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Ethiopia MajesticVirgin 
Would that be weird if you tried talking to some random girl at the gym you don’t know?
2020-07-05 11:48
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2020-07-05 11:48
Yes, let them exercise in peace you weirdo.
2020-07-05 11:49
That’s what I also thought initially that’s why I’m asking if it’s weird or not
2020-07-05 11:51
gotta see the signals pal.
2020-07-05 11:52
I just saw one really cute girl and she was going back and forth around the gym area but the thing is she was wearing headphones at first but then she took them off for some reason and I had the opportunity to say something as she was close to me for a while but I didn’t know if I should and what to say at all
2020-07-05 11:57
name checks out
2020-07-05 12:01
Haha you are so funny Haha
2020-07-05 13:25
thanks, although i don't remember asking
2020-07-05 13:38
Do I look like I give 2 fucks?
2020-07-05 16:38
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2020-07-05 16:56
yes johnatan please do not ban me
2020-07-05 16:58
isnt erna husko that finnish girl I see on my snapchat all the time? lol
2020-07-05 17:09
Finland Slyp3
Are you american lol?
2020-07-05 17:13
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Finland Slyp3
Do you see her stories when you are in states?
2020-07-05 17:14
dont know, but right now I'm in rn norway and I can see them here
2020-07-05 17:16
Finland Slyp3
lol, didnt know she was getting so much views
2020-07-05 17:25
yes he does, i also see her and im in ireland, fucking annoying ass ugly ass bitch
2020-07-05 21:22
Finland Slyp3
yeah xd
2020-07-05 21:22
2020-07-06 10:04
She. Is. Hot. Bro
2020-07-05 17:24
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Finland SunMutsi
ofc she is, she aint swedish.
2020-07-07 11:43
2020-07-07 17:18
mad cos ugly
2020-07-10 20:58
Happy cos true
2020-07-12 21:43
That dude on the picture looks more attractive than 99% of mens in HLTV
2020-07-12 22:13
2020-07-13 09:05
Jonathan is a fucking moron,so he will probably ban u
2020-07-06 17:20
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stfN | 
Ukraine telur
2020-07-06 09:51
You're a tool
2020-07-08 08:14
2020-07-05 21:26
why is every swedistaner so retarded lmao
2020-07-06 17:36
stfN | 
Ukraine telur
2020-07-06 09:51
Check her out after the gym, not at the gym or during exercise. Ask her nicely if she has two minutes because you want to ask her out. No problem to approach directly if you are friendly.
2020-07-05 12:57
NiKo | 
Philippines yekeko
2020-07-05 14:18
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Ireland Sodaking
alright you've given him the best advice so far and yea it depends on how your approaching a female at a gym and what your gonna say obviously have shit prepared and if she's just not interested go back to whatever gym exercise you were doing but I'd say don't approach one if she's in the middle of some workout cause even a guy would find that annoying
2020-07-05 14:21
United Kingdom dRe4Ms
you're* you're* you're*you're* you're* you're*you're* you're* you're*you're* you're* you're*you're* you're* you're*!!
2020-07-05 17:19
zori 4 bd englndo
2020-07-05 21:23
+1 shame on his fucking flag if hes not fake flagging. the absolute saddest thing ever is the people who STILL cant write your/you're properly from what ive seen, tends to be people from uk/ireland/states which is fucking depressing seeing as they were born and raised with english and is probably the only fucking language they speak i feel sorry for you in uk. i WAS friends with a guy from uk whos a cop and hes absolutely braindead in more ways than one and also writes 'your' all the time no matter the context. i feel bad for you that you have to have faith and trust in some retard like that to keep you/your country safe
2020-07-05 21:25
Spain 1996
2020-07-06 18:44
Ecuador Ageless
2020-07-17 10:07
my god get a life Grammar Nazi you sad cunt
2020-07-05 22:53
Venezuela Jorge_
the only sad thing here is that you only know one language and can't even be bothered to write it down properly.
2020-07-06 10:08
there is a lot of countries who speak English and it does differ a lot i just never saw any importance in Grammar at all i feel like anyone who's not retarded can understand what i am saying
2020-07-06 18:28
Irish people don't need to learn any other languages like Lithuanians do, as they need to learn English to emigrate to English-speaking countries xD (Im joking mens)) Lietuva <3 All joking aside, most people in Ireland and England don't speak any other languages fluently, as the level at which other languages are taught are usually extremely poor. For example, my best friend studied French at school, and got an A in his leaving Certificate exams, yet when he went to France he could barely communicate effectively, as the Irish school system is based on getting you to pass an exam, and not to learn the language fluently, whereas in the Nordic countries for example, the standard of teaching foreign languages is excellent, and their method of teaching encourages fluency rather than to pass exams.
2020-07-07 23:29
tf do you know he only knows one language?
2020-07-08 08:15
But how would he time that? If he waits until she's done and then follows her, that'd be some next level stalker shit.
2020-07-05 21:27
Nah, if he sees her often then he automatically knows when she comes and when she's leaving. You can time it without stalking. Before or after the gym isn't important. It's important that it's not when she's exercising.
2020-07-05 22:00
Switzerland noxer*
Its even more weird to tell her "hey got two minutes? I wanna ask you out". He should just do it casually and not really overthink it, if he feels like there is a good opportunity for a quick chat in between sets he should go for it. And then later after she is done with the gym and he warmed things up with that quick chat then he can ask for her number or instagram or whatever
2020-07-07 09:33
That's what I meant but inside during exercising the opportunity is ultra rare. Afterwards is way better because you actually split up (or if it runs perfectly you can go have a drink immediately).
2020-07-09 19:10
case the joint, pay off the staff to be your backup
2020-07-05 13:31
Shoot your shot. If she doesnt want anything w you move on
2020-07-06 16:37
You should approach them in womens dressing room to show big confidence.
2020-07-06 10:56
African Union IcanSEEit
nah not weird. just ask her if she needs some dick or not.
2020-07-11 14:20
Thats not really accurate though, a lot of girls say that they are fine if you approach them when they are just walking around or clearly having a break. Just dont approach them in the middle of working out.
2020-07-05 12:39
no shit sherlock
2020-07-05 13:28
ok so instead of telling #2 something that actually makes sense you tell me this instead. wow, gj.
2020-07-05 17:45
he's a baiter seeking for attention why would i talk to a stupid person anyways?
2020-07-05 19:25
World Beard43
Surely you talk to yourself from time to time, most people do.
2020-07-05 20:03
0/8 but nt
2020-07-05 21:25
? 2short
2020-07-05 22:14
yes, mind your own business
2020-07-05 11:49
Maybe his business is going gym to hit girls.
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United States Jaksin
2020-07-05 21:51
That’s be some creepy and somewhat sad business ;(
2020-07-06 13:28
To each their own.
2020-07-06 16:30
at least he is doing it for real and not on snapchat/instagram ...
2020-07-12 22:20
Belgium lil_vodka
just imagine that everyone at the gym knows that ur going to the gym just to hit them girls kekw
2020-07-06 23:08
Depends, if there is no man there and I need help with something I’ll ask. But only out of necessity.
2020-07-05 11:50
Depends on how you do it I guess
2020-07-05 11:50
How would you recommend?
2020-07-05 11:58
If she's working out of with headphones don't bother her, you can start a conversation asking for something about the gym or workout advice, i don't really know men(( #28 could also work to start a conversation
2020-07-05 12:09
Netherlands Hugedonger
Leave the tip of your penis peaking out of your shorts, that usually does the trick for me.
2020-07-05 12:08
2020-07-05 12:43
France Insidium
Penis not long enough for that mens((
2020-07-05 16:42
Germany Jermen
just wear shorter shorts
2020-07-05 21:33
dont peak man
2020-07-05 16:57
Just dont do it man, gym is not a bar or a homeparty. Girls come to the gym to exercise and you should respect that and not make it awkward/anxious for them. The fact that you are asking these kinds of things in HLTV means you are not smooth enough socially to ask without making it horrible for them.
2020-07-05 12:09
Girls dislike if you are desperate, not if you're not smooth socially. If she won't like him she'll ignore him and move on with her workout.
2020-07-05 12:16
I'd say 99,99% of girls do not want people hitting on them when they are working out. There really is no smooth way to do it, it will come off as creepy almost with 100% certainty. Also why would you do it?? Just respect the fact that they are there to work out not to be oggled and approached by you.
2020-07-05 12:37
you must be an girl expert and god at sex jk, you're a virgin 100% who clearly has no skills to talk to girls smoothly and pick a good timing you're a joke
2020-07-05 13:30
Nah, I am just not 15 yrs old and desperate like you ;)
2020-07-06 17:19
seems like someone got declined in a gym and now crying on hltv forum get dumped for being socially akward kid ;)
2020-07-06 20:07
Lmao I would not approach anyone at the gym, i am not some creepy weirdo. When I got to gym I go to exercise. Im focused and tuned in to what I am doing there, not oggling at girls. I can tell you're a spaghetti armed loser with no discipline. I am in a relationship with the kind of girl you wouldnt even dream of talking to so I have no need to approach anyone but just as a tip to you, go do that shit somewhere like bars (when you can finally get in) or parties or where ever. You can ask any experienced weightlifter and they'll tell you the same thing. Sorry if Im ruining your wet dream about some gym girl you fancy. Dw kid, you never had a shot anyway.
2020-07-06 20:24
Lmao I would not approach anyone at the gym, i am not some creepy weirdo. When I got to gym I go to exercise. Im focused and tuned in to what I am doing there, not oggling at girls. I can tell you're a spaghetti armed loser with no discipline. I am in a relationship with the kind of girl you wouldnt even dream of talking to so I have no need to approach anyone but just as a tip to you, go do that shit somewhere like bars (when you can finally get in) or parties or where ever. You can ask any experienced weightlifter and they'll tell you the same thing. Sorry if Im ruining your wet dream about some gym girl you fancy. Dw kid, you never had a shot anyway.
2020-07-06 22:53
Sweden infl8
Lmao I would not approach anyone at the gym, i am not some creepy weirdo. When I got to gym I go to exercise. Im focused and tuned in to what I am doing there, not oggling at girls. I can tell you're a spaghetti armed loser with no discipline. I am in a relationship with the kind of girl you wouldnt even dream of talking to so I have no need to approach anyone but just as a tip to you, go do that shit somewhere like bars (when you can finally get in) or parties or where ever. You can ask any experienced weightlifter and they'll tell you the same thing. Sorry if Im ruining your wet dream about some gym girl you fancy. Dw kid, you never had a shot anyway.
2020-07-07 11:17
Portugal NabasKi
Well, even if that turns out to be true it's good he's willing to change.
2020-07-05 16:43
#39 WRONG (with Trump's voice) My fitness trainer picked the hottest girl there. She started to come 2 months after me. Many times she was asking my trainer to help her exrcise for her booty (a huge one mens)) ) after like 4 months I see my trainer giving her mouth kisses, I got mad and stopped going there anymore because I was getting motivated by that booty but now my trainer was covering her booty all the time by staying stick with her. I will never forget the joy I was feeling when she wold go up and down lifting. That booty was fire I wold go to hell with that grill better than go to paradise with my grandma who has a wonderful heart
2020-07-06 09:50
That took a turn
2020-07-08 08:08
i once kissed a girl in gym and she said "didnt ask but ok"
2020-07-05 16:39
2020-07-05 17:29
that depends on the situation. if she comes next to on several exercises she clearly wants to be talked to but some just there to train and they wanna be left alone.
2020-07-05 11:50
LaimB | 
Lithuania Martis
I would do that after the gym
2020-07-05 11:51
Germany BIG2020
Hitting on girls in the gym is one of the most creeper things you can possibly do, they are there to work out. If she doesnt take it well you make going to the gym cringe af for both of you.
2020-07-05 11:52
this depends on the woman and the guy. if your channing tatum you can probably chat up girls even on the toilet of the train station. some are there to train but some clearly want to be chatted up. when she has headphones in , full in training mod squatting 100kg u clearly know shes not there for anything else but her gains. if she's running around presenting her booty, u can take a guess what she wants.
2020-07-05 11:57
2020-07-05 12:49
Ok got it 👌
2020-07-05 11:55
im sure a lot of girls find the gym awkward as fuck already with the amount of eyes on them to begin with, but I completely agree with this comment, leave girls alone at the gym.
2020-07-05 13:01
maybe wear something else than tight leggings and a bra if you don't want to be stared at
2020-07-06 19:19
or just message them on their instagram, if they wear shit like that they most likely very active on instagram, posting their gym pictures on there :P
2020-07-06 19:55
Finland SunMutsi
Same could be said to men that wear a tank top and have big ass arms. Difference we men like to be watched at because we are animals.
2020-07-07 11:48
Germany KinixCS
2020-07-05 16:55
Obviously most fit girls are there to workout but many wouldn't mind to have a talk if you're nice looking guy with good manners etc. Of course you should not try to talk to her while she's in the middle of a heavy set, lul.
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Finland 300_IQ
If you are hot yes, if you are ugly no
2020-07-05 11:56
+1 only sensible answer.
2020-07-05 12:05
Actually, he asked if it would be weird to talk. Your answer is vice versa man, if you are hot then its not weird, but if ugly then yes
2020-07-05 12:27
Finland lungi_cs
the truth
2020-07-06 17:04
United Kingdom JupiterACE
No but only if you're black or white or east asian, and you have to be objectively attractive (super jacked or emo boy). I remember seeing so many indians and asians talk to women and get a half hearted dismissive response
2020-07-05 11:58
Deserved, Haha.
2020-07-05 12:06
gym bar is pretty good place to chat up girls. when u sit there drink ur proton shakez, talk about the workout. but during training i would say no-
2020-07-05 11:58
+1 this man has manners.
2020-07-05 12:48
the love of ur life u find in the grocery store, my grandpa always said this.
2020-07-05 12:00
and how many girls you have dated in that way so far?
2020-07-05 16:47
Lebanon Dogman69
only speak to her if you are shirtless at the gym
2020-07-05 12:02
2020-07-05 16:45
If u see that shes doing sth wrong u can talk to her and explain how some exercise work and show good technique, then in my opinion she will be looking at u like on real men))))) and want to go somewhere cuz she will see that u are good boy😛
2020-07-05 12:02
Don't do this, trust me, when you're working out, the last thing you want is someone tell you your form is bad, the only time you should do this if it's obviously the person hasn't been to a gym in their lives before.
2020-07-05 13:35
Men im gym powerlifter for 3 years i know what im talking :)
2020-07-05 14:18
yeah everybody listen to this guy, the last thing you wanna do in society is help others better themselves. shut the fuck up you dumb pussy
2020-07-05 16:47
Oh boy, the amount of times somebody tried to "help me" by teaching me good form and exposed their severe lack of understanding regarding weightlifting instead.. :^)
2020-07-06 18:57
doesnt change my point
2020-07-06 19:25
Maybe they just wanted to suck ur c0k and you were an asshole to them. You missed so much brother.
2020-07-07 13:37
+5000 lmao this is triggering as fuck
2020-07-05 16:48
So you can't take criticism and prefer to get an injury rather than prevent it by using proper technique? Grow up.
2020-07-05 16:57
2020-07-05 17:05
I am offering you advice from experience, physiology is different for every person, the only person who knows what the best form is FOR YOU is your personal phyisician, which most people cannot afford. Only because the best form is for x and y, doesn't mean that z's body type fits the same thing, this is why bodies and lifting are such a complicated sport. I am giving you advice from the perspective of someone that somewhat knows what they're talking about, if you ever meet someone that claims ''they know the right form'', stay away from them, because they don't.
2020-07-05 17:45
Some elements of exercise may be different for different persons because of body's differences, indeed. Also there are elements of exercise which you're doing either right or wrong. > I am giving you advice from the perspective of someone that somewhat knows what they're talking about, if you ever meet someone that claims ''they know the right form'', stay away from them, because they don't. That part was pretty funny ngl.
2020-07-05 18:30
So, hear me out. Someone should use there fucking head to deadlift??? Because it suits them better? Man, if I saw someone Doing something wrong that ik that would damage there back I would stop them straight away and say "hey man, don't wanna get on your nerves or tell you what to do but I don't want you to sustain a injuring Would you like me to show you how to do it? and the proper technique"
2020-07-06 10:11
i think you might be delusional friend. the human body functions fundamentally the same for every human, individual genetic differences are not big enough to say person A needs completely different form than person B. there are certain guidelines and tips for forms to activate muscle groups and it applies to every human.
2020-07-06 19:41
When somebody who clearly looks like a veteran with an awesome shape and comments on my exercise I would thank him for that, and try to understand what i was doing wrong to avoid that in other exercises. It never happened to me btw, only comments I got were from my friends who are more experienced. But the thing is, once you get experienced you wouldn't bother talking to every one doing something wrong at the gym because more than half of them do (there are a lot of casuals at the gym). most of the people who bother about newbies doing exercises wrong way are newbies who watched 5 extra youtube videos and probably 1 week older at the gym. why would you care about people doing wrong shit lmao
2020-07-05 19:58
You sound insecure af, lul. Apparently nobody cares what, how and why you do what you do. Personally, sometimes when I'm in a mood for that I could give advice to some random guy if I see he tries to do his best but still does it wrong. And I don't see anything wrong with this. Obviously it happens like once in a year, not during every gym session.
2020-07-06 09:32
like 1 week ago, a skinny guy came to me and told me you are doing some exercise wrong. I was doing a modification to isolate all the pressure on one muscle, how you don't me to get triggered? That's what I mean and imagine talking to someone and telling you fuck off (in a polite or slightly rude way) like why to bother
2020-07-06 12:35
Cool story bro.
2020-07-06 12:55
you sound secure af bro thanks for your diagnosis bro I need to fix my life asap
2020-07-06 12:56
I don't care how I sound in your or somebody's else eyes. Just get lost already, it's not interesting to read your crying.
2020-07-06 16:28
Actually "gym experts" talk shit even if you are doing fine, most of them talk shit when you do squats but when they are doing themselves you'll laugh since in reality they are the ones who are doing them wrong because they want to "show off".
2020-07-05 17:51
Some "gym experts" talk shit, some of them can give you decent advice.
2020-07-05 18:31
why would a gym expert bother giving every newbie advice unless they wanna promote something. I mean I would never give advice to a random guy I never know. There's a chance that you comment on some variant of an exercise that you have never seen before, and you would look like a complete idiot. The only people you can comment on are absolute newbies
2020-07-05 19:59
If you would never give advice to random guy you never know -- ok, it's your choice. But not all people are like that. #123
2020-07-06 09:26
I appreciate it when people correct me when im doing exercise wrong
2020-07-06 19:21
Yeah. At the gym I used to go there were only bro science guys, mostly around 25-45 yo. I was doing lots of research and trying to perfect my RDL/DL/Squat/OHP techniques and in the process a lot of the broscience guys tried to convince me otherwise. That would make me mad cuz whenever I tried to explain to them why what im doing is right they just wouldnt listen.. Not so long after I had the best squat form in the gym and squatting more than the guys that were excercising for their whole life and I was just 17. They were complimenting me and it felt so good
2020-07-07 12:57
if you have any social skills and choose the right time no, but if ur autistic and talk to her in the middle of her exercise or something yes it'd be weird
2020-07-05 12:03
british people always autistas ))
2020-07-05 12:17
thats not very nice alek(((
2020-07-05 12:19
If you see them mirin go talk to them, otherwise no
2020-07-05 12:03
what is mirin ?
2020-07-05 16:45
haha girls do NOT do that, unless they are some psycho-fan, but those are not usually hot
2020-07-06 18:06
2020-07-06 21:33
Switzerland noxer*
Yes they do lol, they show indicators of interest
2020-07-07 09:38
Depends on how jacked you are, I get mired at pretty often. Verbal compliments by girls are not rare too.
2020-07-07 11:37
Always start masturbating before starting a conversation with girls you don't know. It shows confidence.
2020-07-05 12:05
Straight alpha advice.
2020-07-05 12:07
2020-07-05 12:08
alpha chad detected
2020-07-05 12:25
Mastrubate in public?
2020-07-05 12:52
Where else?
2020-07-05 13:21
is it legal?
2020-07-05 15:15
Other n1ss
2020-07-06 06:01
I don't approach girls in the gym, but I've seen people do it just fine. Probably just kind of follow the general rules for approaching girls in clubs n shit. Like if you make eye contact, maybe twice or even 3 times, that's the "go ahead" for me.
2020-07-05 12:07
maybe she's just looking if the creepy ugly guy is staring at her and dingdingding yes he is
2020-07-06 18:41
that's why I didn't say "on the first time", I dunno. I, and I think most people, can proooobably uuuusually tell when a girl is like "ew" or like "oh hey"
2020-07-06 19:13
Lebanon Dogman69
if you are some ugly dude or manlet going to the gym to try to compensate then it's a bad idea if you are a Greek statue god it can work out.
2020-07-05 12:16
greek statue lmao
2020-07-05 16:48
greek statues have small penises tho
2020-07-07 10:21
Greece Noocklas
dont listen to these idiots my friend, for sure there is a way u can approach her. Try to comment about something she is using or wearing so oyu can start the conversation, if it doesn't go well, i am sorry but I think u are not her type.
2020-07-05 12:17
+1 for not her type
2020-07-06 18:42
be careful, it may make your name irrelevant
2020-07-05 12:19
Ethiopia has gyms ?
2020-07-05 12:59
if you are ugly yes it will be weird and creepy if you're tall and attractive it will be fine
2020-07-05 13:04
i would say if u approach her, do it when ur at the changing room. Or like when heading out or in of the gym. When working out seems weird.. But im no expert, im a social awkward MF'er who cant talk to anyone without saying some dumb shit out of place xD.
2020-07-05 13:04
leave the woman alone you creepy bastard
2020-07-05 13:05
Yes, but you will still do it and fuck her right in the pussy/ CLOSE PLEASE.
2020-07-05 13:28
maybe, if the girl are to beautiful to you, yes, super weird, and the people watching this will became kind of disgusting. but if the girl is like you in beauty, no, go there in the machine and ask her if she can let you use the machine with her, talk about the weather, simple things. in the another day you say hello, let some days past and use the "can i use the machine with you" again and talk more deeper and maybe ask number. i did this sometimes and worked.
2020-07-05 14:12
Yes, let them exercise in peace you weirdo.
2020-07-05 16:42
France Conterob
It's all about how you look, if she likes you she will talk to you and any stupid bullshit you say that has no sense will make her laugh just because she likes the way you look. If she doesn't like you, you can bring up smartest hook up replies in the world, be the smartest person on earth, she will just tell you to get the fuck out in a nice way. So yea, talk to her, if she is up to talk then u know u have a chance, if not just skip and try next girl, thank me later
2020-07-05 16:43
%100 realistic I can confirm
2020-07-05 17:01
+1 this was hist story with Olivia the stick
2020-07-06 10:01
only good answer in the entire thread
2020-07-06 11:06
Applies to many other different situations too i feel like
2020-07-06 21:41
France Conterob
It does actually and that's sad tbh because you get judged by the cover of the book not by what's inside.
2020-07-07 09:28
just go take a shower in the female section, be sure to have a giant dong and enjoy the sexy gangbang.
2020-07-05 16:54
and then if you are lucky, a hot female will approach you from the back and whisper in your ear: "rush b dont stop"
2020-07-05 16:59
nt, 0/8
2020-07-06 18:45
newf or...?
2020-07-06 20:09
im not a fan of virgin jokes
2020-07-06 21:18
lol, gym is not the place to approach females, they approach you in the gym, not the contrary, if you want to approach females go to a disco at night or something, i can guarantee that the thots that go to those places are much more frisky and will suck your dick already if you just tell them hello, how are you tonight
2020-07-05 16:58
2020-07-07 11:10
I don't go to the gym so that's would be really weird.
2020-07-05 17:07
Yes, normal people only talk to family members they already know and never interact with strangers.
2020-07-05 17:08
nah u gotta desire to express that desire
2020-07-05 17:13
2020-07-05 17:15
>HLTV >good advice for real life choose one
2020-07-05 17:24
exactly, the place for real life advice is the youtube comment section
2020-07-05 21:30
France Conterob
2020-07-06 11:07
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Switzerland Schwandi
Depends if you are attractive or not
2020-07-05 17:26
i fucked 4 from my gym, its easy when u not an absolute retard
2020-07-05 17:47
how did u do it
2020-07-06 18:46
he did the thing u named urself
2020-07-07 09:44
yea but how did he do it, i have my own ways and am curious about his because i have only tried and gotten pussy from club
2020-07-07 12:33
i wonder why literally all girls and even most guys are half naked or in very tight clothes. Like for 90% of all exercices you dont get a disadvantage if you wear a normal shirt .... I know a girl from uni who is always complaining about the guys watching her but when i came with her to the gym once, i noticed she is almost naked lol. yeah very surprising then dork ... triggering horny boys on purpose but whining afterwards
2020-07-05 17:48
i use sleeveless now on summer because it's too hot for normal t shirt
2020-07-06 18:48
It's perfectly fine to have small talks with strangers. However, if you look like a beta nerd who plays CSGO way too much, you will get looked at in a funny way and mocked 100%.
2020-07-05 19:26
would you do this in the supermarket?
2020-07-05 20:04
World Beard43
I would, in my experience people are usually relaxed and friendly when they're doing a big shop.
2020-07-05 20:10
then it's fine I guess. at least for your perspective. however, from the women perspective its mostly you will appear as someone who wants to jump onto her, always remember that, she wouldn't know you would talk to someone in the supermarket
2020-07-05 20:14
World Beard43
If someone thinks I want to 'jump onto' them just because we're having a chat, that's all in their head and not my problem.
2020-07-05 20:24
however, you might make them feel uncomfortable. that's enough to even get banned from the gym (if it happens to often).
2020-07-05 21:19
World Beard43
If sometime feels uncomfortable talking to another person there are many ways they can indicate that. If they choose not to, again, not my problem.
2020-07-05 21:32
unless you get banned, then it IS your problem ;D anyhow it's kinda asshole attitude to think that it's not your problem that you make someone feel uncomfortable. you should care for that! this is what a society is about. respect the ppl around
2020-07-05 21:47
World Beard43
I didn't say I don't care, I said it's not my problem if they give no indication that they feel uncomfortable. There's no "asshole attitude" about that at all and for someone who preaches respect that's quite a disrespectful thing to say. My partner suffers from social anxiety and currently doesn't go to the gym because she can't handle talking to people she doesn't know. People aren't at fault for talking to her, it's a normal thing to do and it's neither their fault, nor problem that she feels uncomfortable because of it and struggles to ask them to be left alone. That's our problem and we're managing okay. I don't go to bars as an alcoholic and expect that nobody consumes alcohol because it makes me feel uncomfortable, it's my responsibility to look after myself. I don't think people have an "asshole attitude" because they still drink alcohol, I think my problem is not theirs and I have no right to make it theirs. If you continue a conversation with someone that's making you feel uncomfortable, don't blame them for your discomfort, a conversation between two people requires two people, ending it requires one.
2020-07-05 22:21
pseudo 180 degree turn.. however, you are still responsible for your deeds, if you know someone is uncomfortable or not. especially when you say, it's not your problem after you know that this person feels uncomfortable. (btw: that actually shows that you don't care) however, I never talked about ppl who feel unwell in talking to ppl. just often ppl feel uncomfortable talking to to specific ppl. goodbye.
2020-07-06 00:08
World Beard43
This ridiculous fantasy world you propose where one can't speak to a stranger for fear of unknowingly making them uncomfortable isn't a world I care for at all. They can find a way to express their discomfort, it's as easy as either saying so, giving short answers, or even showing closed body language. If not, not my problem. Never in 36 years of life has this caused an issue for me, or anyone around me for that matter, and I've gained genuine friends from random conversation and met many interesting people and had life enriching experiences. I refuse to give that up because someone might be uncomfortable, decide they won't let me know, and that it's still my fault even though they won't let me know. And the reason it's not my problem if they do let me know is because I would leave them alone and never speak to them again. It's a non issue. And no, viewing the world differently to you doesn't show that I don't care, fuck your snowflake shitshow of a world and good luck with your sheltered online only life.
2020-07-06 04:07
lol, man don't twist my words ;D you it's so funny. I never said you shoudn't talk to anyone. I just pointed out that it's a bad attitude that you don't care when you make someone feel bad. it matter if he/she shows to you or not - it is your fault! I just hate this ignorance of saying "I want to do that, no matter what, and if someone feels bad - I don't care". the sentence "I don't care" or "not my problem" (they are kinda equivalent) is something which should be erased. especially when you are 36, you should understand that you are not alone on this world. it's not about viewing the world differently. you said that you don't care! you said it! more than once! so don't come with different view. anyhow, the way how you talk shows that you never knew what "to care" means. your stupid insults makes you are child, no matter if you are 36 or 50. you know nothing about me, you just make assumptions on something I say is completely correct! WE HAVE TO CARE FOR EACH OTHER in every situation. you are just privileged and don't even notice that. go and live for 1 month (or even 1 year) in a poor country, without any privileges. then you will change your view on life and on what is important. calling me "sheltered online only life".. tze.. you are funny man... that was a complete fail! goodbye, when you start your ad hominem arguments (please google it - you can only learn from it) - I'm done. hope for you to change your no-care-attitude... there are to many of your kind..... until you change, I hope to never talk to you again.
2020-07-06 09:35
World Beard43
0/8 nobody is that hypocritical, but nice try.
2020-07-06 10:54
uve said gd things bro but honestly no-one asked for ur personal life and no need to get mad at him
2020-07-06 18:51
when you go to the gym and talk to someone. this person feels uncomfortable but doesn't say anything and two days later, a friend of you tells that this person felt bad, how can you react with "It is not my problem"? this is so fucking wrong. yes, he could have told you, that would be best. you you cannot say it's not my fault if he didn't because YOU caused this problem. there is nothing more to say about it. and to say "not my problem" means you just don't care for the shit you dealt, even if you didn't knew it. sorry that I say "you" I mean a person in general to picture the scene we are talking about.
2020-07-06 21:36
World Beard43
That's true. I'm not mad though, he's clearly baiting. First he calls me an asshole, then in the same comment that he accuses me of ad hominem he calls me a privileged uncaring child. On top of that, all of these attacks are because he thinks I'm a horrible person for having a friendly conversation with someone. Man, he is actually deliberately saying antagonising things with the intent of causing harm and he's calling me uncaring for not being bothered when some snowflake is supposedly upset by a friendly conversation? Yeah, nah, this guy is either the dumbest hypocritical cunt I've ever come across or he's baiting. Either way he's a piece of shit as far as I'm concerned lmao.
2020-07-07 00:44
why wouldnt you want her to think you want to jump onto her if that's what u literally want? or did i understand the whole "jumping onto"? would u rather want her to think you just wanna be friends? what a fucking beta go eat a dick
2020-07-06 18:51
first: it's sexist. second: what you call "beta" are the real alpha. what you call alpha is just the most disgusting group of the society and most women don't want to talk to those ppl.
2020-07-06 21:39
bro go drink some milk
2020-07-06 23:14
what is the problem with milk? do you think you are an adult because you drink alcohol?!
2020-07-07 09:12
World Beard43
I talk to people at the gym all the time, it's not weird at all. I've actually ended up turning a 1.5 hour workout into 3 hours because of chatting and these are people I'd never met before and had nothing more in common with than being at the same gym. Just don't interrupt when they're actually working out.
2020-07-05 20:08
and what exactly do you talk about like how do u even start a conversation with a stranger
2020-07-05 20:26
World Beard43
That's a good question. It's entirely situational and you can't force it or it's just awkward for everyone. Sometimes it's just small talk and doesn't go any further, sometimes it does. But sometimes something happens, maybe even something small and it creates a natural topic for conversation. Or maybe you just have a question to ask, again, sometimes you'll get a quick answer which is fine, move on, but sometimes you get caught chatting and people can be interesting imo. I think body language is super important too, I'm genuinely interested in people so I think I'm naturally open, but I'm pretty sure the OP just wants to talk to a particular person. So if he tries to talk to that person but is closed off and unfriendly to everyone else, that can be unnerving. Just say g'day, you never know where it'll lead!
2020-07-05 21:08
ok ty for answering
2020-07-06 16:53
World Beard43
Np, have fun!
2020-07-06 17:01
2020-07-05 20:28
Sweden godname
2020-07-05 20:29
United States camdavis9
Yes, don't hit on girls when they're working out on working
2020-07-05 20:30
Portugal ProudT
es, weirdo.
2020-07-05 20:32
smile but not like a pervert, like somebody who likes what he sees right now (at the gym) and if you get a smile back while her eyes are still watching you or parts of your body for a short time, you know you can have a conversation. If she smiles but looks away right away - most likely she's not interested whatever reason that is, chance that she's shy are quite low considering she has a trained body.
2020-07-05 20:44
2020-07-06 21:23
it's okay. Not just only a girl. Talk with random dude seems may awkward. Do you speak friendly to strangers? I know some do but I just can't.
2020-07-05 21:21
No, its not strange.
2020-07-05 21:24
If u are good looking then go ahead. Sometimes girls are on their phone in the middle of a set, then it's time to intercept.
2020-07-05 21:46
You can ask for support. Its normal for gym.
2020-07-05 21:50
Hella weird.
2020-07-05 21:53
It depends a lot. I would only do that If I noticed that the girl was interested. Building something out of a gym is not so easy, and it might be awkward if you receive a no, because you will see the girl almost everyday after that. If you have no problem with that you can it give a shot.
2020-07-05 23:00
Peru novo_199
I try to talk to them on the way out. Never interrupt anyone mid workout. Easier to have a normal conversation
2020-07-06 04:21
Yes but, Better be fit and fucking and be a person don't be that guy
2020-07-06 04:39
don't even try if you don't have a fresh haircut, $300 pair of yeezys and a supreme hoodie
2020-07-06 06:06
This is basically what a bunch of people here responded with. They can’t all be serious? Right?
2020-07-06 06:13
the new generation of woman just only buy second hand cheap shit. so there is a chance when u'r 12-16 to get woman.
2020-07-06 09:36
do not EVER talk to someone while theyre working out
2020-07-06 09:29
unless she comes to every station ur at ^^
2020-07-06 09:38
+1 my Putin friend
2020-07-06 09:56
Nah that's hella weird. Only if she tried flirting with you you could try talking to her. If not then please don't.
2020-07-06 09:39
mate some girls are asking for it with the tight pants or really short tight shorts, its like u want attention from me or not?
2020-07-06 09:39
They are probably good to workout in
2020-07-07 10:56
all they do is squats, can do that in loose trackies easily
2020-07-07 11:02
Idk my mom goes to the gym regularly and she runs and all of that stuff and said that yoga pants are better for working out than sweatpants
2020-07-07 11:04
Don't do it at gym man. Go outside and wait on car offer her a driving to her home. If she doesn't accept please her to have a coffee together. (You need to find your own words Im not going to teach you everything now). Goo luck!
2020-07-06 09:54
Probably the worst comment on here lmaooo
2020-07-12 00:07
2020-07-12 02:23
bro if ur not attractive offering a girl for a lift home will initiate her fight or flight response
2020-07-12 03:42
If you see her walking around the gym looking Distraught and looking around, go up and ask her if shes algood. She might just need to have someone point her in the right track. Ask her what she likes doing the most. Whats her goals. Why is she going to the gym? And then say something in the lines of "do you want my number so if you have any questions you can ask me or we can work out toghether if you'd like"
2020-07-06 10:15
bro u clearly a veteren god at this
2020-07-06 18:44
Nah, Just not dumbass. Just started at the start of the year/want to become a personal Trainer
2020-07-06 23:35
Honestly I think most women don't think it's nice, the majority are there for working out and nothing else. I know for a fact they can get annoyed at men trying to socialize/flirt at the gym.
2020-07-06 10:42
Imagine socializing at gym. I legit go to gym just to do my workout routine and so do like 95% of ppl
2020-07-06 10:44
Nah, socializing is fine but going to the gym to meet girls is retarded.
2020-07-06 15:24
Where else? I need to socialize that's basically my main goal but I don't know how or where. I wouldn't go to a club or smth like that alone cuz it's intimidating for me
2020-07-06 16:54
then grow some balls or get friends virgin
2020-07-06 21:27
for some reason your nickname tells me you're a virgin yourself
2020-07-09 23:18
about 50 women before yea i was
2020-07-10 15:02
Ok, Cool Story Bob
2020-07-10 20:55
thanks, not fiction tho. even if in your life that would be impossible
2020-07-11 14:18
there is always an opportunity to talk to people, especially girls. Cold approach during the day is the best way to approach and is the hardest one because you are showing a lot of confidence. However, you have to be the one leading 80% of the conversation.
2020-07-06 16:33
Malaysia Suno[t]
I once saw this fit blonde girl. She was dripping in sweat and I was so scared of her since she was moaning after every rep like those hard core gym guys hahaha.
2020-07-06 17:06
ok but who asked
2020-07-06 21:28
No because i already do it on internet lul
2020-07-06 17:06
Finland 7ones
Of course not if you know the social game. Very normal place to make connections.
2020-07-06 18:31
Nah dude theres a time and place to flirt with girls, a gym is not one. Maybe if they want help or look like they want help you can ask them if they have any questions etc, but don't go full flirt mode.
2020-07-06 18:47
You can talk to people anywhere, but you have to know the signs. If you have nothing to say and she does not even look in your general direction you better keep to yourself.
2020-07-06 18:48 works everytime for me idk
2020-07-06 19:24
Brazil hugoooo
Gym is not a place for that.. if you are one of these guys that use the gym as a place to find bitches to fuck, for sure your will not have results on your body. Gym is for focused people. Bitches you can get literally every other place, apps, on clubs, bars etc
2020-07-06 20:17
It's so annoying when someone interrupts you at the gym... I was just working out the other day, and 3 girls comes over and wants to get my number.... Ugh can they not see im working out?
2020-07-06 23:02
Italy kyoor
but u rejected them because u've got an italian supermodel as gf and making 32k/month
2020-07-07 12:12
Oh you know my girlfriend Valentina?
2020-07-07 12:46
Italy kyoor
yes i've been fucking her too mens))
2020-07-07 23:17
OMG i dont believe, these hoes ain't loyal :/
2020-07-07 23:32
Lmao I would not approach anyone at the gym, i am not some creepy weirdo. When I got to gym I go to exercise. Im focused and tuned in to what I am doing there, not oggling at girls. I can tell you're a spaghetti armed loser with no discipline. I am in a relationship with the kind of girl you wouldnt even dream of talking to so I have no need to approach anyone but just as a tip to you, go do that shit somewhere like bars (when you can finally get in) or parties or where ever. You can ask any experienced weightlifter and they'll tell you the same thing. Sorry if Im ruining your wet dream about some gym girl you fancy. Dw kid, you never had a shot anyway.
2020-07-06 22:52
"You can ask any experienced weightlifter and they'll tell you the same thing." You're not experienced are you? I bet you just never approached a girl at a gym/a girl hasn't approached you. So you assume its not alright. Literally a Girl wanted to go for coffee when I was at the gym. Its all about timing. During a workout no (unless shes struggling and doing something wrong that you know how to fix) during her break its fine to do so.
2020-07-06 23:40
2020-07-07 12:26
gym is geh
2020-07-06 22:57
Ukraine Dert38
I imagine why nude gyms still aren't opened (at least with transparent locker rooms). Also nothing bad with combining sex and workout
2020-07-07 00:48
Are you fuck you?
2020-07-07 10:22
Ukraine Dert38
yes (no)
2020-07-07 13:33
lmao what there is such thing as nude gyms ?
2020-07-07 11:48
Ukraine Dert38
i meant not opened not because COVID, i meant like in general opened
2020-07-07 13:35
Ukraine Dert38
i meant not opened not because COVID, i meant like in general opened
2020-07-07 13:35
just make sure to lift some heavy weights in front of her and grunt loudly while doing it and maintain eye contact the whole time, after about 15 minutes of that she should be very impressed and want to go out with you
2020-07-07 11:13
flag checks out
2020-07-07 23:18
ekul | 
Switzerland NtroP
As long as we don't get talked to in a weird way, most of us wouldn't mind being talked to at the gym, especially if the person talking to us sounds nice Just don't make it sexual
2020-07-07 11:38
NT hltv dont have females
2020-07-07 11:46
ekul | 
Switzerland NtroP
lol, I only met 1 other girl here tbf
2020-07-08 11:17
Cyprus Sotiris
Just hit her with the "Do you come to the gym cause you are fat?"
2020-07-07 12:17
Hitting on someone in the gym isn't really a great idea imo. People at the gym go to the gym to work out, and not to get bothered by some random guy they don't know. I always thought that it seemed a little weird (I wouldn't say creepy) to hit on a girl at the gym.
2020-07-07 23:35
I once found a used condom while I was at the gym witg my mol. That was so awkwaed
2020-07-08 08:10
2020-07-10 20:56
2020-07-11 23:53
Isn’t going to a gym with mom already awkward itself?
2020-07-13 14:49
I mean she is 36 and fit and blonde so not really
2020-07-17 09:41
her looks don’t make a difference
2020-07-20 01:47
grab them by the pussy - donald trump
2020-07-08 11:25
+69 mr sins approves
2020-07-17 09:56
Following her home would be less wierd than hitting on them in the gym.
2020-07-08 11:30
2020-07-08 11:30
2020-07-17 09:55
That's how my dad met my mom, just don't be a creep and read how their acting towards you. If they seem interested then keep going but if they are responding with one word answers or they keep working out then you should leave them alone.
2020-07-08 11:31
i feel like you have to make it super obvious that you don't mean it that way, like if they're using a machine, you could ask if you could take it after they're finished, that way you already have the 1 to 1 contact that you can build on.
2020-07-12 03:53
Finland heakalele
Gym is no go dude
2020-07-12 03:59
People are allowed to talk to other people :)))
2020-07-17 09:55
2020-07-22 03:29
just ask her for nudes
2020-07-17 09:56
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