TIME IS GOING TO PAST SOON.
2020-07-01 21:11
#198
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Lithuania rohall
go work or school
2020-07-01 21:14
Join meetup.com.
2020-07-01 21:16
Is it a legit site? Even if it is I doubt Russia is listed there anyway and especially me shithole city
2020-07-01 22:33
#258
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Europe Whatafz
Yeah, buy fake friends. -1
2020-07-02 09:09
pay a camgirl
2020-07-01 22:02
I feel you. After the highschool I wasnt able to go to the university because I needed some surgerys. I didnt talk to anybody, almost all my friends from school disappeared. I started watching YesTheory on Youtube (last september), they gave me so much energy and positivity. I started with the gym, slowly, because I was'nt able to do any physical work for last 4 years before that. I have gained 6kg since last october-november, thats at least something and I am happy with that.
2020-07-01 22:16
That’s really unfortunate. But did u manage to make some friends eventually?
2020-07-01 22:34
I still dont have much friends. I dont think people are searching friends at the gym, I know some people there, we always say hello, but nothing more. I have been talking with my crush from highschool since the corona lockdown started. I still talk with and meet my biggest friend from highschool sometimes. I'm trying to go to the uni in this year, hope they accept me because my exams were'nt great. I have gained a lot of confidence tho.
2020-07-02 08:30
Its something you improve on little by little. Start off by making some gaming friends if you play Cs or any other multiplayer game, strike up a conversation at the gym, a cashier, whoever else and little by little you'll feel more comfortable interacting with people and more out there. You can sign up for some activity/group you like where's there's more interaction involved, like sports, airsoft, dance classes, swimming, whatever else you enjoy.
2020-07-01 22:31
#230
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Serbia Provizija
just go to gay club or nonguvarment organisation and act like liberal, they will accept everyone
2020-07-01 22:36
try to find people who play cs in your school/uni. maybe u can hang out irl with them
2020-07-01 22:52
get money == ez friends pretend u dont know they fake == ez usage remove the friends == ez scammage repeat cycle
2020-07-01 23:38
Well...due to corona virus U cant do much. But, after it, try to find a Hobbie (martial arts are good one), if you are not studying try to get back to education or just get a job. And yeah, your social skills are probably low right now (its a matter of training) and at the beginning might be hard, do your best to get out of this situation the sooner the better. As well, maybe there is some books out there that might help, best thing you can do during this quarantine. Find things you like to do and you will met people with common interest. Also,dont get too attached to any "new friends" some of them might end up being toxic, boring af, etc...Good luck.
2020-07-01 23:46
#240
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Japan Sayon4Ra
Download tinder & fuck insta thots. Its ez
2020-07-01 23:43
That might have worked if I was attractive, unfortunately not the case
2020-07-02 01:20
Best way to make friends is find an outdoor activity like hiking for example, and find organizationa which are organising hiking sessions in groups (plenty of them out there).
2020-07-01 23:44
The way to get a social life is the same as the way to get good at a game. You practice, you learn from people who are good at it, you practice some more. Live practice that is, with actual people. Don't let feeling awkward / afraid stop you. Don't beat yourself up for it either. That's normal when you don't know what you're doing, so learn to tolerate being uncomfortable. It doesn't make you less of a man. Once you start figuring it out your confidence will grow. If you make yourself socialise 10 hours a week you'll be doing well in a year. Well worth it, trust me.
2020-07-02 08:35
Also, some tips that might be helpful: - Watch people when you talk to them. Their mood, how they say things, their body language. - Point out things you see - e.g. you look stressed when you talk about that. You just invited someone to share their feelings. - Small talk about what's happening is fine. - Being well read or knowing a little about many things helps a lot with finding things to say. - Set goals for your life - career, personal growth, etc. That will give you something to connect with people over as well. - Express your own feelings - if you had a stressful day, tell people. But do it in a light hearted way and don't spill your guts unless someone asks you to. E.g. 'My day way shit haha!' with a smile. People need windows into who you are. It will help them remember you and it will give them something to talk to you about. - Dead serious: you can even talk about your journey of learning how to socialise and be confident. People *love* helping and giving advice, so long as you keep it optimistic ('I've set a goal to learn how to make friends', rather than the negative: 'I can't make friends I'm such a loser'). They will judge you less than you expect. If anything they'll empathize. - Super super important: don't judge yourself for being bad at socialising at the moment. It's probably not your fault you ended up here and everyone starts off bad at things. When you meet people or go on dates you will feel nervous, you will say awkward things, and that's OKAY. Part of confidence and charm is becoming comfortable with your own silliness. All people are goofballs when you get behind the social mask, so it's fine that you're one too. Hope that helps. Stay strong and you'll make it. The other side is easier to get to than you think.
2020-07-02 08:49
Also I suggest people to not use Instagram daily, everything you see there is fake and it makes an illusion that your life is worth nothing.
2020-07-02 22:04
#253
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Poland iDRYTOWEL
kinda same id suggest you going to a playing field and asking some people ur age if u could play with them
2020-07-02 09:02
It's still corona season so its fine. Just meet people after everything returns to normal.
2020-07-02 09:05
#257
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Europe Whatafz
If you lived in the Nederlands we can hang. But Russian little bit far-away
2020-07-02 09:09
#264
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Spain X4rly
Good for you society sucks
2020-07-02 10:01
#268
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Latvia tibr0
lmao do you had like school friends or near home childhood or smth like how u cant interact i cant understand xdd or u just that shy
2020-07-02 10:27
#270
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Russia Reqq1
This is a new information world.
2020-07-02 10:33
#280
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Brazil pilastra
Get a disabled god ... everybody will talk to you
2020-07-02 19:10
#282
rko | 
Netherlands WWF
Fix your life god damn it
2020-07-02 19:31
that's normal for an introvert
2020-07-02 22:04
#291
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Brazil Mumuk
Well, in this quarentene, is kind off hard to socialize, you can't go to some place and find people, so for online situation, if you play CS, start talking with people, be nice, start to make funny comments about some situations, logical, never getting to the point when it's turn offensive, even tough, people mistake, give them nice feedbacks and invite them to play again another day. For the real life socialization, go to place that you like, if you like sports, go to a place where people that like sports are, and start talking with them, if you are in some place and see someone wearing, for example, your favorite band t-shirt, comment with this person, like "nice shirt, where did you get her? - was there some other t-shirts about this band? - I saw once, one t-shirt about this album, that is my favorite, is it your favorite too? - No? so Which one? - I know that start a conversation it's hard when you are shy, but you will see that it's just something in your mind, is not hard at all :) Good Luck mate, you will get over it.
2020-07-02 22:16
Okay you don't have to nothing makes you better
2020-07-02 22:26
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