For the love of god Dimitrii please ban this guy
Then go outside and socialize with people?
how do people struggle with the most basic shit in the world, just speak to people ffs, whats the worst thing that could happen? i hate this fragile pussy society
naidi rabotu i vseo pomenyaetsa
meet your cs:go friends in real life, at least you can talk about cs, you can start from there
Good, then you are safe from corona
Zaymi sebya chem-nibud,naprimer nauchis delat chto-to v fotoshope ili je v vegase/ae,fotoshopom seychas ochen vigodno nauchistya polzovatsya,vsem postoyanno nujni previyu dlya video ili je avatarki+shapki na kanal.Da eto slojno,no vsyako luchshe chem sidet afk zalipaya v ekran i ne poluchat s etogo profit
How old are you? Could help me to tell you some tips
Your username explains why
Just go outside more WTF dont say its "easier said than done" what do you think, somebody will appear just like that and be your best brat?)))
I dont know TBH
I met all my friends in school or at some parties I was invited to
I don't really know how to met people besides school/work or parties
enjoy it whilst it last. one day life will force itself on you and you will regret being down in those moments. These are one of the best days of your life, embrace it whilst it last!
There might be no need to socialize with others. Some people are just introverts and being alone is actually better than with people. You will probably find some friends by getting a job, that should be absolutely fine. Even if you don't have courage to make friends irl you can still try on the internet. You might get to know someone there, then extend the relationship in reality which should be easier. Good luck :)
goof for you peapole are worse than animals
maybe you can do a therapy to learn it? no offense, this is serious advice.
but u miss nothing, talked to people for 20 years. annoying af, they start to repeat themselfs after a while over and over again. same shit different day.
relax my man
if you have 1 legit friend in your life your good to go.
instead of going to the gym, go for a run each day. it is the best therapy every
and of course remember to smoke a big juicy spliff 😎
I was in a similar situation in the past. I’d suggest going to some drama/theatre course... I also went to a dance course (some turkish folkloric dance)... Plus, finding a parttime or full time job helps a lot with meeting people. I never had a friend from the gym but others i mentioned worked with me.
same but i enjoy it and i still have some friends to play games with
but i cba going out with them
haha, good for you, its not ok you have 0 friends, good people will never have 0 friends. karma
in fact i m not social person too, i prefer web world i meet people here and do anything i need also here except for eating of course lol
you need to develop interests that will allow you to interact with people with common interest. Like consider joining some societies, clubs, etc. For instance, if you like netflix you must like cinema, then see if there are any film clubs at the uni. Take it easy though, initially attend once a month and see how you feel but make the effort and try to talk to people. Use the common interest as a catalyst and initiate a conversation.
Once you make one friend, then it is easier to make more. Event that single friend could introduce you to new friends.
The older you get, the harder it is to git gud friends.
Source: I'm in the older bracket of this website regarding age
You got a good ideia but bad execution - hobbies really approach people but gym goers ain't there to chit chat bruh. You won't get more than "oh wassup m8, care to spot me 200kg bench?" "wtf stop taking pics of me ass u pervert psycho!!1!"
My advice: find a another hobby. Cyclist usually ride in sizable groups. Martial arts, like BJJ, are awesome as well (my fav nowadays). Did you try Airsoft?
You shouldn't be going to the gym with the purpose of interaction,interaction should perhaps only happen in the changing room.
same, + no work and i like drinking because its easier live when u are drunk.
i love to read comments and write mine; im happy to stay in the background as long as i want - Internet Forever!
become happy with ur own personality first and then u will attract many ppl.
self confidence attracts everything in your life.
yet i don't feel terrible nor happy
not dead inside but more like empty or lifeless
psychopaths are usualy different from society
Go hang out with the local gypsies
Go get a job and learn to know people from there
start at a sport or join a club or some other sort - you will have natural inclinatiom towards people who shares the same interests. Maybe you have seen something on netflix that was interesting.
Gym is bad place to get friends btw. you go there with friends you have already if so.
HAHA SAME BRATAAAAN, ik this feeling man; no money no friends sadly
Vpervi pomenai svoj nick, nexuia ti ne zadeservil, idi paxai, trudis, vkalavij na rabote.
I know man, i am experiencing same shit. Part of the reason is me
its like csgo, if u play 1 hour u will suck if u play like 1000 hours u will be good if u play 10.000 hours u will be really good. speaking to strangers is the same, u just gotta do it alot and realise that its not that bad.
so? I do too, but I feel fine.
I am you but happy because i have my PC and Hands... that's all i need !
Have you seen these youtube pranks ? 😹
Just do what they do and then ask a girl for their number .
Warning this only works if you're attractive or average 😹👌
Like ask them where is the library lol , and then you know 👀
Same, but I do have friends IRL but I choose to be alone and learn new shit on the internet every day, there's no set of rules in your life do whatever the fuck you want and enjoy life dude.
start smoking and drinking and you get friends easy, but if you give up drinking & smoke, they disappear easier
looking at your responses it seems like you're afraid of everything. that wont get you anywhere, you have to put yourself in an uncomfortable position to start something
Its okay, just go to work like i did. you will have socialism there, although usually the max you can get out of a work like this is 1 person at most, that you will be in contact with after you leave that work.
just remember, never get attached to anybody:
ENJOY THE MOMENT, BE GRATEFUL FOR THESE MOMENTS, AND AT THE SAME TIME UNDERSTAND THAT THIS TIME IS GOING TO PAST SOON.
I feel you.
After the highschool I wasnt able to go to the university because I needed some surgerys. I didnt talk to anybody, almost all my friends from school disappeared.
I started watching YesTheory on Youtube (last september), they gave me so much energy and positivity. I started with the gym, slowly, because I was'nt able to do any physical work for last 4 years before that.
I have gained 6kg since last october-november, thats at least something and I am happy with that.
Its something you improve on little by little. Start off by making some gaming friends if you play Cs or any other multiplayer game, strike up a conversation at the gym, a cashier, whoever else and little by little you'll feel more comfortable interacting with people and more out there. You can sign up for some activity/group you like where's there's more interaction involved, like sports, airsoft, dance classes, swimming, whatever else you enjoy.
just go to gay club or nonguvarment organisation and act like liberal, they will accept everyone
try to find people who play cs in your school/uni. maybe u can hang out irl with them
get money == ez friends
pretend u dont know they fake == ez usage
remove the friends == ez scammage
Well...due to corona virus U cant do much. But, after it, try to find a Hobbie (martial arts are good one), if you are not studying try to get back to education or just get a job. And yeah, your social skills are probably low right now (its a matter of training) and at the beginning might be hard, do your best to get out of this situation the sooner the better.
As well, maybe there is some books out there that might help, best thing you can do during this quarantine. Find things you like to do and you will met people with common interest. Also,dont get too attached to any "new friends" some of them might end up being toxic, boring af, etc...Good luck.
Download tinder & fuck insta thots. Its ez
Best way to make friends is find an outdoor activity like hiking for example, and find organizationa which are organising hiking sessions in groups (plenty of them out there).
The way to get a social life is the same as the way to get good at a game. You practice, you learn from people who are good at it, you practice some more. Live practice that is, with actual people.
Don't let feeling awkward / afraid stop you. Don't beat yourself up for it either. That's normal when you don't know what you're doing, so learn to tolerate being uncomfortable. It doesn't make you less of a man.
Once you start figuring it out your confidence will grow. If you make yourself socialise 10 hours a week you'll be doing well in a year. Well worth it, trust me.
Also, some tips that might be helpful:
- Watch people when you talk to them. Their mood, how they say things, their body language.
- Point out things you see - e.g. you look stressed when you talk about that. You just invited someone to share their feelings.
- Small talk about what's happening is fine.
- Being well read or knowing a little about many things helps a lot with finding things to say.
- Set goals for your life - career, personal growth, etc. That will give you something to connect with people over as well.
- Express your own feelings - if you had a stressful day, tell people. But do it in a light hearted way and don't spill your guts unless someone asks you to. E.g. 'My day way shit haha!' with a smile. People need windows into who you are. It will help them remember you and it will give them something to talk to you about.
- Dead serious: you can even talk about your journey of learning how to socialise and be confident. People *love* helping and giving advice, so long as you keep it optimistic ('I've set a goal to learn how to make friends', rather than the negative: 'I can't make friends I'm such a loser'). They will judge you less than you expect. If anything they'll empathize.
- Super super important: don't judge yourself for being bad at socialising at the moment. It's probably not your fault you ended up here and everyone starts off bad at things. When you meet people or go on dates you will feel nervous, you will say awkward things, and that's OKAY. Part of confidence and charm is becoming comfortable with your own silliness. All people are goofballs when you get behind the social mask, so it's fine that you're one too.
Hope that helps. Stay strong and you'll make it. The other side is easier to get to than you think.
id suggest you going to a playing field and asking some people ur age if u could play with them
It's still corona season so its fine. Just meet people after everything returns to normal.
If you lived in the Nederlands we can hang. But Russian little bit far-away
Good for you society sucks
lmao do you had like school friends or near home childhood or smth
like how u cant interact i cant understand xdd
or u just that shy
This is a new information world.
Get a disabled god ... everybody will talk to you
Fix your life god damn it
that's normal for an introvert
Well, in this quarentene, is kind off hard to socialize, you can't go to some place and find people, so for online situation, if you play CS, start talking with people, be nice, start to make funny comments about some situations, logical, never getting to the point when it's turn offensive, even tough, people mistake, give them nice feedbacks and invite them to play again another day.
For the real life socialization, go to place that you like, if you like sports, go to a place where people that like sports are, and start talking with them, if you are in some place and see someone wearing, for example, your favorite band t-shirt, comment with this person, like "nice shirt, where did you get her? - was there some other t-shirts about this band? - I saw once, one t-shirt about this album, that is my favorite, is it your favorite too? - No? so Which one? - I know that start a conversation it's hard when you are shy, but you will see that it's just something in your mind, is not hard at all :) Good Luck mate, you will get over it.
Okay you don't have to nothing makes you better