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Australia Mia_Khalifa_0_forehead 
a girl from school msg me, I haven't seen her for like 8 years or more but she added me saying "I had a random thought of you last week which is why I added you on Facebook" but the problem is I literally have nothing to say to her, I've lost all social capabilities but I want to talk to her. My convos are always really boring these days, especially when I talk to girls so what should I say? I talked to her a little bit and she's a teacher but she replies like 1 day later now lol
2020-08-02 01:41
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Give up
2020-08-02 01:41
ive given up on everything in my life which is why im in the state im in now lol
2020-08-02 01:45
Give up on the girl. Work on yourself instead.
2020-08-02 02:02
Dont listen, just talk to her...talk about everything u want to bro, just dobit, if it doesnt work it doesnt, u dont lose much bro
2020-08-02 12:09
meet with her,you will be fine,you need real contact,not online shit
2020-08-02 12:13
thats why long term online conversations are fucking stupid, ask for a meet up or you'll regret it later on. usually in person, the conversations has more flow and its easier to communicate, at least for me.
2020-08-02 01:43
Learn to read.
2020-08-02 01:51
maybe you should learn to read, i said online chats are stupid, they're just simulations of actual socializing, once you're eye-to-eye the conversations usually run itself, if you guys are somewhat compatible.
2020-08-02 01:55
No, no, you learn to read. He didn't say anything like that, he said he has lost his social skills.
2020-08-02 01:56
you clearly can't read dimitri, i don't blame you, but please spare me your replies. if he doesn't know what to talk about online, maybe it helps to go all in and go out of your comfort zone and actually meet up, as i said, usually if you two are somewhat compatible, the conversation runs itself. if it doesn't help he could say that he at least tried. i think it's much easier to keep a conversation up eye-to-eye, and that's the only way you learn how to sozialize anyway, so thats the only way for him to improve his social skills.
2020-08-02 02:02
OK
2020-08-02 02:02
I'm probably better at online conversations than in person to be honest. People usually think I dont like them or I'm very quiet. Sometimes I come across people where I dont have ANY social issues what so ever though, hard to explain but fingers crossed id be like that around her haha
2020-08-02 02:00
all the best for you buddy
2020-08-02 02:02
Well try it with her, if it doesnt work out in person it wont anyways i guess.... meet up and see how u get along with each other Best of luck:) Just do it, coming from someone who always runs from "dates" before they could happen and i always regret it....dont make the same mistake :)
2020-08-02 12:25
Same here brothermen, never get along with girls online cuz i dont know how to express myself
2020-08-02 09:48
#3
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Peru TheJuan
Ask her opinion about the current state of HLTV
2020-08-02 01:43
+1
2020-08-02 01:44
current state of HLTV is: fucking destroyed
2020-08-02 01:49
You're literally one of the reasons, flair and name check out.
2020-08-02 01:51
#33
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Peru TheJuan
huh
2020-08-02 02:08
I never said that I'm any better, but he's the type of person to complain while doing nothing to make the situation better.
2020-08-02 02:12
and what I'm gonna do with the fact that u can post just 1 thread a day and hltv is completely dead and we can see posts from 20 days ago
2020-08-02 02:16
Create many alts.
2020-08-02 02:17
flag checks out
2020-08-02 02:18
I don't have any, tho. I rarely even post threads. If you want, PM me, I can use my daily thread for you in exchange for a P250|Sand Dune.
2020-08-02 02:20
it's not about me not posting it's about others not posting iq checks out
2020-08-02 02:21
I neither stated that the thread limit is bad nor that it's good. Check your IQ.
2020-08-02 02:22
0/8
2020-08-02 02:23
Also who needs your threads judging by your previous ones.
2020-08-02 02:23
urgh flag checks out so much I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT FACT I CANT POST MORE THAN 1 THREAD I AM TALKING THAT OTHERS CANT POST AND THEREFORE HLTV IS DEAD AND WE SEE POSTS FROM 20 DAYS AGO. Do u understand now when it's written with big letters?
2020-08-02 02:25
#48
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Peru TheJuan
Would you do it even if that thread causes the deletion of your acc??????????
2020-08-02 02:24
They won't delete my account. I can create a new one anyway.
2020-08-02 02:26
#54
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Peru TheJuan
You can get 10 year IP banned for posting certain things. Also alt accs are against the rules and no one does that on HLTV
2020-08-02 02:28
I know, I know and many active users do it. They won't bother banning your alt.
2020-08-02 02:30
you can see them because people revive them on purpose
2020-08-02 09:26
actually a good comment from Juan
2020-08-02 02:09
#39
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Peru TheJuan
Very rare indeed
2020-08-02 02:13
most of them are good (especially the "Ok." ones!)😊😊
2020-08-02 02:30
Bro if you're not even good at messaging, what are you planning to say IRL?
2020-08-02 01:43
mate ive got no idea, it would just be really awkward but what am i suppose to say to someone I forgot about for years lol. Like she's cute af though, so I want to at least try
2020-08-02 01:44
Are you at least somewhat charming in real life? Honestly man just ask for a date. Even if you're boring IRL, she put in some investment showing up for the date so she might look past you being slightly boring.
2020-08-02 01:51
Well she used to have a crush on me in school. However im much different than I was in school now, I mean I graduated 6 years ago who wouldn't be different? Life hasnt been too kind to me though, so im worried if she saw me now she'd be like wtf get away from me coz I look like im a criminal now lol
2020-08-02 01:54
Do you have tattoos and stuff? You can easily change your appearance if you don't have tattoos and piercings. And have you uploaded any recent photos to Facebook? If so, she probably took a look at them before messaging you.
2020-08-02 02:09
yeah ive only got one which is my display picture, it doesnt show that i shave my head though since im wearing a hat and its in low light so doesnt show me that well tbh, which was kind of intentional. No tattoos or anything, just when I look at myself I see someone who isn't likely attractive but I'm not sure how I could fix it.
2020-08-02 08:10
If she doesn't like, then so what? Are you gonna keep wasting time talking to her online? Just ask her out with COVID precautions adhered to.
2020-08-02 12:38
Maybe if you asked before talking... she already lost interest and bla bla bla schnauze k0smo
2020-08-02 01:43
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Denmark KalasYoP
If you don't know her anymore then take the chance, who cares if you say something stupid or not interesting. Nothing will happen, because of you aren't friends etc.
2020-08-02 01:45
maybe ask her what she thought about exactly? and then take it from there ezpz
2020-08-02 01:47
i think i stuffed it up already, gonna have to wait another 8 years for her to message me again rip
2020-08-02 01:48
unluko mens. but ur right, you should wait and not initiate the conversation. or if you have to at some point, just say the same that she said, that u got a random thought about her. good luck
2020-08-02 01:50
thats really random idk my aussie bro, i would probably respond like 1hour after she sends a message or smth and when she stops talking you stop responding
2020-08-02 01:50
Tell her why 6ix9ine is a musical genious and then take her on one of his concerts after he starts touring again.
2020-08-02 01:54
#22
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United States flipfone
Take her to mcdonalds
2020-08-02 01:57
#29
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CIS mast1k
man, its a trap, dont meet her. dont talk to her, its smalls like she want to accuse you of sexual harassment, but dont understant how to start, fuck this bish
2020-08-02 02:04
Or she is a single mom who needs an obedient husband and respectively a father for her child.
2020-08-02 02:28
maybe she wanted invitation to eat from you or something i have no clue. But anyway ask for her nudes
2020-08-02 02:04
Yes, Arab style 😎
2020-08-02 02:28
if you have to ask just give up
2020-08-02 02:04
ask yourself. why are you talking to this woman through your phone?
2020-08-02 02:05
i think you screwed it up already, since she was def interested a while ago but you probably messed it up maybe ask her how she's doing, how's teaching, how's her students or whatever she likes to do basically get her to rant about something and she'll start to rely on you and trust you and ez pz gf thank me later if you havent screwed it up that badly yet
2020-08-02 02:09
Just be sweet, try to catch up what you guys have missed since you met her for the last time. Idk do you have any plans with her or you just want to be nice or smth? Just be maybe not yourself haha but think about the best yourself impression and try to be it m8 :))) GL HF
2020-08-02 02:11
wun sum fuk
2020-08-02 02:25
#52
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Belgium Miiyata
Ask her personal questions, find out she single and then ask her for a drink. Talk about what you did in those 8 years for example. Hope its not you having 10k hours in csgo. Does she know that you know she had a crush on you? If not then play into this. Compliment, some dumb jokes and if shit goes well dont make the date too long. End it and after a day propose a 2nd date and there u go hyena mode)
2020-08-02 02:27
hyena mode, thats what the answer is. thanks man
2020-08-02 08:18
#80
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Belgium Miiyata
Good luck!
2020-08-02 11:28
#58
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Sweden Maoux551
'' I haven't seen her for like 8 years or more but she added me saying "I had a random thought of you last week which is why I added you on Facebook" but the problem is I literally have nothing to say to her, I've lost all social capabilities but I want to talk to her. My convos are always really boring these days, especially when I talk to girls so what should I say? I talked to her a little bit and she's a teacher but she replies like 1 day later now lol'' ^^This is exactly what you should say, confront her about the recently infrequent responses and assemble your thoughts about the situation and yourself as listed above and send it to her, I think it would surprise her and potentially create an intriguing lead for you to build on. Even if this method doesn't impress her, at least you are being honest to yourself and portraying the most authentic version of your current self.
2020-08-02 02:40
I think it's a good idea, I was going to ask her what the random thought was but I didn't want to make it awkward. Hopefully she replies more frequently and I can ask her once we've spoken a bit more maybe. Like I told her I was going to travel before all the lockdowns and she was like "oh who were you going with?" but I'm not sure if that was her way of asking if I'm single or not? Like if she said the same thing, my first question wouldnt have been that anyway.
2020-08-02 08:35
i saw your replies and i really wanna help you take her not replying frequently too literally,it is not an indication that she lost interest,some girls dont like messaging all the time,the best you could do is to make a dumb joke about the situation also talk about what she did last 8 years,does she talk with other people from school and such,until you can find some topic you can settle in
2020-08-02 09:00
She's doing a good job keeping the conversation going since I made the thread, but slow replies still. I'm assuming since she's a teacher she's probably really busy as she teaches 16-18 year olds. Here we just went into lockdowns again so all school is online, so she's probably sorting heaps of stuff out. I didn't realize at the time, but it makes sense now since her replies have been good (not short answer stuff). Fingers crossed it works out because shes a cutie and seems like a super sweet person. Even if things don't work out in that way, she'd still be a cool friend to have.
2020-08-02 09:54
just dont bother her about her reply speed and we are good try to learn when her online lessons are going to end and try to set up a meeting. make plans so that when the time comes,you would not have to talk all the time to keep her interested,if it goes great,in time you will have easier time holding a long conversation, keep that in mind
2020-08-02 13:28
tell her that its weird as fuck she randomly thought about you and that she would stop stalking you. Block her then coordinate a situation where you find her irl by "coincidence" and make her feel even worse about herself From there, unblock her, tell her she is a strange bitch, block her again, and never speak to her again
2020-08-02 08:24
lmao dude it feels like you had bad experiences
2020-08-02 09:29
yep B)
2020-08-02 09:36
well good luck i hope you will be less hateful one day
2020-08-02 09:56
who hurt you man
2020-08-02 11:59
just ask if she wants the D. girls these days aint worth it for longer discussions.
2020-08-02 08:25
fix your internal issues.
2020-08-02 08:39
Sex her
2020-08-02 08:40
#66
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China NeverEnd
Just say to her: Do you like me as a boyfriend? Cuz I see nothing if you texted me after such a long period.
2020-08-02 08:41
just sex her
2020-08-02 09:19
dude you gotta show interest ask about things how she has been how is her work rn and all that
2020-08-02 09:30
give up
2020-08-02 09:34
#75
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Brazil pooternd
just talk about
2020-08-02 09:47
stopped at "talk to girl"
2020-08-02 09:59
Just give up
2020-08-02 11:40
ez, send her a dick pic
2020-08-02 12:26
Name and story checks out Smash her dude
2020-08-02 12:45
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