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Getting Married
ShahZaM | 
Canada Ibetcsgo 
My fellow hltv friends, is getting married something you look forward too? Personally I don't ever wanna get married cause it just scares me trusting my life with someone else, what about you guys ? how do you feel
2020-07-08 16:39
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#1
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Poland henlo
the financial risk is just retarded im never getting married
2020-07-08 16:42
+1 didnt even talk about that
2020-07-08 16:42
I have seen so many stories of marriages ruining lives and I don't want to end up like that
2020-07-08 16:43
Dead sex life
2020-07-09 08:55
Recently married and I agree 100% with you buddy. Just got married due to my newborn, wouldn’t recommend it to anyone, TRUST ME!!!
2020-07-09 19:27
My sex life is dead anyways bruv.:(
2020-07-12 13:45
If you are afraid to lose money you can still make a "marriage contract" or that isn't a thing in poland?
2020-07-08 16:43
But doesn't that beat the purpose of getting married? like imagine making a contract it just shows no trust in the relationship
2020-07-08 16:45
If your partner is ok with it why not? I mean you can be lovers but still be realistic, no one knows if it's a thing forever even if you wish so.
2020-07-08 16:54
#35
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Sweden MANDlNGO
getting married brings much more safety for the kids IF you have any, then if not married. Think that is why many do it.
2020-07-08 16:56
Yeah it's a normal thing and it's called 'intercyza'. Some people do it, but it's less than 10% marriages for sure
2020-07-09 09:02
sign a non-disclosure agreement. financial matters shouldn’t matter if you’re married. you will be sharing the wealth when you’re married anyway. if she doesn’t want it she a gold digger
2020-07-08 17:53
Prenup
2020-07-09 06:14
Those get thrown out all the time.
2020-07-09 10:11
+1
2020-07-09 13:29
Get a better lawyer A good attorney can draft one of these that is almost air tight. There is a reason why some attorneys are thousands of dollars cheaper than others
2020-07-16 22:15
+1
2020-07-09 06:32
implying anyone would even touch a cuck like you in Poland 👌😎
2020-07-09 18:11
#198
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Poland henlo
they dont need to i touch myself 👌😎
2020-07-09 18:54
#2
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Peru TheJuan
No
2020-07-08 16:42
+1
2020-07-08 16:51
+1
2020-07-08 19:55
No, I will never get married except to my anime bodypillow and figurines OwO
2020-07-08 16:43
+1
2020-07-08 16:51
+100000
2020-07-08 16:54
reported
2020-07-08 19:56
reported
2020-07-08 19:56
why
2020-07-08 20:47
I would like for other users to not witness what I saw
2020-07-08 20:51
but its not against rules mens) and i will kiss my bodypillow openly for u <3
2020-07-08 21:12
Yeah, I'm looking forward to it. Not looking forward to the wedding though. I don't like parties and especially being in the centre of attention at one...
2020-07-08 16:44
yea good luck buddy , serbian weddings be lit though
2020-07-08 16:47
Just go the registration office with a witness and have no "traditional wedding"
2020-07-08 16:49
most girls dream of a tradintional wedding though lmao
2020-07-08 16:52
Well if he doesn't want that and she doesnt support him that aint the girl you should be marrying
2020-07-08 16:52
you could say that the other way around aswell
2020-07-08 17:58
Exactly my point
2020-07-08 18:05
That's what I'd like to do, but there's a problem. There's the another party involved, the wife. And to 99% of women it's the most special day and there's no escaping it, unless I find a 1 in a million like-minded one.
2020-07-08 16:53
Like i said above if she cant support your wishes she aint the one brother
2020-07-08 16:54
It goes the other way around as well. I gotta support her wishes too and I could probably suppress my autism for that one night.
2020-07-08 16:56
really good mindset tbh
2020-07-08 16:59
If you want it one way and she another then she aint the one imo find someone that feels the same way
2020-07-08 17:32
Well, you don't have to agree on everything with your partner.
2020-07-08 18:10
Obviously not but something as big as that i feel like yous should
2020-07-08 20:22
It's just a one time thing tbh. Not such a big deal if you ask me. Theres a lot more "daily" compromise you gotta do when you live together with some1
2020-07-09 11:18
+1
2020-07-09 13:30
If you cant agree on a marriage then you are certainly gonna disagree on much more things which is a red flag imo
2020-07-09 14:25
yea, true, you could see it that way. If you cant even make that one compromise than the whole thing is not gonna go to well.
2020-07-09 15:05
#50
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Malaysia Suno[t]
lol same here haha
2020-07-08 17:49
same
2020-07-08 20:11
11/10 women doesnt exist, so no marriage for me.
2020-07-08 16:45
#10
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Argentina Apina_
i am 27 and still virgin so i am ok about marry ))
2020-07-08 16:46
lmaooo
2020-07-08 16:48
wizard
2020-07-08 17:02
#115
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Belgium lil_vodka
27 and still havent met anyone that likes u back?? i see ur not going out
2020-07-08 21:21
Leave hltv, only alpha male fuckers here
2020-07-09 06:51
2020-07-08 16:47
> it just scares me trusting my life with someone else - what do you mean by this bro? :D There's a saying; you will regret if you don't marry & you will regret if you do marry.. So there's regret either way.. KEKW.
2020-07-08 16:49
what if one day she kills me in my sleep!?@? you know how many times tht happened or the kids i make with her end up being bad kids and kill me
2020-07-08 16:52
Haha. Why would she kill you menn? If you'll take care of her, she won't kill you.
2020-07-08 16:59
Maybe he is Spiderman and wants to marry a black widow)))
2020-07-09 11:19
He's stupid if he thinks his wife/kids gonna kill him. Lol. Scardy boy. Jkjk.
2020-07-09 12:09
it happens
2020-07-09 13:31
Dammed if you do, dammed if you dont
2020-07-09 11:08
Tikka Masala & 2 Butter Naan. Immediately!
2020-07-09 11:59
GTFO
2020-07-09 14:57
and in Dessert; I would have Khir.. Thank you very much kindly..
2020-07-09 15:07
come to india
2020-07-09 16:28
Sure. Will you cook Butter Chicken for me?
2020-07-09 17:37
#19
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Russia VelsVivard
Of course, being lonely is one of the worst fates to ever exist upon humanity, although I am, I know it's temporary as I work towards the wished goals.
2020-07-08 16:52
im gonna adopt a kid though so im not lonely
2020-07-08 16:53
#27
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Russia VelsVivard
The kid will be lacking and you most likely will be vulnerable to depression and nervous breakdowns.
2020-07-08 16:53
Nah im already raising my nephew rn I know how to deal with kids
2020-07-08 16:54
#34
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Russia VelsVivard
But you don't know how to replace a motherspot for him, lucky you because I do, it's impossible. He'll be halfway through when you'll be all the way down and done from dealing with him on your own.
2020-07-08 16:56
Ill see how it goes maybe Ill change my mind by that time comes
2020-07-08 17:00
#20
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United Kingdom Biiddy
Im engaged so marriage is inevitable, send help bois
2020-07-08 16:52
Good luck mennn))) No more night out with the lads for you. Haha. Jkjk.
2020-07-08 16:54
+1 haha once married the fun is over
2020-07-08 16:55
me too bro. welp
2020-07-08 19:03
And thats why the west is fucked XD
2020-07-08 16:52
it is, love in europe is real but here in north america its all fake
2020-07-08 16:53
How
2020-07-08 20:31
#118
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Belgium lil_vodka
we also have a lot of fakies
2020-07-08 21:24
#53
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Palestine YankeeM
Tell me why not marrying someone you love is "fucked". If you love someone and she/he loves you back you don't need to get married. We only have one life, imagine living with someone whole life because you got married. Inb4 you say that you can divorce - why would you marry someone at all?
2020-07-08 17:56
Once yes, but no more.
2020-07-08 16:57
lulul
2020-07-08 17:00
Yes, but only with The Special One
2020-07-08 17:04
The sweet spot is to date forever, but it's hard to maintain. Marriage is okay as long as you find a fucking awesome woman. Any bad decision or someone just "good" will ruin your life. Ask yourself "Would I be happy to live the rest of my days with her, spend most of my time with her, and making decisions with her?". If the answer is yes you have a chance. If you are thinking about it, then it's a big NO.
2020-07-08 17:47
based
2020-07-08 17:50
Most HLTV people should rather ask themselves if they are able to find some1 better at all. I mean, if the relationship sucks even more than being alone, than the situation is clear anyway.
2020-07-09 11:24
Marry, just because you have low self-esteem, is the worst kind of mistake you can make. Even if the girl is "nice", it's not enough to ruin your life. Look at how many people married their "dream girl" and are unhappy. If it is not "THE GIRL" then you are committing a huge mistake. If being single is a problem for someone under 40, then you should contact your psychologist. Even if you are not good with girls, you should still be comfortable being on your own. For me, this kind of fear could mean depression.
2020-07-09 16:06
You even adressed anything from my comment or just gave your opinion to the overall topic? Im confused.
2020-07-09 18:07
R.I.P Ibetcsgo Cause of death - Marriage
2020-07-08 17:48
I always thought I would not, however with my current gf I'm sure I do, you just feel it when it clicks.
2020-07-08 17:49
u mean bf? also probably muslim
2020-07-08 21:36
Sorry mate im not French so I wouldn't know.
2020-07-08 23:11
yeah ur swede u know
2020-07-09 10:06
Sorry mate but I dont actually live in Sweden, and even if I still did Sverige has 6 million less immigrants than France does. Also France has higher homosexuality % so as I said, you know better.
2020-07-09 15:24
yeah but % wise sweden has 10000x immigrants and gay immigrants count as 10
2020-07-09 17:26
Actually no but I expect nothing else out of 98 iq country
2020-07-10 17:49
weird flex from top1 gay nation with like 25% black population Oo
2020-07-09 11:25
germany hahahahahahahahahaha u only beta males drink beer full of estrogen and then buttfuck each other
2020-07-09 11:34
Still mad because because G2 and Vitality got stomped by German tier3 team lmao)))
2020-07-09 11:45
tier3? big definitely tier1 and top1 rn im not even mad, rn big>vitality>g2 BUT zywoo>>>>>>>every jermeny player
2020-07-09 14:10
Zywoo>>>>>>>>>every player from anywhere.
2020-07-09 15:05
yes
2020-07-09 17:24
Not really
2020-07-08 17:57
One day, hopefully. I'm single right now and have never had an actual relationship but as an optimist I believe the right person is out there somewhere.
2020-07-08 17:59
Don't marry amber heard because she'll poop in your bed 💩💩
2020-07-08 18:52
marry = happiness if u managed to last more than 10 years ofcourse if not then u typical no loyal or both of u not loyal enuf
2020-07-08 18:55
reddit.com/r/mgtow I will rather dive into concrete face first than get married. No thank you.
2020-07-08 18:58
MGTOW=incels that are so dumb they think woman aren’t good enough for them.
2020-07-08 19:08
Completely wrong but cope harder.
2020-07-08 19:38
Ok incel
2020-07-08 19:39
I literally do not want to have sex. That makes me the opposite of an incel. Volcel or a MGTOW. But cope harder.
2020-07-08 19:46
nice excuse, incel
2020-07-08 19:43
Cope harder.
2020-07-08 19:46
keep saying that, I´´m sure that must help you to sleep at night
2020-07-08 19:47
I sleep perfectly fine. But nt.
2020-07-08 19:49
#74
2020-07-08 19:50
#72
2020-07-08 19:54
#68
2020-07-08 19:55
#67
2020-07-08 19:56
#68
2020-07-08 19:57
No, it's just that time is an infinitely valuable asset and I would rather spend my time wisely than spend it on women. But nice try.
2020-07-08 20:02
#74
2020-07-08 20:03
You sound like someone who's never seen a woman before
2020-07-09 11:30
Sure hope it stays that way.
2020-07-09 13:20
You should try going outside or something tbh
2020-07-11 06:39
Nah, I'm good.
2020-07-11 12:42
#65
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China Xi_Jinping
"men going their way" despite the fact they spend 90% of their lives complaining about women rather than actually going their way
2020-07-08 19:09
So you're not allowed to criticise women after you go your own way? Who made up this rule? You? You can do whatever you want when you go your way, it's a very broad term.
2020-07-08 19:40
#87
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China Xi_Jinping
if they actually tried to improve themselves rather than seething 24/7 at women's existence maybe they'd have a point
2020-07-08 20:02
You're confusing MGTOWs with incels. You see, MGTOWs are effectively volcels, which means that they are voluntary celibate and don't want anything to do with women. I don't want anything to do with women. I want independence. I want money and and a successful career. No MGTOW "seethes 24/7 at women's existence", maybe in your imagination.
2020-07-08 20:05
#90
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China Xi_Jinping
literally every post on the front of that subreddit is complaining about women. go check it out
2020-07-08 20:06
Well no shit, MGTOWs, who's main idea is not marrying, discuss the idea of not marrying and the reasons why. Go figure.
2020-07-08 20:07
#92
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China Xi_Jinping
discussion? it's literally the lowest-effort posts with memes and social media screenshots meant to make you angry at women. I say go do something with your life instead of complaining about women. it's like divorcing someone to break free from them and then complaining about them for the rest of their lives. super cringe.
2020-07-08 20:10
That's like telling a capitalist to stop hating communism, and instead focus on building a business, like no, that's not how it works.
2020-07-08 20:12
#95
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China Xi_Jinping
but communism actually threatens capitalism. you can just forget about women and they'll forget about you. you're not gonna have any problems with women unless you come into contact with them so just don't? it's that simple.
2020-07-08 20:14
You can get falsely accused of rape even if you had no sexual relations with another woman.
2020-07-08 20:17
#99
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China Xi_Jinping
not if you don't get close to a woman. no one is going to accuse you of rape if you walk by them on the street.
2020-07-08 20:23
So I can't have female friends then? xD
2020-07-08 20:27
pretty easy when no girl wants you anyway
2020-07-08 20:35
Incels will disagree.
2020-07-08 20:42
"I want money and and a successful career." you know you could have a partner and still have all those things right
2020-07-08 20:47
Yeah, and then get divorced and let your stupid whore of a wife steal all your money xD
2020-07-08 20:56
yes im sure that 100% of all women want to do that.
2020-07-08 21:01
Who said that all women want to do that?
2020-07-08 21:03
sure sounded like you were implying that
2020-07-08 21:13
The percentage of marriages that end in divorce is way too high. In the US it's 41%. If it was lower than 1% then maybe I'll be more inclined to marry, but it's simply not worth the risk. Among other reasons.
2020-07-08 21:23
k, what about just being in a relationship?
2020-07-08 21:46
No point if you know it's not going anywhere.
2020-07-08 22:07
It doesnt really need to. What if it gives you happiness and company? Cant think of much people that want to be alone.
2020-07-08 22:16
Doesn't give me happiness if you know it's not going anywhere.
2020-07-09 12:57
I'm not married, been living with my *wife* for 15 years and got kids. She always supported me in achieving my goals, no matter how stupid at times, as long as i wasn't harming our relationship and neglecting her. Of course people always complain and say shit, the one who are happy don't speak about it.
2020-07-08 23:17
Pretty much what I'm gonna do. Just have a girlfriend I never actually marry.
2020-07-09 10:10
What kind of a degenerate wouldnt want to get married and have kids? Having children should be your main goal in life.
2020-07-08 19:11
What kind of degenerate wants to get married and then get divorce raped? xD
2020-07-08 21:09
Well dont be a cuck and marry some whore.
2020-07-08 21:19
"Just don't get divorced, loooooooool"
2020-07-08 21:23
Lmao women change real fast when they're bored of the relationship and realize they can take half or more of your money and assets.
2020-07-08 22:22
Do not marry poor bitches
2020-07-09 06:13
Yeah pretty much, she has to have 50%-75% of my income at least if I'm even gonna consider marrying her.
2020-07-09 08:48
relationships okay, signing marriage papers no thanks i.pinimg.com/originals/a5/f2/60/a5f260e6..
2020-07-08 19:46
+1
2020-07-09 13:32
if u really feel in your heart that the person you want to marry is yours and you want to be with him all your life, and also if you both are super compatible and cant see live without each other, then 100% go for it.
2020-07-08 19:47
#85
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Ukraine vskgthree
mb u are gay
2020-07-08 19:59
im not haha
2020-07-09 13:32
#186
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Ukraine vskgthree
XDD
2020-07-09 15:30
#96
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World Beard43
Yeah, probably soon actually. It's not something I ever looked forward to or cared about, same with my partner, but we recently talked about doing it low key. I don't see why not, I don't ever want to leave her and formalising a permanent commitment is immensely meaningful. I just don't want all of the fuss that usually goes with it and fortunately neither does she.
2020-07-08 20:16
same I dont want tht either
2020-07-09 13:33
You never know, you never know...
2020-07-08 21:26
I suppose it can work out if you know the person from your childhood and you respect and never cheat / lie to them. Otherwise once trust is broken its simply never going to come back.
2020-07-08 21:33
only with zywoo UwU
2020-07-08 21:35
#123
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Qatar zablitz
No, because i am from >flair.
2020-07-08 21:42
i would say dont...save the money for yourself and live like a king...marriage and family is overrated
2020-07-08 22:09
Grow up kid. if turn 30+ will change your mind.
2020-07-09 09:34
Change what dude? The fact that the older you get the more power your wife has over you? There are dudes who're 50 that get divorced and pretty much have to start over because their wife took so much.
2020-07-09 10:08
Fuck you anti-racist crap.
2020-07-09 21:39
Lmao stfu dude. What does that have to do with anything?
2020-07-09 21:40
#129
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Dominican Republic Numb_
family > all
2020-07-08 22:26
I sort of agree with you. I'm also an introvert and like my alone time/space, that plays into the decision a little too.
2020-07-08 22:27
Been living for 15+ years and got kids without being married, marriage is only as important as you make it out to be. If it scare you then don't do it, if your significant other loves you she won't care that much about it. If she does and bother you constantly about it something strange might be going on ^^.
2020-07-08 23:14
TBH just don't marry someone who is annoying, even if she is attractive, it's hell on earth.
2020-07-09 06:21
Getting married is just the dumbest thing. Would never do it, no matter how much I love someone. Why would a fucking contract be required for being in love? The whole idea of marriage is so outdated, I can't believe people are still doing this shit.
2020-07-09 06:41
+1
2020-07-09 12:18
if they change marriage laws to be more fair to men, possibly with no changes? almost certainly not
2020-07-09 06:46
My parents only got married after 21 years being together, because of legal securities. Otherwise marriage is overrated af and unnecessary if you found the right person.
2020-07-09 08:54
Every single one of you is getting married if you get a long time girlfriend and she wants to. Easy to say no when you are 15-17 years old.
2020-07-09 08:56
Well, you don't really need to have a marriage to live together. Or you can have marriage, but to live without children. You can have children, but please don't get children under 25.
2020-07-09 09:05
I can see myself getting married but not before age 30 or so. Anyone who gets married before that most likely gets a divorce or at least regret it secretly. Imagine being in your twenties and thinking you got the way for your life figured out for good LLLLEMAO.
2020-07-09 09:15
why loose more money than tax and bills smh
2020-07-09 10:16
I have gf but we have agreed not to marry, financial risk is stupid although can be dodged with some deals but i dont think there is any benefit getting married , i would just receive less free money from government if the thought we are together
2020-07-09 11:10
you realise legally a long and stable relationships behaves as a marrige and you still can go to court after breakup? 👌🙁
2020-07-09 18:13
Kind of yea we are supposed to be "family" in gvts perspective, but we arent now, we are just roommates. Anyway dont need getting married for nothing. It was good in history u made alliances with marriage or sold your daugjter for goats basicallt but nowadays no use, only degenerates get married
2020-07-09 19:25
Of course. But I must find her first. Whenever she may be I hope she thinks of me too. But I wouldn’t blame her if she doesn’t. If I was a woman I doubt I would marry me.
2020-07-09 11:21
#160
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France daniel19
probly next year
2020-07-09 11:22
i got married by february. My life got better after that, overall.
2020-07-09 14:04
#185
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Brazil sakaaa
it really depends on your life goals. i am married for a while now, it wasn't planned. my life is better now than it was before
2020-07-09 15:25
Getting married is old fashioned. Be free
2020-07-09 17:27
I never want to get married and I honestly can't believe that non-religious people still get married in 2020.
2020-07-09 18:09
unmarried people are degenerates 👌😎
2020-07-09 18:12
idk , really depends. right now im kinda hurt and i cant see a reason to do it, but who knows what life holds mens))
2020-07-09 19:26
im too young to care about that
2020-07-11 06:51
bump
2020-07-16 21:04
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